Down the Shore, Everything’s All Right: 48 Hours in Spring Lake

Though the Jersey Shore may be the hallowed stomping ground of Bruce Springsteen, you don’t need to be born to run to appreciate its charm. (In fact, you can loathe any and all exercise whatsoever.) From vintage Americana along the boardwalk in Asbury Park to the idyllic 18-mile barrier island of Long Beach, New Jersey’s seaside towns are severely underrated. And so, for this edition of carless weekend travel, we’re focusing on the “Irish Riviera” of the New Jersey coast: Spring Lake.

A quick trip out of Manhattan, Spring Lake is accessible to New Yorkers via NJ Transit in less than two hours (an hour shorter than the train to Montauk, and infinitely less crowded). The painlessness of your journey will be sure to alleviate any Sunday scaries (a big departure from the fear and loathing of a packed weekend train back from the Hamptons, which only exacerbates anxiety). Unlike the crowded LIRR, you’ll actually have a place to sit on the (relatively brief) ride back into the city. This ease of travel allows many county residents to commute to New York, preferring their beach homes to city apartments, and after your first visit to the “Jewel of the Jersey Shore,” you’ll understand their reluctance to leave.

So read on to find out why down the shore, Sammi and Ronnie drama aside, everything’s all right. Better than all right, even — because while we wouldn’t dare question Bruce Springsteen’s soulful rendition of Tom Waits’ song, when it comes to the Jersey Shore, Spring Lake is the boss.

Where to Stay

Thanks to abundant Airbnb rental options throughout Spring Lake and neighboring boroughs, you can pretend to live (kind of) like The Boss. (Bruce Springsteen’s Colts Neck home is also located in Monmouth County, and he’s owned houses nearby for decades.) Capitalize on the plethora of beautiful Victorian homes by booking a stay along a picturesque, tree-lined street to see how the other half lives.

If something traditional is more your speed, The Breakers — located right across from the beach on Ocean Avenue — is a venerated Spring Lake hotel that was originally built in the late 1800s. From live piano music in the lounge to afternoon cocktails on a wraparound porch, this is Gilded Age decadence at its best. Another Spring Lake staple is The Chateau Inn & Suites, a boutique hotel located at the north end of “the lake” itself. Select suites at The Chateau include private porches with courtyards and outdoor seating (a real must in this town) that are perfect for a romantic weekend.

If you’re thinking of visiting between Memorial Day and Labor Day and interested in minimizing your post-happy-hour walk home, book a room at the Parker House. But plan ahead: Seasonal rooms sell out quickly, and they’re already taking submissions for the 2019 waiting list.

Where to Eat & Drink

Start your day like a local with ham, egg, and cheese on a roll at Ray’s Café on Third Ave (this Jersey Shore institution also has a location in Sea Girt). The Taylor ham (or pork roll) breakfast sandwich is the unofficial sandwich of the Garden State. If you didn’t order one when visiting North Jersey, did you even really cross over the state line? If you’re more interested in sweets in the morning, head to The Scone Pony for pastries — it’s named for The Stone Pony, the bar in Asbury Park where Bruce Springsteen got his start. (We love a good pun.)

Before heading to the beach, visit Joe’s Deli or Tom Bailey’s to pick up sandwiches. While you can’t go wrong with either, for the ultimate authentic Italian deli, we recommend Joe’s. Another bonus: Joe’s is located right next to Egan’s Wine & Liquors, so you can pick up refreshments along the way. With their slogan “We take the snob out of wine,” Egan’s is the place to go in Spring Lake to pick up your wine/tequila/beer keg at a reasonable price. (The store also has an outpost in Sea Girt.) If for some reason you’re in need of an alcohol backup plan, head to the Bottle Shop.

Happy hour at the Parker House is an esteemed tradition on Saturday and Sunday afternoons: The Victorian-home-turned-bar has been operating for over a century, since 1848. This bar in neighboring Sea Girt bar is the local answer to The Surf Lodge in Montauk as the place to see and be seen, although the attire and the ambiance here are far more casual. The scene is just as lively, however: “Who Needs the Hamptons When You Have the Parker House?” asked The New York Times in an August 2017 article about the bar’s nightly debauchery. Take advantage of the drink and raw bar specials (including $5 beer and $3 oysters, depending on the day), but remember to bring cash. All the bars in the Parker House (“P House” to locals) are cash only.

For New Yorkers used to a 4am last call, the Spring Lake Tap House is the spot to hit after the Parker House closes at midnight. Formerly the site of now-closed The Porch, the Tap House often hosts talented local musicians, and — best of all — you can order a pizza at the bar to bring with you on your walk home. We have a feeling this is one late-night offering that the cast of Jersey Shore would appreciate.

Speaking of Jersey Shore, if you want to party on their level, then look no further than Bar Anticipation (known as “Bar A” by locals). It’s aptly named, since it luckily lives up to its own hype as the place “where summer never ends.” This nightlife institution in nearby Lake Como feels light-years from the sophistication of Spring Lake, though it’s only a three-minute drive away. But occasionally, a Sunday of techno and bottle service at a Vegas-style pool party is exactly what “tramps like us” need. (Yes, Bruce Springsteen references are always relevant when writing about New Jersey.)

Not content to fill up on shellfish, pizza, and drafts? Then book a table at Larimar Restaurant for dinner — it makes for the perfect date spot, and its Italian, French, and other European-influenced fare is delicious (order the seafood, of course). If you’re visiting in December, be sure to make a dinner reservation, if only to enjoy the whimsical Christmas decor. And a visit to Spring Lake definitely isn’t complete without some saltwater taffy, the iconic boardwalk food of the Jersey Shore. So head to the Third Avenue Chocolate Shoppe (also a few miles south in Manasquan) for this chewy snack after a day at the beach.

What to Do

We’ve talked about coastal getaways in New England and the Hamptons, but what about New Jersey? The gorgeous, pristine beaches of Spring Lake are equally as Insta-worthy as their northern competitors. Stroll along the boardwalk early in the morning to catch a breathtaking sunrise along the two-mile stretch of beaches that comprise the borough’s eastern shores. The longest non-commercial boardwalk in New Jersey, it’s never too busy for joggers or bikers, even at the height of the summer season. For travelers in the transition from summer to fall, the ocean remains warm into late September, and a trip in the off-season will capitalize on the smaller crowds. Though the public beaches are a dream, if you have an opportunity to visit the members-only Spring Lake Bath and Tennis Club (known to locals as “the B&T”), by all means, do so. Capitalize on the invitation by enjoying afternoon cocktails (and social hour) on the East Deck at day’s end.

Rent a bike to cruise from the beach to the restaurants and shops if you’re keen to indulge in some retail therapy. Bare Wires Surf Shop on Third Ave is perfect for all of your beach needs, while Waterlily is a boutique offering fashionable looks suitable both on and off the boardwalk. The clothing and accessory shop is located up and down the Jersey Shore, with locations also in Manasquan and Bay Head.

If you’re visiting in December, you’ll be pleasantly surprised to discover that Larimar’s isn’t the only Spring Lake institution indulging in the holiday spirit. Check out the Candlelight Christmas Inn and House Tour, and buy tickets for Scrooge at the Spring Lake Theatre (an annual tradition for well over three decades).

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College and high school graduations are just around the corner, and you may be wondering what to get your favorite Gen Z grads. Luckily for you, we compiled a list of 15 fabulous graduation gifts for every price range that are guaranteed to put a smile on your graduate’s face!

Set of 4 Meal Prep Containers

Who doesn’t love pretty Tupperware? Whether your 2024 grad is a gym rat or a library lover, they will definitely find a good use for these air-tight, leak-proof containers.

Benevolence LA New Beginnings Scented Soy Candle

Send them off with this sweet-scented candle that celebrates their achievements, as well as the next steps ahead of them!

A Hundred Other Girlsby Iman Hariri-Kia

This book is like a modern day Devil Wears Prada, and would make the perfect gift for any grad going into journalism, media, or PR — especially if they’re moving to a big city.

Stanley Quencher H2.0

Hydration is key for anyone, especially a new college student that's running between classes, club meetings, and friend hangs! This tumbler will also keep their liquids cold overnight so they don't have to go down the dorm hall in the middle of the night for a fresh refill.

Dagne Dover Mila Repreve® Recycled Polyester Large Toiletry Organizer Bag

If you're sending off a high school grad to communal dorms, they'll definitely benefit from having a compact toiletry bag like this one. This style is particularly nice since it's made from recycled polyester that resists water and debris.

2024 Daily Planner

Using a planner is such an underrated way to stay organized, whether it's prepping for college coursework or adulting stuff like work events, grocery shopping, and plans with friends. This all-in-one daily planner will help your grad keep their ducks in a row with fields for all of life's details.

Honeywell Mini Cool Mist Humidifier

This humidifier, made especially for small rooms and personal spaces (ahem, dorm rooms!) helps maintain humidity levels between 40-60%, which can help relieve congestion and keep the throat and nasal passages hydrated to prevent sickness. This is crucial for soon-to-be college students who may hang around a lot of different people.​

Fresh Sends Flower Bouquet

Flowers are a staple for any major life event, especially a graduation! Fresh Sends is perfect for sending beautiful bouquets for those who live far away, since they ship directly to the recipient's door.

The Beast Mini Blender

This super-effective, high-power portable blender is the perfect size for a dorm room or small apartment, plus it's very aesthetically-pleasing even if it's just sitting on the shelf. It comes equipped with a screw-on lid and straw, too, so your grad can take it on walks and in the car.

Béis The Sport Backpack

Perfect for grads on the go, this bag can hold their water bottle, phone, wallet and so much more when they're trekking across campus.

Loop Quiet Equinox Earplugs

These design-forward earplugs are multipurpose – they block out extra noise for study sessions and sleep time, or even loud parties and concerts! Your grad will appreciate that they come with an easy-to-carry case for keeping them on-hand in unforeseen, noisy situations.

Crush Your Goals Inner Truth Affirmations Deck

For an extra dose of motivation, this 40-count deck of cards will keep them going when times get tough!

Keurig K-Mini Single-Serve K-Cup Pod Coffee Maker

Coffee will ​always ​be a part of any new grad's life. Keep 'em caffeinated with this convenient coffee maker that's compatible with K-Cups for everyday ease.

Hoka Clifton 9 Sneakers

Hokas are undoubtedly the cool girl of running shoes, and they will definitely make your grad hit the pavement smiling, no matter if they're stepping foot on their college campus for the first time or making big moves in a new city.

Great Jones The Starting Lineup

This trio of cookware is such a stylish way to give your recipient's post-grad kitchen an upgrade. All three pieces are oven-safe and dishwasher-friendly to make cleanup a breeze.

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I have such a love/hate relationship with haircuts. While I love the feeling of a fresh look as much as the next girl, I hate having to spend $100+ for a simple cut and blow dry session. During my recent trim, I talked with my hairdresser, Jack Rehak of Jack’s Hair Design in Hinsdale, Illinois, about ways to keep a haircut looking new and best practices for keeping hair healthy. Here's what he had to say!

Here's How Often You Should Cut Your Hair, According To Professionals

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I’ll admit it — it had been eight months since my last haircut. My hair had lost its shape, my layers were nowhere to be found, and my ends were begging for mercy. Life got busy over the last few months and I was neglecting my haircare like never before.

My hairdresser could immediately see that I was beyond due for a cut and said I needed to get more taken off than I was hoping. I was definitely disappointed — I'd been working on growing out my hair for a while now, and it just felt like my hard work had completely gone to waste. He explained that getting consistent haircuts is the key to growing out healthy and strong hair, rather than letting it grow and grow until it eventually breaks. So let's dig into the top three things you can do to avoid this scenario!

1. Just Get The Dang Haircut

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Also avoiding a haircut like I was? You might want to schedule one at your nearest salon. Like my stylist said, when you wait too long between trims like I did, you risk your hair becoming heavy, dull, and lifeless. When the hair is dry or even dead, it’s nearly impossible for it to hold a curl or style, essentially collapsing on you and taking on more and more heat damage all the while. I know the pain of spending time on a blowout only for it to fall minutes later — it’s the worst.

According to Jack, getting a haircut every 10-12 weeks is the best time frame or your ends will pay the price. Between blow-drying, curling, straightening, sun, and weather, our ends get dry and start to break without the proper care. Getting consistent haircuts allows hair to bounce back, shine, and perform the way we want in a healthy way.

2. Leave-In Conditioners Are Your Friend

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His top piece of advice to keep your hair looking and feeling hydrated between trims? Invest in conditioning treatments. Jack swears by the Olaplex conditioning system, specifically the No 3 Hair Perfector. Made with patented OLAPLEX Bond Building Technology™, this conditioning treatment repairs and prevents damage in as little as three minutes. No 3 promises to reduce breakage and visibly strengthen hair, so it’s the perfect assistance to keep ends fresh between cuts. Another conditioning treatments I’ve used and loved for years is the Moroccanoil Intense Hydrating Mask, which is designed to restore moisture, elasticity, and shine to dry hair.

3. Switch Up Your Shampoos

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Switching shampoos frequently is a pretty hot tip that I honestly hadn't thought of. Our hair gets used to the same products and grows tired of them, resulting in lackluster locks. Jack’s advice is to switch brands after finishing every bottle of shampoo to bring life back to your hair. Have two brands that you’re loyal to? Even switching back and forth between them after every bottle should make a big difference in your hair. I’m a huge fan of the R+Co Dallas Biotin Thickening Shampoo, which makes my hair look thick and full, as well as the Moroccanoil Hydrating Shampoo, which is so hydrating and gives so much shine.

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In the end, navigating your back-and-forth relationship with haircuts often feels like a rollercoaster ride between wanting that fresh look and cringing at the receipt. Luckily, by using conditioning treatments and switching up your products,, you can keep your locks healthy, shiny, and full of life between trims. But take a newly learned lesson out of my book: don't let your ends pay the price for procrastination and just book the haircut.

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With Mother's Day around the corner, it's time to celebrate moms of all kinds, and step moms deserve some special recognition, too! If you're grappling with finding the perfect gift that expresses your love and gratitude for your step mom, these 20 gifts are the way to go. This curated list of thoughtful step mom gifts for Mother's Day will get you going on a gifting kick and make any step mom's heart swell with joy and appreciation. 💓

Rinna Beauty Larger Than Life Lip Plumping Oil

The glossiness of this lip oil alone will feel like a total gift! One swipe using the soft, sizable wand delivers a sheer tint of color, all while encouraging plumpness and moisture with its peptide formulation.

The Larger Than Life Lip Plumping Oil from Rinna Beauty comes in 5 other shades for $24 on Amazon.

Anthropologie Faye Planter

For the step mom with an undeniable green thumb, this decorative purple planter from Anthropologie makes repotting process super fun! Dotted in adorable outdoor creature and plant motifs, the pot is not only practical, but looks good, too. It measures about 8 inches in diameter to fit a variety of small house plants.

The Faye Planter is currently on sale for $31 (was $44) for a limited time.

Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Cotton Checkered Throw

She's gonna want to live in this cozy throw blanket 24/7. It's crafted from a blend of Barefoot Dreams' CozyChic material and a light cotton for added breathability. The light, neutral checkered pattern makes it the perfect match for any space!

This stylish throw, made to last a lifetime, goes for $148 from Barefoot Dreams.

DedCool Room & Linen Spray

Think of this spray as an instant refresh for any bedroom, bathroom, or living room, supplying a saturated scent of bergamot, vanilla, and amber. It's also compatible to spritz on sheets, blankets, and pillows to create a soothing atmosphere every time your step mom comes home!

The DedCool Room & Linen Spray comes in two other scents for $40.

Compartés Mother's Day Chocolate Flowers 20-Piece Truffle Gift Box

When all your other gift ideas fail, there's nothing wrong with chocolate! This truffle box is perfectly elevated to give as a standalone gift – it's impressively decorated and seamlessly packaged for a memorable Mother's Day treat. Some of the spring-inspired flavors included are: raspberry rose, lavender, poppy seed, and passionfruit.

The Mother's Day Chocolate Flowers gift box is $60 and comes with 20 gourmet truffles.

Fig.1 Ceramide Moisturizer

This moisturizer delivers 24-hour hydration with a dense formula of peptides, hyaluronic acid, squalane, and glycerin. It has a lightweight yet creamy feel, perfect for slathering on under SPF and makeup. Your step mom's skin will absolutely soak this clinically-proven cream up, and she'll be feeling like a new woman every single time she puts it on!

The Fig.1 Ceramide Moisturizer goes for $32 and is also refillable once it's fully used up.

Little Secret Round Sunglasses

Keep her lookin' so cool with a pair of trendy sunnies! This timeless style from Free People channels the 90's and makes for chic everyday eyewear with any outfit.

The Little Secret Round Sunglasses are shoppable in 5 other colors for $30.

The Pioneer Woman 3-Piece Floral Check Ceramic Lidded Bowl Set

Your step mom's serving, baking, and cooking projects just got such a stylish upgrade! This trio of checkered ceramic bowls designed by The Pioneer Woman make every dish look stunning, plus each one comes equipped with a decorative wooden lid for convenient storage.

This 3-piece bowl set goes for $33 at Walmart.

Sand + Fog Pistachio Dream Eau De Parfum Oil

This perfume oil can be used sparingly – meaning it'll last a long time – and delivers delicious notes of pistachio, vanilla, brown sugar, and cream to make step mom smell like a total treat. She won't want to go a day without putting some on!

This perfume is $13 at Marshall's.

Versed Total Package SPF 30 Body Lotion

This body lotion is really a 2-in-1 deal: hydrating and protective against the sun. It's packed with SPF 30 to give the skin a light shield against harmful UV rays, all while replenishing moisture with a delightfully-smelling mix of cupuaçu butter and grapeseed oil. It's not sticky or oily at all!

The Versed Total Package body lotion is $20 at Target.

Maeve Buckle Slide Sandals

These trendy slip-on sandals from Maeve are the epitome of cool girl style for summertime. Your step mom will be stepping out looking so good with these as a gift! The upper is made from durable leather, while the sole is a comfortable rubber material to withstand walking.

The Maeve Buckle Slide Sandals are shoppable in 4 other colors and are on sale for $104 (was $130) for a limited time.

Chamberlain Coffee Strawberry Matcha Latte Mix

Switch up her morning routine with this deliciously sweet matcha mix from Chamberlain Coffee! It's earthy, fruity, and made with oat milk for otherworldly creaminess. All it requires is some hot water, a good froth, and from there, your step mom can customize her sip with more milk or creamer.

This drink mix goes for $19 at Target.

L.L. Bean Open-Top Boat and Tote

This classic tote bag from L.L. Bean is the perfect vehicle for carrying work essentials, groceries, clothing, and more! It can be ordered in small, medium, large, or extra-large sizes, with the option for short or long straps.

This bag comes in 11 other colors. The small size is $30 and the extra-large is $45.

Ban.do Oven Mitt Pot Holder Set

For the step mom that loves all things colorful, this oven mitt + pot holder set will bring some joy into her kitchen set-up. Both are crafted from cotton with quilted stitching and feature small loops for easy hanging.

The duo is shoppable for $30 from Ban.do.

Auburn Home 3-Piece Glass Taper Candle Holders

These funky candle holders can go together as a set, or spread out around the house for a unique touch. Bundle them with some taper candles to complete the gift!

This colorful trio goes for $25 at Marshall's.

Verloop Raffia Phone Sling

Any on-the-go step mom will appreciate this convenient phone sling for its carrying capabilities, but it's also supremely stylish! The bright colorway is summertime's perfect match, so she can take it along for vacations and outdoor outings alike. The thin shoulder strap is adjustable in length so she can find the best fit for her needs.

The Verloop Raffia Phone Sling is shoppable in three other colors for $38.

Osea Bestsellers Bodycare Set

Gift sets are always a good bet if you're stuck on what to get your step mom for Mother's Day. This luxe 4-piece set from Osea comes complete with body butter, body oil, body balm, and body scrub (all inside a cute zip bag) so she can treat herself to a full-on spa day right at home!

The Osea Bestsellers Bodycare Set is $52 (a $78 value).

UrbanStems The Parade Bouquet

Flowers are welcome any time of year, but a gorgeous bouquet like this one is so fitting for Mother's Day. With UrbanStems, you can select a specific delivery date, and your step mom will receive a fresh grouping, ready to display at home!

The Parade Bouquet is $60, with the option to add a vase for $15+.

Material Kitchen The Cloud Pitcher

Whether it's used for a batched cocktail or a big serving of iced coffee, this stylish glass pitcher from Material Kitchen is a statement piece to be reckoned with. The glass is surprisingly light for transport, and it's dishwasher-safe for added convenience after the fact!

The Cloud Pitcher comes in three other colors for $95.

Ban.do Meal Planner

This meal planner pad is *the* way to keep track of what she'll make and when she's gonna eat it. It has three lines for each day of the week, plus a roomy list for ingredients she may be missing.

This meal planner is $15 from Ban.do and has 50 sheets.

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