Katie Holmes and Jamie Foxx continue to enjoy one of Hollywood’s most mysterious relationships (we’re going to bet plenty of you still weren’t even aware of the fact that they’re a couple), and while it doesn’t look like they’ll be changing their privacy-loving ways any time soon, one source just revealed a major update on the status of the super secretive duo.

Katie Holmes

38-year-old Katie Holmes and 49-year-old Jamie Foxx have been sparking speculation about their romantic sitch since way back in August of 2013, when they were spotted dancing together onstage at the Fourth Annual Apollo in the Hamptons Benefit. Yep, that means that these two have potentially been an item for nearly five years.

Jamie Foxx

And while it’s pretty obvious that Holmes has decided to keep her personal life to herself these days (and who can blame her, after her wildly public marriage to Tom Cruise), a source revealed to ET that “Jamie is also very private when it comes to his personal life.” That’s why, these days, the two have been enjoying “cater in” date nights whenever they get a chance to spend some time together.

Although this means we most likely won’t be getting a glimpse of the happy couple any time soon, it definitely sounds like these two have figured out a sitch that works perfectly for their particular romance.

Are you surprised to hear that Katie Holmes and Jamie Foxx are a couple or were you already aware of their (super private) relationship? Let us know @BritandCo!

(h/t ET; photos via Frazer Harrison + Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty)