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Aries

If you’re an Aries, you’ll want to show off your fiery and competitive side in a fun way. Consider taking your date to a bar that has an arcade or skee-ball machines. Winning a prize and giving it to their date is how Aries show their affection and prove their utmost awesomeness.

Taurus

An art class is an awesome way for Taurus to show off their artsy, aesthetic side. Plus, it will give their date a chance to playfully critique their work (and vice versa). They’ll be able to take their art home as a keepsake and lovely memory of the evening out!

Gemini

Going out on a double date with their boo and a few friends will allow a Gemini to show off their ability to enchant others through the art of conversation. This also allows Gemini to show their date how diverse their friend group is, and how much of a social butterfly they truly are.

Cancer

A cozy night at home cooking dinner together and watching old movies is an ideal date for the sentimental Cancer. As long as they feel comfortable in the company of their date, they will have a super chill experience while laying back and vibing with their partner!

Leo

All the world’s a stage — and so is date night for the lion, which is why the theatrical Leo will take their date for a night out of karaoke. Busting a move and singing their hearts out with their date is a fabulous way to connect. Cue the dramatic and romantic duets.

Virgo

A comedy show is a perfect way for the analytical Virgo to initiate conversation with their date. The event's jokes will give them a lot to talk and laugh about. It’ll serve as a bonding experience that can bring Leo and their date closer together in the long run.

Libra

Libra wants to show off their swagger and magnificent taste for the luxe life on a first date (and every date after that until a commitment is made) by taking bae out to an expensive club. Between popping champagne bottles and dancing, they’ll share memorable moments that last a lifetime!

Scorpio

Scorpios know that life has its ups and downs like a roller coaster. And sometimes, the only way to release the negativity in life is to laugh through all the painful moments. This is all the more reason why the transformative water sign will relish in taking their date to a fun amusement park or local fair!

Sagittarius

The archer likes to expand their wisdom through education, as well as different philosophies and ideas, which is why they’ll opt to take their date to the planetarium. A date for two under the stars will serve as a great way for Sagittarius and their date to open up their minds. (Ooh, romantic!)

Capricorn

Being that Capricorns work hard at the office during the day, they’ll prefer to go on a lighthearted date in their neighborhood. A drink at the local dive bar with their date will be fun, as long as the vibe is chill, the drinks are stiff, and the conversation is flirty.

Aquarius

Attending an avant-garde art show or museum exhibit is the perfect date experience for Aquarius. Their voyeuristic ways will enjoy soaking in the creative displays available to view. Plus, conversing about the cool exhibit over a glass of wine will help you connect with the water-bearer on a real soulful level.

Pisces

Pisces love the glamor and excitement of theater, which is why they’ll gladly attend a play or movie on a date. Since Pisces are known to have huge imaginations, they will have lots to talk about after having been able to escape into the intoxication and fantasy of the evening.

Introversion + Extraversion

Those with a preference for Introversion (I) will enjoy the opportunity to get to know you one-on-one. Quiet, candlelit dinners, walks in nature, and picnics will go a long way in setting your date with an introversion preference at ease. Be prepared to plumb the depths — introversion often comes with a desire to get to know the real you, and what drives you, not just how you feel and behave. Your introvert-preferring date likes to have fun too of course, but without the opportunity to scratch the surface on an intimate basis, they’ll likely go home feeling they’d missed out on something important. Don’t be afraid of the occasional companionable silence — it’s likely they’re not.

Those with a preference for Extraversion (E) are activated by higher-energy exchanges and situations. The more they can express themselves, share lively discussions, and enjoy the party, the better they’ll feel. Concerts, bars (or bar crawls!), karaoke, and other participatory activities are date ideas that’ll leave Extraverts satisfied and ready for more adventures with you. Dates that put a damper on their enthusiasm are the biggest pitfall for Extraverts. Avoid contexts where quiet and inward focus are paramount. So, maybe choose date night ideas like a rock concert, and not the symphony. Whatever you do, be ready to talk about it!

Sensing + Intuition

Those with a preference for Sensing (S) are oriented toward the rich, concrete, and sensory side of the world. They often have a special appreciation for beauty, design, physical pleasures, and unambiguous, hands-on learning. To wow a Sensing type, choose dates and experiences that engage as many of their senses as possible as well as their love of “doing things right.” An art museum might be a better bet than a history museum, but read their profile first; it’s likely that they will have listed their interests in some detail. Cooking classes engage all the senses and feed the Sensing love of how-to knowledge. A wine tasting is another great sensory choice that also allows a Sensing type to show off their fact-finding thirst and trivia prowess (Cabernet Franc is a Bordeaux grape, you know). The worst thing to do to a Sensing type is drag them to a symposium on esoteric philosophical ideas. In time they’ll come to appreciate your love of the finer points of the Bhagavad Gita, but don’t expect to hit it off in the world of ideas, ethics, and abstraction.

Abstraction is instead the home turf of those who prefer Intuition (N). To light an Intuitive type’s fire, find opportunities for them to exercise their love for the meaning behind everything. If you’re going to an art museum, make sure they have a good modern art exhibit. Intuitive types enjoy the grey areas of life, and a soup can on a plinth might spark their imagination more than the obvious beauty of Michaelangelo’s David (though, of course, you can always have a great discussion on the meaning of art). If a cafe for Sensing types sounds like music, an Intuitive’s cafe sounds like talking and thinking. For their dream date night idea, find coffee houses, bars, and walk-and-talk locales where you can solve the mysteries of the universe, together.

Thinking + Feeling

Those with a preference for Thinking (T) appreciate a logical approach to decision-making, including in their romantic lives. If your date is a Thinking type, you’re largely off the hook for making big, romantic displays. While Sensing types are into facts and Intuitive types like philosophy, the Thinking preference is more aligned with puzzles. You may see your Thinking-type date sparkle in an escape room or over a shared Sunday crossword. You’re also unlikely to lose any points by finding a deal — it’s only logical to get the same food for less at happy hour and go out more often with the money you save.

People with a preference for Feeling (F) are more apt to decide with their gut than with their head. Great date night ideas for Feeling types allow them to engage their care for others, and for causes that are important to them. Life is hard, but Feeling types don’t shy away from the effort to make the lives of those they care about better, and they’ll truly appreciate your effort to do the same for them. Inviting your Feeling date along to a worthy service project wouldn’t be out of the question, and Feeling types may be the only ones to truly enjoy the over-the-top drama of operatic storylines. Whatever your date may be, Feeling types need an exchange of deep emotion, and romance may be the most powerful emotion of all. And don't assume; showing that you have listened is a great way of showing that you care.

Perceiving + Judging

In the context of dating, consider Perceiving (P) and Judging (J) a dichotomy between spontaneity and organization. Perceiving types will appreciate a good old-fashioned mystery date, where the surprises keep unfolding. “Finding” a picnic basket in the bushes is a stunt reserved for Perceiving dates, who might also be easily exhausted if you plan everything out in too much detail. Perceiving dates also won’t be flustered by a change in plans — if you see an interesting little bistro on the way to your reservation, give it a shot!

For your date with a preference for Judging, on the other hand, knowing what to expect is paramount. While spontaneity may take a back seat, on the plus side, you can enjoy dates that take a lot of planning and rest assured, your date will follow through. Make a reservation at a place that’s booked out weeks ahead, create your own walking tour, go camping, or even meet up to plan adventures together. If you agree to pick up your Judging date at 8, they’ll be waiting at 7:55 and might feel worried or offended by 8:10.

Date Night Ideas According to Your Personality Type

As you work out how all of our date night ideas might work best for you and yours, rest assured that people are flexible, and there are no bad pairings from a Myers-Briggs perspective. Enjoy letting your date take you outside your own comfort zone—they’ll appreciate you for it and hopefully return the favor.

• ISTP: Keep in mind that social gatherings are not their thing. So, plan for something only for you two especially if you’re still getting to know each other. Dinner or going to the movies could work well for them, especially if it seems to be spontaneous.
• ISFP: One of their characteristics is being an attentive listener. Hitting a museum, or botanical garden, or watching a play could be pleasant options for them.
• INFP: Doing something that interests you both without pressure could be the best way to approach a date with an INFP. If you are just starting, choose something low-key and that doesn’t take too long such as coffee, wine or beer tasting, or a guided museum tour.
• INTP: Choose a light environment that stimulates creativity when dating an INTP. A few ideas are visiting a bookstore or library, playing board games, learning a new craft together, etc.
• ISTJ: Details matter to ISTJs. The classic combo of watching a movie and having a bite after will likely be a good option for the first dates as you get to know each other. An intimate picnic can also be an attractive choice.
• ISFJ: A romantic old-fashioned date will likely be a good choice for an ISFJ. Invite them to a quiet restaurant, for cooking dinner at home, or to go to the movies.
• INFJ: Quiet and very attentive, INFJs will probably enjoy taking time at a garden, park, library, or small coffee shop to spend quality time together and get to know you.
• INTJ: They will likely enjoy a formal and quiet date, such as a romantic restaurant, TV and dinner at home, or an intimate boat tour.
• ESTP: An adventurous activity date that gives you lots to talk and laugh about will probably make a great date. Some ideas are camping, an outdoor meal, a canoe, boat, or helicopter tour, or axe throwing.
• ESFP: They tend to enjoy exciting and light situations. Spending time at the beach (bring a frisbee), hiking, a day trip, and karaoke are a few date ideas.
• ENFP: Try something that can be perceived as surprising by your date. Maybe going to an exciting new bar (or several), cat café, paint and sip, or even a scavenger hunt.
• ENTP: Finding a fun activity you both enjoy and turning it into a date can be very engaging for ENTPs. Some ideas could be sports-related activities (rock climbing, horseback riding), tickets to a sports game, concert or play, or even playing a new video game.
• ESTJ: As they tend to take lead, be open to their suggestions. Start with a stroll in the park or the farmer’s market, and leave it open to dinner, drinks, a comedy show, or something else.
• ESFJ: A fun, but traditional, date could work well for ESTJs. A few ideas are a pub with games, game night at home (invite your friends if everyone is comfortable), bowling, a bar or restaurant crawl, or a party.
• ENFJ: Energetic and enthusiastic, they like to share a lot about themselves, so choose an environment in which you can talk freely and have fun such as a walking tour, a lively local market, or a group class like cooking or painting.
• ENTJ: Intellectually stimulating activities can be attractive for ENTJs. A trivia night or attending a concert, a play, or a musical and then hitting a bar or restaurant could be a fun idea that offers things you can talk about.

Romantic Movies Coming Soon

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Someone Like You

After the death of his best friend London, Dawson sets out to find the lost sister London never knew about. When they cross paths, Dawson realizes that Andi's trying to find her biological parents, and the journey they set out on will change everything.

Someone Like You premieres April 2, 2024 and stars Jake Allyn, Sarah Fisher, Lynn Collins, and Robyn Lively.

Challengers

This new romantic movie is also a sports drama, which is one of my favorite crossovers in film. When pro tennis player Tashi gets injured, she has to swap her career as an athlete for one as a coach. She's determined to turn her husband Art into a champion, but neither of them are prepared for Art to play against Patrick, his former best friend — and Tashi's ex.

Challengers hits theaters April 26, 2024 and stars Zendaya, Mike Faist, and Josh O'Connor.

New Romantic Movies From 2023

Anyone But You

In the vein of amazing movies like 10 Things I Hate About You, Anyone But You is based on a Shakespeare classic (Much Ado About Nothing) and follows Bea and Ben, who keep running into each other after a horrible first date. When they wind up at the same wedding in Australia, they realize that pretending to be a couple will solve both of their problems — and might just fix the rift in their relationship.

Anyone But You is in theaters now and stars Sydney Sweeney, Glen Powell, Alexandra Shipp, and Dermot Mulroney.

Love At First Sight

Speaking of Shakespeare, Love at First Sight has its fair share of A Midsummer Night's Dream Easter eggs — and I loved every minute. Hadley and Oliver hit it off during their plane ride from NYC to London, but when they get separated after their arrival, they wonder whether they missed their chance, or if fate will bring them back together.

You can watch Love At First Sight on Netflix now. The movie stars Haley Lu Richardson, Ben Hardy, and Jameela Jamil.

Your Place Or Mine

Best friends Peter and Debbie decide they need a break from their regular lives and pull a house swap. What might seem like a super basic plot has all the hallmarks of am amazing Reese Witherspoon film: hilarious best friends, driven and independent women, and heartwarming family relationships. It also does something no rom-coms dare to do: keep the romantic leads apart until the very last minute.

Your Place or Mine is available to stream on Netflix and stars Ashton Kutcher, Reese Witherspoon, Jesse Williams, and Zoe Chao.

Fingernails

Romance and sci-fi come together in this alternate reality where advanced technology can tell you whether you've found your perfect match. All you have to do is run an analysis on a fingernail ripped from your nail bed. While Anna and Ryan are given a positive result, Anna's not sure what she feels. And studying under Amir makes it even more confusing.

Fingernails is on Apple TV+ now and stars Jessie Buckley, Jeremy Allen White, Riz Ahmed, Annie Murphy, and Luke Wilson.

Red, White, & Royal Blue

If you love the Royals as much as we do then you'll fall for this story that follows Alex Claremont-Diaz, the first son of the US, and British Prince Henry as they go from enemies to something much, much more.

Red, White, & Royal Blue is on Prime Video and stars Nicholas Galitzine, Taylor Zakhar Perez, Uma Thurman, and Sarah Shahi.

More Of The Best Romantic Movies

Pride & Prejudice

This is one romantic movie that never gets old — even though the story just turned 210! Even though the Bennett family has all daughters (meaning to secure the family estate, they all need to marry well), Elizabeth Bennett is determined to only marry for love. All she has to do is navigate unwanted marriage proposals, jealous gold diggers, and foolish sisters.

You can stream Pride & Prejudice on Apple TV. The movie stars Keira Knightley, Matthew Macfadyen, Carey Mulligan, Rosamund Pike, Simon Woods, Jena Malone, and Donald Sutherland.

13 Going On 30

After a disastrous 13th birthday, Jenna wishes to be "30, flirty, and thriving." And when she wakes up as her 30-year-old self, she realizes her adult life, full of parties, gossip, and amazing clothes, is everything she ever dreamed of — but quickly learns it came with a cost.

13 Going On 30 is streaming on Netflix and stars Jennifer Garner, Mark Ruffalo, Christa B. Allen, Brie Larson, and Andy Serkis.

Set It Up

Harper and Charlie are overworked and underpaid, and decide to set their bosses up with each other in the hopes their own lives will get easier. And if they fall for each other in the process? Well, what happens at the office stays at the office, right?

Set It Up is on Netflix now and stars Zoey Deutch, Glen Powell, Lucy Liu, and Taye Diggs.

When Harry Met Sally

This Meg Ryan film might just be the blueprint for modern romantic movies, if you ask me. Harry and Sally don't really like each other, but after devastating breakups they decide to finally be friends and ask the age-old question: Can men and women really be friends without sex getting in the way?

When Harry Met Sally is on Max and stars Meg Ryan, Billy Crystal, Carrie Fisher, and Bruno Kirby.

Someone Great

Jenny finally has her dream job but has to wrestle with her longterm boyfriend ending their relationship. It's up to her BFF's Erin and Blair to orchestrate the best girls' night out ever. My favorite fact about this romantic movie is that it was inspired by Taylor Swift's "Clean," and then went on to inspire Taylor Swift's "Death By A Thousand Cuts!"

Someone Great is available to stream on Netflix and stars Gina Rodriguez, DeWanda Wise, Brittany Snow, Rosario Dawson, and LaKeith Stanfield.