Thanks to brave celebrities and YouTube stars opening up about their struggles with mental health, the stigma around issues such as anxiety, depression, eating disorders, OCD and the like is slowly falling away. While matters of mental health are now becoming more comfortable topics of conversation in Hollywood, it can still be a challenge to discuss them in our own lives 鈥 particularly with our partners.

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A recent study surveyed more than 2,000 participants who were or had been in romantic relationships. Over half identified with at least one of a wide range of mental illnesses. The survey鈥檚 results are an interesting window into the ways we address our personal struggles with our significant others. Some of the key findings:

1. Men are less likely to discuss mental health with their S.O. 52 percent of the men surveyed said their partner was aware of their challenges with mental health issues, compared to nearly 73 percent of the women surveyed. Reina Zelonky, a New York-based therapist who was not involved in the study, says she鈥檚 seen a similar pattern in her own practice. 鈥淲omen have a more natural tendency to reach out,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 don鈥檛 see men as supported by family and community.鈥

2. Most people open up one to six months after starting a relationship. For both men and women who participated in the study, the one- to six-month mark was most often the right time to start sharing about mental health issues. In Reina鈥檚 experience, couples often avoid conversation about these hot topics until there鈥檚 a crisis. 鈥淚n our culture, we鈥檙e being taught to be so independent and individualistic, which goes against our natural need for connection,鈥 Reina says. 鈥淵oung people aren鈥檛 learning how to use their relationships for support.鈥

3. In general, women felt less support from their partners when dealing with mental health issues than men did. According to study results, women identifying with conditions across the board were more likely to say that they lacked support from their partners, compared to their male counterparts.

Independent of the study鈥檚 results, Reina does recommend being honest about mental health, because it creates a culture of trust and safety. 鈥淰ulnerability brings people together,鈥 she says. 鈥淭alking about mental health often has a positive impact because it鈥檚 a new form of closeness.鈥

While it鈥檚 important to be open about all aspects of mental health, Reina believes it鈥檚 particularly necessary to do so when addiction is involved. Because addictions (to food, alcohol, drugs, sex, etc.) are linked to behavior, it鈥檚 key for couples to have productive conversations about their lifestyle so that the affected partner feels supported in any given situation.

鈥淲hat people really want is empathy,鈥 she says, referencing individuals who struggle with many mental health issues 鈥 not just addiction. 鈥淧eople don鈥檛 always want advice or to be fixed. In order to be supportive, the best thing is to connect, listen and acknowledge the other person鈥檚 ability to work their way through it.鈥

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