9 Ways to Keep Your Financial Resolutions in the Second Half of the Year

You started the year with big goals. You wanted to learn a new language and shake up your workout routine. You wanted to host a dinner party and reconnect with that old friend you lost touch with in college. You thought you might finally take the leap to pursue a career in something you’re more passionate about. Perhaps most importantly, you were confident that this would be the year that you step up your financial responsibility and get more serious about your money. With all of those big ambitions, we’re pretty sure you haven’t been able to accomplish all of your resolutions in the first half of the year.

We don’t believe there’s any such thing as “failing” at a resolution, but we also understand if you’re feeling a little disappointed that you weren’t able to make it all happen. You’re a high-achieving lady, after all! We can’t exactly turn back the clock and help you buckle down every goal, but we can help you get refocused on any financial resolutions that may have fallen to the wayside, thanks to a little expertise from Credit Karma personal finance expert Tim Devaney. Keep scrolling for nine practical tips that will help you change your habits just enough that you can start feeling better about those finances.

1. Say yes to anything free for a day. For a full 24 hours, give yourself permission to indulge in any and all things that come without a cost. Plan the occasion around a weekend when you know there are a few free activities planned in your area, so you can say yes to concerts, movie nights, parties, and no-cost hangouts with friends. You might also give yourself the go-ahead to eat ice cream for breakfast (as long as it’s already in your refrigerator) or to wear your cutest PJs to the grocery store. This might sound a little silly, but framing a whole day around saying “yes!” instead of feeling like your savings goals are all about deprivation might be just the mindset shift you need to get back on track.

2. Freeze your gym membership. We’re all about prioritizing physical health, but gym memberships can come at quite a cost. As long as the weather is still good where you live — and before winter comes knocking again — you might consider freezing your pricey membership and taking your exercise routine outside. Ensure that there are no fees associated with pausing your membership (or that they’re at least significantly lower than your usual monthly bill), then make a plan to go jogging in the park or to check out a free yoga app on your back porch with friends.

3. Grow your own veggies. There are start-up costs associated with building your own vegetable garden, but if you can maintain it you’ll find yourself saving beaucoup bucks on groceries moving forward. Getting out in the garden is also a great way to get fresh air and exercise and to ensure that you’re regularly including produce in your diet. And who knows? You might even discover a green thumb!

4. Think critically about your subscriptions. Take a good, hard look at your recurring monthly expenses. If you pay for magazines that you don’t actually read or belong to a wine club that has done little but leave you with a serious overflow of booze, you might consider cancelling some subscriptions, at least for the rest of this year. When you start racking up these minor changes to your expenditures, you’ll be amazed by how much they can add up.

5. Give up coffee runs. You may feel like you’re totally reliant on your daily Starbucks fix, but the truth is that you really can live without it. Challenge yourself to a month — or two! or three! — without store-bought coffee drinks. Even if you have to stock up on supplies to make coffee for yourself at home, you’ll save money in the long run. (Taking time to prep your own pour-over in the morning can also be a great opportunity to work on that mindfulness meditation resolution.)

6. Buy generic. Next time you’re out running errands, fill your cart with generic rather than name-brand items. If you closely compare the ingredients, you’ll find that there’s often little difference between the two… except for the price tag. Some generics and store brands are even prepared in exactly the same place as name brands, just with different packaging.

7. Start an automatic savings plan with your bank. If you’re one of the many people who struggle to consistently transfer cash from checking to savings, call your bank to find out what kinds of automatic savings programs are available. Most financial institutions already have a plan like this in place, or can at least help you set up a recurring transfer that will have you working toward your financial ambitions without even knowing it.

8. Unplug “vampire” appliances. According to Devaney, there are electronics in your house that are running up your bill even when they’re not actually being used. To turn off the spigot and save yourself some green, unplug your television when it’s not on, and when your laptop or cell phone is fully charged, unplug that charger from the wall.

9. Use up your groceries. Challenge yourself to a whole weekend of cooking only with the items you already have in your pantry or refrigerator. (There’s no eating out, either!) Push yourself even further by seeing how long you can go without restocking nonperishables. You’ll help your budget and give yourself a chance to get a little extra creative in the kitchen.

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Between work commitments, grocery runs, and coffee dates, it feels like we barely have time to even make it to the gym. So when we do actually get our gear and go amid all these responsibilities (hello, 2024 New Year’s resolution), who can blame us for simply wanting to skip straight to cardio, burn as many calories as we can in 30 minutes, and then bounce? Unfortunately, this is a super ill-advised way to exercise, because it means you’re skimping on an essential part of the workout routine: stretching. Although adding a warmupmight mean tacking an extra 20 minutes onto your workout (you can do it!), the numerous benefits should make integrating stretching into your gym time a no-brainer. Nichole Tipps — lead trainer for V Shred, a virtual fitness training program — offers us some insight about the importance of stretching.


Everything You Need To Know About Stretching During A Workout

1. Why to Stretch: It’s not just for gym rats. According to Tipps, all of us, no matter how athletically inclined, should be incorporating stretching into our schedules.

“Many people ignore stretching when working out or just as a daily routine,” she says. “Stretching has an array of health benefits that serve as building blocks for longevity and physical well-being.”

Stretching increases flexibility, which improves range of motion in addition to improving workouts, and it delays the effects of atrophy later in life. It also aids posture and relieves stress. In terms of exercising, stretching has advantages both pre- and post-workout.

“Stretching increases blood flow to the muscles and improves your circulation,” explains Tipps. Because of this, failing to stretch beforehand can result in injury, and neglecting to do it afterward can lead to enhanced soreness and a longer recovery period. You’re also making yourself more susceptible to pain, inflammation, and tension in general, Tipps warns.

2. When to Stretch: Most people are at least vaguely aware of the benefits of stretching, but a lot of confusion surrounds when to actually do it during a workout. Contrary to popular belief, the heavy-duty stretching should be reserved for when you’ve finished exercising.

“After your workout is a better time to stretch with more dedication,” Tipps confirms. “Your muscles are tense, and they are tired and stressed in a good way. So stretching can help relieve that tension and reduce the soreness that results from working a muscle.”

Allot 10-15 minutes for these post-sweat stretches. Before your workout, simply stretch lightly, keeping the time to less than 10 minutes.

“Ease your muscles into the idea that you will be challenging them to perform,” Tipps instructs.

3. What to Stretch: Both of these stretch seshes should always address your arms, legs, and back, regardless of what areas that workout focuses on.

“There are different parts to each of these areas, so concentrate on those that your workout calls for that day, but don’t neglect everything else altogether either,” advises Tipps. “Remember, a lot of workout routines include compound exercises, which are multi-joint movements that work several muscles at one time.”

Although stretching might initially seem like yet another chore to add to your to-do list, its benefits are invaluable enough to no longer ignore. As Tipps encourages, “Stretch regularly, and over time you will reap the benefits and maintain your mobility.”

How do you stretch when working out?

There are quite a few stretches you can do when working out depending on what your body needs. No matter what you end up going with, remember not to force it — stretching should, well, stretch your muscles, but it shouldn't be painful! Check out these Pro Tips To Reach Your 2024 Fitness Goals, The Best At-Home Workouts, and 9 Easy Stretches You Can Do To Exercise At Your Desk for more ideas!

Is it better to stretch during or after a workout?

Nichole Tipps recommends saving your more intense stretches for after a workout. But don't be afraid to do a few easy stretches beforehand!

What’s your favorite stretch during a workout? Let us know on social media!

This article has been updated.

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Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s relationship has stood the test of time. They married just a year after meeting for the first time, and their story has bloomed ever since. They’re one of our favoritecelebrity couples, and we simply love to see them happy. Read on for their full relationship timeline!

How long have Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban been together?

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Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban have been together 19 years. They started dating in 2005 and got married in 2006.

Were Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise together?

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Yes, Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise were married for 11 years before divorcing in 2001.

Why did Nicole and Tom split?

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Neither Nicole nor Tom have explicitly confirmed why they divorced. Nicole explained in a 2013 Vanity Fair interview that she and Tom were “so young” when they got married, and that could be why they didn’t work out. Other news outlets have claimed that Tom’s involvement with the Church of Scientology may have led to the split.

Nicole Kidman + Keith Urban's Relationship Timeline

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January 2005: First meeting

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban first met at the G'Day USA gala in Los Angeles. They exchanged phone numbers at the event, though Nicolerevealed Keith didn’t reach out until several months after their initial meeting.

“I had such a crush on him and he wasn’t interested in me. It’s true!” the actress told Ellen DeGeneres on air. “He didn’t call me for four months.”

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June 2005: Sparks fly

The couple had been living in New York City when Nicole realized Keith was the one for her. He had sweetly brought flowers right to her apartment for her 38th birthday, and that’s when she really knew.

"That is when I went, 'This is the man I hope I get to marry,'" she toldPeople in 2019. "I believed by that point he was the love of my life."

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May 2006: Nicole and Keith get engaged

The actress and the musician got engaged on May 15, 2006. Nicole ended up announcing the news at the 30th Anniversary gala for the United Nations Development Fund for Women.

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June 2006: Nicole and Keith get married

Nicole and Keith celebrated their wedding in Sydney, Australia on June 25, 2006. Nicole’s kids – Isabella Jane and Connor Antony (whom she shares with her ex, Tom Cruise) – both played a part in the big day.

The couple later jetted off to French Polynesia for their honeymoon.

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October 2006: Keith checks into rehab

Later that year, Nicole had staged an intervention for Keith, who struggled with alcohol abuse. He was released the following January, and Nicole was there to support him after the fact.

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November 2007: The pair moves to Nashville

As a country singer, Keith had always loved Nashville, Tennessee. He and Nicole purchased a farm on the outskirts of the city to call home when they weren't working or traveling.

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July 2008: Nicole and Keith welcome their first child

Nicole gave birth to a daughter, named Sunday Rose, on July 7, 2008 in Nashville.

Keith shared the news on his website, saying: "We want to thank everybody that has kept us in their thoughts and prayers. We feel very blessed and grateful that we can share this joy with all of you today."

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December 2010: Nicole and Keith welcome their second child

The couple’s second baby, Faith Margaret, was born via surrogate on December 28, 2010. Nicole and Keith had kept this second pregnancy considerably private.

"Our family is truly blessed, and just so thankful, to have been given the gift of baby Faith Margaret," the pair said in a statement. "No words can adequately convey the incredible gratitude that we feel for everyone who was so supportive throughout this process, in particular our gestational carrier."

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July 2017: Nicole says Keith supported her after filming intense Big Little Lies scenes

Nicole starred in HBO’s Big Little Lies as Celeste, a character who dealt with domestic violence. Though she won an Emmy for her work in the series, she admitted it was emotionally draining. Luckily, Keith was there to support her throughout the filming process when times got tough.

"Luckily I have a partner who is artistic, so he understands what it takes to support that," she toldEntertainment Tonight in 2017. "I came home to loving arms, someone that would hold me, and I was really upset at times. Really damaged, really upset, and physically and emotionally drained and in pain."

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February 2021: Nicole and Keith’s daughters appear at the Golden Globes

Nicole and Keith’s two daughters, Sunday and Faith, were spotted alongside their parents on a live video broadcast during the 2021 Golden Globes, where Nicole was nominated for her role in The Undoing.

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March 2022: The couple steps out at the Academy Awards

Keith supported Nicole at the 94th Academy Awards in 2022, where she was nominated for Best Actress for her role in Being the Ricardos.

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March 2023: Nicole and Keith turn heads at the Oscars

The couple pulled up to the 2023 Oscars in some super sleek, matching all-black outfits. Nicole and Keith didn’t shy away from any PDA on the red carpet as they had their picture taken.

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June 2023: Keith honors Nicole’s birthday

Keith made a very sweetInstagram postfor Nicole’s 56th birthday – a photo of her in nature, with the caption reading:

"To my gorgeous, sexy, adventurous, curious, nature loving, owl spotting, artist, wife: happy birthday baby !!!!!! xxxxxx.”

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April 2024: Nicole and Keith’s daughters hit the red carpet

Their family attended the 49th AFI Life Achievement Award Gala to honor Nicole’s Life Achievement Award. The pair’s daughters, Sunday (15) and Faith (13) stunned in red dresses, as Nicole wore a glowing gold gown.

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Here we are in 2024 when we will learn how to embrace the idea of transformation and understand the importance of releasing the clutches of old security. This new moon in Capricorn on January 11 will be the essential cosmic ingredient we need to take ownership of our goals while living the most authentic way.

If you lack motivation or are just getting out of the fog of this past holiday season, I've got good news for you. This new moon will catalyze you to power up your 2024 resolutions. Think of Capricorn season as the guiding force for you to become ambitious while holding onto a dash of humility. Remember when Mercury retrograde happened last month? The good news is that the messenger planet is officially direct, and the new moon will clear the way for you to see what is stirring your passion while giving you the grit to power up your plans.

There is a lot of planetary action happening in the skies on this day, and the good news is these planets are fully supportive and magical for this lunation to be supportive. Whether you are ready to fuel your endeavors, ignite momentum into your life purpose, or have the courage to say hello to your crush or renew the fires of your relationship... you are ready for this! Let's dive deep and see what is in store for you.

What's Happening in the Skies during the New Moon in Capricorn?

  • Moon conjunct Pluto
  • Moon conjunct Part of Fortune
  • Moon square North Node
  • Moon sextile Uranus
  • Venus trine Chiron
  • Mars trine Jupiter
  • Saturn sextile Jupiter

As a part of the new moon event, this will require you to let go of what is weighing you down the most. This has been a recurring theme with the last few new and full moons because Pluto has been taking the main stage. Today, you will see the clearest of what needs to be done to expedite the changes in your life. With the new moon in alignment with Pluto, this will be the stepping stone in you seeing clearly what needs to be released. New moons are the cosmic source for you to plant seeds and manifest, but the part most often overlooked in these practices is that it requires letting go. Pluto will be on your side as it will help you cleanse your mental, spiritual, and physical space to make room for your desired shifts. But this requires you to work hard, or this involves you to make a significant decision. Pluto requires an edge of sacrifice. Even though it may feel scary, think of this as an opportunity for you to rewrite your story (like the song "Unwritten").

There will be a stroke of luck in alignment with this new moon as the point in the chart known as Part of Fortune will grant grace to your next steps. This takes unwavering optimism and courage on your part to support your venture. You will see a sliver of promise and even an outrageous idea, but it seems to work as you lean toward it with trust and belief. Just go with it.

The new moon will also intensify as it faces off the North Node, the guiding light in our dharmic path and, as I call it, the uncharted territory in your life. These two cosmic forces will feel like a pressure cooker, which will involve reviewing security and taking ownership of your life. Saturn, the moon sign ruler, in a supportive position with Jupiter, will reveal the solution for you while helping you feel grounded in alignment with your next move. You do you.

The new moon in Capricorn will encourage you to pay attention to your dream life or goals while helping you understand what is required to see it take root. Guess what? You will receive a boost of inspiration and channel in your ability to invite your desired goals with the Moon and Uranus in a supportive position. Uranus will enable you to become original, embrace the idea of liberation, and learn how to become detached from the outcome. Enjoy the process and become the artist of your life. Becoming open to change will help you be in the right place and time. Chance encounters or synchronistic events on this day will likely happen as you become receptive to the Universe's message.

Finally, there is a message for you regarding your love life during this cosmic event. The love and sex planets Venus and Mars will play an integral part during this new moon. The great news is that if you are contemplating rekindling the fires of your relationship, this will heal your love story. Lamenting on past losses will only hold you back from experiencing personal growth and strength. Investing in yourself by going through inner work with love will allow you to attract meaningful connections that result in harmony and restoration. This new moon will also breathe life into your will to achieve your love goals. Single or taken, you will feel a pull to initiate spice into your love life. It can be by designating date nights or going to more singles mixers to boost your chances of meeting bae. The new moon in Capricorn promises an outlet of powerful changes in love as you stray from settling-get off that couch and begin to chart out your ideal love life. This time around, the magic will begin.

To understand how this cathartic new moon in Capricorn will impact you, read on for your sun, moon, and rising signs.

Aries:

You stand between your past and future during this new moon in Capricorn. Explore your potential and take steps forward guided by your passion involving work and your legacy. For you, achievement is often tied to being unapologetic rather than impressing others. As you map out your path for this lunation, focus on what fulfills you, disregarding outside expectations. Make your mark, staying true to yourself amidst external pressures.

Taurus:

With Jupiter direct in your sign, it's a call for you to live up to your promise. This could mean pursuing a dream, broadening horizons, or making concrete plans. The new moon in Capricorn urges you to ignite your dreams while undergoing substantial growth. Revise outdated goals that left stagnant results. Ask yourself what changes you desire, and review what steps will help get you there.

Gemini:

Navigating a cloud of uncertainty since last month, Mercury's retrograde threw curveballs in your romantic or partnership dealings. The new moon in Capricorn encourages you to boldly look to the future, letting go of expectations and creating achievable goals. Look deep within and analyze your inner state of beliefs. This new moon will enable you to clear out and understand what you need to cultivate tangible results.

Cancer:

The new moon in Capricorn will help elevate your relationship status or initiate changes in your love life. Get out of your comfort zone and name your terms! Step up and initiate that desired spiciness in the bedroom-it will deepen the intimacy with your partner. Measure the state of your energy as you collaborate with others, and use this moment to see who supports your ventures.

Leo:

Focus on organizing your life and work surroundings. This new moon will illuminate the state of your progress involving work. See what is hindering you energetically. Observe your immediate surroundings and assess what is lowering your vibration. Detox, visit a metaphysical shop, or try a sound bath for balance.

Virgo:

Mercury's retrograde last month may have left uncertainty regarding your home life plans. The great news is that the new moon in Capricorn prompts commitment to plans despite past concerns. Focus on loved ones and what truly brings you joy. It is a fertile time to expand your family or plant a seed leading to incredible creative ventures.

Libra:

This new moon will highlight the need to clarify what fulfills you emotionally. Reconnect with your inner self while confiding with those who make you feel safe. Focus on deeper commitments concerning home, family, and honoring your roots. Build a ritual commemorating your past heartaches or those you have lost to help you become stronger.

Scorpio:

There will be an upsurge of ideas during this lunation, and grounding your dreams requires discipline and focus. Mars in Capricorn will extend that support to you, leading by your passion and not holding back. Use this time to plan, organize, and take practical steps toward your goals. Focus on improving communication, honing skills, and open-minded to new ideas.

Sagittarius:

Jupiter's sextile with Saturn offers an opportunity to bring your vision closer to reality. Consider investing time and resources into priorities that align with your future vision. Budgeting and mindful spending will ensure success. Focus on sustainability and believe that you have what it takes to succeed.

Capricorn:

As the new moon falls in your sign, it's a chance for a fresh start and self-reflection. Appreciate the changes you've undergone and envision loftier goals. Embrace transformation while being true to yourself. Use this time to set an example by embracing your unfiltered self.

Aquarius:

The new moon in Capricorn urges reflection and letting go of what no longer serves you. This year, Pluto entering your sign hints at significant changes. Reflect on outgrown aspects of your life and seek alternative ways to cope with current circumstances. Review and clear out your subconscious patterns by beginning journaling, therapy, or meditation.

Pisces:

This new moon in Capricorn will help align your aspirations with practicality. Jupiter's sextile with Saturn emphasizes making dreams achievable. Consider your heartfelt hopes for the future and translate them into practical goals—power up your manifestation game by visualizing your dreams taking shape seamlessly.

If you wish to discover how astrology can help you find peace, fulfillment, and clarity, click here to download Lumi’s free Astrology 101 eBook. And stay tuned next month for more astrological forecasts for your zodiac sign.

Challengers is honestly just one giant tennis match. While we watch Zendaya's Tashi, Mike Faist's Art, and Josh O'Connor's Patrick play the game in a literal sense, we also see their personal relationship spiral, ricocheting back and forth as each character plays a different role every couple of years. And the crazy Challengers ending is a culmination of this intense emotional journey because it solidifies Patrick, Tashi, and Art's relationship — both to one another, but also to tennis itself.

What did the ending of The Challengers mean?

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There is a lot of tension between Tashi, Art, and Patrick throughout the movie, and it all builds to the titular Challenger match. It's Art vs. Patrick, and they're playing for way more than just the title and the money (though of course, they're definitely playing for the title and the money) — this is one final chance to prove themselves to Tashi, who's sitting court-side looking very unimpressed.

Both men lose their cool during different sets, but it's in the third and final set that everything comes to a head. At the end of the match, Patrick confesses to sleeping with Tashi using a tennis ball and racket signal only Art recognizes. For a split second Art is is complete shock, and I expected him to completely lose it. And, technically, he does, but in a totally unexpected way. Rather than jump the net and punch Patrick in the face, Art channels his emotions into his tennis, and the fury he feels actually allows him break through whatever slump he's been stuck in.

Unable to have a conversation about Patrick's secret, Art and Patrick talk with their serves and returns. And because Tashi doesn't catch the signal, for the first time in the whole movie, she's cut out of the conversation.

Did Tashi love Art and Patrick?

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Tashi's been pulling the strings ever since she met Art and Patrick, and she's never not been in control. After Patrick sends the signal, she knows something is going on between them, she just doesn't know what — and it unnerves her. Thanks to Zendaya's expert subtlety, the twitch of her eyebrow or the particularly anxious way she grips her hands are the only things that give her away. But her confusion, and the men's anger, quickly turn to pure joy in the final moments of the movie.

Patrick and Art end up playing so intensely that they meet at the net and embrace, prompting Tashi's iconic tennis yell before she gives one of her first genuine laughs of the film and the screen cuts to black. The first time I saw the movie, I thought "What?!" but the more I think about it, the clearer the Challengers ending is.

Patrick and Art (whose relationship begins six or seven years before the movie opens) haven't spoken since the big fight surrounding Tashi's injury, and their hug proves they're just happy to be playing together again. It's what they've always loved, and their fight over Tashi almost ended it forever. Tashi's pure elation shows she's happy to watch some good tennis, especially after she failed to help Art break out of his rut.

We've only seen Tashi scream like that once before, when she admits to a perfect tennis match. While Tashi does care for Patrick and Art, the end of Challengers proves the characters' true love was never really each other — it was always the game.

What did you think of the Challengers ending? After you rewatch the movie (and then rewatch it again), check out the other Most-Anticipated Spring Movies For 2024.

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While it's always nice to see something realistic represented in our favorite TV shows, there are few things more painful than watching a TV breakup. Even when we don't actually know fictional characters IRL, it's absolutely devastating to see them break each other's hearts. (Although, it's equally as bad as never seeing your favorite prospective couple get together — I will never forgive The 100 for what they did to Clarke and Bellamy!!).

Keep reading to see some of our most heartbreaking splits — and then check outWhat Being Team Conrad Or Jeremiah Says About Your Dream TV Boyfriendto put a smile back on your face.

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Ross and Rachel from Friends

Friends is one of the most iconic sitcoms of all times, and Ross and Rachel is definitely one of the most devastating TV breakups. In season 3, this iconic couple decides to take a break in and in "The One with the Morning After," Ross wakes up with another woman named Chloe at the exact moment Rachel shows up at his door. Rachel finds out about the affair, and after a fight in Monica's living room, the couple calls it quits.

Regardless of how you feel about Ross claiming they "were on a break" when he slept with Chloe, seeing Rachel's reaction (and knowing the trust between them was broken) is one of the worst moments in the whole show. Just thinking about it makes my stomach bottom out!

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Rory and Jess from Gilmore Girls

This is one of my personal most-devastating TV breakups because it seems like, out of all of Rory's boyfriends, Rory and Jess are just perfect for each other when they start dating. Not only does their love of books bring them closer together, but their personalities are so compatible. But when Jess leaves for California at the end of season 3 — without saying anything to Rory, I might add — is unacceptable! It breaks my heart, and based on the final look he gives Rory during A Year in the Life, he also regrets it BIG TIME.

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Damon and Elena from The Vampire Diaries

This Vampire Diaries couple was truly endgame, and the will-they-won't-they of it all was one of my favorite things about the show. So when they broke up (to my horror), I was devastated.

Damon and Elena admit they're bad for each other in the season 5 episode "While You Were Sleeping" (then Damon tells her he doesn't even want to be friends. Ouch!!), but it's the season finale, "Home," that makes me extra emotional. When Damon gets stuck with Bonnie on the Other Side, he says goodbye to Elena, who's begging him not to leave but can neither see nor hear him. Say it with me: gut! wrenching!

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Conrad and Belly from The Summer I Turned Pretty

The Summer I Turned Pretty fans are PASSIONATE about whether they're team Conrad or team Jeremiah (trick question, my OTP is Taylor and Stephen), and even the most dedicated Conrad stan hates the prom scene. You know, when he breaks up with Belly at her prom, in the rain. I know he just thinks Belly deserves better, but it's still very painful to watch.

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Schmidt and Cece from New Girl

When I hear "devastating TV breakup" I IMMEDIATELY think of Schmidt and Cece from New Girl. Schmidt gets away with a lot of ridiculous things throughout this show, but dating two girls at one time is not one of them. After Nick has a hard time keeping Schmidt's love life a secret, Schmidt finally comes clean to Cece in "Double Date," leaving both her and me in tears. No matter how many times you rewatch the show, it truly feels like their relationship (and maybe even the friend group) will never recover.

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Fleabag and The Priest on Fleabag

In the history of TV, I don't think I've ever heard anything as heartbreaking as "I love you," "It'll pass." Like, who approved that line?! The viral moment comes at the end of the Fleabag series finale, when Fleabag is sitting with The Priest at the bus stop. Over the course of the series, we not only see how much these two care about each other, but how well they know each other (like how The Priest recognizes when Fleabag zones out). To be loved is to be known, and that's what makes this devastating TV breakup even more devastating.

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Carrie and Aidan on Sex and the City

After so much back and forth, it's hard to accept Carrie and Aidan's final breakup on SATC. But in season 4's "Change of a Dress," Carrie realizes she's not ready for marriage and Aidan realizes he doesn't trust her after her affair with Big. The combo of broken trust and being at two different life stages makes this extra painful to watch, and I don't think any amount of rewatches (or And Just Like That binges) is going to change that.

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