14 Solo Date Ideas to Reconnect With Yourself (Because You Deserve It)

1. Have A Mini Picnic At The Park

If you've always dreamed about eating your favorite foods at a park by yourself, here's your sign to do it this year! You don't have to spread a blanket unless you want, but you do have to bring your good vibes and the treats you don't like sharing with anyone. Sounds like a plan, right?

2. Head To A Local Café For Uninterrupted Scrolling On Pinterest

Can't a girl scroll Pinterest in peace without someone asking 50,000 questions? I bet you've asked yourself this countless times so here's a nudge to take your hobby to your local café for uninterrupted concentration. You've got several boards to pin new ideas to, after all.

3. Get The Facial You've Been Putting Off

This is the year you and I finally get the Hydrafacials we've been thinking about. While your reason for wanting one may look different from mine, it still counts as a little solo date that'll help our skin glow. If you ask me, that sounds a little magical.

4. Schedule A Deep Tissue Massage

You know what? Bypass the facial and head straight for a deep tissue massage. I know this year's already got you feeling stressed so take the time to relax so you can get through whatever life throws your way.

5. Take A Pottery Class

There's certain scenes from Ghost that occupy my mind and one of them involves pottery. But you don't need a sexy partner to recreate the scene because this solo date idea is all about you. It doesn't matter if you create something perfect or not either.

This is prime time for being a little silly and creative.

6. Make A Reservation At A Cute Restaurant

You know that cute restaurant you've been wanting to try? Go ahead and book your reservation now! You'll be glad you were one of the first people in your group chat to get in on the long wait list.

P.S. Don't be alarmed if you people stare at you because you don't owe them an explanation for dining alone.

7. Indulge In An Extended Self-Care Routine At Home

Turn up the spa vibes at home with an extended body and skincare routine. Start by exfoliating your arms and legs before applying your favorite soothing body wash all over. If you want, you can use your favorite cleanser in the shower to create your own steam treatment. From there, take your time moisturizing your body and be intentional about the serums you use on your face.

P.S. It's time to break out that face mask you just bought!

8. Have A Hotel Staycation

Splurge a little and book a staycation at a hotel downtown. You likely have your choice of at least one posh place to stay and I'm sure it's within walking distance of cute shops or restaurants.

P.S. Create boundaries by turning your phone on DND (after you've told everyone where you'll be of course!).

9. Volunteer At A Farm

Roll up your sleeves and volunteer at a local farm. It's a great way to spend time outdoors and you'll make your animal-loving heart happy. I mean, who wouldn't want to be allowed to brush a cute horse or two?

10. Take A Yoga Class

Stretch your body at a yoga class you've signed up for. You could easily spend another day or night following a routine from the comfort of your apartment, but it's okay to see real faces! Who knows, you may make a new friend who's also having a solo date.

11. Visit A New Area of Town

Allow your wanderlust to take over by visiting a new area of town. Chances are that you'll discover a new shop or activity you want to know more about. For example, a cute candle business may offer candle-making classes which sounds like a lot of fun to me.

12. Stop By Your Local Flea Market

Flea markets are still in business and have cute, nifty things you can take home. If you're participating in a "no-spend" month, you can always browse different booths to see what they have.

13. Spend A Few Hours At An Art Gallery

If you need a small or huge dose of inspiration, I highly recommend you stop by an art gallery sooner than later. It's a great way to ignite your inner creative while also calming your soul.

14. Unleash Your Inner Kid & Go On A Bike Ride

Do you remember when you used to beg your parents to let you ride your bike as a kid? It's time to revisit that feeling so you can pretend like anything is possible. But instead of racing, pedal slowly so you can take in the beauty of your surroundings.