Your Bedroom Registry Gift Guide for the Ultimate Relaxation Station

Melissa Paniagua
Jun 29, 2016

Setting up your wedding registry can be one of the most exciting and fun projects of your wedding planning experience. After all, your wedding is the *perfect* time to treat yourself, and there’s no better way to indulge than creating the ultimate relaxation station with your S.O. But there are more than a few essentials to crafting the ideal space for catching some ZZZs. If you still have no clue where to start, here are a few ideas and some style inspo to create the bedroom of your dreams. We promise it’ll make your bedroom registry process as smooth and stress-free as possible, and you’ll end up with items that pair together and you both truly love.

1. Personalized Helix Mattress ($600+): Forget buying a regular ol’ mattress with your sweetie. A personalized mattress is the way to go nowadays. Think: a new, personal type of comfort for each of you. Go ahead and add it to your registry. You’ll never want to get up.

2. Parachute Linen Stripe Duvet Cover Set ($329): Featuring a totally calming striped pattern, this duvet cover set is *made* for bedroom relaxation. Plus, it’s super comfy. The fabric has a softened feel that will only get better with time.

3. Cultiver Linen Flat Sheet With Border ($130): Cultiver makes the softest, lightest linen bedding — the kind that always feels like it was air-dried in the countryside. After sleeping in them, you’re not going to want to get out of bed.

4. Soak and Sleep Luxury Duck Down Pillow ($41): Get yourself ready for the ultimate sleep by adding luxe down pillows to your list. Good pillows stuffed with 60% duck down will be plump and robust, giving you the right support for a better sleep. It will seriously change your life!

5. SLIP Embroidered Silk Queen Pillowcases ($80): When registering for bedding, you’ll cover all the basics like sheets, shams and duvets, but upgrading your pillowcases to silk will change your bedding game for sure. They will hydrate your skin and keep frizz at bay — totally worth it.

6. Nest Learning Thermostat ($249): Along with your usual bedroom items, you’re going to want new technology. If you haven’t updated your thermostat in quite some time or if you and your sweetie are moving into a new place together, you’ll definitely want this on your list.

7. Urban Outfitters Ladder Printed Rug ($149): This printed rug in all-over geo design is seriously the prettiest. Made from soft cotton and complete with fringe for a total boho look, it’ll be perfect for your sleeping area.

8. Lana Extra Soft Cotton Slippers ($82): Say goodbye to cold feet (even after the wedding’s over) with a quality pair of comfy slippers. If you’re looking for even more comfort, make sure the ones you get are fully lined in luxurious shearling.

9. Tina Crespo Salt Water Cure Art Print ($26+): Yes, you can definitely add your favorite prints to your wedding registry. This one comes in different sizes so you can go as big or little as you want. Soon enough you’ll have a lovely curated gallery wall that you’ll love waking up to.

10. Custom Crest by Rachel Rogers ($500+): Ready to treat yourselves? Ask for a super unique and personalized crest. If you already have an artist in your family, ask them to create it! They’ll love the thoughtfulness of the request and you’ll end up with a piece to pass down for centuries.

11. Frankie Nightstand ($199): Bring a bit of mid-century style into your sleeping station with these antique brass nightstands. The clean design will make sure you keep it clutter-free so you and your sweetie can relax all night long.

12. Rico Espinet Churchill Shaded Sconce, Aged Brass ($340): Functional and sophisticated, this modern accent lamp will take any room to the next level. The pretty aged brass metal of this lamp will make for a cute and stylish addition to any mid-century bedroom.

13. C by GE Starter Pack ($70): You’ll want to add these super cool light bulbs to your list, stat. They give you all levels of brightness you need throughout the day and you can control them from your smartphone — because there is an app for everything, after all.

14. Mythical Feather Tray ($24): While most lamps and nightstands appear on almost all registry lists, accessories like this pretty tray are often overlooked and should not be left behind. Choose one that matches your style to display your favorite scents.

15. MAISON MARGIELA Lazy Sunday Morning Candle ($60): For those nights when you and your love just need the utmost R&R, you will definitely want to have luxe candles on hand. We’re big fans of this Lazy Sunday Morning candle — the name alone will remind you of a sun-drenched morning of relaxation.

16. The Bouqs Co. Regular Delivery Subscription ($32+): We know that you’re already adding the best nightstand accessories to your registry, but how awesome would it be to also have fresh flowers in your room on a weekly basis? Totally Insta-worthy all. The. Time.

17. Ring Dish in White With Gold Splatters and Gold Rim ($32): These pretty little porcelain dishes feature handmade ivory glaze splattered with genuine gold. Plus, they’re perfectly sized for holding your favorite sparkly rings and other tiny things.

18. Himalayan Salt Lamp ($34): Can you say ah-mazing? This Himalayan salt lamp is crafted from 100% natural salt. You’ll want at least one on each side of the bed to make sure you get enough of this unique piece. Try using different color bulbs for an awesome lighting effect.

19. Withings Aura Connected Alarm Clock ($189+): You might not consider this part of the norm when adding things to your registry, but it’s totally fair to get techy if you’re trying to sleep like a baby. Best part? You can connect it to your Spotify account and other web radio streams.

20. Cloud Cover Wallpaper ($228): Walls need love too! Wallpaper is a great way to add a little extravagance to your bedroom look, and this soothing design will take you to cloud nine in seconds. Pun intended.

21. Marpac Dohm Original Sound Conditioner™ ($50): If you and your sweetie are trying to sleep like a baby, this white noise machine will be your BFF. Plug it in, turn it on and block everything else out while you’re in the room.

22. Handwoven Moroccan Basket ($75+): This rustic open storage basket will feel like a personalized assistant, keeping everything in your bedroom (and beyond!) organized. They’re big, floppy and can easily hold blankets, linens and even your laundry.

23. Sea Foam Alpaca Throw ($115): Throws are a bedroom basic, but just like linens, you’ll want to include these essential items on your wedding registry. Thin and lightweight yet extremely warm, these throws will totally keep you company in the summer and wintertime.

24. Matte Velvet Curtain ($248+): Bring relaxing vibes to your windows with this stunning matte velvet curtain that comes in teal, light grey and white. It’s an easy way to add a pop of color to your room without being too bright.

25. Geometrist Chimes ($78): Here’s a whimsy wind machine for your bedroom. Hang them anywhere near a window and simply enjoy the dim and subtle sound. It’ll be a lovely sight for your eyes and music to your ears.

26. PureSpa Natural Aromatherapy Oil Diffuser ($50): The only thing better than a relaxing evening is adding essential oils into the air for you to breathe in. Personalize it by choosing your favorite oils. You will definitely feel super serene spa vibes with this addition.

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6 Crazy "Outer Banks" Opinions That Would Totally Change The Show

I'll admit out of the many teen dramas I've consumed, Outer Banks is one of the most ridiculous. But the insanity surrounding the plot is half the reason it's enjoyable! John B. wrestling an alligator with his bare hands? Kiara getting kidnapped then making a daring escape in her PJ's? John B. and Sarah getting married (kind of) by the power of "the sky, the stars, and the sea" after escaping the SBI?

Considering my favorite fan theory for the future is that Madelyn Cline's Sarah and Rudy Pankow's JJ learn they're secret siblings, I know the crazy train isn't slowing down anytime soon. I took to Reddit to find the wildest Outer Bankshot takes and I was not disappointed. Keep reading to see if you agree with any!

JJ and Kiara Never Should Have Happened

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While JJ and Kiara is one of the most popular ships on the show, a lot of Outer Banks fans think the "no Pogue-on-Pogue macking" rule from the pilot should have stayed in effect. The individual romances between Kiara and JJ, John B., and Pope make the story really messy, and the fact the show writes Kiara to be with all three of them in the span of three years gives a lot of viewers the ick.

I'll be team #Jiara forever (and literally screamed when The Backseat Lovers' "Kilby Girl" started playing during the motorcycle ride in season 3), but I'll say it would incredibly compelling to see a friend group take care of each other as much as the Pogues do without ever crossing over into romantic territory. That's found family, after all!

Pope Should Have Ditched The Treasure Hunt

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One Reddit user is convinced that "Pope should’ve focused on his future in school instead of giving everything up to search for treasure." And TBH, I totally agree.

In season 1, Pope has a breakthrough about the hidden treasure in the middle of his scholarship interview. He ditches the scholarship committee to tell the rest of the Pogues, throwing away a crazy educational opportunity. Pope beats himself up for it, and his parents definitely aren't pleased, but at least it meant he got to stay in the show instead of leaving for college, which leads me to...

Outer Banks Should Have Started With The Pogues In Their 20s

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As one of the only people alive who loves the post-time jump One Tree Hill, I would have loved to see OBX start off with the characters in their 20s (although it looks like that's where Outer Banks season 4 will pick up!). This would eliminate SO MANY problems from the jump because the Pogues wouldn't have to worry about missing school, they'd be more self-sufficient, and instead of being the same old high school drama, it could have provided a commentary on figuring out life in your 20s the same way Friends did.

Rafe Shouldn't Have Any Kind Of Redemption Arc In Outer Banks Season 4

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Drew Starkey the man that you are. According to one Reddit user, "Rafe should not have a love interest or a redemption arc" like we see in season 3. We spent all of season 1 and season 2 establishing that Rafe (played by Drew) would do anything it took to get what he wanted (including one successful murder and two other attempts?!). He shows next to no remorse for his actions, and exploring his literal psychopathic tendencies would take the show to a whole new level.

Big John Should Never Have Returned

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John B.'s dad's disappearance is the catalyst for the Pogues' journey at the beginning of Outer Banks, and Big John's return means the story feels somewhat repetitive in the third season, and it undoes a lot of the growth we've seen from John B. Plus, Big John is just SO chaotic, selfish, and dramatic. If he had truly died in season 1, we could have seen John B. wrestle with that finality, and how to cope with loss in the face of finding the treasure and falling in love with Sarah.

And Finally, Outer Banks Should Have Ended After Season 1

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Outer Banks season 1 was exactly what we needed at the height of the pandemic. It was escapist — both in terms of the beach vacation vibes, but also because the '00s aesthetic took us right back to simpler times — and it had such a wonderfully resolved finale that some fans think nothing has matched it.

Do you agree with any of these Outer Banks opinions? I'm such a romance fan, I don't know what I'd do if the show didn't have JJ and Kiara get together! Check out all the best New TV Shows coming this year for more.

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Mariska Hargitay’s Powerful “Me Too” Message Proves She’s Olivia Benson IRL

Mariska Hargitay is the woman of the hour anywhere she goes, with her iconic Law & Order: SVUrole as Olivia Benson under her belt for the last 25 years. The character is an absolute advocate to women — and assault victims of any gender — through her words, actions, and powerful convictions of each perpetrator on the show. She takes great care with her victims and pursues perpetrators with fervor, and slowly as you watch the show..the line blurs between Olivia and Mariska.

This isn't anything new — just recently Mariska literally stopped production on the show to help a child (who mistook her for an actual police officer) find her mom. It's just who Mariska is. She walks the walk and talks the talk — including during her speech at Variety's Power of Women's Power of Women event.

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As a Power of Women honoree, Mariska was recognized in regards to her work as an advocate for sexual assault survivors. She took the stage and used her platform to discuss rape and assault conviction reversals, shining a light on the recent overturned ruling in Harvey Weinstein's landmark NYC case. Here's what she said:

Today I want to talk about reversing convictions, and more specifically I want to talk to you about how impossible it is to reverse mine. It’s impossible to reverse my conviction that survivors matter. It is impossible to reverse my conviction that what happens to us matters, and that our society must respond to survivors with a more a compassionate, holistically, deeper, and more nuanced understanding of what healing means.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that after a trauma, survivors can reclaim lives of hope, of possibility, of audacious risk, beautiful intimacy, and glorious, glorious abundant joy. And I stand before you as evidence of that statement.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that we must listen to survivors as experts on what justice means. It is extraordinary how little their voices are consulted, let alone incorporated, in the process of deciding how to repair harm. Justice is not a one-size-fits-all journey.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that patriarchal impunity has to end. Patriarchal impunity is when a male-dominated system exempts perpetrators from punishment. Studies show that only 20% of all rape cases in the U.S. are reported to the police, and that between 5 and 0% of all rapes result in a guilty plea or a conviction. So why do 80% of victims not report? Because they're met with a system that grants impunity to perpetrators; a system that blames victims; a system that accepts only those victims who are experienced as "real" rape; a system that completely misunderstands the neurobiology of trauma, which causes behavior in women that doesn't fit the picture of how a "real victim" would act.

Is that change needed that victims should just pull themselves together? Just buck up and report anyway? No. No, it's the system that receives them that needs to change

It is impossible to reverse my conviction — and the conviction of my extraordinary team, The Joyful Heart — that the backlog of untested rape kits can be brought to zero; that the testing of all new kits must be mandated; that we need a statewide kit tracking system; and that survivors have the right to access the status of their kits.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that grammar — yes, grammar — that we use when we speak about rape must change. In the sentence, "A woman is raped," there's a crime and there's a victim, but there's no perpetrator. Where's the perpetrator? Where is he? Statistically, as we know, most likely he's walking free. He's so free that he doesn't even appear in the language about the crime that he committed. Is that not extraordinary? It's extraordinary that in the very grammar, the perpetrator goes free. Reintroducing perpetrators in the language of rape will make some very unwieldy grammar, but that's the nature of change. It's unwieldy, it's messy, it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary.

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Hargitay continued on in her prolific speech to describe that rape shouldn't be considered a "crime of passion" because it's "not simply the next step in the trajectory of his passion" when a man takes a consensual hookup too far and assaults a woman against her will. She stated that it's "an exercise of power," doubling down that the language we use is important.

The speech went on to address that rape is both about power and control, as a "construct" that was "built, and assembled, and reinforced over time." She noted that there are people with these positions of power — and she specifically called out those in the entertainment industry — that could make a difference and aligned themselves to victims and survivors.

After this and some other remarks, Hargitay specifically called out the Weinstein conviction reversal. She said:

I do want to say something about the Harvey Weinstein conviction, specifically about the reason that it was overturned: too many women's voices. Too many women's voices were allowed to speak. Hallelujah! Amen! I can't imagine anything more beautiful than that. The Daily podcast episode talked about how it was so risky for the prosecution to have that many women testify. Risky to let women speak? You're damn right it is!

Too many women speaking brings change. Too many women speaking shakes the establishment. Too many women means we get listened to more, and people might actually hear what we have to say. Look what happened when women started saying just two words, right? Me too — just as an example — a tidal wave of change. Me too.

And then of course, there was the response: the Me Too Movement. The backlash. The examination of whether the changes that have come are lasting, or are even positive. Of course there's a backlash! What did they expect? For women to speak repeatedly, loudly, together, with a purpose — for there to be no backlash? The backlash is evidence of how powerful those voices were, how powerful those voices ARE.

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Mariska Hargitay's Gets Emotional as She Thanks Her Support System and the Women Around Her

Turns out that your TV heroes really can be your IRL heroes after all. Long live Olivia Benson! Long live Mariska Hargitay!

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Here’s When You Can Watch “Emily in Paris” Season 4

After Emily in Paris season 3 dropped on Netflix in December of 2022, we were hoping to get the fourth installment of the hit show in 2023. But production halted when the WGA writers' strike, then the SAG-AFTRA actors' strike went to affect, and our beloved cast and crew campaigned for better wages and industry protection. But with the end of the writers' strike, and new SAG negotiations, Emily in Paris season 4 finally began production in February 2024 — and I can already tell you there's sure to be plenty of drama and French fashion this time around.

Not only will we see Emily in Paris (see what I did there?!) but she's also pulling an Audrey Hepburn and taking a little Roman Holiday. That's right — our favorite Parisians are heading to Italy! If that doesn't sound like a dreamy comfort show then I don't know what does. Here's everything we know about the upcoming season of your favorite TV brain candy!!

Is Emily in Paris season 4 coming soon?

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Via Variety, Emily in Paris season 4 began production in Paris the week of January 15! "Did someone say Saison Quatre?!" Lily Collins says in her Instagram post announcing production. "Finally reunited with my @emilyinparis fam back in Paris and it feels so good. Although, I may need to brush up on my selfie skills for Emily’s sake…"

Now the wait is over! According to the official announcementfor Emily in Paris, we know part one drops on Netflix August 15, followed by part 2 on September 12. I've been impatiently waiting for this considering we didn't know how filming would be impacted by things like the WGA writers strike!

Is Emily in Paris filmed in Paris?

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Yes, Emily in Paris is filmed on location in Paris! We got our first look at Emily in Paris season 4 when Lily Collins and Ashley Park were seen filming in the City of Love (via Daily Mail). The costumes for the series are still as bold and bright as ever, with Ashley's Mindy wearing cobalt and metallic boots, and Lily's Emily dressed head-to-toe in lemon yellow. I can't wait to see what these best friends get up to this season! Check out our Paris travel recommendations to live out your own Emily in Paris dreams ;).

On April 27, Lily Collins confirmed Emily in Paris season 4 had wrapped its France shoot and that the cast & crew have swapped the City of Love for the Eternal City! "When you’re the first ones on the dance floor at the Paris wrap party. Next stop: Rome!" she says on Instagram. Late spring is literally the perfect time to film in Italy and I just know this season is going to give me more wanderlust than ever before. I need gelato!

What's Emily In Paris season 4 about?

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Season 3 left us with a huge cliffhanger: Alfie breaks up with Emily, Camille learns she's pregnant with Gabriel's baby, Benoit's "Mon Soleil" has been chosen for the Eurovision Song Contest, and Emily and Gabriel realize they've been in love with each other the whole time. Whew.

Emily in Paris season 4 will have a ton of cliffhangers to bring full circle, and a bunch of damage that all the characters need to heal. We know from the Netflix TUDUM fan event that we might also see Emily have to deal with an ultimatum head-on, as well as an unexpected twist. Plus, it looks like she's heading on a "Roman holiday," according to lead actress Lily Collins. We'll take any nod to an Audrey Hepburn movie, please and thank you!

Is Alfie coming back in season 4 of Emily in Paris?

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We don't have OFFICIAL word on whether Alfie (played by Lucien Laviscount) will return for Emily in Paris season 4, but we're hoping for his sake that he gets some closure. Lucien wants to come back as well! "[The dream is] to keep this gravy train going and just to kind of really live in this world a little bit longer," he says in an interview with Elle. " The writers on the show and the creators behind it and everyone that comes into contact with it is so amazing and fantastic. Their minds [have] way, way, way, way surpassed mine. So, yeah. I’ll let them do their thing.”

Who else is in the Emily in Paris season 4 cast?

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We can expect the rest of the cast — Lily Collins as Emily, Lucas Bravo as Gabriel, Ashley Park as Mindy, Camille Razat as Camille, Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu as Sylvie, Samuel Arnold as Julian, and Bruno Gouery as Luc — to return.

Will there be a season 5 of Emily in Paris?

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It looks like Emily in Paris season 4 will not be the final season, according to creator Darren Star. “There’s a lot more story to tell here and we’re not wrapping things up anytime soon,” Star tells Elle. “And also hopefully season four isn’t the end either. I feel like we’re all creatively feeling like we’re in the middle of something not heading towards the end.”

Darren also told Deadline season 4 is "not necessarily conceived as a final chapter. I think like every other show, it’s a rich ensemble. There’s no end in sight until everybody feels like it’s time to end. And I don’t think this show is limited by a number of seasons, I think it’s limited by everybody’s enthusiasm and excitement about doing it and telling stories about these characters."

We'll take as many seasons of Emily in Paris as they'll give us!!

What has the cast said about Emily in Paris season 4?

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Lucas Bravo told People he's excited for a coming-of-age for Gabriel. "When you start a character, then there's a year where you experience the world and you mature, you become another person and you come back and it's exactly the day you left off," he says. "I'm happy that in season four I'll be able to bring more of what I became and what I've experienced in the past four years."

Even though Lily Collins is now an executive producer, she doesn't want to know TOO much about the future of the show. “Darren and I speak, on occasion, about where he’s thinking of going, but he also doesn’t wanna spoil too much for me because there is a fine line,” she tells Collider. “I don’t wanna know everything because I want to be led with the writing, but I am also curious because, as a producer wanting to celebrate the other characters, I’m very curious to see what their trajectories are."

What happened at the end of Emily in Paris season 3?

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To be fully prepared for Emily in Paris season 4, it's important to remember just what happened during season 3! The junior season was a bumpy ride for Emily, and it ends with the craziest finale yet. After Camille and Gabriel decide to get married, Camille stops the wedding, saying she knows Gabriel is in love with Emily instead of her. This declaration leads Alfie to break up with our leading lady because he refuses to be her second choice (and honestly, I respect it). That's not the only shocker because Camille also reveals that she's pregnant with Gabriel's child, which comes as a surprise to everyone. Meanwhile, Mindy learns Benoit has submitted a song (specifically "Mon Soleil") to the Eurovision Song Contest and Laurent has his heart set on opening a club in Paris.

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