How To Get "The Vampire Diaries" Star Nina Dobrev's Cozy Fall Fashion

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Nina Dobrev is our ultimate style inspo in every phase of life. We wanted to emulate her Vampire Diaries fall outfits in the 2010s, and her go-to leather jacket and boots combo are totally timeless. Her fall fashion this year is super easy to recreate — and to add to your capsule wardrobe. Talking to InStyle, she reveals her favorite combo at the moment is a wool coat, a pair of straight-leg jeans, and a beanie (plus adding red, *the* color for fall 2023, whenever she gets the chance).

This fall outfit is casual enough for a coffee date, utilitarian enough for chores, and cute enough for a day out on the town. You can layer these pieces with a tee shirt or sweater depending on how cold it is, but no matter which layers you're opting for, here's how to get the look for less.

Wool Coats

Hollister Classic Wool Coat

If you live somewhere that requires a lot of walking, consider grabbing one of these wool coats that ends above your knees. That way, your legs won't feel restricted at all. It's simple but still very cute.

Gap Long Topcoat

For a moodier coat that will go with every single item in your closet, choose a dark black. You can brighten it up with a bold scarf, or pair it with an LBD for a monochromatic look.

Banana Republic Herringbone Blazer Coat

Want to stay neutral but switch up your shades? A deep, edgy green adds a little bit of color without taking over the outfit.

Banana Republic Tie-Waist Wrap Coat

A plaid wool coat is like a blazer for the winter. It looks just as good with a tee shirt as it does with a dress, and the tie waist means you won't have to worry about the wind blowing it open. Brrr!

Straight Leg Jeans

Abercrombie & Fitch Mid Rise 90s Straight Jean

Mid rise jeans are the ultimate pick for anyone who lives in tee shirts. They won't swallow you the way high-rise do, but they also provide more coverage than low-rise jeans. Since they're in the middle, there's also a little bit more room to play in terms of jacket proportions and lengths!

Levi's® Premium 501® Original Fit

Light wash denim adds some extra youthfulness to every outfit, and these straight leg jeans pair great with tighter tops and shoes since they're loose around the ankles.

Madewell The Tall '90s Straight Jean

We know how hard it can be to find jeans when you've got extra long legs, but don't worry — you can still take part in all the 2023 fall fashion trends! These '90s straight jeans are *chef's kiss.*

GAP High Rise Cheeky Straight Jeans with Washwell

Jeans that end above your ankle and make your butt look good? Count us in, like, RN.

Beanies

H&M Rib-Knit Hat

Contrary to popular belief, you don't have to wait for winter coat season to pick out a beanie. Long sleeve tees, cardigans, and even short sleeve shirts look just as good with this burst of color!

Urban Outfitters Mylo Fuzzy Ear Beanie

Even though red is a huge color this fall, you don't have to sacrifice your favorite summer shades. Case in point: a playful, fuzzy, chartreuse hat.

Red Accessories

Uniqlo Round Mini Shoulder Bag

Shoulder bags are exactly what you need on nights you're out and about, and want to travel light. Grab a muted cranberry to hop on the color trend in a more minimalist way.

Steve Madden Red Patent Heeled Ballet Flats

Live out all your Madeline and Eloise dreams with these darling ballet flats, whether you choose to wear them with jeans or a dress.

Free People Petite Bow

A hair bow is an easy, low-lift way to add feminine detail to your look without having to carry around a whole other accessory. We have a whole basket of them!

Anthropologie Cherry Huggie Earrings

Tiny cherry earrings are playful and sophisticated at the same time — and they'll look just as good come spring.

How will you be recreating Nina Dobrev's 2023 fall outfit this year? Do you have your eye on any other celebrity fall fashion trends? Let us know in the comments!

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Somewhere between Zendaya's iconic press tour looks for Challengers and the movie's official release,tenniscorewas born. According to boohoo.com, Pinterest searches for ‘tennis skirt outfit summer’ have skyrocketed by 170% over the past three months. The tenniscore fashion aesthetic channels the court sport with polo shirts, athletic dresses, sweater vests, and of course, tennis skirts. These are our favorite tennis skirts for embracing the oh-so sporty style!

Baleaf Women's Pleated Tennis Skirt

This skirt's all about business in the front, party in the back. While the front side is sleek and smooth, the back flaunts lots of fine pleats, which is signature tennis skirt style. This piece is fitted with a wide elastic waistband that snatches your figure and supports your look. It has built-in shorts that have two side pockets, plus there's a third zippered one on the back for securing small items. A massive slay, TBH.

The Baleaf Women's Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 8 other colors and sizes XS-XXL for $30 on Amazon.

Alala Rally Skort

This skirt with built-in pocketed shorts has a paneled skirt that's half solid material, and half mesh for added breathability. It's an easy one-and-done since all you have to do is slip it on! Not to mention, this serene mint green color is stunning.

The Alala Rally Skort comes in 2 other colors and sizes XS-L for $115 at Nordstrom.

CRZ Yoga Women's High Waisted Pleated Tennis Skirt

This stretchy tennis skirt is made of ultra-soft, quick-dry fabric – super practical if you're *actually* playing tennis, but also if you're not! This would make the perfect tennis skirt for summertime since it's made to be breathable. The built-in shorts have pockets for a phone and a tennis ball, too. The pleats surround the entire skirt for added style.

The CRZ Yoga Women's High Waisted Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 18 other colors and sizes XXS-XL for $38 on Amazon.

Never Better Volley Skort

This electric blue skirt allows you to do it all. The built-in spandex shorts provide comfy coverage while the elastic waistband keeps it on your bod through every movement. The contrasting white stripes that run down each side add even more sporty flair, on and off the court.

The Never Better Volley Skort also comes in white and sizes XS-XL for $68 at Free People.

Soothfeel Pleated Tennis Skirt

The built-in shorts on this super-smooth tennis skirt are made from a mesh material, so the sweaty effects warm weather are no match! The high waistband is fitted with an adjustable drawstring so you can wear it as tight or as loose as you please.

The Soothfeel Pleated Tennis Skirt comes in 23 other colors and sizes XXS-XLL for $34 on Amazon.

Old Navy Extra High-Waisted PowerSoft Skort

This cherry red color is everything for summertime! This tennis skirt is made from Old Navy's PowerSoft fabric, which is stretchy and smooth with light compression. The extra-high waist sits above the belly button to pull your figure in and flatter you further!

The Old Navy Extra High-Waisted PowerSoft Skort also comes in green and sizes XS-4X for $35.

Gold Hinge Off-Black Wide Pleat Tennis Skirt

If you're looking for a different kind of tenniscore look, the wide pleats on this skirt provide a fresh take on the trend. Built-in shorts with side pockets mean your look can be practical, too!

The Off-Black Wide Pleat Tennis Skirt comes in sizes XS-XXL for $54.

Wild Fable Mini ButterBliss Skort

We're *so* obsessed with the slit on this spandex-y tennis skort. It makes the style feel less sporty, and more casual for everyday wear. It lets the built-in shorts underneath peek through for a cheeky vibe! Simply pair it with a cropped graphic tee and your go-to sneakers for a no-fail summer 'fit.

The Wild Fable Mini ButterBliss Skort also comes in white and black and sizes XXS-4X for $18 at Target.

Strawberry Western Pleated Skort

This doodle-drenched tennis skirt is super cute when you wanna make a statement. There are two tiny bows along the waistband that amp up the femme vibes even more, plus the attached shorts underneath boast a contrasting pink star pattern that'll turns heads your way wherever you go.

The Strawberry Western Pleated Skort is currently shoppable in sizes M and L for $84.

GapFit Pleated Exercise Skort

This sweet skort is totally worthy of your capsule wardrobe for summer. It's fitted throughout, but flares down into a flawless pleated pattern. It follows an a-line silhouette that's the most fitted at the waist, accentuating and flattering your figure.

The GapFit Pleated Exercise Skort also comes in black and white in regular sizes XXS-XXL, tall sizes S-XXL, and petite sizes XS-L for $60.

Athleta Ace High Rise Tennis Skort

This basic tennis skirt comes in a plethora of colors and works well for any style situation you may find yourself in. This blue color is wonderful for making a statement, but you could also style the black version as easily for date night! This piece has a whole 3 pockets for storing small items, too.

The Athleta Ace High Rise Tennis Skort comes in 8 colors total and sizes XXS-3X and is currently on sale for $48 (was $69).

Girlfriend Collective FLOAT Ultralight Skort

Lightweight and high-rise, this skort from Girlfriend Collective feels like a dream. The a-line skirt is meant to flow in the breeze, while the waistline hugs you snugly. This soothing green color is lush enough for summertime, but you can also shop it in blue, red, and black – whatever suits your personal style

The FLOAT Ultralight Skort comes in sizes XXS-6XL for $62.

Lululemon Varsity High-Rise Pleated Tennis Skirt

Tennis Barbie would be proud of this one. The super-fine pleats and hot pink color are super feminine and fun for the summer! The fabric it's made of has a nice four-way stretch and sweat-wicking capabilities.

The Lululemon Varsity High-Rise Pleated Tennis Skirt also comes in 6 other colors and sizes 0-14 for $88.

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Are you feeling a lack of motivation lately? Don’t worry, because things are about to change. As we near the middle of 2024, you may have let go of your New Year's resolution or neglected your past passion project. The great news is that Jupiter, the planet of optimism and expansion, is leaving the earth sign Taurus and entering the air sign Gemini on May 25. In the next stage of our journey, we will be more socially oriented and open-minded to ideas from all sides.

Everything to know about the planet Jupiter in astrology

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The Planet Jupiter

Astronomically, Jupiter is the fifth planet from the Sun and the largest in our solar system—also known as the “gas giant.” Jupiter can also be viewed as the bodyguard, protecting our home planet from incoming asteroids.

Astrologically, Jupiter bestows luck and expansive opportunities in our natal charts and transits. Due to its exuberant nature, it can over-inflate good and challenging aspects. In your darkest hour and time of need, look to your Jupiter sign as the key and clue to where you can find the silver lining. You may be in for a huge lesson and luck wherever Jupiter touches your birth chart or in transit. The teacher or guru often walks into your life around these momentous periods, and so long as you are open to learning, you, too, one day will become the teacher as well. Click here to find out where your Jupiter is in your birth chart.

When Does Jupiter Enter Gemini?

Jupiter in Gemini Dates: May 25, 2024 to June 9, 2025

What Does Jupiter in Gemini Mean For You?

Let’s explore this last year before we dive into what’s next. The planet Jupiter spends 12 months in every sign. From 2023 to 2024, while in Taurus, our primary focus was exploring the path of self-worth, wealth, and financial security. Although Taurus is a grounded and earthy sign, last year felt anything but because Jupiter inflates and expands on whatever it touches. Sound familiar? We experienced inflation, resulting in a rise in food prices while also becoming more indulgent and spending more on material comforts.

It could have been a challenging year regarding real estate or business ventures, as everything felt stuck because Jupiter enhances whatever it touches. With Taurus's fixed energy escalated by Jupiter’s influence, it could have already made us feel like sitting ducks with a massive credit card bill. Online shopping and retail therapy galore.

The good news is that as Jupiter shifts, we will focus on collaboration, communication, and multiple streams of opportunities. Although Jupiter is astrologically considered in a “detrimental” position with Gemini, there is a plus side when this transit occurs.

The sign of Gemini extends an outlet for us to become more experimental in our lives. It can be a perfect time to begin that side hustle you were contemplating alongside your job. This is the period to “explore,” not invest. Jupiter in Gemini will give us fun, exploration, and opportunity. Our social calendars are also expected to erupt, and it's time to party.

It is about openness and possibility – refrain from dogmatic systems to stay afloat.

Note that Jupiter last appeared in Gemini in 2012. Reflect on what happened in your life then and for the collective to see what themes may be resurfacing.

Meanwhile, if you have a mutable rising sign or are a mutable sign – Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, or Pisces – Jupiter in Gemini will light up your year.

What Happened 12 Years Ago When Jupiter Was in Gemini?

The last time when Jupiter was in Gemini, pop culture was electrifying with the rise of K-Pop, and Kim and Kanye got together, birthing their ship name ‘Kimye.’ We can expect bands to reemerge as Gemini is about interconnectedness and teamwork. Life was more collaborative and filled with incoming messages from all sides.

Information can get a bit scattered as Gemini represents messages and experimentation. So, it is best to slow down and listen intently before jumping into the next big thing.

It was also the year Taylor Swift released her Red album while dating Harry Styles. FYI, Taylor is a Sagittarius, and we will likely receive big news later this year. Here's a little cosmic intel: Jupiter will trine her North Node in Aquarius in September, opening a door for her to explore her story even deeper. It can push her to tap into a wellspring of creativity while she uncovers a new approach involving her talents. It will likely attract incredible breakthroughs involving personal development and destiny. Could it be a marriage proposal? Shift in love status? Album drop? Time will tell.

While we wait and see what happens, listen to The Tortured Poets Department. I’m a big fan of this one.

Your Jupiter in Gemini Reading For Every Astrological Sign

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Read for your sun, moon, and rising sign for an extended interpretation.

Aries

Exciting things will emerge as Jupiter will reside in your 3rd house of communication and ideas. It is time to level up your knowledge, requiring you to start something new that involves your skills. Embrace curiosity as you explore new subjects, languages, and connections. There is potential for short-distance travel to enhance your educational or business pursuits. Your adaptability shines, effortlessly navigating diverse situations with confidence. Avoid scattering your focus and prioritize your goals, maintaining consistency in your efforts. A structured approach to your studies or projects will prevent you from spreading yourself too thin. By setting clear objectives and staying disciplined, you can capitalize on these opportunities and bring your dreams to fruition during this transit.

Taurus

During Jupiter's transit through your 2nd house, Taurus, seize outlets to enhance your finances and values. It is time to step into your confidence and see your dreams take root by becoming more hands-on instead of waiting. Explore new income sources and improve your financial literacy to attract new income streams. Your adaptability shines this year, enabling you to navigate changing financial landscapes confidently. To achieve your goals, maintain discipline in your financial practices. Avoid impulsive spending and focus on creating a solid financial plan. Set savings goals and budget accordingly. With dedication and perseverance, you can lay the foundation for long-term financial stability and achieve your aspirations.

Gemini

This is your year, Gemini! With Jupiter in your 1st house, embrace opportunities for self-exploration and growth. Get out of your comfort zone by taking chances. The Universe grants your wishes when you remain curious and with an open heart. Embrace change confidently, knowing you can navigate diverse opportunities and challenges. To realize your visions, maintain discipline in focusing on your goals. Hone your skills, set clear objectives, and take decisive action. Avoid scattering your energy and stay committed to your aspirations. Harness Jupiter's expansive energy to manifest your dreams authentically and create a fulfilling future aligned with your true self.

Cancer

Get ready to witness your evolution as Jupiter navigates through your 12th house. This time will help you focus on your deep spiritual growth and inner exploration. Connect with your intuition and emotional depth. Tap into your inner truths while unpacking the unresolved. Dedicate time to meditation and self-reflection, releasing old patterns, and nurturing your spiritual side. To manifest your dreams, maintain discipline in your spiritual practice. Set energetic boundaries, prioritize self-care, and allow yourself to let go of what no longer serves you emotionally. By focusing on your spiritual journey, you can manifest your dreams with clarity and purpose, guided by the wisdom of your inner self.

Leo

This is your opportunity to expand your networks while reigniting your aspirations. Jupiter in your 11th house will power up your connections with like-minded individuals and join groups in alignment with your interests. Invest your time and energy in spaces that involve you to extend leadership while influencing others positively. With your social calendar booming this year, stay focused on long-term objectives, prioritize commitments, and avoid distractions. Set clear goals and take consistent action. Turn aspirations into tangible achievements, leaving a lasting impact on your social sphere.

Virgo

Expect recognition and career advancement as Jupiter is residing in your 10th house. Stepping up and showcasing your skills will shine. Your dedication will show as you share your true passions. If you have plans to launch your business or switch careers, this is your year. You will excel in your career endeavors, earning respect from peers and superiors. Stay focused on career goals, set high standards, and pursue growth opportunities. Avoid perfectionism and self-doubt, trusting in your abilities. With determination, climb the ladder of success and leave a lasting impact in your field. Boldness is key.

Libra

Jupiter takes over your 9th house realm, and your life will feel like Wonderland. This is your time for personal growth through higher learning and travel. Expand your horizons, explore new cultures, and deepen your understanding of the world. Learning prayer or meditation can be a powerful tool to level up your spiritual practice. Jupiter's touch will reconfigure anything you once considered tangible. Let go and observe possible new paths to help you achieve fulfillment. Share your story and listen to others to get perspective. Commit to educational pursuits or travel plans, prioritize learning opportunities aligned with your interests, and remain open-minded.

Scorpio

This will be a powerful time in your life, as Jupiter in your 8th house will scope opportunities to pay attention to your shared resources, intimacy, and unresolved fears. Your instincts will sharpen as you focus on your feelings toward others or situations. Embrace the quiet periods and invest time in your inner work. In doing so, your connections and your interconnectedness to life will deepen. The silver lining of this Jupiter transit lies in your emotional depth and intuitive ability. Facing your fears will open the door to your fulfillment. Commit to your healing and growth.

Sagittarius

This Jupiter phase will shift your focus toward your partnerships and relationships. With your 7th house active this year, it is your moment to understand your connections and gain clarity regarding your love status. Deepen connections, explore collaborations, and broaden your perspective on love. If you have experienced a waterlog in your love life, Jupiter in Gemini will breathe life back into your connection or in dating. Approach relationships with enthusiasm, embracing diverse experiences and perspectives. Commit to being unapologetically honest to attract healthy relationships, communicate openly, and be willing to compromise.

Capricorn

Expect your work and daily routines to go 180 as Jupiter takes rein in your 6th house. This is a period for you to seize opportunities at work while also refining your skills to enhance your efficiency. Observe what areas in your daily life need reinvention. It can be your wellness routine or your work environment. Establish healthy habits, set achievable goals, and focus on self-improvement professionally. Jupiter can escalate extremities, so remember that maintaining balance will attract steady progress in your career and complete alignment.

Aquarius

Fun times approach Aquarius as Jupiter crosses into your 5th house of creativity, self-expression, and romance. If you have experienced outmoded love stories or situationships, this is the year to explore deeper. Revamp your dating profile or take a class that unleashes your creative side. You may cross paths with “the one.” Something is ready to be birthed into existence (figuratively or literally). Think outside the box, experiment with ideas, and infuse creativity with your unique perspective. Be receptive to new ideas and approaches – don’t overthink it. In small, measured steps, get ready to witness your passions reach fruition.

Pisces

Expect harmonious breakthroughs involving your emotional security and family systems as Jupiter resides in your 4th house this year. This can manifest a change of residence to a larger space or renovation. You will likely need to reevaluate your priorities at work while figuring out what truly matters to you. As you return to your family roots, you will have an opportunity to understand the root of your past regrets. Living conditions and family life will improve as you commit to creating a harmonious home, prioritize self-care, and make space for resolution with family.

Want to learn the basics of astrology and decode your birth chart? Take a look at Lumi's free beginner's astrology workbook.

There are plenty of celebrity couples that are able to balance cool yet relatable, and the coolest of all might just be Justin and Hailey Bieber. The couple is everywhere right now, thanks to Hailey Bieber's Rhode skincare and Justin Bieber's stint as an honorary celebrity co-captain at the 2024 NHL all-star game. Amid reports that the couple has had some serious issues this year, a People source promises "they are very, very happy.” Whew! Here's a full look back on their relationship.

How long have Justin and Hailey Bieber been married?

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Justin and Hailey Bieber have been married for almost six years! They tied the knot in 2018 after they were seen walking into a courthouse, but the larger ceremony that had was filled with their closest loved ones.

They looked so stunning that I'm sure Hailey Bieber's look made it to our list of celebrity wedding dresses we can't get enough of.

How far along is Hailey Bieber?

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Ever since the couple shared their sweet baby announcement yesterday, fans have been wondering how far along Hailey Beiber is. People confirmed that she's six months and even shared some cryptic clues about her pregnancy despite not fully being ready to share the happy news with the public.

Justin And Hailey Bieber's Full Relationship Timeline

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November 2009 — Justin Bieber And Hailey Bieber Meet At The Today Show

Justin and Hailey Bieber first met in 2009, when he was 15 and she was 12, when he performed "Baby" at the Today show. According to People, the friendship between Hailey's dad Stephen Baldwin and Justin's mom Pattie Mallette led to the introduction.

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February 2, 2011 — Hailey Bieber Attends The Premiere Of Justin Bieber: Never Say Never

Justin Bieber's Never Say Never documentary thrilled Justin Bieber fans (called Beliebers) — but even though Hailey was excited to be at the NYC premiere, she told Vogue in 2019 she didn't consider herself a superfan.

"It was never that crazed, screaming thing," she says. "I didn't think about it in any kind of way except for the fact that he was cute. Everybody had a crush on him. But for the first few years we had a weird age gap."

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November 10, 2014 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Reconnect

In late 2014, Justin and Hailey Bieber were joined by Kendall Jenner at a Hillsong New York service. "One day Justin walked into Hillsong and was like, 'Hey, you got older,'" Hailey tells Vogue. "Over time he became my best guy friend. I was running around with him as his homie, but we weren't hanging out [romantically].""

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February 11, 2016 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Are Officially An Item...Kind Of

After sharing a passionate New Year's Eve kiss, Justin Bieber seemingly confirmed his relationship with Hailey right before Valentine's Day. "[She's] someone I really love. We spend a lot of time together," he tells GQ. However, he doesn't call her his girlfriend.

"I don’t want to put anyone in a position where they feel like I’m only theirs, only to be hurt in the end," he continues. "In the past I’ve hurt people and said things that I didn’t mean to make them happy in the moment. So now I’m just more so looking at the future, making sure I’m not damaging them. What if Hailey ends up being the girl I’m gonna marry, right?...I just don’t want to hurt her."Hailey went on to tell E! News that same day they were "not an exclusive couple."

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Spring 2016 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Break Up

After the February 2016 GQ story went live, Justing and Hailey Bieber split. But, according to Hailey, it felt much more intense than that. "'Fizzled' would not be the right word — it was more like a very dramatic excommunication," she tells Vogue. "There was a period where if I walked into a room, he would walk out."

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July 7, 2018 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Get Engaged

Justin and Hailey Bieber reconnected at a Miami conference from pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr., and by then, Hailey says, they were past the drama. Things fell into place quickly, and TMZ announced the couple's engagement in July.

"He was the first person I ever had real feelings for," Hailey later says in an episode of Justin Bieber: Seasons. "When things kind of went south for a little bit and we went our separate ways, I just knew that no matter what the outcome was going to be, he was going to be somebody that I loved for the rest of my life."

"Hailey I am soooo in love with everything about you!" Justin says in his official Instagram announcement. "So committed to spending my life getting to know every single part of you loving you patiently and kindLY. I promise to lead our family with honor and integrity letting Jesus through his Holy Spirit guide us in everything we do and every decision we make. My heart is COMPLETELY and FULLY YOURS and I will ALWAYS put you first! You are the love of my life Hailey Baldwin and I wouldn’t want to spend it with anybody else."

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September 2018 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Get Married

After moving in together, the couple was seen walking into a courthouse in the fall (via TMZ)! Since slipping wedding bands on each other's fingers, both Justin and Hailey Bieber have admitted their relationship has taken a ton of work.

"I remember when I first got married, I hit a little bit of an emotional breakdown because I thought marriage was going to fix all my problems and it didn't," Justin says in an interview with Apple Music 1's Ebro Darden (via Billboard). "You want your wife to do something that you're not doing and it's like, it's hard sometimes to look in the mirror and really have to realize, man, maybe you're not the person that you necessarily thought that you were."

"There's a reason they say 'for better or for worse.' Like, that's for real!" Hailey tells Harper's Bazaar. "I might fly somewhere and go do a job, but I can't wait to come back and hang out. And I feel like that's because of the effort that's been put in on both sides. At the end of the day, like, he's my best friend, but it still does take a lot of work to make it work."

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February 7, 2019 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Have Their First Photoshoot Together

For Vogue's February 2019 issue, Justin and Hailey Bieber go deep into their relationship (the photos for the issue are beautiful, with the couple in shades of cream and white, with bejeweled details).
“I just feel like I care so much and I want things to be so good and I want people to like me," Justin says. "Hailey’s very logical and structured, which I need. I’ve always wanted security...with the lifestyle I live, everything is so uncertain. I need one thing that’s certain."
"I’m fighting to do this the right way, to build a healthy relationship,” Hailey says. “I’m not going to sit here and lie and say it’s all a magical fantasy. It’s always going to be hard. It’s a choice. You don’t feel it every single day...But there’s something beautiful about it anyway — about wanting to fight for something, commit to building with someone."
"We’re committed to growing together and supporting each other in those changes," she continues. "That’s how I look at it. At the end of the day, too, he’s my best friend. I never get sick of him.”

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January 27, 2020 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Attend The Premiere Of Justin Bieber: Seasons

For a date night at the beginning of 2020, Justin and Hailey Bieber attended the LA premiere of his YouTube Original Justin Bieber: Seasons. Ahead of the screening at the Regency Bruin Theatre, the couple hit the red carpet. Justin wore pink pants and a white sweater, while Hailey looked chic in a sequined black dress.

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September 13, 2021 — Justin Bieber And Hailey Bieber Attend The 2021 Met Gala

To celebrate the Met's America: A Lexicon Of Fashion exhibit at the end of 2021, Justin and Hailey Bieber went old school glam for the Met Gala red carpet, with chic outfits and statement jewelry. Unfortunately, their appearance went viral for a different reason when fans of Justin's ex-girlfriend Selena Gomez started changing *her* name during Hailey's time on the carpet.

“It was disrespectful," Hailey says during an episode of Alex Cooper's Call Her Daddy podcast. "To me, to my relationship. It just was. Period. The end.”

While some fans think a feud has existed between Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber for years, Hailey says "there's no drama, personally."

"I can say, period, point blank, I was never with him when he was in a relationship with anybody — that's the end of it," she adds.

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March 10, 2022 — Hailey Bieber Suffers A Mini Stroke

During the spring of 2022, Justin and Hailey Bieber were eating breakfast together when the model "started having stroke-like symptoms and was taken to the hospital," she wrote in an Instagram story (via ABC News). In a YouTube video sharing her story, Hailey explains that she was diagnosed with a patent foramen ovale (or PFO), which is a hole between your heart's left and right upper chambers.

On March 16, during Justin Bieber's concert in Denver, the singer confirmed Hailey had been doing better. "She's okay, she's good. It's been scary, you know, it's been really scary but I know for a fact that God has her in the palm of his hands."

The couple later walked the Grammys red carpet in Las Vegas on April 3.

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September 13, 2022 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Celebrate Their Four Year Anniversary

Both Justin and Hailey Bieber posted about their fourth wedding anniversary in honor of the special day! "Happy anniversary to my best friend and wifey," Justin posted. "thank u for making me better in every way."

"4 years married to you," Hailey says on Instagram. "the most beautiful human I’ve ever known... love of my life. Thank God for you."

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November 21, 2022 — Justin Bieber Celebrates Hailey Bieber's Birthday

Hailey Bieber turned 26 while the couple was on a trip to Japan, which meant Justin's Instagram post was 14 hours earlier for all their friends and family in North America!

"HAPPY BIRFDAY TO MY FAVORITE HUMAN BEING, XOXO," Justin says in the post. "YOU MAKE LIFE MAGIC 😭 OBSESSED WITH EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. LOVE YOU BUM BUM."

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May 14, 2023 — Hailey Bieber Is Ready For Kids

"I want kids so bad but I get scared," Hailey Bieber tells The Sunday Times. "It's enough that people say things about my husband or my friends. I can't imagine having to confront people saying things about a child."

And in an interview with GQ Hype later that year, Hailey says that while she looks forward to motherhood, she won't be in a rush to tell the world when she does get pregnant: "When there comes a day that that is true, you, you as in the internet, will be the last to know."

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March 1, 2024 — Hailey Bieber Celebrates Justin Bieber's 30th

Justin Bieber finally joined the thirty, flirty, and thriving club in 2024 and Hailey was over the moon. "30!!!!!!!????!!????!!!!" she says on Instagram. "that was fast. words could never truly describe the beauty of who you are. Happy Birthday to you… love of my life, for life."

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April 3, 2024 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Are "Very, Very Happy"

After rumors began circulating that Justin and Hailey Bieber were having some serious issues, a source tells People the couple is “doing really well."

“There’s no divorce and no truth to that whatsoever,” the source says. “They are very, very happy.”

Hailey Bieber herself weighed in on the rumors in March, when she posted the above message on her Instagram story. "Just FYI the stories and constant ‘blind items’ I see on TikTok are 100% of the time wrong. Made out of thin air," she says. “So I know it may be fun feeding into these stories but just know they’re always false xx sorry to spoil it."

April 15, 2024 — Justin Bieber Celebrates His "Soulmate"

Following the first weekend of Coachella, Justin Bieber shared a video (originally posted to a fan account) that shows him standing with Hailey during a show. The fan account captioned the video, "JUSTIN AND HAILEY ARE SOULMATES IDC WHAT ANYONE SAYS," and TBH I totally agree. The video shows Justin and Hailey Bieber swaying to a song, and Justin kissing her on the forehead.

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May 2024 — Justin and Hailey Announce They're Expecting Their First Baby

After mentioning she was ready for kids a year ago, Hailey Bieber's pregnant! So far, Hailey Bieber's pregnancy announcement carousel on Instagram has almost 10 million likes and tons of praise! Revolve even left this sweet comment: "couldn’t be happier for you guys🥹🤍."

But, the best praise came from Justin and Hailey Bieber's families. Justin's mom, Patti Mallette, took to Instagram to share her thoughts in a reel on Instagram that captured her excitement about becoming a grandma. She squealed, "Oh my gosh, I'm gonna be a grandmom! Oh my goodness!"

She also left a happy message on Stephen Baldwin's Instagramthat made some fans question if she was revealing if Justin and Hailey Bieber are having twins. She initially wrote, "Congratulations Grandpa! WE ARE GONNA HAVE THE CUTEST GRAND-BABIES EVER!" but circled back to let people know, "No not twins lol I wish. I just mean in general. Hopefully they will have more than one eventually. They will make beautiful babies whenever they have them. One is enough for now 😂"

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I wasn't always as much of a reader — I'd read a bit here and there, but not nearly as much as I do now. It all changed one day as I was scrolling TikTok and found a bunch of book recommendations that peeked my curiosity. I decided to read one...suddenly, I was up all night long, desperate to finish the book in one sitting. After one book, I was hooked and instantly fell in love with reading all over again. I wanted to try and encapsulate that feeling for you, if you're feeling the same way. So keep reading, to find all my picks that will have you up until 2 A.M. on the edge of your seat, trying to finish a book. You will seriously love these! We've got everything from spicy romantasy to captivating memoirs! You won't want to miss them.

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Funny Story by Emily Henry

I had to start off with my absolute favorite from this roundup! Emily Henry is just one of those feel-good writers that truly creates characters you fall in love with, and this book was no exception. I fell more in love with these characters than any of her previous works! It's about Daphne and Miles who end up moving in together after their significant others cheat on them and get engaged (yikes, I know). It tells the story of two broken people putting each other back together and forming a deep bond and mutual respect for each other; despite their seemingly many differences. I love these characters, and will most likely be reading this again over the course of the year, because this is my new comfort book!

Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros

The long-awaited sequel to Fourth Wing was another addition that had me sitting at the edge of my seat until the very end. A lot of fans critiqued the writing for seeming too rushed but I didn't mind because I was eager for the sequel and honestly still really enjoyed the story! It continues with Xaden and Violet as they navigate tension, training, their relationship, family troubles, and of course... their dragons. The humor in this one is a 10/10 from the dragons, and the conflict built up throughout the whole book! I really enjoyed and will be eagerly awaiting the 3rd installment!

Once Upon A Broken Heart by Stephanie Garber

I was hesitant about this series but quickly fell in love with the magical world-building, and quick-witted characters. This book tells the story of brokenhearted Evangeline who, after the love of her life being seemingly cursed to marry another woman, tries to find solace and help from the cruel Prince of Hearts. She strikes a deal with him to get back her love, but instead, binds her to the Prince. Will she get back her true love? Or find a new one along the way? You have to read to find out!

Good Girl Bad Blood by Holly Jackson

This book is a sequel to the Holly Jackson series that we saw in our first bout of Booktok love last year. It follows Pip as she is not a detective anymore but after getting close with a true-crime podcaster, Ravi, and a disappearance occurring that the police aren't doing anything about... Pip might have to step in and save the day once more.

The Idea of You by Robinne Lee

Due to the movie coming out recently, TikTok has been ablaze with the resurgence of the book and it lives up to the hype. Personally, I prefer the book in terms of storyline, but the movie ending was much better. This follows a mom of a teen girl who ends up meeting and falling in love with her daughter's favorite boyband member. You see Solene as she navigates the relationship with her daughter, herself, and Hayes. Will they be able to make it work despite all odds?

Powerless by Lauren Roberts

This book has taken TikTok by storm given all the love for the romantasy genre. It's a story of trials and competitions between rivals but in the midst of these competitions that happen on a magical island, what love will unfold in the midst? Read this book for a similar vibe to Hunger Games, but with a twist.

The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah

This Kristin Hannah book opens in 1947 Alaska, where Ernst Albright is making his way home after serving and fighting in the Vietnam War. The gruesome realities of war changed him, and now his family is taking the brunt of the frustration and confusion Ernst is dealing with. After too many incidents gone wrong, he moves his wife and daughter to an isolated and lonesome part of Alaska. Though troubling circumstances, the family is comforted by the people in the small town and their kindness. But once the darkness of winter hits, not much can help them face Alaska's harsh environment. This book shows a family trying to grapple with their own problems in isolation while uncovering truths about survival *and* the outdoors. With over 772,000 ratings on Goodreads and 147,000 on Amazon, we see why this book is a top pick amongst readers!

Part of Your World by Abby Jimenez

One author that BookTok loves is definitely Abby Jimenez! People can't get enough of her books, and I completely agree!

After a bad driving instance with a baby goat (it's a long story), Alexis hightails to a random town's bar while she awaits a tow truck. A local town legend and much younger man, Daniel Grant, is the man who helps her in her dire time of need. Lucky for her, he knows his way around and happens to be super charming. Not so lucky for him, the town has a lot of single man that also happen to be intrigued by Alexis. But the two have a pull towards each other that they can't seem to deny. While they share attraction and intrigue, they live complete different lives in completely different cities. How will the two navigate a relationship if it ever came to that? And would they be able to make it work even when it seems like nothing is going their way?

This is such a sweet read that will have you rooting for this adorable couple instantly! This will be sure to have you on the edge of your seat to see if the couple can make it work despite all odds!

Better Than The Movies by Lynn Painter

This book is a simple romcom that BookTok has obsessed over lately! I'd recommend this and the follow-up sequel!

Hopeful romantic and optimist Liz is in love with Michael (and has been for years), but he is unaware of this crush. When he decides to move back into town, Liz decides she will do anything to get his attention. Even if she has to fool him, by giving attention to Wes, who is her obnoxious next-door-neighbor. Will she win over Michael? Or will Wes win her over? Read to find out!

I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jeanette McCurdy

This is the painfully truthful memoir by Jeanette McCurdy, who grew up as a child start on Nickelodeon. It deals with the hard truths and vulnerable feelings she had towards her mother, who was neglectful and traumatizing in how she raised her. It is an incredible memoir that deals with heartbreaking honesty, with yourself and with others. BookTok (and myself) gives this an A+ rating for sure!

Nora Goes Off Script by Annabel Monaghan

I LOVE Annabel Monaghan, and actually her because of BookTok. This story is about an author, Nora, who writes romance like nobody's business. She knows how it works, and writes it well. But when her husband leaves her and her child while she is in the middle of a movie being made about one of her books, she doesn't know what she'll do. That is until movie star, Leo, moves in and shows her a glimpse of romance that she hadn't yet experienced. But Leo has a big career in Hollywood, and Nora has a life and problems to figure out. Read to see where the story takes them!

Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez

This is Abby's newest release, and it's SO good! Having just read it in preparation for the summer myself, I can say it is such a fun and easy read that you won't be able to put down.

It tells the story of Justin and Ellie, two people who believe they are curse in relationships with never finding "the one." The real kicker? Following every breakup, their ex finds their "the one" immediately afterwards and gets to live there happily-ever-after while Justin and Ellie are left single once again. The two find each other on a reddit thread and make plans to jokingly date each other into order to break each other's curses. But fate has other plans for these two unlucky romantics. Dating each other turns out to be far from a joke and not at all going according to their plan. As love, family tension, and passion arises, will they allow themselves to take a chance on each other? Or will they leave as heartbroken as they came? Read this sweet summer read to find out!

House of Flame and Shadow by Sarah J Maas

Everyone knows that there's one reigning author of BookTok at the moment, and that, my friends, is Sarah J Maas. She's probably the most talked about author right now, and for good reason. She writes suspense-filled, romantasy books that you simply can't get enough of. I love her Crescent City series, and this particular book is the third installment. It continues the story of Bryce as she navigates an entirely new world, and Hunt as he's desperate to find her and help her. This series will have you staying up all night, turning pages, and dying to see what happens to the characters. 10/10 absolutely recommend.

The Women by Kristin Hannah

The story starts in SoCal in 1965 with leading lady Frances McGrath studying to be a nurse. She grew up with quite a conservative family, but formed her own way as she grew up, stepping step off the path she was raised in. When her brother joins the army, Frankie makes the daring decision to join him as a nurse.

She discovers so much destruction and hardship, but in the face of overwhelming horrors, Frankie forges friendships, overcomes struggles, and fights her way to make it through. This book shows you what it means to be courageous and to make your own destiny.

Yours Truly by Abby Jimenez

This is probably Jimenez's most popular book, with over 250,000 ratings on Goodreads and over 22,000 reviews on Amazon.Yours Truly tells the story of a woman name Dr. Brianna Ortiz who recently went through a divorce and is feeling painfully stagnant in her life. She's dealing with so many mixed emotions, family troubles, and the promotion she wants at her job might be going to a doctor that she absolutely does not like. Then...said doctor ends up writing her a note that has her re-thinking her hatred for him. She starts to see a side of him that she hadn't before and she begins to even....look forward to his letters. To top it all off, he ends up doing about the biggest favor a person could ever do. He gives her brother a kidney he's been needing for surgery. Which leaves her no choice but to owe him big time. What will happen when the doctor wants to cash in on that favor? And how will their relationship change?

The Serpent and the Wings of Night by Carissa Broadbent

This book is my current obsession. It's like if Twilight and Hunger Games had a baby, and that's exactly what it would be.

Oraya was adopted by an evil vampire King who had her compete in a competition for survival. The winner gets one wish from the Queen; anything and it will be granted. Except she's only human so she forms and alliance with the cruel vampire Raihn who may not be as awful as he seems. Follow Oriya's journey as she competes to the death and may discover some intersting truths about her past along the way. This book has fantasy, romance, adventure, and fighting all in one!

The Ashes and the Star-Cursed King by Carissa Broadbent

The sequel in this series has me in just as much of a chokehold as the first did, and dare I say...it may be BETTER than the first. The storytelling and writing is just phenomenal, and I'm so happy I found this one on BookTok! It continues the story of Raihn and Oraya as the try to survive in a new kingdom and overcome their past demons. Will they make it out alive? And will they still have each other at the end of it?

Normal People by Sally Rooney

Sally Rooney is 100% a BookTok fave at any given moment, especially with the amp up to her newest release, Intermezzo! This story follows two complex individuals, Marianne and Connell, as they navigate their feelings and friendship toward one another over the years. The plot shows them from school all the way past college. You see them grow into their own lives while trying to stay connected and figure out their feelings for another.

The heart of this story is about the complexity of what it means to be human and how that affects our day-to-day relationships with one another, especially when we're fighting our own demons and misunderstandings. You'll see these two characters explore intimacy, friendship, love, jealousy, and conflict all interwoven together.

This Could Be Us by Kennedy Ryan

Kennedy Ryan is a newer author that I was introduced to via Tiktok (obvi), and I'm so glad I did because this really is what women's fiction is all about. She tells stories about beautifully strong women where the romance just happens to be a backstory. This particular story follows a woman, Soledad, who's dealing with a divorce and trying to find herself, only for an unexpected man comes into the picture and makes her question everything. Read through Soledad's journey where you will uncover self-discovery and most of all self-acceptance!

Everything I Know About Love by Dolly Alderton

This incredibly vulnerable Dolly Alderton book is a relatable memoir that explores what it's like to be a young woman navigating life in the current world. Dolly Alderton writes about her experience in life, love, dating, men, and food. You name it, she talks about it. She candidly depicts her pits and peaks managing whatever life threw at her. The book is also deeply rooted in friendship, specifically Dolly's relationship with an old childhood friend named Carly. I guarantee that you will laugh, cry, and feel every emotion with this booktok fave!

Twisted Series by Ana Huang

This BookTok series has been all over my FYP because apparently each book is better than the last! They depict vastly different romances, and I guarantee you that you will be anxiously turning the page to see what happens next! Definitely a 10/10 easy and fun romance read to add to your TBR pile!

The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

This Kristin Hannah bestseller is set in 1939 France during World War II, and uncovers what it means to find love in tragedy. It follows Vianne Mauriac, who's sending her husband off to the war against the Nazis. Shortly after, a German captain invades her home, jeopardizing her and her daughter's safety.

Meanwhile, Vianne's sister falls in love with a Frenchman. But when he betrays her, she joins the Resistance, leaving trouble and worry in her path. This book will take you through the ups and downs of love, the chaos of wartime, and the strength of family.

Conversations With Friends by Sally Rooney

Another Sally Rooney fave! I've seen sooo many TikTok edits of this one, further showcasing it as a BookTok staple. This popular best-seller depicts two young college friends, Bobbi and Frances, as they befriend married couple Melissa and Nick. The book shows the challenging and changing dynamic of the relationship when the characters realize feelings are shared between Melissa and Bobbi, and Frances and Nick. Now, they have to This navigate the tangled web of confusion, love, and attraction.

While not necessarily a romance book, it does explore themes of love and how we react when we become overwhelmed by the reality of it. As readers, we slowly get to uncover Frances' real feelings and how complicated it can be to navigate them as a young adult.

Beach Read by Emily Henry

This amazing Emily Henry book is probably one of my favorites of all time! I genuinely can't describe how much it will make you feel. It's the perfect summer read, and BookTok definitely agrees.

Augustus writes literary fiction and January writes romance, the two couldn't have less in common... or so they think. They end up being neighbors and forming somewhat of a mild friendship/enemy-ship that challenges each other to try writing in each other's genre. But little do they know, that a love story is writing itself between the two of them as they share memories, feelings, and sweet moments. They might just find out that they have more in common than they think.

(PS: They're working on a movie for Beach Readas we speak!)

Archer's Voice by Mia Sheridan

Oh my goodness, this book seriously got me out of my reading funk! I felt so much throughout this story, and genuinely thought my heart explode from everything that goes down. It follows Bree, our FMC, who wants to explore a small town. As she explores more, she realizes there's a man who was shunned from the town, constantly treated so badly by everyone. Bree can't help but want to know more, and she learns that man, Archer, suffered a bad accident that left him unable to speak afterwards. Slowly but surely, Archer lets Bree in, and she starts to develop feelings. What will this mean for the two? And can they stand the pressure of the town's dismay?

Good Material by Dolly Alderton

Good Material is the latest Dolly Alderton book, which debuted in November 2023. It offers quite a different feel from her previous works as it's written from a male's perspective. The book follows the story of couple Andy and Jen, who have recently ended their relationship. Andy is gutted by the breakup and hopes to win back his now ex-girlfriend all the while trying to launch his standup career. Throughout most of the book, we see the story from Andy's side. Once you think you have the whole story, a surprising perspective shift will help illuminate what the true downfall of the relationship was, and shed light on Jen's point-of-view. If you're looking for a book to help you cope with a recent breakup, this one's definitely for you. After tearing through this read, we can't wait to see what Dolly Alderton cooks up next.

Magnolia Parks Series by Jesse Hastings

I had to highlight this series because it's quite literally what I would imagine Gossip Girl to be if it took place in England. It has drama, romance, tension, self-discovery and so much more! Read this for a drama-filled treat with so many ups and downs, you won't be able to put the book down!

Dear Dolly by Dolly Alderton

Dolly Alderton is a former columnist for The Sunday Times, and she's now an author of four incredible, best-selling books. She's definitely well-loved by TikTok given her honest and vulnerable storytelling. This book follows her as she answers questions in the classic Dolly way: with wit, honesty, and vulnerability.

Caught Up by Liz Tomforde

This whole series is constantly reposted on TikTok, and I'm definitely one of the girls hyping it up for how charming the storytelling and characters are. This one, specifically, depicts a single dad baseball player who is trying to raise his son while having a career when he finally hires a nanny — his coach's daughter. She's a spitfire and has a successful career that she's bent on getting back to after the summer. But will she get charmed by the two Rhodes boys?

I recommend this entire series, but make sure to read it in order! The varying characters pop up all throughout the series!

Same Time Next Summer by Annabel Monaghan

Another read that's just in time for the summer! Make sure to add this BookTok book to your packing list for vacation.

This story follows Sam who has a perfect life, perfect career, and perfect doctor fiancée. She thinks she has it all together... that is, until she loses her job and goes back home only to see her ex who broke her heart. Being back home causes her to reminisce on her childhood, and more specifically, her childhood love. Will Sam find out who she really is and who her heart wants?

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Picture it: you're waking up tired because of your partner's snoring so you're thinking about getting a "sleep divorce." You may have tried the Scandinavian Sleep Method or wearing earplugs to help you get cozier, but it's possible they didn't really help. Plus, if you've never slept separately from them, it can feel daunting to broach the topic let alone talk about the benefits of it. Take it from me, a conversation is necessary if you're dealing with sleep deprivation and find yourself being resentful towards your S.O.

There was a time I used to believe that it was cute to fall asleep holding my partner, but now I'm well aware that uninterrupted rest at night can lead to irritation that's not fair to anyone. Because there's several reasons why a "sleep divorce" may be necessary, I spoke with licensed clinical sleep psychologist Dr. Shelby Harris, the Director of Sleep Health at Sleepopolis, to explain what it is, why it's so popular, and how it may benefit couples long-term.

What is a sleep divorce and why do you feel it's gained traction recently?

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If you're wondering if a "sleep divorce" means you went to bed, woke up, and decided to get divorced, I'm here to let you know it's not as drastic. Dr. Harris says, "A sleep divorce is when couples decide to sleep in separate beds or rooms because of sleep disturbances from differing sleep schedules or comfort preferences." So if you're not a fan of your partner's snoring and you're been losing sleep over it, this could lead to a "sleep divorce."

According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, one-third of people report sleeping somewhere differently than their partner. This is "...fueled by a growing awareness of how important getting good sleep is for health and relationships, changing attitudes toward relationships that prioritize autonomy, and advancements in sleep technology that make separate sleeping arrangements possible and more comfortable," continues Dr. Harris.

What are some signs that a couple should consider getting a sleep divorce?

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No matter who you and your S.O. are, it's likely you have differing needs. I'm not telling you to prioritize your autonomy over your partner's, but it does help to have a conversation about losing sleep if that poses an issue. And as it turns out, you're not the only person who may be experiencing sleep issues.

Experts at eachnight discovered the top three states where couples have sleep struggles are New York, Massachusetts, and Maryland. They also discovered that 'insomnia' and 'sleep apnea' are the top two highest searched queries on Google.

Dr. Harris says, "If you're constantly waking up because of your partner's snoring or tossing and turning, feeling frustrated or exhausted from lack of sleep, or if you both have different sleep preferences, like mattress firmness or room temperature, it might be worth considering separate sleeping arrangements. It could help ease tensions and improve both of your sleep quality, benefiting your relationship in the long run."

How can couples benefit from a sleep divorce if they choose to pursue it?

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Admittedly, this is a question I've had for a while. Though I've made the decision to sleep in a separate room than my S.O., some people may feel uneasy taking that route. The good news is that Dr. Harris lists reasons why this can be beneficial for couples in the long run.

"A sleep divorce can benefit couples by giving each partner better sleep without disruptions, reducing any resentment that might arise from sleep issues, and improving intimacy since both partners are more rested and happier overall," she says. I know I wasn't a fan of how cranky I was in the morning so I personally swear by getting a "sleep divorce." It's been nice to actually get 8 hours of sleep without feeling sluggish by a certain time.

In Dr. Harris' opinion, "It's like hitting the reset button on sleep and relationships, helping them to understand and respect each other's needs while getting the best rest possible."

Do you believe couples are starting to find nontraditional avenues for successful relationships?

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Seeing how popular getting a "sleep divorce" has become, I wondered if couples sought creative solutions more today than they have previously.

Dr. Harris says, "Couples are discovering new ways to make their relationships work, even if they don't follow the traditional scripts we've seen in media and society. Whether it's through sleep divorces, open relationships, or challenging gender roles, people are realizing that what matters most is their own happiness and fulfillment."

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