Being a working mom gets a bad rap. Even though it can feel like you鈥檙e racing around from the moment you wake up until the wee hours of the night, working can actually make you a better parent. Not convinced? (After all, if you stay home you鈥檒l have more time and attention to give the littles.) Let go of your guilt about not being home 24/7, and check out these ways that working can have a positive effect on your mom-ing skills.

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1. It hones your organizational abilities.聽Parenting in general requires a skillful degree of organization. But, depending on your job, you may be building these much-needed abilities during the workday as well. Whether you鈥檙e writing reports, setting up a new office billing system, conducting the weekly employee meeting, or doing any number of other work-related tasks, you鈥檙e honing excellent organizational skills that you can easily take home.

2. It teaches you to communicate with kindness.聽Talking to your toddler isn鈥檛 always easy. Young children are notoriously all about the 鈥淚.鈥 This means the inability to take no for an answer, petty bickering among sibs, and a me-first attitude. While your job might include days filled with sweet, generous, easy-going clients and coworkers, chances are that at some point in your career you鈥檒l have to deal with difficult people. How you handle these not-so-easy-to-get-along-with adults can breed skills that will help you communicate with your tot.

3. It can help fulfill you. Yes, you鈥檙e a mama. But that鈥檚 not all. It鈥檚 easy to get lost in the parenting world and start to think that you鈥檙e nothing more than a caretaker responsible for breastfeeding, behavior management, and all things 鈥渒id.鈥 The feeling of fulfillment your job offers can make you a better person. And that makes you an even better mom.

4. It establishes a helpful routine.聽Because of your work schedule,聽Monday through Friday looks the same for you 鈥 week after week. Some people see this as monotonous. But you see it as聽creating a steady routine. Without the structure that the workday forces you into, you might not have everything from the morning meal to bedtime down to the perfectly-running system you鈥檝e now built.

5. It makes you appreciate time with your child.聽Just about every aunt and grandparent wrote, 鈥淐herish these moments, they鈥檒l go by too quickly,鈥 in your baby shower guest book. Now that you鈥檙e a mama, it鈥檚 easy to let the little things slip by. But not if you spend 40+ hours a week at work. When you鈥檙e with your child, you鈥檙e WITH your child. The less time you have to spend together, the more likely you are to make the most of it.

6. It can alleviate financial stress.聽Sure, working at a full-time job on top of your parenting job can create a lot of stressful situations. But when it comes to finances, you might feel some of that anxiety lift. Finances are a major source of tension, and on only one income, you may have to make unwanted cut-backs. Adding a second income to the household can alleviate some of the financial stress, making you a more relaxed and present parent.

7. It helps build patience.聽Your toddler is demanding yet another sippy cup of juice. And you kind of can鈥檛 take yet another impatient request. But wait! You don鈥檛 have to. You get to leave the house and go to work 鈥 at least for part of the day. Even though work isn鈥檛 exactly a vacation, it does give you a break from tyrannical tantrums and weeks鈥 worth of whining (that is, unless you count your boss鈥檚 behavior). That daily break gives you a parental recharge that just might result in an increased patience level when you get home.

8. You set a positive example.聽Someone is watching you. Your mini-me notices everything that you do, including the fact that you work. Having a job that you enjoy and do well sets a positive example of what a woman can do, be, and accomplish.

9. You teach your child how to be independent.聽Teaching your child to develop into an independent person is your job as a parent. While you might want to take care of everything for them and coddle your kiddo, this won鈥檛 breed the skills they鈥檒l need someday. Whether your child goes to daycare, has a nanny, or hangs with the neighbors while you鈥檙e at work, they鈥檒l start building independence when you鈥檙e away at the office all day.

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