19 Drinking Glasses You Can DIY for Your Bachelorette Party

Wedding season is creeping up quick, and that means a few things: Yes, endless “research” for what to wear to a spring wedding, dreaming up the perfect bridal shower theme and, you guessed it, bachelorette parties (AKA the the fun part!). If you’re hosting a bachelorette party this season, amp it up by taking your glassware to a super festive level. Whether you’re upcycling glasses that you already own or jazzing up a new set, a little paint, glitter and gold foil are sure to kick ’em up a notch. Get ready, ’cause your wine/shot/pint/cocktail glasses are about to be as pretty as the bride.

DIY Floating Glitter Tumbler

Tumblers are a necessity for any day of the week, but they’re especially needed for the bachelorette party you’re throwing. Snag a basic photo tumbler or travel mug and fill the clear compartment with glitter and water. Screw the two pieces together and you’ll be ready to pour in your favorite cocktail in no time. (via Studio DIY)

DIY Glittered Champagne Flute

It’s a par-tay, which makes glitter a must. Pick up a set of plastic champagne glasses at the party store and use Mod Podge to create glitter stems. After you let them dry, they’ll be ready for the night. Cheers to glitter! (via Pretty My Party)

DIY Etched Glasses

Looking for a classy option? These etched glasses are super fun to make and add a simple-yet-unique touch to your glassware. Etch the bride’s initials on a whiskey tumbler or add a geometric design on stemless champagne flutes. Either way, your guests are about to be seriously impressed by your creativity. (via Brit + Co)

DIY Polka Dot Highball Glasses

When in doubt, you can’t go wrong with polka dots. All you need to do to create this look is punch holes in a sheet of vinyl. Then, stick it on the glass and swipe on a coat of glass paint. Carefully remove the vinyl and let your DIY shine. (via Front + Main)

DIY Color Block Frosted Tumblers

Tape off sections of your glass and use a foam brush to press on the paint. This blotting method gives it a frosted look that’s super chic. They only take a few minutes to DIY, and it doesn’t get any better than that. (via Vicky Barone)

DIY Straw + Message Bottle

Whether you’re bottling your favorite creation or picking up your favorite spritzer, custom labels and patterned straws can make a serious statement. Just download your favorite printable or hand-lettered print, DIY a cute label and cut some ribbon to tie everything on. (via Style Me Pretty)

DIY Mid-Century Mod Cocktail Glasses

Buying mid-century modern glasses can be a little on the pricey side. Instead, make this starburst glassware for a budget-friendly option that’s ideal for a millennial’s bachelorette party. Use an X-ACTO knife to cut stars on painter’s tape and use it as a stencil to paint on the liquid gold leaf. (via Palm Springs Style)

DIY Tassel Wine Charms

One reason to amp up your glasses for the bachelorette party is so that you don’t pick up the wrong drink. See? It’s totally necessary. If you’re running low on time or don’t want to buy a new set of wine glasses to DIY, make these wine charms as an alternative. Plus, they’ll definitely come in handy for this party and the rest of your bashes this season. (via Sugar and Charm)

DIY Marbled Glassware

Your huge (like, actually giant) collection of nail polish is about to seriously come in handy. Use the same technique that you would to marble your nails on the bottom of plain cups. For this DIY, snag a set of glass cups so you can clean up the edges with acetone. Pro tip: Plastic cups don’t mix well with nail polish remover. (via Makeup.com)

DIY Gold Leaf Cocktail Glasses

Gold foil is having a moment, and there isn’t a single person out there who’s mad about it. Put yours to good use by gilding clear glasses to create a brushed effect. The more imperfect, the better, so there’s no need to worry about making them precise. (via Kelli Hall)

DIY Pastel-Dipped Wine Glasses

Found: The DIY that you can do when you’re running super behind. If you’ve found yourself preparing for the party the night before, but still want to add a unique touch to your glasses, dip your wine glass stems in paint, let them dry and call it day. (via Boulevard Pink)

DIY Sprinkle-Dipped Glasses

Instead of buying a new set, dip your existing champagne glasses in sprinkles to give them a festive vibe. Yep, your hunt for the DIY that’s practically free is o-v-e-r. Bonus points are awarded to anyone who adds the adorable gumball drink stirrer. (via Bloom Designs)

DIY Gilded Stripe Glasses

You can never have too many tumblers. Buy a set of simple clear ones and paint on your favorite design. Painter’s tape is going to be your BFF because it makes doing these stripes *super* easy. You can reuse these glasses at every party you host this summer. Score! (We See Rainbows)

DIY Photo Wine Glasses

Instead of hanging a wall of photos at the bachelorette party, add them to the bottom of simple wine glasses. After the party, you can either send them home as favors for the bridesmaids or gift them to the bride so she’ll never forget the night. (via Brit + Co)

DIY Gold Confetti Tumblers

Confetti is totally necessary at any party, but if you’re not in the mood to clean up *that* mess, go for these DIY confetti tumblers instead. Stick adhesive dots to a glass cup and spray paint them your favorite color. Once it’s dry, peel ’em off, add your favorite cocktail and finish it off with a paper straw. (via Ernest Home Co.)

DIY Pineapple Paper Cup

Believe it or not, summer is *right* around the corner, and you know what that means? Cue the pineapple-themed everything. Purchase a pack of yellow paper cups and use a black permanent marker to create the pineapple design. If you want to really go over the top, glue on green paper to act as the leaves. (via Simple as That)

DIY Mason Jar Tumbler

If there are two things that we love more than anything, it’s mason jars and gold-dipped everything. Spice up your basic mason jars with a little gilded spray paint and letter decals to make it oh-so fancy. The best part? Your guests can take them home after the night is over, which means you’ve already got the party favors planned too. (via Pretty Providence)

DIY Painted Stemless Glasses

Add a set of stemless wine glasses to your cart to create these unique glasses. Instead of adding Mr. and Mrs., opt for things like MOH or BFF. Also, plastic glasses totally work for this. Hello, budget-friendly DIY! (via Something Turquoise)

DIY Wine + Shot Glass

Why choose between a wine glass and shot glass when you can haveboth? Pick up a set of plastic shooters and short tumblers and use epoxy to glue them together. Pro tip: Use glasses in the bride’s wedding colors. (via Brit + Co)

Whether you're the maid of honor who's making sure the bride-to-be has a super exciting send off into this next chapter, or the bride-to-be in question who would rather take the reins of her own destiny, it's likely that you're gonna plan a bachelorette party prior to The Big Day. Amid all the wedding dress shopping and tablescape planning and talking through literally every single detail, it's important that this once-in-a-lifetime celebration with the bridal party is particularly special. And while Austin and Nashvegas are never a bad choice for a bachelorette party, sometimes you just want something a little different. With that in mind, I've rounded up 10 of the best bachelorette party destinations to pick for your favorite bride this year! Cheers, girlies!

Best Bachelorette Party Destinations In The United States

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Naples, FL

There’s no better place to visit than sunny Florida and you can’t go wrong with a trip to Naples for a bachelorette party. Whether you want to relax by the beach or hit up the town, you’ll find everything in more in this city. Stay at the AC Naples Hotel 5th Avenue for easy access to the city’s unofficial main street and waterfront shopping destinations just a few steps away. For some nighttime fun, head on over to Cavo Lounge for a night full of dancing and drag shows and then late-night bites at The Hampton Social.

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Ocala, FL

Looking for a more niche-option? Visit Ocala, Florida to be immersed in nature and wildlife of all sorts. From accommodations to attractions, nature and animal lovers will be in heaven. Horse lovers will fall head over heels for The Equestrian Hotel where they can watch horse races and enjoy a rejuvenating spa appointment. When meal time rolls around, stop by Mark’s Prime Steakhouse or Katya Vineyards for wine tasting and delicious fine dining your party will love.

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Greenough, MT

A bride-to-be who can’t get enough of natural greenery will love a trip to Greenough, Montana. Start your trip at Paws Up Resort where you’ll find accommodations on a luxury ranch with glamping tents and vacation homes. Other activities in the area include trips to historical monuments like Greenough Mansion. Plus, stop by some craft distilleries including Montgomery Distillery to try hand crafted spirits and beverages.

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Dallas, TX

The catchphrase “Everything’s better in Texas” not only applies to the southern culture, but also the restaurants, entertainment, and accommodations that make Dallas a must-visit destination. For bachelorette parties, not only will you find boutique hotels like The Joule filled with luxurious amenities like a spa and rooftop pools, but attractions including Party Cove for a relaxed boating experience and The Dallas Party Bike for lots of laughs, sights, and good times all around. When it comes time to eat, you’ll want to make reservations at Crown Block and Hudson House.

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New Orleans, LA

New Orleans is known for its tasty food, soulful music, and historic landmarks making it the perfect bachelorette party destination. Kick your visit off right by getting a room at The Ritz Carlton which will immerse you into the heart of the French Quarter and then head on out to the streets to find a plethora of shops, restaurants, and activities. Stop by Brigtsen’s for some classic cajun cuisine and dance the night away at The Metropolitan.

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Long Island, NY

I know what you're thinking: the Hamptons? In this economy? Well, I'm here to let you in on a little secret — Long Island is much bigger than Montauk. TKTK Hampton Bays TKTK The Hampton Maid TKTK Greenport TKTK North Fork Vineyards like Wölffer Estate Vineyards and Rosehill Vineyards.

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Miami, FL

This may seem like your typical bachelorette party destination, but Miami is honestly always a smooth move. I'd book a star at The Goodtime Hotel so you can take advantage of Strawberry Moon and all it's party glory. Content Editor Haley Sprankle went recently, and there was a literal champagne shower in the middle of the pool...definitely good vibes for the girlies! If you're looking for some delicious dining, Miami has a ton of great food, too! Komodo is a sceney restaurant for all your Hot Girl pics (and the most delicious lobster lo mein), C.Viche 105 has amazing Peruvian fair like ceviche and lomo saltado, and Bachour is perfect for brunch! And while there's no shortage of places to go out in Miami, Wynwood is a great neighborhood to hit the town.

Best Bachelorette Party Destinations Around The World

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Paris, FR

Take a trip to Paris for an international and culturally-enriching experience suitable for any bachelorette party. Aside from seeing the Eiffel Tower, you can make pit stops at The Louvre, Arc de Triomphe, and Disneyland Paris. For added convenience, stay in the heart of Paris at Hotel Rochechouart that offers picturesque views and close proximity to popular destinations. There's plenty of perfect little side cafes and sweet spots to grab a drink, but here are a few options to keep in mind!
  • Visit one of the top 50 bars in the world, The Cambridge Public House, for unique cocktails and absolutely amazing pub food.
  • Swap out a more typical Magic Mike/Chippendales show and swing by Crazy Horse for a fun, artistic, and sexy show! The burlesque is amazing, and the girls will love sitting in the elegant theater with a few bottles of champagne to share. For a more tame burlesque show, visit the ever-iconic Moulin Rouge.
  • Book a reservation at Le Bon Georges for one of the best meals — and biggest wine selection!

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Atlantis, The Bahamas

Venture to the Bahamas to celebrate the bride-to-be at Atlantis. Choose from one of six resorts from The Cove for a more luxury stay to The Reef that’s geared more towards families. Aside from picturesque views and comfortable beds, you can engage in outdoor activities from marine adventures to crystal clear beaches for the ultimate relaxation experience. Plus, you may even be able to see some celebrities on your trip from Janet Jackson to DJ Pauly D.

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Cozumel, Mexico

Mexico is always a good idea for a bachelorette party. Be sure to book your stay at Meliá Cozumel — it's an all-inclusive resort so all you have to worry about is whether you want a piña colada or a frozen margarita. From there, you've got beach days, pool soaking, spa appointments, and girly time galore. Sit back, relax, and party.

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I'll admit out of the many teen dramas I've consumed, Outer Banks is one of the most ridiculous. But the insanity surrounding the plot is half the reason it's enjoyable! John B. wrestling an alligator with his bare hands? Kiara getting kidnapped then making a daring escape in her PJ's? John B. and Sarah getting married (kind of) by the power of "the sky, the stars, and the sea" after escaping the SBI?

Considering my favorite fan theory for the future is that Madelyn Cline's Sarah and Rudy Pankow's JJ learn they're secret siblings, I know the crazy train isn't slowing down anytime soon. I took to Reddit to find the wildest Outer Bankshot takes and I was not disappointed. Keep reading to see if you agree with any!

JJ and Kiara Never Should Have Happened

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While JJ and Kiara is one of the most popular ships on the show, a lot of Outer Banks fans think the "no Pogue-on-Pogue macking" rule from the pilot should have stayed in effect. The individual romances between Kiara and JJ, John B., and Pope make the story really messy, and the fact the show writes Kiara to be with all three of them in the span of three years gives a lot of viewers the ick.

I'll be team #Jiara forever (and literally screamed when The Backseat Lovers' "Kilby Girl" started playing during the motorcycle ride in season 3), but I'll say it would incredibly compelling to see a friend group take care of each other as much as the Pogues do without ever crossing over into romantic territory. That's found family, after all!

Pope Should Have Ditched The Treasure Hunt

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One Reddit user is convinced that "Pope should’ve focused on his future in school instead of giving everything up to search for treasure." And TBH, I totally agree.

In season 1, Pope has a breakthrough about the hidden treasure in the middle of his scholarship interview. He ditches the scholarship committee to tell the rest of the Pogues, throwing away a crazy educational opportunity. Pope beats himself up for it, and his parents definitely aren't pleased, but at least it meant he got to stay in the show instead of leaving for college, which leads me to...

Outer Banks Should Have Started With The Pogues In Their 20s

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As one of the only people alive who loves the post-time jump One Tree Hill, I would have loved to see OBX start off with the characters in their 20s (although it looks like that's where Outer Banks season 4 will pick up!). This would eliminate SO MANY problems from the jump because the Pogues wouldn't have to worry about missing school, they'd be more self-sufficient, and instead of being the same old high school drama, it could have provided a commentary on figuring out life in your 20s the same way Friends did.

Rafe Shouldn't Have Any Kind Of Redemption Arc In Outer Banks Season 4

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Drew Starkey the man that you are. According to one Reddit user, "Rafe should not have a love interest or a redemption arc" like we see in season 3. We spent all of season 1 and season 2 establishing that Rafe (played by Drew) would do anything it took to get what he wanted (including one successful murder and two other attempts?!). He shows next to no remorse for his actions, and exploring his literal psychopathic tendencies would take the show to a whole new level.

Big John Should Never Have Returned

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John B.'s dad's disappearance is the catalyst for the Pogues' journey at the beginning of Outer Banks, and Big John's return means the story feels somewhat repetitive in the third season, and it undoes a lot of the growth we've seen from John B. Plus, Big John is just SO chaotic, selfish, and dramatic. If he had truly died in season 1, we could have seen John B. wrestle with that finality, and how to cope with loss in the face of finding the treasure and falling in love with Sarah.

And Finally, Outer Banks Should Have Ended After Season 1

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Outer Banks season 1 was exactly what we needed at the height of the pandemic. It was escapist — both in terms of the beach vacation vibes, but also because the '00s aesthetic took us right back to simpler times — and it had such a wonderfully resolved finale that some fans think nothing has matched it.

Do you agree with any of these Outer Banks opinions? I'm such a romance fan, I don't know what I'd do if the show didn't have JJ and Kiara get together! Check out all the best New TV Shows coming this year for more.

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Spring has sprung, and we couldn't be more excited! There's something undeniably rejuvenating about the fresh spring air paired with an amazing cocktail, especially alongside some big, refreshing salads and quick one-pot spring dinners.

These invigorating spring cocktails give us plenty of color and subtle floral flavor for the season. All of these spring cocktail recipes are simple, colorful, and delicious, and they happen to go great with your go-to simple syrup recipe! Keep reading to find your new favorite springtime sips.

Prickly Pear Margaritas

Not only do the bright colors in these margaritas remind us of our favorite flowers, but each one has an abundance of edible flower garnishes! Yes, please. Feel free to add some crushed ice to keep things extra-chill. (via Brit + Co)

Lemon Drop Martini

Let's go, lemon! This bright zesty, and quite boozy spring cocktail is the perfect reward after a long work week. (via Brit + Co)

Paloma

Palomas are some of the best tequila cocktails! Lime juice, tequila, and grapefruit soda have never looked tastier. You can optionally sweeten things up a bit with some agave or honey! (via Brit + Co)

The CuraFizz

This CBD-infused gin cocktail leaves you with a fun floral finish that complements the blooms of spring. Yum! (via Curaleaf Hemp for Brit + Co)

Speak Now Spritz

If your spring cocktail recipes are needing some extra razzle-dazzle, edible glitter is the solution you're looking for. This sweet purple sipper (inspired by none other than Taylor Swift) is def worth sharing with the girls! (via Brit + Co)

Cosmopolitan

Channel your inner Carrie Bradshaw this spring using our simple Cosmo recipe! All your girlfriends will want a sip! (via Brit + Co)

Champagne Margaritas

Drenched in the flavors of passionfruit and some good ol' champagne, this fun take on a traditional margarita will enliven your springtime get-togethers in no time. (via Brit + Co)

Gin Float

Lemon sorbet gets thrown into your classic grapefruit-infused gin drink in this spring cocktail recipe! Who needs dessert, right?! (via Brit + Co)

Frozen Lemonade Cocktail

When it's just too hot for anything else, frozen spring cocktail recipes come to the rescue. All you need for this bev is 6 ingredients and a good blender! (via Brit + Co)

Raspberry Coconut Daquiri

Add your favorite liquor and turn this refreshing mocktail into a delicious spring cocktail! (via Chef Bai)

Honeydew Mojito

We love any spring drink that leaves us feeling nice and hydrated, and this melon concoction definitely fits the bill. (via The Girl on Bloor)

Blackberry Cucumber Gin Spritzers

If you love fruity drinks – but hate the amount of sugar that goes with them – this healthy spring cocktail has your name on it. In this bad boy, gin mingles with a rich blackberry syrup, cooling mint, and cucumber. Bring it! (via Spices in My DNA)

Grapefruit Margarita

We’ll take any excuse to have a margarita, and this fruity recipe sounds way too good to pass up. (via The Edgy Veg)

Watermelon Mint Margaritas

This is one of the best spring cocktail recipes for warmer weather, since the watermelon will quench your thirst and hydrate your bod. (via Chef Bai)

Lillet Rosé Spritz

This spritz from Lillet boasts an adorable rosé pink color, perfect for sipping on this spring. To make it, stir equal parts Lillet Rosé and soda water of your choice over ice. Garnish with any fruit slices you have on-hand, like strawberry, grapefruit, or orange. (via Lillet)

Matcha Gin Sour

This matcha-infused drink will certainly incorporate extra nutrients into your sip, plus it provides a nice, gentle caffeine boost! (via Takes Two Eggs)

Aperol Spritz

Aperol spritzes are a springtime staple, but we think they're great year-round. Spruce up your spring cocktails with this vibrant mix. (via The Endless Meal)

The Salty Dog

If you haven't tried this spring cocktail recipe, you’re seriously missing out. This grapefruit bevvy is both refreshing and exciting, perfect for all your outdoor gatherings! (via A Spicy Perspective)

Bloody Maria

This is not your typical Bloody Mary. Pack it full with savory snacks, if you wanna be extra. (via Chef Bai)

Mumm Sparkling Spring Fizz

This fizzy spring cocktail has a unique warming effect from cinnamon and lemon! To make it, stir 1 part Malfy Arancia, 2 dashes Angostura bitters, and 4 parts Mumm Sparkling Brut Rosé in a glass before garnishing with a cracked cinnamon stick and a lemon wheel. (via Mumm)

Easy Rosé Spritzer Recipe

This bubbly sip makes for a perfect refreshing spring drink. It has barely-there floral flavor that is perfect for warm afternoons! Add a lemon slice for some extra citrus flavor. (via Salt & Lavender)

Watermelon Mint Tea

🎶 “Watermelon sugar, high” 🎶 Spice up your basic green tea + tonic with this sweet, fruity twist. The mint is 100% necessary for refreshment! (via Takes Two Eggs)

St. Germain Spritzer

Taking only two minutes and four ingredients, this is one of those spring cocktail recipes that's just perfection. Garnish with some fresh cherries or apricot slices, then top it off with some mint for added refreshment! (via Vegetarian Ventures)

The Spring Buzz

This spring cocktail recipe puts a cool twist on the classic hot toddy. In this bev, we get to see whiskey's tranquil side thanks to a mix of honey, freshly steeped chamomile tea, and elderflower liqueur. (via Broma Bakery)

Green Tea Sangria

Sweetened with honey, this sangria is everything those sugar-packed restaurant sangrias want to be. It even boasts metabolism-boosting properties thanks to the addition of green tea! We love a healthy cocktail. (via Brewing Happiness)

Coastal Orange Blossom Gin Cocktail

Sippin' on this easy-to-make gem will invigorate you. It's super mellow, and it brings a gentle mix of artisanal gin, orange blossom water, and coconut water to your glass for a hit of hydration on a sunny day. Want even more flavor? Opt for blood oranges. (via Justine Celina)

Frozen Watermelon Margarita

There's nothing better than watermelon cocktails for spring! To make this tequila-infused sipper, you'll freeze some watermelon puree into cubes. Then, once frozen, blend 1-2 handfuls of the watermelon cubes until smooth. Add 2 oz Flecha Azul Tequila Blanco, 1/2 oz agave, 1/2 oz fresh lime juice, and 2 dashes of Angostura bitters and blend lightly. Pour into a glass, and sip away! (via Flecha Azul Tequila)

Rhubarb Pisco Sour

Nothing screams springtime quite like the tart essence of rhubarb! This bright and fresh concoction gets a splash of sweetness from the Pisco, making it a fab drink to kick back with after a day in the garden. (via My Kitchen Love)

Carrot Orange Punch

Because it's so delish, you can enjoy this vibrant mix of soda, orange juice, and carrot juice with or without alcohol. To make it boozy, simply add your fave vodka or rum. (via Sugar and Soul)

Dragonfruit Pineapple Gimlet

If you haven't tried dragonfruit in your spring cocktail recipes, we highly recommend it. It's sweet with a little tang, and would go perfectly in a pineapple gimlet like this one! (via Chef Bai)

Raspberry Peach Champagne Cocktail

Peach vodka, raspberry syrup, and some fine bubbly are blended to create this dazzling spring drink. If you don't have peach vodka at your disposal, no worries — use regular ol' vodka with some peach juice. (via Giraffe's Can Bake)

Lavender Rose Lemon Drop Cocktail

This spiked lemonade is everything to us. Along with a perfect balance of sour and sweet, this bev's blend brings floral notes to your glass for a refreshing springtime treat. (via The Cottage Market)

Strawberry Basil Gin Jammer

What better way to kick off a warm season than by eating and drinking all the strawberries in some spring cocktails? In this blend, our fave berries are muddled with fresh basil, then topped with a clever mix of gin and jam. (via Cali Girl Cooking)

Lavender + Lemon Sparkler

This elegant concoction brings sparkly to the table in the best way. Mixed with a bright blend of lemons, this drink is garnished with lavender sprigs and lemon peels to raise your glass to spring. (via Rose and Ivy)

Ruby Red Gimlet

This little gimlet is a huge way to welcome spring. The floral notes of gin and slight bitterness of grapefruit are lit up with lime juice in this exhilarating sipper. (via The Beach House Kitchen)

Let us know your favorite spring cocktails @BritandCo! Check out our Cocktails page for the latest drink inspiration.

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Mariska Hargitay is the woman of the hour anywhere she goes, with her iconic Law & Order: SVUrole as Olivia Benson under her belt for the last 25 years. The character is an absolute advocate to women — and assault victims of any gender — through her words, actions, and powerful convictions of each perpetrator on the show. She takes great care with her victims and pursues perpetrators with fervor, and slowly as you watch the show..the line blurs between Olivia and Mariska.

This isn't anything new — just recently Mariska literally stopped production on the show to help a child (who mistook her for an actual police officer) find her mom. It's just who Mariska is. She walks the walk and talks the talk — including during her speech at Variety's Power of Women's Power of Women event.

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As a Power of Women honoree, Mariska was recognized in regards to her work as an advocate for sexual assault survivors. She took the stage and used her platform to discuss rape and assault conviction reversals, shining a light on the recent overturned ruling in Harvey Weinstein's landmark NYC case. Here's what she said:

Today I want to talk about reversing convictions, and more specifically I want to talk to you about how impossible it is to reverse mine. It’s impossible to reverse my conviction that survivors matter. It is impossible to reverse my conviction that what happens to us matters, and that our society must respond to survivors with a more a compassionate, holistically, deeper, and more nuanced understanding of what healing means.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that after a trauma, survivors can reclaim lives of hope, of possibility, of audacious risk, beautiful intimacy, and glorious, glorious abundant joy. And I stand before you as evidence of that statement.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that we must listen to survivors as experts on what justice means. It is extraordinary how little their voices are consulted, let alone incorporated, in the process of deciding how to repair harm. Justice is not a one-size-fits-all journey.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that patriarchal impunity has to end. Patriarchal impunity is when a male-dominated system exempts perpetrators from punishment. Studies show that only 20% of all rape cases in the U.S. are reported to the police, and that between 5 and 0% of all rapes result in a guilty plea or a conviction. So why do 80% of victims not report? Because they're met with a system that grants impunity to perpetrators; a system that blames victims; a system that accepts only those victims who are experienced as "real" rape; a system that completely misunderstands the neurobiology of trauma, which causes behavior in women that doesn't fit the picture of how a "real victim" would act.

Is that change needed that victims should just pull themselves together? Just buck up and report anyway? No. No, it's the system that receives them that needs to change

It is impossible to reverse my conviction — and the conviction of my extraordinary team, The Joyful Heart — that the backlog of untested rape kits can be brought to zero; that the testing of all new kits must be mandated; that we need a statewide kit tracking system; and that survivors have the right to access the status of their kits.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that grammar — yes, grammar — that we use when we speak about rape must change. In the sentence, "A woman is raped," there's a crime and there's a victim, but there's no perpetrator. Where's the perpetrator? Where is he? Statistically, as we know, most likely he's walking free. He's so free that he doesn't even appear in the language about the crime that he committed. Is that not extraordinary? It's extraordinary that in the very grammar, the perpetrator goes free. Reintroducing perpetrators in the language of rape will make some very unwieldy grammar, but that's the nature of change. It's unwieldy, it's messy, it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary.

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Hargitay continued on in her prolific speech to describe that rape shouldn't be considered a "crime of passion" because it's "not simply the next step in the trajectory of his passion" when a man takes a consensual hookup too far and assaults a woman against her will. She stated that it's "an exercise of power," doubling down that the language we use is important.

The speech went on to address that rape is both about power and control, as a "construct" that was "built, and assembled, and reinforced over time." She noted that there are people with these positions of power — and she specifically called out those in the entertainment industry — that could make a difference and aligned themselves to victims and survivors.

After this and some other remarks, Hargitay specifically called out the Weinstein conviction reversal. She said:

I do want to say something about the Harvey Weinstein conviction, specifically about the reason that it was overturned: too many women's voices. Too many women's voices were allowed to speak. Hallelujah! Amen! I can't imagine anything more beautiful than that. The Daily podcast episode talked about how it was so risky for the prosecution to have that many women testify. Risky to let women speak? You're damn right it is!

Too many women speaking brings change. Too many women speaking shakes the establishment. Too many women means we get listened to more, and people might actually hear what we have to say. Look what happened when women started saying just two words, right? Me too — just as an example — a tidal wave of change. Me too.

And then of course, there was the response: the Me Too Movement. The backlash. The examination of whether the changes that have come are lasting, or are even positive. Of course there's a backlash! What did they expect? For women to speak repeatedly, loudly, together, with a purpose — for there to be no backlash? The backlash is evidence of how powerful those voices were, how powerful those voices ARE.

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Mariska Hargitay's Gets Emotional as She Thanks Her Support System and the Women Around Her

Turns out that your TV heroes really can be your IRL heroes after all. Long live Olivia Benson! Long live Mariska Hargitay!

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After Emily in Paris season 3 dropped on Netflix in December of 2022, we were hoping to get the fourth installment of the hit show in 2023. But production halted when the WGA writers' strike, then the SAG-AFTRA actors' strike went to affect, and our beloved cast and crew campaigned for better wages and industry protection. But with the end of the writers' strike, and new SAG negotiations, Emily in Paris season 4 finally began production in February 2024 — and I can already tell you there's sure to be plenty of drama and French fashion this time around.

Not only will we see Emily in Paris (see what I did there?!) but she's also pulling an Audrey Hepburn and taking a little Roman Holiday. That's right — our favorite Parisians are heading to Italy! If that doesn't sound like a dreamy comfort show then I don't know what does. Here's everything we know about the upcoming season of your favorite TV brain candy!!

Is Emily in Paris season 4 coming soon?

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Via Variety, Emily in Paris season 4 began production in Paris the week of January 15! "Did someone say Saison Quatre?!" Lily Collins says in her Instagram post announcing production. "Finally reunited with my @emilyinparis fam back in Paris and it feels so good. Although, I may need to brush up on my selfie skills for Emily’s sake…"

Now the wait is over! According to the official announcementfor Emily in Paris, we know part one drops on Netflix August 15, followed by part 2 on September 12. I've been impatiently waiting for this considering we didn't know how filming would be impacted by things like the WGA writers strike!

Is Emily in Paris filmed in Paris?

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Yes, Emily in Paris is filmed on location in Paris! We got our first look at Emily in Paris season 4 when Lily Collins and Ashley Park were seen filming in the City of Love (via Daily Mail). The costumes for the series are still as bold and bright as ever, with Ashley's Mindy wearing cobalt and metallic boots, and Lily's Emily dressed head-to-toe in lemon yellow. I can't wait to see what these best friends get up to this season! Check out our Paris travel recommendations to live out your own Emily in Paris dreams ;).

On April 27, Lily Collins confirmed Emily in Paris season 4 had wrapped its France shoot and that the cast & crew have swapped the City of Love for the Eternal City! "When you’re the first ones on the dance floor at the Paris wrap party. Next stop: Rome!" she says on Instagram. Late spring is literally the perfect time to film in Italy and I just know this season is going to give me more wanderlust than ever before. I need gelato!

What's Emily In Paris season 4 about?

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Season 3 left us with a huge cliffhanger: Alfie breaks up with Emily, Camille learns she's pregnant with Gabriel's baby, Benoit's "Mon Soleil" has been chosen for the Eurovision Song Contest, and Emily and Gabriel realize they've been in love with each other the whole time. Whew.

Emily in Paris season 4 will have a ton of cliffhangers to bring full circle, and a bunch of damage that all the characters need to heal. We know from the Netflix TUDUM fan event that we might also see Emily have to deal with an ultimatum head-on, as well as an unexpected twist. Plus, it looks like she's heading on a "Roman holiday," according to lead actress Lily Collins. We'll take any nod to an Audrey Hepburn movie, please and thank you!

Is Alfie coming back in season 4 of Emily in Paris?

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We don't have OFFICIAL word on whether Alfie (played by Lucien Laviscount) will return for Emily in Paris season 4, but we're hoping for his sake that he gets some closure. Lucien wants to come back as well! "[The dream is] to keep this gravy train going and just to kind of really live in this world a little bit longer," he says in an interview with Elle. " The writers on the show and the creators behind it and everyone that comes into contact with it is so amazing and fantastic. Their minds [have] way, way, way, way surpassed mine. So, yeah. I’ll let them do their thing.”

Who else is in the Emily in Paris season 4 cast?

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We can expect the rest of the cast — Lily Collins as Emily, Lucas Bravo as Gabriel, Ashley Park as Mindy, Camille Razat as Camille, Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu as Sylvie, Samuel Arnold as Julian, and Bruno Gouery as Luc — to return.

Will there be a season 5 of Emily in Paris?

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It looks like Emily in Paris season 4 will not be the final season, according to creator Darren Star. “There’s a lot more story to tell here and we’re not wrapping things up anytime soon,” Star tells Elle. “And also hopefully season four isn’t the end either. I feel like we’re all creatively feeling like we’re in the middle of something not heading towards the end.”

Darren also told Deadline season 4 is "not necessarily conceived as a final chapter. I think like every other show, it’s a rich ensemble. There’s no end in sight until everybody feels like it’s time to end. And I don’t think this show is limited by a number of seasons, I think it’s limited by everybody’s enthusiasm and excitement about doing it and telling stories about these characters."

We'll take as many seasons of Emily in Paris as they'll give us!!

What has the cast said about Emily in Paris season 4?

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Lucas Bravo told People he's excited for a coming-of-age for Gabriel. "When you start a character, then there's a year where you experience the world and you mature, you become another person and you come back and it's exactly the day you left off," he says. "I'm happy that in season four I'll be able to bring more of what I became and what I've experienced in the past four years."

Even though Lily Collins is now an executive producer, she doesn't want to know TOO much about the future of the show. “Darren and I speak, on occasion, about where he’s thinking of going, but he also doesn’t wanna spoil too much for me because there is a fine line,” she tells Collider. “I don’t wanna know everything because I want to be led with the writing, but I am also curious because, as a producer wanting to celebrate the other characters, I’m very curious to see what their trajectories are."

What happened at the end of Emily in Paris season 3?

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To be fully prepared for Emily in Paris season 4, it's important to remember just what happened during season 3! The junior season was a bumpy ride for Emily, and it ends with the craziest finale yet. After Camille and Gabriel decide to get married, Camille stops the wedding, saying she knows Gabriel is in love with Emily instead of her. This declaration leads Alfie to break up with our leading lady because he refuses to be her second choice (and honestly, I respect it). That's not the only shocker because Camille also reveals that she's pregnant with Gabriel's child, which comes as a surprise to everyone. Meanwhile, Mindy learns Benoit has submitted a song (specifically "Mon Soleil") to the Eurovision Song Contest and Laurent has his heart set on opening a club in Paris.

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