How To RSVP “No” Gracefully To Any Wedding Or Event

Olivia Taylor
Apr 11, 2024
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TBH, it doesn’t matter who you’re RSVPing "no" to — it’s awkward. It can be difficult to say no to an invite when your reason boils down to “I just don’t want to,” but not wanting to do something optional (and/or low-stakes) is reason enough to not do it. Your time, energy, and money is valuable — you don’t have to dish it out at every opportunity. Obviously, some events (like those hosted by close family or friends) are important to go to, no matter how much you may not want to.

However, for those invites from not-so-close friends for relatively unremarkable events, it's perfectly fine to decline. Even weddings, arguably the most lavish event someone may throw in their lifetime, are declinable. Whether it’s too expensive, too far away, or you just need a weekend off, there are plenty of respectful ways to RSVP “no.”

Here are all the tips you need to diplomatically decline, and not feel bad about it.

1. RSVP "no" early

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As soon as you receive an invitation, you probably have an idea of whether or not you can or want to attend. Decline ASAP so the host has an opportunity to invite someone else, get a refund on your seat, and plan accordingly. Plus, you don’t want to carry the burden of accepting and dreading the event for weeks. It’s way more emotionally draining, and confusing for the host.

If you do want to attend, but are unsure if you can, check your calendar and let the host know your circumstances. Perhaps your sister is expecting her first baby around the same time as your college roommate’s wedding. Reach out to your friend directly and let them know that you may be able to come, or would like to come, but it’s dependent on another important factor.

Chances are, the host will respect and appreciate your honesty. And remember: for big events like weddings, guests = money, so giving the hosts as much time as possible to make adjustments before their event is imperative.

2. You don't have to explain yourself

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This is a bit contradictory to what we just said, but if it’s not an up-in-the-air type of situation, you can just say “no.” Plain and simple. Hosts don’t need a laundry list of reasons you can’t go, and you don’t need to share yours.

3. Declining is *actually* quite respectful

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Responding to someone, whether it’s an enthusiastic “yes” or a “no,” is way better than not responding at all – or worse, canceling at the last minute. It shows that you care enough about the person to give them an answer, and that your friendship allows for open communication. With anyone in your life, you should be allowed to ask for what you want, and what you need. If you can’t do this for yourself, do it for Future You.

4. Don't make up excuses

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It’s just a no-no. If you fabricate an excuse, it can lead to way worse (and certainly more awkward) situations. For example, if you say you can’t go deep sea fishing this Saturday (when it’s really about not wanting to fish), the person might ask you to go with them another time, evidently putting you on the hook (pun VERY intended) for future excursions.

Alternatively, if you opt for blowing them off and they find out, they’ll probably feel worse and assume your response was personal to them. Whether or not that’s true is besides the point.

Being a bit more honest always goes a long way. Oh, and BTW, refusing an invitation isn’t that deep! Truly. It’s literally fine.

5. How to say "no"

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Saying no is all about what you say and how you say it. Aim for a warm, neutral and matter-of-fact tone paired with a short, candid response. Don’t beg for forgiveness (and TBH if you have to do this, they’re probably not a great friend in the first place), give them a vague reason as to why you can’t go, or get defensive if they have questions. Repeat after us: saying no is normal!

BTW – by declining an invite you have to allow others to do the same. So if someone declines an invitation to your birthday party (which we know will be totally amazing), it’s OK.

And just remember – any response is better than no response.

Stay updated on all things party etiquette with Brit + Co. This post has been updated.

14 Stunning Floral Wedding Guest Dresses Perfect For Summer Ceremonies & Beyond

Wedding season is back, and busier than ever. If you're feeling like you spend every other summer weekend in attendance, only to spend the few weekends in between recovering — and shopping — for your next event, you're certainly not alone.

While it's wonderful to watch our loved ones wed, we all know how quickly the celebrations can add up, and we're here to remind you there's absolutely no shame in repeating a wedding guest dress a few times, or all season long! In fact, you'll find floral dresses can go a long way, as their multi-colored prints allow them to be styled with different accessories for a new look each time.

If you're juggling several different wedding themes in one season, say, beach unions and backyard weddings, try to invest in one good floral print that can adapt across locales, or scoop up a few extra-affordable picks and assign one to each setting!

Ahead, our favorite floral wedding guest dresses to help you get through the wedding season and all your formal festivities this summer.

Free People Alma Midi Dress

This subtle light pink midi is adorned with feminine florals and delicate ruffles that feel like spring and summer's BFF. The asymmetrical hem lends this dress a whimsical vibe, which will earn you compliments all season long. Pair with some cute heels and your go-to bag to complete the look! 

Available in sizes XS-XL for $168.​

Hutch Braylan One-Shoulder Maxi Dress

This maxi may have just one shoulder strap, but we promise it's secure as ever. Hugging your form in the most flattering way, the bust on this piece is elastic and very flexible, so it moves when you do. The lush green floral details pay homage to the seasons best blooms.

Available in sizes XXS-L for $319.

AFRM Shea Floral A-Line Maxi Dress

This illustrative maxi is the moment! Adorned with everything from flowers to butterflies, this wedding guest dress is for the young at heart. The shape is simple and flowy, starting out with a straight neckline and falling to an a-line skirt. It's also lined for added comfort!

Available in sizes XS-XL for $88.

Bardot Felicia Mesh Floral Midi Dress

For a more form-fitting floral option, this pink + red number will do the trick. It's quite stretchy, so you can sit, stand, and dance in total comfort. The ruching running along the sides gives your shape even more flattering definition for all the pics you'll be taking during the wedding.

Available in sizes 2-12 for $119.

Shona Joy Karla Paneled Maxi Dress

This paneled dress falls all the way to the floor in an elegant manner. It's covered in royal blue, white, and rustic brown florals for a very graphic feel. While the skirt is more flowy, the bust on this dress fits snugly, like a corset. It comes complete with a matching belt to make the 'fit more formal!

Available in sizes 2-12 for $420.

Abercrombie & Fitch Ruffle Strap High-Low Maxi Dress

We are in love with this ruffle-y wedding guest dress! Part of Abercrombie & Fitch's new wedding collection, this high-low silhouette is dotted with classic pink florals. The ruching follows the bodice as well as the straps to create a chic shape. The breezy printed chiffon material is lined on the inside with a solid polyester for total coverage.

Available in petite, regular, and tall sizes XXS-XXL for $130.

Steve Madden Adalina Floral Ruffle Maxi Dress

On the delicate side, we can't stop gawking over this femme chiffon frock. It's an off-white, more cream-colored fabric for staying cool in the spring + summer sun. The bold ruffles that cross in the front make sure your look doesn't go unnoticed. While most floral wedding guest dresses are covered in the blooms, this one is more subdued.

Available in sizes XS-XL for $99.

Conditions Apply Chloe Strapless Maxi Dress

We actually adoreblack wedding guest dresses, and this one is still floral! You can make it strapless or opt for the included straps to feel more secure. The big graphic blooms will photograph beautifully, too. Only plan on wearing it to a wedding once? This dress doubles amazingly for any beachy vacations you've got on the cal!

Available in sizes XXS-XL and plus sizes 1X-3X for $148.

Petal & Pup Senorita Floral Print Sleeveless Maxi Dress

With a high neck and a high-cut leg slit, this maxi dress is def ready for the wedding after party! The side cutouts transition to an adorable open back design that feels sexy ​and ​breathable. This pick secures in the back with a no-fuss string tie and just looks sooo fun!

Available in sizes 4-10 for $84.​

The A&F Camille Midi Dress

Made of smooth satin-y fabric, this midi follows your figure with some flattering seams that run down the whole dress. The upper part is definitely more fitted, but allows for some movement with an elastic backing. The thin spaghetti straps are totally adjustable, too, so you can find the fit that suits you!

Available in sizes XXS-XXL.

ASTR The Label Floral Puff Sleeve Midi Dress

This floral wedding guest dress is for the color lovers. It's smattered in flowers and leaves of all kinds that work wardrobe magic whenever you wear it! The puffed sleeves definitely speak to the romantic vibe of any wedding you're attending, and the neckline comes together beautifully with a fun front tie. This pick is finished off with a high-cut leg slit for added breeziness!

Available in sizes XS-XL for $99.

A New Day Women's Crepe Midi Slip Dress

This easy-to-wear slip dress is totally comfy! Crafted out of a lightweight crepe fabric, you can feel confident at any temperature. The v-neck and leg slit create a flattering balance in the silhouette, plus the pink floral pattern is the season's ultimate match! Adjust the straps with traditional closures to find your perfect fit.

Available in sizes XS-4X for $25.

Montce Petal Floral Maxi Dress

The bustier-like top on this floral maxi is everything to us! The ruched bra cups will draw attention to your ensemble and make you feel super fly. This dress secures in the back with a hook closure, and flaunts an open back for some light flirty vibes.

Available in sizes XS-XL for $218.

Motel Vilnia Floral Midi Dress

This versatile pick goes the less-traditional route in the way of florals. Its flower motifs are dotted separately all across the fabric, and match the neckline's velvet lining perfectly! We like that this dress is limited in its color palette to make matching with shoes and outerwear easy as can be. The bow in front of the chest seals the deal!

Available in sizes XS-XXL for $85.

Which floral wedding guest dress are you excited to rock this year? Follow us on Pinterest for more outfit inspiration!

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This post has been updated from a previous version with reporting by Meredith Holser.

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Big Astrology News! Jupiter In Gemini Is Here To Shake Up Your Sign

Are you feeling a lack of motivation lately? Don’t worry, because things are about to change. As we near the middle of 2024, you may have let go of your New Year's resolution or neglected your past passion project. The great news is that Jupiter, the planet of optimism and expansion, is leaving the earth sign Taurus and entering the air sign Gemini on May 25. In the next stage of our journey, we will be more socially oriented and open-minded to ideas from all sides.

Everything to know about the planet Jupiter in astrology

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The Planet Jupiter

Astronomically, Jupiter is the fifth planet from the Sun and the largest in our solar system—also known as the “gas giant.” Jupiter can also be viewed as the bodyguard, protecting our home planet from incoming asteroids.

Astrologically, Jupiter bestows luck and expansive opportunities in our natal charts and transits. Due to its exuberant nature, it can over-inflate good and challenging aspects. In your darkest hour and time of need, look to your Jupiter sign as the key and clue to where you can find the silver lining. You may be in for a huge lesson and luck wherever Jupiter touches your birth chart or in transit. The teacher or guru often walks into your life around these momentous periods, and so long as you are open to learning, you, too, one day will become the teacher as well. Click here to find out where your Jupiter is in your birth chart.

When Does Jupiter Enter Gemini?

Jupiter in Gemini Dates: May 25, 2024 to June 9, 2025

What Does Jupiter in Gemini Mean For You?

Let’s explore this last year before we dive into what’s next. The planet Jupiter spends 12 months in every sign. From 2023 to 2024, while in Taurus, our primary focus was exploring the path of self-worth, wealth, and financial security. Although Taurus is a grounded and earthy sign, last year felt anything but because Jupiter inflates and expands on whatever it touches. Sound familiar? We experienced inflation, resulting in a rise in food prices while also becoming more indulgent and spending more on material comforts.

It could have been a challenging year regarding real estate or business ventures, as everything felt stuck because Jupiter enhances whatever it touches. With Taurus's fixed energy escalated by Jupiter’s influence, it could have already made us feel like sitting ducks with a massive credit card bill. Online shopping and retail therapy galore.

The good news is that as Jupiter shifts, we will focus on collaboration, communication, and multiple streams of opportunities. Although Jupiter is astrologically considered in a “detrimental” position with Gemini, there is a plus side when this transit occurs.

The sign of Gemini extends an outlet for us to become more experimental in our lives. It can be a perfect time to begin that side hustle you were contemplating alongside your job. This is the period to “explore,” not invest. Jupiter in Gemini will give us fun, exploration, and opportunity. Our social calendars are also expected to erupt, and it's time to party.

It is about openness and possibility – refrain from dogmatic systems to stay afloat.

Note that Jupiter last appeared in Gemini in 2012. Reflect on what happened in your life then and for the collective to see what themes may be resurfacing.

Meanwhile, if you have a mutable rising sign or are a mutable sign – Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, or Pisces – Jupiter in Gemini will light up your year.

What Happened 12 Years Ago When Jupiter Was in Gemini?

The last time when Jupiter was in Gemini, pop culture was electrifying with the rise of K-Pop, and Kim and Kanye got together, birthing their ship name ‘Kimye.’ We can expect bands to reemerge as Gemini is about interconnectedness and teamwork. Life was more collaborative and filled with incoming messages from all sides.

Information can get a bit scattered as Gemini represents messages and experimentation. So, it is best to slow down and listen intently before jumping into the next big thing.

It was also the year Taylor Swift released her Red album while dating Harry Styles. FYI, Taylor is a Sagittarius, and we will likely receive big news later this year. Here's a little cosmic intel: Jupiter will trine her North Node in Aquarius in September, opening a door for her to explore her story even deeper. It can push her to tap into a wellspring of creativity while she uncovers a new approach involving her talents. It will likely attract incredible breakthroughs involving personal development and destiny. Could it be a marriage proposal? Shift in love status? Album drop? Time will tell.

While we wait and see what happens, listen to The Tortured Poets Department. I’m a big fan of this one.

Your Jupiter in Gemini Reading For Every Astrological Sign

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Read for your sun, moon, and rising sign for an extended interpretation.

Aries

Exciting things will emerge as Jupiter will reside in your 3rd house of communication and ideas. It is time to level up your knowledge, requiring you to start something new that involves your skills. Embrace curiosity as you explore new subjects, languages, and connections. There is potential for short-distance travel to enhance your educational or business pursuits. Your adaptability shines, effortlessly navigating diverse situations with confidence. Avoid scattering your focus and prioritize your goals, maintaining consistency in your efforts. A structured approach to your studies or projects will prevent you from spreading yourself too thin. By setting clear objectives and staying disciplined, you can capitalize on these opportunities and bring your dreams to fruition during this transit.

Taurus

During Jupiter's transit through your 2nd house, Taurus, seize outlets to enhance your finances and values. It is time to step into your confidence and see your dreams take root by becoming more hands-on instead of waiting. Explore new income sources and improve your financial literacy to attract new income streams. Your adaptability shines this year, enabling you to navigate changing financial landscapes confidently. To achieve your goals, maintain discipline in your financial practices. Avoid impulsive spending and focus on creating a solid financial plan. Set savings goals and budget accordingly. With dedication and perseverance, you can lay the foundation for long-term financial stability and achieve your aspirations.

Gemini

This is your year, Gemini! With Jupiter in your 1st house, embrace opportunities for self-exploration and growth. Get out of your comfort zone by taking chances. The Universe grants your wishes when you remain curious and with an open heart. Embrace change confidently, knowing you can navigate diverse opportunities and challenges. To realize your visions, maintain discipline in focusing on your goals. Hone your skills, set clear objectives, and take decisive action. Avoid scattering your energy and stay committed to your aspirations. Harness Jupiter's expansive energy to manifest your dreams authentically and create a fulfilling future aligned with your true self.

Cancer

Get ready to witness your evolution as Jupiter navigates through your 12th house. This time will help you focus on your deep spiritual growth and inner exploration. Connect with your intuition and emotional depth. Tap into your inner truths while unpacking the unresolved. Dedicate time to meditation and self-reflection, releasing old patterns, and nurturing your spiritual side. To manifest your dreams, maintain discipline in your spiritual practice. Set energetic boundaries, prioritize self-care, and allow yourself to let go of what no longer serves you emotionally. By focusing on your spiritual journey, you can manifest your dreams with clarity and purpose, guided by the wisdom of your inner self.

Leo

This is your opportunity to expand your networks while reigniting your aspirations. Jupiter in your 11th house will power up your connections with like-minded individuals and join groups in alignment with your interests. Invest your time and energy in spaces that involve you to extend leadership while influencing others positively. With your social calendar booming this year, stay focused on long-term objectives, prioritize commitments, and avoid distractions. Set clear goals and take consistent action. Turn aspirations into tangible achievements, leaving a lasting impact on your social sphere.

Virgo

Expect recognition and career advancement as Jupiter is residing in your 10th house. Stepping up and showcasing your skills will shine. Your dedication will show as you share your true passions. If you have plans to launch your business or switch careers, this is your year. You will excel in your career endeavors, earning respect from peers and superiors. Stay focused on career goals, set high standards, and pursue growth opportunities. Avoid perfectionism and self-doubt, trusting in your abilities. With determination, climb the ladder of success and leave a lasting impact in your field. Boldness is key.

Libra

Jupiter takes over your 9th house realm, and your life will feel like Wonderland. This is your time for personal growth through higher learning and travel. Expand your horizons, explore new cultures, and deepen your understanding of the world. Learning prayer or meditation can be a powerful tool to level up your spiritual practice. Jupiter's touch will reconfigure anything you once considered tangible. Let go and observe possible new paths to help you achieve fulfillment. Share your story and listen to others to get perspective. Commit to educational pursuits or travel plans, prioritize learning opportunities aligned with your interests, and remain open-minded.

Scorpio

This will be a powerful time in your life, as Jupiter in your 8th house will scope opportunities to pay attention to your shared resources, intimacy, and unresolved fears. Your instincts will sharpen as you focus on your feelings toward others or situations. Embrace the quiet periods and invest time in your inner work. In doing so, your connections and your interconnectedness to life will deepen. The silver lining of this Jupiter transit lies in your emotional depth and intuitive ability. Facing your fears will open the door to your fulfillment. Commit to your healing and growth.

Sagittarius

This Jupiter phase will shift your focus toward your partnerships and relationships. With your 7th house active this year, it is your moment to understand your connections and gain clarity regarding your love status. Deepen connections, explore collaborations, and broaden your perspective on love. If you have experienced a waterlog in your love life, Jupiter in Gemini will breathe life back into your connection or in dating. Approach relationships with enthusiasm, embracing diverse experiences and perspectives. Commit to being unapologetically honest to attract healthy relationships, communicate openly, and be willing to compromise.

Capricorn

Expect your work and daily routines to go 180 as Jupiter takes rein in your 6th house. This is a period for you to seize opportunities at work while also refining your skills to enhance your efficiency. Observe what areas in your daily life need reinvention. It can be your wellness routine or your work environment. Establish healthy habits, set achievable goals, and focus on self-improvement professionally. Jupiter can escalate extremities, so remember that maintaining balance will attract steady progress in your career and complete alignment.

Aquarius

Fun times approach Aquarius as Jupiter crosses into your 5th house of creativity, self-expression, and romance. If you have experienced outmoded love stories or situationships, this is the year to explore deeper. Revamp your dating profile or take a class that unleashes your creative side. You may cross paths with “the one.” Something is ready to be birthed into existence (figuratively or literally). Think outside the box, experiment with ideas, and infuse creativity with your unique perspective. Be receptive to new ideas and approaches – don’t overthink it. In small, measured steps, get ready to witness your passions reach fruition.

Pisces

Expect harmonious breakthroughs involving your emotional security and family systems as Jupiter resides in your 4th house this year. This can manifest a change of residence to a larger space or renovation. You will likely need to reevaluate your priorities at work while figuring out what truly matters to you. As you return to your family roots, you will have an opportunity to understand the root of your past regrets. Living conditions and family life will improve as you commit to creating a harmonious home, prioritize self-care, and make space for resolution with family.

Want to learn the basics of astrology and decode your birth chart? Take a look at Lumi's free beginner's astrology workbook.

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A Definitive Timeline Of Taylor Lautner & Taylor Lautner’s Relationship

Now that we all know how to pronounce Lautner correctly (according to Taylor himself), it’s officially time to do a deep dive into the relationship that has taken over your FYP — or at least, mine. The double name duo, Taylor Lautner and Taylor Lautner, is known for their podcast, their most recent appearance at Taylor Swift's Eras tour, and being the most adorable couple, of course!

While the pair has made headlines in the best way, the Lautner’s are completely relationship goals. So when did they officially meet, make their first red carpet debut, and tie the knot? I did the digging so that you don’t have to — and trust me, the dating pics are just as sweet as you’d think.

They Went Instagram Official In 2018

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A couple isn’t a couple until they’re Instagram official. Taylor Lautner (previously known as Taylor Dome), posted the cutest pic of her wedding date, Mr. Lautner himself, in September 2018. This is the first time Dome was linked publicly to the Abduction star!

The Launters Had Some Epic Couple Costumes

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Dome found herself on Lautner’s Instagram shortly after in October 2018, highlighting an adorable couples costume for Halloween in that same year (first with a group of friends, followed by a standalone dating pic). The duo dressed in Tune Squad themed outfits while continuing the couple costumes trend almost every year since. From Black Swan to DC Comics, they knock it out of the park every time!

Dome Graduates Nursing School In 2019

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Nursing school is no easy feat, but it might be a smidge easier with Taylor Lautner by your side. Dome dedicated a touching post to her beau in December 2019, thanking him for “encouraging” her, “quizzing” her on medical terms, along with giving her “calming hugs” during her anxiety attacks. While we’re on the subject of school, we just have one important test question for Lautner. Bella, where the h*ll have you been loca?

Lautner Put A Ring On It In November 2021

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After almost three years as a couple, The Adventures of Sharkboy and Lava Girl actor popped the big question. In a series of Instagram posts, Lautner claimed that Dome makes “every single day spent with [her] so special.” Patiently awaiting the day I can pretend to put up the middle finger as an engagement ring, but I digress.

How’d he propose, you ask? Just a completely romantic setup with candles and dozens of roses in front of a fireplace. Oh, and his last name displayed on a well-lit glow-up sign. No big deal.

The Engaged Duo Made Their Red Carpet Debut

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The soon-to-be Lautners made their first red carpet appearance in April 2022 at the CMT Music Awards. Dome dressed in a stunning sparkly (almost disco ball-like) purple dress, while Lautner sported a classic black suit. And they looked darn good doing it!

It's Official...They Have The Same Name!

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The pair officially tied the knot back in November 2022 in a gorgeous photoshoot with none other than the well esteemed magazine, Vogue. Dome chose a beautiful lacy gown with a moderately long vail (which will definitely be ending up on my Pinterest board!). The ceremony took place at Epoch Estate Wines, a jaw-droppingly aesthetic vineyard in Northern California.

The Newlyweds Launched A Podcast In 2023

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You’ve had to have heard of double Taylor’s podcast by now titled, The Squeeze. The power duo have had some notable guests since the launch in February 2023, such as TikTok’s Anna Sitar, The Bachelor’s Nick Viall, and Disney’s Alyson Stoner.

The Tale Of Three Taylors

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Ever since Speak Now (Taylor’s Version) was set to come out, fans were begging for some ex-boyfriend content from Taylor Lautner. And he delivered in spades. The Valentine’s Day star came out on stage during the Eras Tour with a spontaneous backflip to promote Taylor Swift's newest music video. The married couple then posted the recreated version of the viral spiderman meme, with Swift. Oh, the things I would do to be a part of that trio! Talk about a highlight in the Lautner’s relationship timeline.

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13 Tennis Skirts For Acing Zendaya’s “Challengers” Aesthetic This Summer

Somewhere between Zendaya's iconic press tour looks for Challengers and the movie's official release,tenniscorewas born. According to boohoo.com, Pinterest searches for ‘tennis skirt outfit summer’ have skyrocketed by 170% over the past three months. The tenniscore fashion aesthetic channels the court sport with polo shirts, athletic dresses, sweater vests, and of course, tennis skirts. These are our favorite tennis skirts for embracing the oh-so sporty style!

Baleaf Women's Pleated Tennis Skirt

This skirt's all about business in the front, party in the back. While the front side is sleek and smooth, the back flaunts lots of fine pleats, which is signature tennis skirt style. This piece is fitted with a wide elastic waistband that snatches your figure and supports your look. It has built-in shorts that have two side pockets, plus there's a third zippered one on the back for securing small items. A massive slay, TBH.

The Baleaf Women's Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 8 other colors and sizes XS-XXL for $30 on Amazon.

Alala Rally Skort

This skirt with built-in pocketed shorts has a paneled skirt that's half solid material, and half mesh for added breathability. It's an easy one-and-done since all you have to do is slip it on! Not to mention, this serene mint green color is stunning.

The Alala Rally Skort comes in 2 other colors and sizes XS-L for $115 at Nordstrom.

CRZ Yoga Women's High Waisted Pleated Tennis Skirt

This stretchy tennis skirt is made of ultra-soft, quick-dry fabric – super practical if you're *actually* playing tennis, but also if you're not! This would make the perfect tennis skirt for summertime since it's made to be breathable. The built-in shorts have pockets for a phone and a tennis ball, too. The pleats surround the entire skirt for added style.

The CRZ Yoga Women's High Waisted Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 18 other colors and sizes XXS-XL for $38 on Amazon.

Never Better Volley Skort

This electric blue skirt allows you to do it all. The built-in spandex shorts provide comfy coverage while the elastic waistband keeps it on your bod through every movement. The contrasting white stripes that run down each side add even more sporty flair, on and off the court.

The Never Better Volley Skort also comes in white and sizes XS-XL for $68 at Free People.

Soothfeel Pleated Tennis Skirt

The built-in shorts on this super-smooth tennis skirt are made from a mesh material, so the sweaty effects warm weather are no match! The high waistband is fitted with an adjustable drawstring so you can wear it as tight or as loose as you please.

The Soothfeel Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 23 other colors and sizes XXS-XLL for $34 on Amazon.

Old Navy Extra High-Waisted PowerSoft Skort

This cherry red color is everything for summertime! This tennis skirt is made from Old Navy's PowerSoft fabric, which is stretchy and smooth with light compression. The extra-high waist sits above the belly button to pull your figure in and flatter you further!

The Old Navy Extra High-Waisted PowerSoft Skort also comes in green and sizes XS-4X for $35.

Gold Hinge Off-Black Wide Pleat Tennis Skirt

If you're looking for a different kind of tenniscore look, the wide pleats on this skirt provide a fresh take on the trend. Built-in shorts with side pockets mean your look can be practical, too!

The Off-Black Wide Pleat Tennis Skirt comes in sizes XS-XXL for $54.

Wild Fable Mini ButterBliss Skort

We're *so* obsessed with the slit on this spandex-y tennis skort. It makes the style feel less sporty, and more casual for everyday wear. It lets the built-in shorts underneath peek through for a cheeky vibe! Simply pair it with a cropped graphic tee and your go-to sneakers for a no-fail summer 'fit.

The Wild Fable Mini ButterBliss Skort also comes in white and black and sizes XXS-4X for $18 at Target.

Strawberry Western Pleated Skort

This doodle-drenched tennis skirt is super cute when you wanna make a statement. There are two tiny bows along the waistband that amp up the femme vibes even more, plus the attached shorts underneath boast a contrasting pink star pattern that'll turns heads your way wherever you go.

The Strawberry Western Pleated Skort is currently shoppable in sizes M and L for $84.

GapFit Pleated Exercise Skort

This sweet skort is totally worthy of your capsule wardrobe for summer. It's fitted throughout, but flares down into a flawless pleated pattern. It follows an a-line silhouette that's the most fitted at the waist, accentuating and flattering your figure.

The GapFit Pleated Exercise Skort also comes in black and white in regular sizes XXS-XXL, tall sizes S-XXL, and petite sizes XS-L for $60.

Athleta Ace High Rise Tennis Skort

This basic tennis skirt comes in a plethora of colors and works well for any style situation you may find yourself in. This blue color is wonderful for making a statement, but you could also style the black version as easily for date night! This piece has a whole 3 pockets for storing small items, too.

The Athleta Ace High Rise Tennis Skort comes in 8 colors total and sizes XXS-3X and is currently on sale for $48 (was $69).

Girlfriend Collective FLOAT Ultralight Skort

Lightweight and high-rise, this skort from Girlfriend Collective feels like a dream. The a-line skirt is meant to flow in the breeze, while the waistline hugs you snugly. This soothing green color is lush enough for summertime, but you can also shop it in blue, red, and black – whatever suits your personal style

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30 BookTok Books To Reignite Your Love For Reading

I wasn't always as much of a reader — I'd read a bit here and there, but not nearly as much as I do now. It all changed one day as I was scrolling TikTok and found a bunch of book recommendations that peeked my curiosity. I decided to read one...suddenly, I was up all night long, desperate to finish the book in one sitting. After one book, I was hooked and instantly fell in love with reading all over again. I wanted to try and encapsulate that feeling for you, if you're feeling the same way. So keep reading, to find all my picks that will have you up until 2 A.M. on the edge of your seat, trying to finish a book. You will seriously love these! We've got everything from spicy romantasy to captivating memoirs! You won't want to miss them.

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Funny Story by Emily Henry

I had to start off with my absolute favorite from this roundup! Emily Henry is just one of those feel-good writers that truly creates characters you fall in love with, and this book was no exception. I fell more in love with these characters than any of her previous works! It's about Daphne and Miles who end up moving in together after their significant others cheat on them and get engaged (yikes, I know). It tells the story of two broken people putting each other back together and forming a deep bond and mutual respect for each other; despite their seemingly many differences. I love these characters, and will most likely be reading this again over the course of the year, because this is my new comfort book!

Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros

The long-awaited sequel to Fourth Wing was another addition that had me sitting at the edge of my seat until the very end. A lot of fans critiqued the writing for seeming too rushed but I didn't mind because I was eager for the sequel and honestly still really enjoyed the story! It continues with Xaden and Violet as they navigate tension, training, their relationship, family troubles, and of course... their dragons. The humor in this one is a 10/10 from the dragons, and the conflict built up throughout the whole book! I really enjoyed and will be eagerly awaiting the 3rd installment!

Once Upon A Broken Heart by Stephanie Garber

I was hesitant about this series but quickly fell in love with the magical world-building, and quick-witted characters. This book tells the story of brokenhearted Evangeline who, after the love of her life being seemingly cursed to marry another woman, tries to find solace and help from the cruel Prince of Hearts. She strikes a deal with him to get back her love, but instead, binds her to the Prince. Will she get back her true love? Or find a new one along the way? You have to read to find out!

Good Girl Bad Blood by Holly Jackson

This book is a sequel to the Holly Jackson series that we saw in our first bout of Booktok love last year. It follows Pip as she is not a detective anymore but after getting close with a true-crime podcaster, Ravi, and a disappearance occurring that the police aren't doing anything about... Pip might have to step in and save the day once more.

The Idea of You by Robinne Lee

Due to the movie coming out recently, TikTok has been ablaze with the resurgence of the book and it lives up to the hype. Personally, I prefer the book in terms of storyline, but the movie ending was much better. This follows a mom of a teen girl who ends up meeting and falling in love with her daughter's favorite boyband member. You see Solene as she navigates the relationship with her daughter, herself, and Hayes. Will they be able to make it work despite all odds?

Powerless by Lauren Roberts

This book has taken TikTok by storm given all the love for the romantasy genre. It's a story of trials and competitions between rivals but in the midst of these competitions that happen on a magical island, what love will unfold in the midst? Read this book for a similar vibe to Hunger Games, but with a twist.

The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah

This Kristin Hannah book opens in 1947 Alaska, where Ernst Albright is making his way home after serving and fighting in the Vietnam War. The gruesome realities of war changed him, and now his family is taking the brunt of the frustration and confusion Ernst is dealing with. After too many incidents gone wrong, he moves his wife and daughter to an isolated and lonesome part of Alaska. Though troubling circumstances, the family is comforted by the people in the small town and their kindness. But once the darkness of winter hits, not much can help them face Alaska's harsh environment. This book shows a family trying to grapple with their own problems in isolation while uncovering truths about survival *and* the outdoors. With over 772,000 ratings on Goodreads and 147,000 on Amazon, we see why this book is a top pick amongst readers!

Part of Your World by Abby Jimenez

One author that BookTok loves is definitely Abby Jimenez! People can't get enough of her books, and I completely agree!

After a bad driving instance with a baby goat (it's a long story), Alexis hightails to a random town's bar while she awaits a tow truck. A local town legend and much younger man, Daniel Grant, is the man who helps her in her dire time of need. Lucky for her, he knows his way around and happens to be super charming. Not so lucky for him, the town has a lot of single man that also happen to be intrigued by Alexis. But the two have a pull towards each other that they can't seem to deny. While they share attraction and intrigue, they live complete different lives in completely different cities. How will the two navigate a relationship if it ever came to that? And would they be able to make it work even when it seems like nothing is going their way?

This is such a sweet read that will have you rooting for this adorable couple instantly! This will be sure to have you on the edge of your seat to see if the couple can make it work despite all odds!

Better Than The Movies by Lynn Painter

This book is a simple romcom that BookTok has obsessed over lately! I'd recommend this and the follow-up sequel!

Hopeful romantic and optimist Liz is in love with Michael (and has been for years), but he is unaware of this crush. When he decides to move back into town, Liz decides she will do anything to get his attention. Even if she has to fool him, by giving attention to Wes, who is her obnoxious next-door-neighbor. Will she win over Michael? Or will Wes win her over? Read to find out!

I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jeanette McCurdy

This is the painfully truthful memoir by Jeanette McCurdy, who grew up as a child start on Nickelodeon. It deals with the hard truths and vulnerable feelings she had towards her mother, who was neglectful and traumatizing in how she raised her. It is an incredible memoir that deals with heartbreaking honesty, with yourself and with others. BookTok (and myself) gives this an A+ rating for sure!

Nora Goes Off Script by Annabel Monaghan

I LOVE Annabel Monaghan, and actually her because of BookTok. This story is about an author, Nora, who writes romance like nobody's business. She knows how it works, and writes it well. But when her husband leaves her and her child while she is in the middle of a movie being made about one of her books, she doesn't know what she'll do. That is until movie star, Leo, moves in and shows her a glimpse of romance that she hadn't yet experienced. But Leo has a big career in Hollywood, and Nora has a life and problems to figure out. Read to see where the story takes them!

Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez

This is Abby's newest release, and it's SO good! Having just read it in preparation for the summer myself, I can say it is such a fun and easy read that you won't be able to put down.

It tells the story of Justin and Ellie, two people who believe they are curse in relationships with never finding "the one." The real kicker? Following every breakup, their ex finds their "the one" immediately afterwards and gets to live there happily-ever-after while Justin and Ellie are left single once again. The two find each other on a reddit thread and make plans to jokingly date each other into order to break each other's curses. But fate has other plans for these two unlucky romantics. Dating each other turns out to be far from a joke and not at all going according to their plan. As love, family tension, and passion arises, will they allow themselves to take a chance on each other? Or will they leave as heartbroken as they came? Read this sweet summer read to find out!

House of Flame and Shadow by Sarah J Maas

Everyone knows that there's one reigning author of BookTok at the moment, and that, my friends, is Sarah J Maas. She's probably the most talked about author right now, and for good reason. She writes suspense-filled, romantasy books that you simply can't get enough of. I love her Crescent City series, and this particular book is the third installment. It continues the story of Bryce as she navigates an entirely new world, and Hunt as he's desperate to find her and help her. This series will have you staying up all night, turning pages, and dying to see what happens to the characters. 10/10 absolutely recommend.

The Women by Kristin Hannah

The story starts in SoCal in 1965 with leading lady Frances McGrath studying to be a nurse. She grew up with quite a conservative family, but formed her own way as she grew up, stepping step off the path she was raised in. When her brother joins the army, Frankie makes the daring decision to join him as a nurse.

She discovers so much destruction and hardship, but in the face of overwhelming horrors, Frankie forges friendships, overcomes struggles, and fights her way to make it through. This book shows you what it means to be courageous and to make your own destiny.

Yours Truly by Abby Jimenez

This is probably Jimenez's most popular book, with over 250,000 ratings on Goodreads and over 22,000 reviews on Amazon.Yours Truly tells the story of a woman name Dr. Brianna Ortiz who recently went through a divorce and is feeling painfully stagnant in her life. She's dealing with so many mixed emotions, family troubles, and the promotion she wants at her job might be going to a doctor that she absolutely does not like. Then...said doctor ends up writing her a note that has her re-thinking her hatred for him. She starts to see a side of him that she hadn't before and she begins to even....look forward to his letters. To top it all off, he ends up doing about the biggest favor a person could ever do. He gives her brother a kidney he's been needing for surgery. Which leaves her no choice but to owe him big time. What will happen when the doctor wants to cash in on that favor? And how will their relationship change?

The Serpent and the Wings of Night by Carissa Broadbent

This book is my current obsession. It's like if Twilight and Hunger Games had a baby, and that's exactly what it would be.

Oraya was adopted by an evil vampire King who had her compete in a competition for survival. The winner gets one wish from the Queen; anything and it will be granted. Except she's only human so she forms and alliance with the cruel vampire Raihn who may not be as awful as he seems. Follow Oriya's journey as she competes to the death and may discover some intersting truths about her past along the way. This book has fantasy, romance, adventure, and fighting all in one!

The Ashes and the Star-Cursed King by Carissa Broadbent

The sequel in this series has me in just as much of a chokehold as the first did, and dare I say...it may be BETTER than the first. The storytelling and writing is just phenomenal, and I'm so happy I found this one on BookTok! It continues the story of Raihn and Oraya as the try to survive in a new kingdom and overcome their past demons. Will they make it out alive? And will they still have each other at the end of it?

Normal People by Sally Rooney

Sally Rooney is 100% a BookTok fave at any given moment, especially with the amp up to her newest release, Intermezzo! This story follows two complex individuals, Marianne and Connell, as they navigate their feelings and friendship toward one another over the years. The plot shows them from school all the way past college. You see them grow into their own lives while trying to stay connected and figure out their feelings for another.

The heart of this story is about the complexity of what it means to be human and how that affects our day-to-day relationships with one another, especially when we're fighting our own demons and misunderstandings. You'll see these two characters explore intimacy, friendship, love, jealousy, and conflict all interwoven together.

This Could Be Us by Kennedy Ryan

Kennedy Ryan is a newer author that I was introduced to via Tiktok (obvi), and I'm so glad I did because this really is what women's fiction is all about. She tells stories about beautifully strong women where the romance just happens to be a backstory. This particular story follows a woman, Soledad, who's dealing with a divorce and trying to find herself, only for an unexpected man comes into the picture and makes her question everything. Read through Soledad's journey where you will uncover self-discovery and most of all self-acceptance!

Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton

This incredibly vulnerable Dolly Alderton book is a relatable memoir that explores what it's like to be a young woman navigating life in the current world. Dolly Alderton writes about her experience in life, love, dating, men, and food. You name it, she talks about it. She candidly depicts her pits and peaks managing whatever life threw at her. The book is also deeply rooted in friendship, specifically Dolly's relationship with an old childhood friend named Carly. I guarantee that you will laugh, cry, and feel every emotion with this booktok fave!

Twisted Series by Ana Huang

This BookTok series has been all over my FYP because apparently each book is better than the last! They depict vastly different romances, and I guarantee you that you will be anxiously turning the page to see what happens next! Definitely a 10/10 easy and fun romance read to add to your TBR pile!

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

This Kristin Hannah bestseller is set in 1939 France during World War II, and uncovers what it means to find love in tragedy. It follows Vianne Mauriac, who's sending her husband off to the war against the Nazis. Shortly after, a German captain invades her home, jeopardizing her and her daughter's safety.

Meanwhile, Vianne's sister falls in love with a Frenchman. But when he betrays her, she joins the Resistance, leaving trouble and worry in her path. This book will take you through the ups and downs of love, the chaos of wartime, and the strength of family.

Conversations With Friends by Sally Rooney

Another Sally Rooney fave! I've seen sooo many TikTok edits of this one, further showcasing it as a BookTok staple. This popular best-seller depicts two young college friends, Bobbi and Frances, as they befriend married couple Melissa and Nick. The book shows the challenging and changing dynamic of the relationship when the characters realize feelings are shared between Melissa and Bobbi, and Frances and Nick. Now, they have to This navigate the tangled web of confusion, love, and attraction.

While not necessarily a romance book, it does explore themes of love and how we react when we become overwhelmed by the reality of it. As readers, we slowly get to uncover Frances' real feelings and how complicated it can be to navigate them as a young adult.

Beach Read by Emily Henry

This amazing Emily Henry book is probably one of my favorites of all time! I genuinely can't describe how much it will make you feel. It's the perfect summer read, and BookTok definitely agrees.

Augustus writes literary fiction and January writes romance, the two couldn't have less in common... or so they think. They end up being neighbors and forming somewhat of a mild friendship/enemy-ship that challenges each other to try writing in each other's genre. But little do they know, that a love story is writing itself between the two of them as they share memories, feelings, and sweet moments. They might just find out that they have more in common than they think.

(PS: They're working on a movie for Beach Readas we speak!)

Archer's Voice by Mia Sheridan

Oh my goodness, this book seriously got me out of my reading funk! I felt so much throughout this story, and genuinely thought my heart explode from everything that goes down. It follows Bree, our FMC, who wants to explore a small town. As she explores more, she realizes there's a man who was shunned from the town, constantly treated so badly by everyone. Bree can't help but want to know more, and she learns that man, Archer, suffered a bad accident that left him unable to speak afterwards. Slowly but surely, Archer lets Bree in, and she starts to develop feelings. What will this mean for the two? And can they stand the pressure of the town's dismay?

Good Material by Dolly Alderton

Good Material is the latest Dolly Alderton book, which debuted in November 2023. It offers quite a different feel from her previous works as it's written from a male's perspective. The book follows the story of couple Andy and Jen, who have recently ended their relationship. Andy is gutted by the breakup and hopes to win back his now ex-girlfriend all the while trying to launch his standup career. Throughout most of the book, we see the story from Andy's side. Once you think you have the whole story, a surprising perspective shift will help illuminate what the true downfall of the relationship was, and shed light on Jen's point-of-view. If you're looking for a book to help you cope with a recent breakup, this one's definitely for you. After tearing through this read, we can't wait to see what Dolly Alderton cooks up next.

Magnolia Parks Series by Jesse Hastings

I had to highlight this series because it's quite literally what I would imagine Gossip Girl to be if it took place in England. It has drama, romance, tension, self-discovery and so much more! Read this for a drama-filled treat with so many ups and downs, you won't be able to put the book down!

Dear Dolly by Dolly Alderton

Dolly Alderton is a former columnist for The Sunday Times, and she's now an author of four incredible, best-selling books. She's definitely well-loved by TikTok given her honest and vulnerable storytelling. This book follows her as she answers questions in the classic Dolly way: with wit, honesty, and vulnerability.

Caught Up by Liz Tomforde

This whole series is constantly reposted on TikTok, and I'm definitely one of the girls hyping it up for how charming the storytelling and characters are. This one, specifically, depicts a single dad baseball player who is trying to raise his son while having a career when he finally hires a nanny — his coach's daughter. She's a spitfire and has a successful career that she's bent on getting back to after the summer. But will she get charmed by the two Rhodes boys?

I recommend this entire series, but make sure to read it in order! The varying characters pop up all throughout the series!

Same Time Next Summer by Annabel Monaghan

Another read that's just in time for the summer! Make sure to add this BookTok book to your packing list for vacation.

This story follows Sam who has a perfect life, perfect career, and perfect doctor fiancée. She thinks she has it all together... that is, until she loses her job and goes back home only to see her ex who broke her heart. Being back home causes her to reminisce on her childhood, and more specifically, her childhood love. Will Sam find out who she really is and who her heart wants?

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