10 Essential Tips for Detoxing Your Closet

Ever have those days when you seriously hate everything in your wardrobe? Yeah, us too. But if your closet is practically bursting at the seams and you’re still fighting back the urge to head out the door in your underwear, it’s time for a closet revamp. Dressing should be easy and fun, not a daily source of stress. We’ve put together a list of 10 essential tips that will help you detox your wardrobe and rebuild one that works for you. Morning tantrums will be a thing of the past — we promise.

One of the most important steps in your closet revamp is doing a major edit of your wardrobe. A lot of your sartorial stress stems from a problem that is super simple to address: too much variation and not enough cohesion. You want a closet full of clothes that are easy to work with and make you feel great. That means cutting down your wardrobe to a manageable size and getting rid of items that make you feel anything less than amazing.

As you’re going through everything, ask yourself these questions:

  • Have I worn it in the last year?
  • Does it make me feel good? (This is huge. Whether it’s the cut, color or style, if blah is the first thing that comes to mind when you put it on, give it the kiss of death. Life is too short to feel anything short of #flawless)
  • Does it fit?
  • Is it in good condition? Can it easily be fixed? (Am I actually going to take it to get fixed?)
  • Does it go with at least three other things in my wardrobe?
  • Is it annoying to wear? (If wearing that skirt or top makes your life harder rather than easier, you’re less likely to wear it.)

Answer no to any of these, and it’s time to part ways. Take anything that doesn’t stand up to your new closet’s standards to Salvation Army or Goodwill, or try selling it on a site like Bib + Tuck, ASOS Marketplace, or ThredUP. You can use the cash from selling your old duds to stock up on new ones.

2. Get Organized

Once you’ve gone through and edited out the less than fabulous pieces from your closet, it’s time to get organized. Start by arranging your closet by color and item type (pants, skirts, tops, etc.). Not only will this system help you put together an outfit in record time, it will also allow you to identify gaps in your wardrobe. Clever, non?

Tip: Hang up as much as you can. You’re more likely to grab something that’s laid out right at eye level than digging through your drawers.

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3. Take Stock

Time for a little closet analysis. Before you start building that fabulous new wardrobe, you need to know what you’re working with — so take a good look at what you already have on hand. You don’t want to end up spending money on things you already own, especially if they’re in good shape. This is also a good opportunity to do another cull if you notice that you have an overwhelming number of one type of item (no one really needs 10 identical white t-shirts). In addition to pointing out what rules your closet, you’ll also be able to identify what’s missing, both of which are key pieces of info for the next few steps.

4. Look at Your Lifestyle

As we’ve learned, a full closet doesn’t mean anything if you can’t make it work. This is most obvious when you’re staring into a closet full of shimmery, sequined skirts and flowy bohemian dresses and need to put together an office-appropriate outfit. We love a little sparkle, but that gold glitter mini probably won’t fly at your 9-to-5 (and if it does, we’re totally jealous!). We’re not saying toss it — it made it this far in the process for a reason — but it highlights a major wardrobe malfunction: Your clothes don’t match up with your lifestyle.

To make your life easier, you need pieces that not only work well together, but fit in with your day-to-day activities too. Sit down and think about how you spend your time during the week. Which activities occupy the majority of your time? Then take a look at your clothing. How do they fit in? Can you easily make outfits for each activity? Or do your threads fall short? Taking into consideration how you spend your time will help point out which areas of your closet need serious bulking up.

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5. Identify Your Essentials

By now, you probably know your closet inside out — not just what might be missing, but what you love wearing and what looks good on you. And those things probably make up the majority of the clothes left over from the detox phase of your closet revamp. They’re the pieces you can’t live without, aka your essentials. Essentials are more or less the only things you really need to dress yourself and feel great. Maybe they’re blazers, tees and boyfriend jeans or midi skirts, oversized sweaters and wedges. Whatever they are, they’ll become the cornerstones of your new wardrobe. So take a good look and figure out what might need updating and what you need more of.

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6. Imagine Your Ideal Wardrobe

To avoid falling into the same shopping traps that resulted in a messy closet, you need to put together a purchasing plan of action. Want to make sure you actually wear what you buy? Then try to imagine what your ideal wardrobe looks like and use this concept as a point of reference when you shop.

Your ideal wardrobe should be based around a sort of unique uniform, a look that is distinctly YOU and represents your sense of style. Once you figure out what that is, pinpoint the important elements of that look, and see how they line up with what you already own. Moving forward, your shopping strategy will involve curating a few different versions of each element, so you can build variations of your uniform, ultimately streamlining your closet and making it super functional.

Don’t worry; you’re not destined to a closet full of nothing but basics. This strategy will help you narrow down the ones that will work, while weeding out the ones that don’t. A good wardrobe should be a mix of basics, mid-range and statement pieces, and you’ll find that a lot of different pieces will fit into your ultimate vision.

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7. Go for Pieces That Are Versatile and Offer Maximum Impact

Think back to the step where you evaluated your lifestyle and ideal wardrobe, and use this information to decide which types of items would have the biggest impact on your look right now. Skip the basics for now, unless they’re seriously lacking, and focus on choosing interesting, versatile pieces that can be worn a lot of different ways. Start by working on the area of your wardrobe that you’re the least happy with; with just a few simple tweaks, you’ll see the impact immediately. As you’re shopping, envision at least three outfits you can make with each item before you take the plunge and buy it. If you can’t do it, it probably isn’t isn’t a good fit with your “uniform.”

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8. Quality vs. Quantity

It’s time to start putting more thought into your purchases. Sure, you can go out and buy 10 tops for $30, but how long are those things going to last? It’s better to spend a little extra on high-quality pieces that will stand the test of time. You’ll end up saving yourself a few $$$, not to mention headaches, by taking this approach.

Tip: If you’re the type that tends to go a little wild at sales, start skipping them unless you have a specific piece that you need to buy. Another trick is to ask yourself whether you would buy the sale item at full price. If you can’t imagine yourself shelling out more than $50 for that top, put it back on the rack. Impulse buys can quickly add up, and that money is better spent on quality items that fit in with your ideal wardrobe.

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9. Don’t Forget About Accessories

The right accessories can bring a simple outfit to life and are key to switching up your look. Statement pieces are great, but just like the rest of your closet, look to pieces that offer the most bang for your buck and will work with most things in your closet. Invest in a few pairs of great shoes or bags, and feel free to go the less expensive route for trendy pieces that may not have staying power.

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10. Find a Signature Piece

Whether it’s an antique piece of jewelry passed down for generations, an eye-catching handbag, or an amazing arsenal of super crazy sunglasses, adding a signature piece into the mix will give your wardrobe major personality. Like the rest of your apparel, your signature piece deserves a little thought, so take the time to find something that fits in with the rest of your aesthetic. You don’t need much to make a big impact, so invest in a few key items that will stand the test of time.

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Are you ready for a closet revamp? Tell us about your ideal wardrobe in the comments!

College and high school graduations are just around the corner, and you may be wondering what to get your favorite Gen Z grads. Luckily for you, we compiled a list of 15 fabulous graduation gifts for every price range that are guaranteed to put a smile on your graduate’s face!

Set of 4 Meal Prep Containers

Who doesn’t love pretty Tupperware? Whether your 2024 grad is a gym rat or a library lover, they will definitely find a good use for these air-tight, leak-proof containers.

Benevolence LA New Beginnings Scented Soy Candle

Send them off with this sweet-scented candle that celebrates their achievements, as well as the next steps ahead of them!

A Hundred Other Girlsby Iman Hariri-Kia

This book is like a modern day Devil Wears Prada, and would make the perfect gift for any grad going into journalism, media, or PR — especially if they’re moving to a big city.

Stanley Quencher H2.0

Hydration is key for anyone, especially a new college student that's running between classes, club meetings, and friend hangs! This tumbler will also keep their liquids cold overnight so they don't have to go down the dorm hall in the middle of the night for a fresh refill.

Dagne Dover Mila Repreve® Recycled Polyester Large Toiletry Organizer Bag

If you're sending off a high school grad to communal dorms, they'll definitely benefit from having a compact toiletry bag like this one. This style is particularly nice since it's made from recycled polyester that resists water and debris.

2024 Daily Planner

Using a planner is such an underrated way to stay organized, whether it's prepping for college coursework or adulting stuff like work events, grocery shopping, and plans with friends. This all-in-one daily planner will help your grad keep their ducks in a row with fields for all of life's details.

Honeywell Mini Cool Mist Humidifier

This humidifier, made especially for small rooms and personal spaces (ahem, dorm rooms!) helps maintain humidity levels between 40-60%, which can help relieve congestion and keep the throat and nasal passages hydrated to prevent sickness. This is crucial for soon-to-be college students who may hang around a lot of different people.​

Fresh Sends Flower Bouquet

Flowers are a staple for any major life event, especially a graduation! Fresh Sends is perfect for sending beautiful bouquets for those who live far away, since they ship directly to the recipient's door.

The Beast Mini Blender

This super-effective, high-power portable blender is the perfect size for a dorm room or small apartment, plus it's very aesthetically-pleasing even if it's just sitting on the shelf. It comes equipped with a screw-on lid and straw, too, so your grad can take it on walks and in the car.

Béis The Sport Backpack

Perfect for grads on the go, this bag can hold their water bottle, phone, wallet and so much more when they're trekking across campus.

Loop Quiet Equinox Earplugs

These design-forward earplugs are multipurpose – they block out extra noise for study sessions and sleep time, or even loud parties and concerts! Your grad will appreciate that they come with an easy-to-carry case for keeping them on-hand in unforeseen, noisy situations.

Crush Your Goals Inner Truth Affirmations Deck

For an extra dose of motivation, this 40-count deck of cards will keep them going when times get tough!

Keurig K-Mini Single-Serve K-Cup Pod Coffee Maker

Coffee will ​always ​be a part of any new grad's life. Keep 'em caffeinated with this convenient coffee maker that's compatible with K-Cups for everyday ease.

Hoka Clifton 9 Sneakers

Hokas are undoubtedly the cool girl of running shoes, and they will definitely make your grad hit the pavement smiling, no matter if they're stepping foot on their college campus for the first time or making big moves in a new city.

Great Jones The Starting Lineup

This trio of cookware is such a stylish way to give your recipient's post-grad kitchen an upgrade. All three pieces are oven-safe and dishwasher-friendly to make cleanup a breeze.

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I have such a love/hate relationship with haircuts. While I love the feeling of a fresh look as much as the next girl, I hate having to spend $100+ for a simple cut and blow dry session. During my recent trim, I talked with my hairdresser, Jack Rehak of Jack’s Hair Design in Hinsdale, Illinois, about ways to keep a haircut looking new and best practices for keeping hair healthy. Here's what he had to say!

Here's How Often You Should Cut Your Hair, According To Professionals

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I’ll admit it — it had been eight months since my last haircut. My hair had lost its shape, my layers were nowhere to be found, and my ends were begging for mercy. Life got busy over the last few months and I was neglecting my haircare like never before.

My hairdresser could immediately see that I was beyond due for a cut and said I needed to get more taken off than I was hoping. I was definitely disappointed — I'd been working on growing out my hair for a while now, and it just felt like my hard work had completely gone to waste. He explained that getting consistent haircuts is the key to growing out healthy and strong hair, rather than letting it grow and grow until it eventually breaks. So let's dig into the top three things you can do to avoid this scenario!

1. Just Get The Dang Haircut

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Also avoiding a haircut like I was? You might want to schedule one at your nearest salon. Like my stylist said, when you wait too long between trims like I did, you risk your hair becoming heavy, dull, and lifeless. When the hair is dry or even dead, it’s nearly impossible for it to hold a curl or style, essentially collapsing on you and taking on more and more heat damage all the while. I know the pain of spending time on a blowout only for it to fall minutes later — it’s the worst.

According to Jack, getting a haircut every 10-12 weeks is the best time frame or your ends will pay the price. Between blow-drying, curling, straightening, sun, and weather, our ends get dry and start to break without the proper care. Getting consistent haircuts allows hair to bounce back, shine, and perform the way we want in a healthy way.

2. Leave-In Conditioners Are Your Friend

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His top piece of advice to keep your hair looking and feeling hydrated between trims? Invest in conditioning treatments. Jack swears by the Olaplex conditioning system, specifically the No 3 Hair Perfector. Made with patented OLAPLEX Bond Building Technology™, this conditioning treatment repairs and prevents damage in as little as three minutes. No 3 promises to reduce breakage and visibly strengthen hair, so it’s the perfect assistance to keep ends fresh between cuts. Another conditioning treatments I’ve used and loved for years is the Moroccanoil Intense Hydrating Mask, which is designed to restore moisture, elasticity, and shine to dry hair.

3. Switch Up Your Shampoos

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Switching shampoos frequently is a pretty hot tip that I honestly hadn't thought of. Our hair gets used to the same products and grows tired of them, resulting in lackluster locks. Jack’s advice is to switch brands after finishing every bottle of shampoo to bring life back to your hair. Have two brands that you’re loyal to? Even switching back and forth between them after every bottle should make a big difference in your hair. I’m a huge fan of the R+Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Shampoo, which makes my hair look thick and full, as well as the Moroccanoil Hydrating Shampoo, which is so hydrating and gives so much shine.

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In the end, navigating your back-and-forth relationship with haircuts often feels like a rollercoaster ride between wanting that fresh look and cringing at the receipt. Luckily, by using conditioning treatments and switching up your products,, you can keep your locks healthy, shiny, and full of life between trims. But take a newly learned lesson out of my book: don't let your ends pay the price for procrastination and just book the haircut.

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With Mother's Day around the corner, it's time to celebrate moms of all kinds, and step moms deserve some special recognition, too! If you're grappling with finding the perfect gift that expresses your love and gratitude for your step mom, these 20 gifts are the way to go. This curated list of thoughtful step mom gifts for Mother's Day will get you going on a gifting kick and make any step mom's heart swell with joy and appreciation. 💓

Rinna Beauty Larger Than Life Lip Plumping Oil

The glossiness of this lip oil alone will feel like a total gift! One swipe using the soft, sizable wand delivers a sheer tint of color, all while encouraging plumpness and moisture with its peptide formulation.

The Larger Than Life Lip Plumping Oil from Rinna Beauty comes in 5 other shades for $24 on Amazon.

Anthropologie Faye Planter

For the step mom with an undeniable green thumb, this decorative purple planter from Anthropologie makes repotting process super fun! Dotted in adorable outdoor creature and plant motifs, the pot is not only practical, but looks good, too. It measures about 8 inches in diameter to fit a variety of small house plants.

The Faye Planter is currently on sale for $31 (was $44) for a limited time.

Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Cotton Checkered Throw

She's gonna want to live in this cozy throw blanket 24/7. It's crafted from a blend of Barefoot Dreams' CozyChic material and a light cotton for added breathability. The light, neutral checkered pattern makes it the perfect match for any space!

This stylish throw, made to last a lifetime, goes for $148 from Barefoot Dreams.

DedCool Room & Linen Spray

Think of this spray as an instant refresh for any bedroom, bathroom, or living room, supplying a saturated scent of bergamot, vanilla, and amber. It's also compatible to spritz on sheets, blankets, and pillows to create a soothing atmosphere every time your step mom comes home!

The DedCool Room & Linen Spray comes in two other scents for $40.

Compartés Mother's Day Chocolate Flowers 20-Piece Truffle Gift Box

When all your other gift ideas fail, there's nothing wrong with chocolate! This truffle box is perfectly elevated to give as a standalone gift – it's impressively decorated and seamlessly packaged for a memorable Mother's Day treat. Some of the spring-inspired flavors included are: raspberry rose, lavender, poppy seed, and passionfruit.

The Mother's Day Chocolate Flowers gift box is $60 and comes with 20 gourmet truffles.

Fig.1 Ceramide Moisturizer

This moisturizer delivers 24-hour hydration with a dense formula of peptides, hyaluronic acid, squalane, and glycerin. It has a lightweight yet creamy feel, perfect for slathering on under SPF and makeup. Your step mom's skin will absolutely soak this clinically-proven cream up, and she'll be feeling like a new woman every single time she puts it on!

The Fig.1 Ceramide Moisturizer goes for $32 and is also refillable once it's fully used up.

Little Secret Round Sunglasses

Keep her lookin' so cool with a pair of trendy sunnies! This timeless style from Free People channels the 90's and makes for chic everyday eyewear with any outfit.

The Little Secret Round Sunglasses are shoppable in 5 other colors for $30.

The Pioneer Woman 3-Piece Floral Check Ceramic Lidded Bowl Set

Your step mom's serving, baking, and cooking projects just got such a stylish upgrade! This trio of checkered ceramic bowls designed by The Pioneer Woman make every dish look stunning, plus each one comes equipped with a decorative wooden lid for convenient storage.

This 3-piece bowl set goes for $33 at Walmart.

Sand + Fog Pistachio Dream Eau De Parfum Oil

This perfume oil can be used sparingly – meaning it'll last a long time – and delivers delicious notes of pistachio, vanilla, brown sugar, and cream to make step mom smell like a total treat. She won't want to go a day without putting some on!

This perfume is $13 at Marshall's.

Versed Total Package SPF 30 Body Lotion

This body lotion is really a 2-in-1 deal: hydrating and protective against the sun. It's packed with SPF 30 to give the skin a light shield against harmful UV rays, all while replenishing moisture with a delightfully-smelling mix of cupuaçu butter and grapeseed oil. It's not sticky or oily at all!

The Versed Total Package body lotion is $20 at Target.

Maeve Buckle Slide Sandals

These trendy slip-on sandals from Maeve are the epitome of cool girl style for summertime. Your step mom will be stepping out looking so good with these as a gift! The upper is made from durable leather, while the sole is a comfortable rubber material to withstand walking.

The Maeve Buckle Slide Sandals are shoppable in 4 other colors and are on sale for $104 (was $130) for a limited time.

Chamberlain Coffee Strawberry Matcha Latte Mix

Switch up her morning routine with this deliciously sweet matcha mix from Chamberlain Coffee! It's earthy, fruity, and made with oat milk for otherworldly creaminess. All it requires is some hot water, a good froth, and from there, your step mom can customize her sip with more milk or creamer.

This drink mix goes for $19 at Target.

L.L. Bean Open-Top Boat and Tote

This classic tote bag from L.L. Bean is the perfect vehicle for carrying work essentials, groceries, clothing, and more! It can be ordered in small, medium, large, or extra-large sizes, with the option for short or long straps.

This bag comes in 11 other colors. The small size is $30 and the extra-large is $45.

Ban.do Oven Mitt Pot Holder Set

For the step mom that loves all things colorful, this oven mitt + pot holder set will bring some joy into her kitchen set-up. Both are crafted from cotton with quilted stitching and feature small loops for easy hanging.

The duo is shoppable for $30 from Ban.do.

Auburn Home 3-Piece Glass Taper Candle Holders

These funky candle holders can go together as a set, or spread out around the house for a unique touch. Bundle them with some taper candles to complete the gift!

This colorful trio goes for $25 at Marshall's.

Verloop Raffia Phone Sling

Any on-the-go step mom will appreciate this convenient phone sling for its carrying capabilities, but it's also supremely stylish! The bright colorway is summertime's perfect match, so she can take it along for vacations and outdoor outings alike. The thin shoulder strap is adjustable in length so she can find the best fit for her needs.

The Verloop Raffia Phone Sling is shoppable in three other colors for $38.

Osea Bestsellers Bodycare Set

Gift sets are always a good bet if you're stuck on what to get your step mom for Mother's Day. This luxe 4-piece set from Osea comes complete with body butter, body oil, body balm, and body scrub (all inside a cute zip bag) so she can treat herself to a full-on spa day right at home!

The Osea Bestsellers Bodycare Set is $52 (a $78 value).

UrbanStems The Parade Bouquet

Flowers are welcome any time of year, but a gorgeous bouquet like this one is so fitting for Mother's Day. With UrbanStems, you can select a specific delivery date, and your step mom will receive a fresh grouping, ready to display at home!

The Parade Bouquet is $60, with the option to add a vase for $15+.

Material Kitchen The Cloud Pitcher

Whether it's used for a batched cocktail or a big serving of iced coffee, this stylish glass pitcher from Material Kitchen is a statement piece to be reckoned with. The glass is surprisingly light for transport, and it's dishwasher-safe for added convenience after the fact!

The Cloud Pitcher comes in three other colors for $95.

Ban.do Meal Planner

This meal planner pad is *the* way to keep track of what she'll make and when she's gonna eat it. It has three lines for each day of the week, plus a roomy list for ingredients she may be missing.

This meal planner is $15 from Ban.do and has 50 sheets.

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