Even if you鈥檙e not a mom, you鈥檝e probably heard of 鈥渕om-shaming.鈥 Even celebrity moms aren鈥檛 immune: Chrissy Teigen was shamed for a breastfeeding photo earlier in June.

Ask any mom about how other people talk to them about their parenting choices, and nearly all of them will have at least one horror story about being judged, shamed, and offered advice they never even asked for. And that鈥檚 no exaggeration: A new study confirms that two out of every three moms of young kids have been shamed for their parenting decisions.

The new study, conducted by the University of Michigan鈥檚 C.S. Mott Children鈥檚 Hospital, gathered responses from 475 moms who have at least one child between the ages of 0 and five. Many of them said they鈥檝e been shamed over decisions ranging from breastfeeding to childcare.

But some topics came up more than others when the moms noted what aspect of parenting they had been shamed for.

Of the women surveyed, 70 percent said they had been shamed for the way they discipline their children, the top 鈥渟hame-worthy鈥 category. But there鈥檚 oh-so-much-more that moms said they鈥檝e been judged for: 52 percent for nutrition and diet; 46 percent over sleep; 39 percent for their breastfeeding vs bottle feeding choices; 20 percent about child safety; and 16 percent reported being judged over childcare. That鈥檚 a lot of judgment coming at moms from pretty much every parenting angle.

If that鈥檚 not bad enough, this judgment is almost always coming from someone the mom is close to, or knows really well. Like Vanna, the moms who were polled reported that 37 percent of the time, the shaming came from their own parents. The mom鈥檚 spouse or child鈥檚 parent shamed them 36 percent of the time, and in-laws were the shamers 31 percent of the time. That鈥檚 right: A mom鈥檚 own parents and co-parent were shown to be shamier even than in-laws!

Vanna, a 30-year-old mom of two girls, tells Brit + Co that she and her mom had a huge argument over her breastfeeding choices after she gave birth to her oldest child. She tells us that she spent some time living with her mom after her oldest was born, and her mom quickly started pressuring her to bottle feed. Vanna wanted to breastfeed and had already started doing so, but her mom was insistent. Vanna never gave in, but her mom made her breastfeed in the privacy of the bathroom for the length of her stay.

Erica, a mom in her 40s, told Brit + Co that her oldest daughter has special needs. Because of this, Erica has received a ton of judgment and unsolicited advice as her daughter has grown up.

Erica says that her daughter, who is on the autism spectrum, could be easily overwhelmed with too much stimulation when she was younger. Though she and her daughter were working to develop coping tools together, Erica still received a ton of advice she didn鈥檛 want or need about parenting. She tells us that she was told to spank her daughter, and told that therapy was too excessive for their family鈥檚 needs.

Happy mother hugging her daughter with love and natural emotion smiling with closed eyes

Sarah Clark, co-director of the hospital鈥檚 poll, tells CBS that the survey鈥檚 data reveals 鈥渢he tensions moms face when parenting advice leads to more stress than reassurance and makes them feel more criticized than supported.鈥 Hearing the areas where moms feel the most shamed by others helps to shed light on how to actually help moms, instead of just further stressing them out and wearing them down when they鈥檙e already dealing with the challenges of raising young children.

Ultimately, unsolicited advice and judgment around parenting topics is really hurtful to moms. Clark tells CBS that it鈥檚 especially painful when the judgment comes from people that moms are close with. This dynamic can weaken close relationships: According to the new survey, 50 percent of moms said they avoid people who shame them over parenting.

Because moms need a ton of support, especially when their kids are young, they need as much help and love from those close to them as they can get. With this new poll鈥檚 insights, everyone can better understand how moms feel, and how best to help.

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