When you’re scrolling through your Insta or Facebook feed, the colorful and creative pics can make it seem like everyone you’ve ever met is in a happy relationship. But shocking statistics on reported relationship abuse — physical and emotional — tell a very different story.
According to the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, every minute, 20 people are the victims of physical abuse by an intimate partner. To get a better understanding of abuse within relationships, Mental Help Net surveyed 571 Americans who were, or are currently in, abusive relationships. Their responses shed some painful light on what’s happening behind closed doors.
Almost 55 percent of the survey responders said they entered into an abusive relationship when they were between the ages of 17-24, marking this time period as an extremely vulnerable one. Surveyed men and women both reported fearing their partners, proving that abuse does not discriminate.
Many people mistakingly think partner abuse must be physical, but psychological abuse is also a very serious problem. The abuse can take many forms, with 20 percent of Mental Health Net’s survey participants reporting that their partner controlled time with their friends, while 17 percent revealed that their partners controlled where they could go. In addition, nearly 18 percent said their partner critiqued their intelligence, and 17.6 percent reported that their partner criticized their finances.
Survey responders also shared why they stayed in abusive relationships. For many of them, concerns about their children, safety, and limited finances kept them with their abusive partners. Nearly half stayed in relationships for one to three years, despite the abuse. And for those who were able to leave, many said it was difficult to trust other people and open themselves up to new relationships.
If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, there is help available and you don’t have to go it alone. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit their website for additional resources. For more information on Mental Health Net’s survey results, be sure to visit their site.
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(Photos via Getty and Mental Health Net)