How Legalized Weed Is Changing the Way Schools Talk to Kids About Drugs

When California legalized recreational marijuana on January 1, 2018, the states changed their drug education messaging from “Just Say No” to “Delay,” using research about adolescent substance use to encourage lifelong health and prevent abuse.

California is the eighth US state — Colorado and Washington led the way in 2012 — faced with the challenge of modernizing its approach to drug education alongside the legalization of marijuana. While there’s minimal research on how legalizing weed for adults impacts teens’ attitudes toward, and use of, marijuana,studies consistently demonstrate that early, persistent use of cannabis has detrimental effects on cognitive development. That’s why states like California are considering their responsibility in preventing drug abuse among youth, starting in schools.

The state’s Proposition 64, which both legalizes weed for adults over 21 and creates a tax on cannabis sales, will eventually also funnel some of the tax money into schools to promote drug education. But since the taxation structure is not yet fully developed, substance use prevention and education typically varies from school to school.

Currently, more than 20 San Francisco-area schools use a drug education curriculum called Being Adept, a research-based and science-backed program that encourages students to make healthy decisions about substance use. Since studies link early use of drugs and alcohol to substance abuse later on in life, the program’s goal is to empower adolescents to make their own informed choices about drugs and alcohol — based on facts about the impact of early, frequent drug use rather than the traditional scare tactics involved with outdated (and generally ineffective) anti-drug campaigns.

Danielle Ramo-Larios, who directs research on adolescent drug use at the University of California, San Francisco, says programs like Being Adept were created to adapt to the changing attitudes adolescents have toward marijuana. “Teens are less and less inclined to believe that cannabis use causes problems, so telling them not to use at all, ever, is just not a realistic message that they will take seriously,” she tells Brit + Co.

Rather than a fear-based approach — like the D.A.R.E. and “Just Say No” programs of the 1980s and 1990s — Ramo-Larios says a more modern, realistic approach that aligns with scientific research could be more effective long-term.

“We know that the ‘Just Say No’-type programs really did nothing to prevent the onset of drug use in teens. The modern approach to prevention should be realistic about the research with cannabis, which shows that using early and often in adolescence is not good for the brain or body,” she says. “Focusing the message on delaying use until the brain is fully developed — and until decisions to use will not impede on important life goals, from school to extracurriculars — is ideal.”

So rather than scaring teens out of drug use altogether, programs like Being Adept focus on empowering them to make healthy, thoughtful decisions for themselves. Lesson topics like the science of addiction, “brain basics,” stress management, and even “two-minute yoga” both help students to understand how drug use could affect them and give them tools to deal with stress, a known risk factor for drug and alcohol use among youth.

“Good drug prevention programs should also focus on why making healthier decisions in the face of stress (like choosing to exercise rather than drink or use drugs, for example) will support lifelong behavior patterns that will make teens happier adults later on,” Ramo-Larios says.

Since school drug education programs will likely continue to develop as cannabis taxation does, and more states will likely follow suit in legalization in the near future, Ramo-Larios says families play a significant role in delaying drug and alcohol use and preventing abuse — regardless of a given state’s marijuana legislation. Parents play a large role in setting the tone for adolescents’ attitudes toward drugs and alcohol, which is a responsibility they should take seriously.

“Parents should be aware of the risk factors for problem drug use, talk to their kids early and often about what they have heard about drug use, and set clear limits around use and stick to them,” she says. “They should also not glamorize their own use, and [they should] generally take a stance that use in adolescence is not the same as use later on.”

What are your thoughts on marijuana education? Tell us what you think @BritandCo!

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You like to travel in a pack, have your creativity stand out, and look stylish on Halloween. You could dress up as a Harry Potter character (we vote Luna Lovegood!) or choose a group costume and go as the cast of Grease, but this year, you want something even more… inspired. Stay creative and adventurous with one of these 52 teen Halloween costume ideas.

French Girl

Oh French girls, you are always so effortlessly chic. (via Brit + Co)

Whether you're a couple or a dynamic duo, these costumes are for you!

Operation Costume

Remember that old board game you used to love as a kid? This costume is the perfect way to bring back the childhood classic and is guaranteed to be the most fun of any costume around. (via Brit + Co)

Olympic Gymnast

Go for the gold with this athletic costume that includes warm-up pants, because let's be real — it would be a little uncomfortable (and cold) to wear a leotard around all night. (via Brit + Co)

Double Stuffed Oreos

What's better than showing your love for your bae on Halloween? Well, each of you dressing up as one half of an Oreo, for starters. (via Brit + Co)

Harry Potter and Hermione Granger

Looks like a treacherous night in the Forbidden Forest! (via Brit + Co)

Minnie and Mickey Mouse

Who's the leader of the club that's made for you and me? M-I-C-K-E-Y-M-O-U-S-E! (via Brit + Co)

Rainbow and a Pot of Gold

You and your friend will undoubtedly have a blast rocking these looks! (via Brit + Co)

Doug and Patty Mayonnaise

This iconic cartoon duo is surprisingly easy to bring to life. (via Brit + Co)

La Croix Cans

No matter which flavor of La Croix is your BAE, we can all agree that the sparkling water is life. (via Brit + Co)

Mean Girls

Here's a little Mean Girls inspo for Halloween, because a classic like this never gets old. (via Brit + Co)

Alvin and the Chipmunks

This group costumeis cute, comfortable and, most importantly, school-appropriate. (via Brit + Co)

Landmark Cities

You see London, you see France, you see Lady Liberty's underpants. (via Brit + Co)

Fruit Salad

Grab a few of your friends and decorate shirts to look like fruits, and you have yourself a DIY fruit salad. (via Brit+Co)

Ghostbusters

This is totally the year to rock a Ghostbusters costume! All-female cast? Represent! (via Brit + Co)

Spice Girls

Though we're all about bringing back Sporty, Scary, Baby, Posh, and Ginger, go the clever route and simply dress up as your favorite spices. (via Brit + Co)

Group Sushi Costume

Yum! Why not grab a few friends and dress up as your favorite roll? Sushi roll, that is. (via Brit + Co)

Minions

When in doubt, you can always turn to animated movies for a little inspo. (via Brit + Co)

Inside Out

We're feeling all kinds of emotions about this Pixar film-inspired group look. HBU? (Photo via Brit + Co)

Pop Culture Costumes

Chuckie from Rugrats

“Things never turn out like they do in the movies." (via Brit + Co)

Kim Possible

She's just a normal high school cheerleader who happens to fight villains in her spare time. Her style is easy to replicate using items you can actually reuse after Halloween. (via Brit + Co)

Ariel from The Little Mermaid

“I wanna be where the people are." (via Brit + Co)

Mary Poppins

This Halloween, why not throw it back and dress up like the classic English nanny? (via Brit + Co)

Wonder Woman

Diana Prince does it all: She's a peaceful diplomat and a raging warrior. In the 2017 movie starring Gal Gadot, they revamped her retro outfit into a fiercely sexy yet strong ensemble that enhances her inner strength. (via Brit + Co)

Sleeping Beauty

“They say if you dream a thing more than once, it's sure to come true." (via Brit + Co)

Aladdin and Jasmine

“I can show you the world!" Or the Google Maps directions to the Halloween party. (via Brit + Co)

Daenerys Targaryen

The silver-haired queen on Game of Thrones continues onward, never veering from her path toward glory as the ruler of the seven kingdoms. Talk about making a #lifegoal and sticking to it. (via Brit + Co)

Rosie the Riveter

Here's to our girlies on the front lines, still rockin' out and #RESIST-ing! Show your support for the feminist movement as this iconic lady boss. (via Brit + Co)

Tinkerbell

Always the sassy one, that Tink. (via Brit + Co)

Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz

To bring the costume to the next level, pair with accessories such as frilly white socks and a basket to hold your flowers or dog. (via Brit + Co)

Pokemon

The gang's all here — let's catch 'em all. Pika pika! (via Brit + Co)

Batgirl

Batgirl here, ready to fight some crime. (via Brit + Co)

Snow White

She's kind, friendly, patient, and stylish! And even though Snow really only goes for her lovely primary-colored dress, we thought it would be the most fun to DIY her classic red, blue, and yellow ensemble. (via Brit + Co)

Katniss

To re-create this look, you'll need a serious stance, leather jacket, T-shirt, dark pants (cargos would work, too), boots, a bow and arrow, eyes of fire and, of course, a mockingjay pin. (via Brit + Co)

Kimmy Schmidt

Take a break from your Netflix binge and get in touch with your Kimmy Schmidt side. Hashbrown no filter. (via Brit + Co)

Anna and Elsa fromFrozen

Sisters who ice skate together, stay together. (via Brit + Co)

Rey

This really is the perfect disguise for any gal who has the desire to channel her inner warrior. (via Brit + Co)

Sansa Skirt

Winter is coming, and this red-headed Stark from Game of Thrones is *not* messing around. (via Brit + Co)

Sally from Nightmare Before Christmas

Being a little older is knowing that Sally from Nightmare Before Christmas is THAT girl. (via Halloween Costumes)

Captain Hook

Captain Hook is another iconic character that deserves his shine on Halloween. (via Halloween Costumes)

Queen of Hearts Costume

It's time to rule all the hearts of Halloween with this cute outfit. (via Halloween Costumes)

Cat in the Hat Costume

If your teen grew up hearing you read ​The Cat in the Hat​, they'll love dressing up as our favorite mischievous character. 

Robin Hood Costume

Robin Hood is universal and makes for a good Halloween costume! (via Spirit Halloween)

Daphne from Scooby Doo

Daphne was an amazing character who knew she was stylish, smart and supportive of her friends antics. If that sounds like your teen, this is the costume for her! (via Halloween Costumes)

Carmen Sandiego

Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego? Probably somewhere solving a mystery while others only catch a quick view of her long red coat. (via Halloween Costumes)

Lava Girl

We had to include Lava Girl on this list. How could we not? (via Halloween Costumes)

Violet from The Incredibles

Sometimes the best things aren't always on display - like Violet's immense power! (via Halloween Costumes)

La La Land

This costume is v. easy to put together, and once you have it on, you'll be ready to dance and sing your way through Halloween. (via Brit + Co)

Big Bird

Combining our love of feathers with Sesame Street? Yes, please. Plus, that Big Bird face is just too much (in a good way). (via Brit + Co)

Cookie Monster

An all-time classic and the best possible outfit for the gal who wants to have an excuse to pretty much wear a Snuggie all day. (via Brit + Co)

Quirky Costumes

Avocado Toast

Everyone loooooves it because, TBH, what's not to love about avocados and bread? (via Brit + Co)

The Cat's Meow

Calling all cat ladies: We have the purrrfect Halloween costume for you. Enter the OG cat costume, a look that's beyond easy to throw together in a pinch. (via Brit + Co)

Scarecrow

Can we get a round of applause for overalls coming back into style in time for Halloween? (via Brit + Co)

Jellyfish

The mystical creatures that live in the ocean will forever win over our Halloween hearts. (via Brit + Co)

Retro Devil

Get ready for some devil meets *major* Sandy from Grease vibes. (via Brit + Co)

Inflatable Dinosaur Costume

Halloween doesn't have to be super serious all the time. Keep things lighthearted and silly with this inflatable dinosaur costume. (via Amazon)

Jolly Rancher Costume

A jolly rancher costume is too cheeky to pass up. (via Halloween Costumes)

Hershey's Kiss

If your teen wants to join in on the metallic trend in a hilarious way, have her dress up as a Hershey's Kiss.

Glenda the Good Witch from Wizard of Oz

If your teen never needs an excuse to wear something pink or sparkly, have her dress as Glenda the Good Witch from The Wizard of Oz! (via Halloween Costumes)

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I'll admit out of the many teen dramas I've consumed, Outer Banks is one of the most ridiculous. But the insanity surrounding the plot is half the reason it's enjoyable! John B. wrestling an alligator with his bare hands? Kiara getting kidnapped then making a daring escape in her PJ's? John B. and Sarah getting married (kind of) by the power of "the sky, the stars, and the sea" after escaping the SBI?

Considering my favorite fan theory for the future is that Madelyn Cline's Sarah and Rudy Pankow's JJ learn they're secret siblings, I know the crazy train isn't slowing down anytime soon. I took to Reddit to find the wildest Outer Bankshot takes and I was not disappointed. Keep reading to see if you agree with any!

JJ and Kiara Never Should Have Happened

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While JJ and Kiara is one of the most popular ships on the show, a lot of Outer Banks fans think the "no Pogue-on-Pogue macking" rule from the pilot should have stayed in effect. The individual romances between Kiara and JJ, John B., and Pope make the story really messy, and the fact the show writes Kiara to be with all three of them in the span of three years gives a lot of viewers the ick.

I'll be team #Jiara forever (and literally screamed when The Backseat Lovers' "Kilby Girl" started playing during the motorcycle ride in season 3), but I'll say it would incredibly compelling to see a friend group take care of each other as much as the Pogues do without ever crossing over into romantic territory. That's found family, after all!

Pope Should Have Ditched The Treasure Hunt

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One Reddit user is convinced that "Pope should’ve focused on his future in school instead of giving everything up to search for treasure." And TBH, I totally agree.

In season 1, Pope has a breakthrough about the hidden treasure in the middle of his scholarship interview. He ditches the scholarship committee to tell the rest of the Pogues, throwing away a crazy educational opportunity. Pope beats himself up for it, and his parents definitely aren't pleased, but at least it meant he got to stay in the show instead of leaving for college, which leads me to...

Outer Banks Should Have Started With The Pogues In Their 20s

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As one of the only people alive who loves the post-time jump One Tree Hill, I would have loved to see OBX start off with the characters in their 20s (although it looks like that's where Outer Banks season 4 will pick up!). This would eliminate SO MANY problems from the jump because the Pogues wouldn't have to worry about missing school, they'd be more self-sufficient, and instead of being the same old high school drama, it could have provided a commentary on figuring out life in your 20s the same way Friends did.

Rafe Shouldn't Have Any Kind Of Redemption Arc In Outer Banks Season 4

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Drew Starkey the man that you are. According to one Reddit user, "Rafe should not have a love interest or a redemption arc" like we see in season 3. We spent all of season 1 and season 2 establishing that Rafe (played by Drew) would do anything it took to get what he wanted (including one successful murder and two other attempts?!). He shows next to no remorse for his actions, and exploring his literal psychopathic tendencies would take the show to a whole new level.

Big John Should Never Have Returned

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John B.'s dad's disappearance is the catalyst for the Pogues' journey at the beginning of Outer Banks, and Big John's return means the story feels somewhat repetitive in the third season, and it undoes a lot of the growth we've seen from John B. Plus, Big John is just SO chaotic, selfish, and dramatic. If he had truly died in season 1, we could have seen John B. wrestle with that finality, and how to cope with loss in the face of finding the treasure and falling in love with Sarah.

And Finally, Outer Banks Should Have Ended After Season 1

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Outer Banks season 1 was exactly what we needed at the height of the pandemic. It was escapist — both in terms of the beach vacation vibes, but also because the '00s aesthetic took us right back to simpler times — and it had such a wonderfully resolved finale that some fans think nothing has matched it.

Do you agree with any of these Outer Banks opinions? I'm such a romance fan, I don't know what I'd do if the show didn't have JJ and Kiara get together! Check out all the best New TV Shows coming this year for more.

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We all have a person on our gift list that's hard to shop for, but somehow, shopping for a teen feels harder. They are discerning, but their interests can change direction like a breeze. And as the adults in their lives, we are expected to keep up. Sure, gift cards will do in a pinch, but we believe it's possible to surprise a teenager (in a good way) with a gift. It's why we rounded up presents that the youngest members of Gen Z will love. From cozy winter gear to Y2K accessories to clean makeup and skin-care products, these 44 perfect presents are good teen gift candidates for the holidays.

Faux Pearl & Flower Drop Earrings ($5)

If earrings could be a tropical vacation, it'd be this pair.

Storets Miracle Fuzzy Scarf ($43)

What winter look isn't improved by a colorful scarf?

Riley Hubatka x Peppermayo Laguna Cross Body Bag, Green Check ($45)

This green-checked crossbody has a slim, '90s-inspired silhouette, but it's still big enough to carry the essentials.

Lauren Sadler Tie Dye DIY Kit ($38)

Crafty teens can experiment with tie-dye using this DIY kit that contains everything they'll need to get started as well as two bandanas and a cotton pouch to tie-dye.

InnBeauty Glaze for Days ($65, was $97)

Inside this pink makeup bag, there are five different flavored lip oils to test out: Candy Apple, Frosé, Fruity Cereal, Cookie, and Glazed Donut.

Madewell Confetti Wide-Cuff Beanie ($52)

This snuggly wool-blend hat will be a go-to all winter long.

Anatomicals Deep Cleansing Mud Mask ($4)

Bring the spa to their room with this mud sheet mask that gives pores a thorough cleanse.

Juraté Brown and Johnna Green Raw Birthstone Studs ($50)

A raw, freeform take on the classic birthstone, these minimalist earrings have sterling silver posts and backs.

Alo Plush Luck Sock ($20)

These soft, fuzzy socks have a bit of Spandex to keep them from getting too stretched out.

The Modern Witch Tarot Deck ($27)

This deck by Lisa Sterle combines classic tarot symbolism with 2022 style.

The Sill Philodendron Green ($78)

Ideal for first-time plant parents, this low-maintenance beauty grows quickly and can survive less-than-regular waterings.

SuperWorld The Super Puff New Mitten ($55)

Finally, mittens that are like a puffy jacket for the hands.

Madewell Sherpa Scuff Slippers ($50)

Faux shearling makes these clog-style slippers a cozy go-to.

Storets Mely Buttoned Wrap Top ($40)

Part cardigan, part wrap top, this colorful shirt is definitely cute.

Odcuple Original 12oz Reusable Coffee Cup ($30)

A reusable cup made with biodegradable plastic, ceramic, and silicon is perfect for hot drinks, both on the go and at home.

Pretti.Cool Incense Holder Square Grey & White ($32)

Incense-loving teens will adore this concrete holder that doubles as decor.

Youthforia Y2K Bundle ($55, was $62)

You'll get two Youthforia favorites in a Y2K-inspired pack: the award-winning blush oil that uses your skin's pH to create a just-right shade and a glossy, hydrating lip treatment.

Wildflower On Pointe iPhone 14 Case ($35)

If your teen loves ballet, they'll want a pretty-in-pink ballet case for their new iPhone.

Snif Ditch Plains Candle ($44)

Inspired by a day at the beach in Montauk's Ditch Plains, this candle will hold summer-lovers over until June.

Casetify Custom Phone Charm ($42)

They'll never lose their phone (fingers crossed) with a charm that can be customized with up to six letters.

West & Arrow LED Flexible RGB Strip Lights ($17+)

With 20 preset colors and seven different effects, this USB-powered strip light is easily customized. And with a peel-and-stick back, setup is a cinch.

Hatch Restore ($130)

This sunrise alarm clock lets you customize your bedtime and wake-up routines with 22 colors and a sound library that has music, white noise, guided meditations, and more.

Pink Floyd London Tour T-Shirt Dress ($39+)

What is nostalgia for a time before you were born called? A Pink Floyd T-shirt with artwork from its 1966 tour.

Baggu Crew Sock ($14)

Made from bamboo rayon, these soft, stretchy socks will add a fun pop to any outfit.

Jones Road Miracle Balm ($38)

Perfect for a no-makeup makeup look, Miracle Balm's magic is in its light-reflecting abilities. Use it on cheeks, lips, and eyelids — anywhere, really.

Urban Outfitters Icon Book Light ($20)

Ideal for anyone with a roommate, this cute reading light also comes in frog and flower shapes.

Lululemon Everywhere Fleece Belt Bag ($58)

Made with soft and cozy fleece, this crossbody bag is perfect for winter.

Chunks Checker Claw in Black/White ($18)

A 3.5-inch hair claw can hold some of the longest, thickest strands.

Ana Luisa Venus ($55)

With a .8-inch diameter, these 14k gold-on-brass hoops with titanium backs are just the right size.

Carhartt Knit Cuffed Beanie ($20)

A cuffed beanie is a classic you can't really go wrong with.

Copic Alcohol Sketch Marker Set ($75)

Considering these markers are refillable and compatible with Copic's Air Brush system, they make a gift that lasts.

Polaroid Hi·Print 2x3 Starter Set ($130)

This Polaroid starter set comes with a pocket-size printer and 20 sheets of 2x3 photo-ready papers.

BoxLunch x Sanrio Hello Kitty Mood Light ($25)

A Hello Kitty battery-operated light manages to make darkness cute.

Aerie Oversized Cozy Cardigan ($78)

Fuzzy and oversized — is there a better way to sweater?

Am I Overthinking This? A Journal ($15)

Overthinking is a great teenage pastime. Give them a place to do it.

Princess Polly Henderson Crossbody Bag ($36)

This faux leather bag comes with an adjustable and removable crossbody strap, but regardless of how it's worn, it'll bring a pop of green.

Pleasing Shroom Bloom Set ($65)

This mushroom-inspired nail polish set comes in pale green, mushroom beige, bright red, and sheer holographic — not to mention the cutest containers.

Converse Chuck Taylor All Star Seasonal Color ($65)

A teen classic, these special-edition Chuck Taylors come in desert-inspired colors.

Nintendo Switch Joy-Con L/R ($80)

Compatible with Nintendo Switch consoles, Joy-Con controllers can be used separately in each hand or together as one game controller.

Sculpd Pottery Kit With Paint Set, Floral Tones ($89)

Crafters can explore pottery with a kit that comes with air-dry clay, carving and shaping tools, floral-toned paint, and everything else they'll need to get started.

Valfe Celstia Libra Candle ($28)

The Libra candle is vanilla-lavender, but each sign's candle comes with its own scent and design.

Terrain Ceramic Base Terrarium ($48)

Air plants, succulents, and other greens thrive in this mini terrarium/candle holder. But maybe a fake candle is best?

Glow Recipe Pore Care Kit ($85)

Together these three products — a toner, serum, and mask — can clear congested pores for clearer skin.

Carley Sheehy DIY Mochi Ice Cream Kit ($34)

DIY mochi with a kit that lets you freeform flavors with whatever you have on hand, though it comes with matcha and cocoa powder. And it probably goes without saying, but ice cream is not included!

What are you gifting the teens in your life this year? Share with us @BritandCo!

Mariska Hargitay is the woman of the hour anywhere she goes, with her iconic Law & Order: SVUrole as Olivia Benson under her belt for the last 25 years. The character is an absolute advocate to women — and assault victims of any gender — through her words, actions, and powerful convictions of each perpetrator on the show. She takes great care with her victims and pursues perpetrators with fervor, and slowly as you watch the show..the line blurs between Olivia and Mariska.

This isn't anything new — just recently Mariska literally stopped production on the show to help a child (who mistook her for an actual police officer) find her mom. It's just who Mariska is. She walks the walk and talks the talk — including during her speech at Variety's Power of Women's Power of Women event.

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As a Power of Women honoree, Mariska was recognized in regards to her work as an advocate for sexual assault survivors. She took the stage and used her platform to discuss rape and assault conviction reversals, shining a light on the recent overturned ruling in Harvey Weinstein's landmark NYC case. Here's what she said:

Today I want to talk about reversing convictions, and more specifically I want to talk to you about how impossible it is to reverse mine. It’s impossible to reverse my conviction that survivors matter. It is impossible to reverse my conviction that what happens to us matters, and that our society must respond to survivors with a more a compassionate, holistically, deeper, and more nuanced understanding of what healing means.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that after a trauma, survivors can reclaim lives of hope, of possibility, of audacious risk, beautiful intimacy, and glorious, glorious abundant joy. And I stand before you as evidence of that statement.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that we must listen to survivors as experts on what justice means. It is extraordinary how little their voices are consulted, let alone incorporated, in the process of deciding how to repair harm. Justice is not a one-size-fits-all journey.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that patriarchal impunity has to end. Patriarchal impunity is when a male-dominated system exempts perpetrators from punishment. Studies show that only 20% of all rape cases in the U.S. are reported to the police, and that between 5 and 0% of all rapes result in a guilty plea or a conviction. So why do 80% of victims not report? Because they're met with a system that grants impunity to perpetrators; a system that blames victims; a system that accepts only those victims who are experienced as "real" rape; a system that completely misunderstands the neurobiology of trauma, which causes behavior in women that doesn't fit the picture of how a "real victim" would act.

Is that change needed that victims should just pull themselves together? Just buck up and report anyway? No. No, it's the system that receives them that needs to change

It is impossible to reverse my conviction — and the conviction of my extraordinary team, The Joyful Heart — that the backlog of untested rape kits can be brought to zero; that the testing of all new kits must be mandated; that we need a statewide kit tracking system; and that survivors have the right to access the status of their kits.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that grammar — yes, grammar — that we use when we speak about rape must change. In the sentence, "A woman is raped," there's a crime and there's a victim, but there's no perpetrator. Where's the perpetrator? Where is he? Statistically, as we know, most likely he's walking free. He's so free that he doesn't even appear in the language about the crime that he committed. Is that not extraordinary? It's extraordinary that in the very grammar, the perpetrator goes free. Reintroducing perpetrators in the language of rape will make some very unwieldy grammar, but that's the nature of change. It's unwieldy, it's messy, it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary.

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Hargitay continued on in her prolific speech to describe that rape shouldn't be considered a "crime of passion" because it's "not simply the next step in the trajectory of his passion" when a man takes a consensual hookup too far and assaults a woman against her will. She stated that it's "an exercise of power," doubling down that the language we use is important.

The speech went on to address that rape is both about power and control, as a "construct" that was "built, and assembled, and reinforced over time." She noted that there are people with these positions of power — and she specifically called out those in the entertainment industry — that could make a difference and aligned themselves to victims and survivors.

After this and some other remarks, Hargitay specifically called out the Weinstein conviction reversal. She said:

I do want to say something about the Harvey Weinstein conviction, specifically about the reason that it was overturned: too many women's voices. Too many women's voices were allowed to speak. Hallelujah! Amen! I can't imagine anything more beautiful than that. The Daily podcast episode talked about how it was so risky for the prosecution to have that many women testify. Risky to let women speak? You're damn right it is!

Too many women speaking brings change. Too many women speaking shakes the establishment. Too many women means we get listened to more, and people might actually hear what we have to say. Look what happened when women started saying just two words, right? Me too — just as an example — a tidal wave of change. Me too.

And then of course, there was the response: the Me Too Movement. The backlash. The examination of whether the changes that have come are lasting, or are even positive. Of course there's a backlash! What did they expect? For women to speak repeatedly, loudly, together, with a purpose — for there to be no backlash? The backlash is evidence of how powerful those voices were, how powerful those voices ARE.

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After Emily in Paris season 3 dropped on Netflix in December of 2022, we were hoping to get the fourth installment of the hit show in 2023. But production halted when the WGA writers' strike, then the SAG-AFTRA actors' strike went to affect, and our beloved cast and crew campaigned for better wages and industry protection. But with the end of the writers' strike, and new SAG negotiations, Emily in Paris season 4 finally began production in February 2024 — and I can already tell you there's sure to be plenty of drama and French fashion this time around.

Not only will we see Emily in Paris (see what I did there?!) but she's also pulling an Audrey Hepburn and taking a little Roman Holiday. That's right — our favorite Parisians are heading to Italy! If that doesn't sound like a dreamy comfort show then I don't know what does. Here's everything we know about the upcoming season of your favorite TV brain candy!!

Is Emily in Paris season 4 coming soon?

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Via Variety, Emily in Paris season 4 began production in Paris the week of January 15! "Did someone say Saison Quatre?!" Lily Collins says in her Instagram post announcing production. "Finally reunited with my @emilyinparis fam back in Paris and it feels so good. Although, I may need to brush up on my selfie skills for Emily’s sake…"

Now the wait is over! According to the official announcementfor Emily in Paris, we know part one drops on Netflix August 15, followed by part 2 on September 12. I've been impatiently waiting for this considering we didn't know how filming would be impacted by things like the WGA writers strike!

Is Emily in Paris filmed in Paris?

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Yes, Emily in Paris is filmed on location in Paris! We got our first look at Emily in Paris season 4 when Lily Collins and Ashley Park were seen filming in the City of Love (via Daily Mail). The costumes for the series are still as bold and bright as ever, with Ashley's Mindy wearing cobalt and metallic boots, and Lily's Emily dressed head-to-toe in lemon yellow. I can't wait to see what these best friends get up to this season! Check out our Paris travel recommendations to live out your own Emily in Paris dreams ;).

On April 27, Lily Collins confirmed Emily in Paris season 4 had wrapped its France shoot and that the cast & crew have swapped the City of Love for the Eternal City! "When you’re the first ones on the dance floor at the Paris wrap party. Next stop: Rome!" she says on Instagram. Late spring is literally the perfect time to film in Italy and I just know this season is going to give me more wanderlust than ever before. I need gelato!

What's Emily In Paris season 4 about?

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Season 3 left us with a huge cliffhanger: Alfie breaks up with Emily, Camille learns she's pregnant with Gabriel's baby, Benoit's "Mon Soleil" has been chosen for the Eurovision Song Contest, and Emily and Gabriel realize they've been in love with each other the whole time. Whew.

Emily in Paris season 4 will have a ton of cliffhangers to bring full circle, and a bunch of damage that all the characters need to heal. We know from the Netflix TUDUM fan event that we might also see Emily have to deal with an ultimatum head-on, as well as an unexpected twist. Plus, it looks like she's heading on a "Roman holiday," according to lead actress Lily Collins. We'll take any nod to an Audrey Hepburn movie, please and thank you!

Is Alfie coming back in season 4 of Emily in Paris?

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We don't have OFFICIAL word on whether Alfie (played by Lucien Laviscount) will return for Emily in Paris season 4, but we're hoping for his sake that he gets some closure. Lucien wants to come back as well! "[The dream is] to keep this gravy train going and just to kind of really live in this world a little bit longer," he says in an interview with Elle. " The writers on the show and the creators behind it and everyone that comes into contact with it is so amazing and fantastic. Their minds [have] way, way, way, way surpassed mine. So, yeah. I’ll let them do their thing.”

Who else is in the Emily in Paris season 4 cast?

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We can expect the rest of the cast — Lily Collins as Emily, Lucas Bravo as Gabriel, Ashley Park as Mindy, Camille Razat as Camille, Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu as Sylvie, Samuel Arnold as Julian, and Bruno Gouery as Luc — to return.

Will there be a season 5 of Emily in Paris?

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It looks like Emily in Paris season 4 will not be the final season, according to creator Darren Star. “There’s a lot more story to tell here and we’re not wrapping things up anytime soon,” Star tells Elle. “And also hopefully season four isn’t the end either. I feel like we’re all creatively feeling like we’re in the middle of something not heading towards the end.”

Darren also told Deadline season 4 is "not necessarily conceived as a final chapter. I think like every other show, it’s a rich ensemble. There’s no end in sight until everybody feels like it’s time to end. And I don’t think this show is limited by a number of seasons, I think it’s limited by everybody’s enthusiasm and excitement about doing it and telling stories about these characters."

We'll take as many seasons of Emily in Paris as they'll give us!!

What has the cast said about Emily in Paris season 4?

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Lucas Bravo told People he's excited for a coming-of-age for Gabriel. "When you start a character, then there's a year where you experience the world and you mature, you become another person and you come back and it's exactly the day you left off," he says. "I'm happy that in season four I'll be able to bring more of what I became and what I've experienced in the past four years."

Even though Lily Collins is now an executive producer, she doesn't want to know TOO much about the future of the show. “Darren and I speak, on occasion, about where he’s thinking of going, but he also doesn’t wanna spoil too much for me because there is a fine line,” she tells Collider. “I don’t wanna know everything because I want to be led with the writing, but I am also curious because, as a producer wanting to celebrate the other characters, I’m very curious to see what their trajectories are."

What happened at the end of Emily in Paris season 3?

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To be fully prepared for Emily in Paris season 4, it's important to remember just what happened during season 3! The junior season was a bumpy ride for Emily, and it ends with the craziest finale yet. After Camille and Gabriel decide to get married, Camille stops the wedding, saying she knows Gabriel is in love with Emily instead of her. This declaration leads Alfie to break up with our leading lady because he refuses to be her second choice (and honestly, I respect it). That's not the only shocker because Camille also reveals that she's pregnant with Gabriel's child, which comes as a surprise to everyone. Meanwhile, Mindy learns Benoit has submitted a song (specifically "Mon Soleil") to the Eurovision Song Contest and Laurent has his heart set on opening a club in Paris.

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