There鈥檚 always a big temptation to play it safe when it comes to dressing up for special events. Works-for-anything LBDs are almost too easy to fall back on, while your desire to not outshine the bride, hostess or guest of honor (or completely break the bank) might make you lean toward classic silhouettes and low-key colors you can repurpose throughout the year. If that sounds like your formalwear M.O., then this is the season to let it go. We mean, you only get decked out like this a handful of times throughout the year 鈥 don鈥檛 you deserve to show up to the party in your dream dress (think: trend-leaning, timeless feeling and always flattering)? The answer should be a resounding YES.

To help you find that next-level party dress, we tapped two women who know a thing or two about gorgeous gowns 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Head Buyer at Rent the Runway and Yael Aflalo, Founder and CEO of Reformation 鈥 for tips on how to pick the perfect dress to wear to all of your fall events. Scroll through to shop their suggestions, because when they tell you what to wear, you listen.

For Your College Roomie鈥檚 Wedding

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鈥淢ake a statement in a unique 鈥榚xit dress.鈥 All about the back details, this dress will make you feel chic and sexy without revealing too much skin.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

Theia Black Matte Dress ($150 Rental, $995 Retail)

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Also try: Selected Teodora Maxi Dress With Strappy Back ($162) + Fame and Partners Farrah Maxi Dress With Lace Up Neck and Open Back ($261)

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鈥淕o with a dress you actually like and will wear again. Something easy but with a dramatic neckline or open back like the Fleur Dress is special, not stuffy. You can even wear it to brunch the next day.鈥 鈥 Yael Aflalo, Reformation

Reformation Fleur Dress in Strawberry ($298)

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Also try: BLQ Basiq Backless Mock-Neck Dress ($172) + Topshop Metallic V-Neck Strappy Midi Dress ($125)

For Your聽New Neighb鈥檚 Housewarming

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鈥淭ransition the typical 鈥榞irl next door鈥 floral pattern into fall with a darker palette for a romantic yet friendly vibe.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

ERIN erin fetherston Cara Dress ($70 Rental, $325 Retail)

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Also try: Topshop Floral Romper ($90) + Babaton Prosper Dress ($175)

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鈥淚鈥檇 probably choose something a bit more casual for this. The Oriole Skirt is low-key enough for a daytime BBQ or pool party, but still works for having drinks that night. Just wrap it up and you鈥檙e good to go.鈥 鈥 Yael Aflalo, Reformation

Reformation Oriole Skirt in Monaco Stripe ($158)

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Also try: Mango Midi Striped Skirt ($30) + A Common Space Frayed Wool Ribbed Skirt ($110)

For Your聽BFF鈥檚 Baby/Bridal Shower

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鈥淒itch your basic sheath for an unabashedly feminine style for a baby or bridal shower. Dresses, skirts and rompers with Victorian details like delicate lace or beading are always right.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

STYLESTALKER Visions Skater Dress ($60 Rental, $239 Retail)

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Also try: Topshop Petite Bardot Lace Dress ($24) + Zara Belle Sleeve Dress ($40)

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鈥淭his is a special day for your bestie, so you want to make sure all the attention is on her while still looking nice. Go with something soft and elegant 鈥 nothing too over-the-top or that shows too much skin. The Callado Dress is lovely and not too tight, so you have plenty of room to run around, help with gifts and refill mimosas.鈥 鈥 Yael Aflalo, Reformation

Reformation Callado Dress in Buff ($238)

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Also try: Forever21 Dolman Shift Dress ($23) + ASOS Popper Side Clean Column Dress ($81)

For Your聽School鈥檚 Homecoming

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鈥淗omecoming is just the warm-up/pre-game for prom, but you should still look really cute. The Miramar Dress is more fun than a regular cocktail dress: there鈥檚 a bow on it, there鈥檚 a little cutout, plus you can tighten up the straps 鈥 that way you can dance without having to keep pulling your top up all night.鈥 鈥 Yael Aflalo, Reformation

Reformation Miramar Dress in Cooper ($168)

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Also try: ASOS Salon Holographic Fold Pleat Skater Dress ($153) + C/MEO Collective Living Proof Jumpsuit ($176)

For Your聽Weekend Work Conference

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鈥淏lack and white options always make a bold yet professional statement. Mixed media fabrics add interest to a black shift and a great statement outerwear piece will keep you warm and pulled-together later in the season.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

Bailey 44 Mia Dress ($55 Rental, $198 Retail) + Elizabeth and James Boyfriend Coat ($95 Rental, $595 Retail)

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Also try: re:named Colorblock Dress ($57) + Cupcakes and Cashmere Stahl Shift Dress ($105)

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鈥淏usiness doesn鈥檛 have to mean boring. Go with a classic A-line dress like the Betty Dress with a lace-up heel and chic blazer.鈥 鈥 Yael Aflalo, Reformation

Reformation Betty Dress in Mia ($153)

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Also try: & Other Stories Blue Morph Print Dress ($90) + C/MEO Collective Power Trip Jumpsuit ($180)

For Your聽Fancy Dinner Date

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鈥淭he best bet for a dressy dinner date is a sleek, modern style that makes you feel incredible and highlights your figure. You want to be rocking the dress, you don鈥檛 want the dress to be wearing you.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

Jay Godfrey Soori Sheath ($75 Rental, $396 Retail)

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Also try: WOW Couture Bandage Mesh Panel Dress ($81) + American Apparel Ponte Off-Shoulder Cross Back Dress ($72)

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鈥淵ou want to look great and show off a little without feeling overexposed. The Corsica Dress has a lace-up neckline to highlight your assets, but a longer midi length for some balance on the bottom. Throw on a sexy pair of heels you can actually walk in and you鈥檙e there. 鈥

Reformation Corsica Dress in Sprinkles ($218)

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Also try: The Firth Label The Poetry in Motion Jumpsuit ($115) + Missguided Frill Bardot Bodycon Dress ($36)

For Your聽Thanksgiving聽Festivities

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鈥淭here are endless opportunities to sport neutrals like black, grey and camel, but why not embrace the biggest colors of the season in burgundy or teal? They鈥檙e flattering on virtually every skin tone and bring a subtly festive feel to your look.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

Halston Heritage Garney Jumpsuit ($85 Rental, $525 Retail)

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Also try: Sunday Best Chapman Dress ($110) + H&M Short-Sleeved Dress ($25)

For the Perfect聽Dressy Yet Functional Bag

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鈥淔or a black tie or cocktail event, go for a structured clutch with an inside pocket and an optional shoulder strap for ultimate functionality.鈥 鈥 Jessica Mullevey, Rent the Runway

Diane Von Furstenberg Handbags Evil Eye Minaudiere ($50 Rental, $328 Retail)

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Also try: Zara Clutch With Metal Detail ($60) + Rebecca Minkoff X Revolve Mini Mac ($195)

Where do you go shopping for your fall formalwear? Tell us how you like to style your look for fall occasions in the comments below.