Literary hero Joan Didion once wrote, 鈥淲e tell ourselves stories in order to live.鈥 The traditions and stories of this week鈥檚 Thanksgiving holiday remind us that humans need stories and mythologies on the personal, social and national level to define ourselves, even if not all of them are true. In fact, it often seems we prefer our stories to be myths; larger than life, emotionally satisfying, prioritizing drama over truth. The three novels in this week鈥檚 book club are examples of the stories we tell about ourselves, and they鈥檙e all richly worth telling.

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1. Victoria by Daisy Goodwin ($18): There are very few who are more mythologized than members of the Royal Family, especially the ones who lived before constant media access became de rigeur. If you鈥檙e not paying attention, Queen Victoria鈥檚 character is often stereotyped as dour and unforgiving, but there鈥檚 every evidence she never actually spoke her famous words, 鈥淲e are not amused,鈥 and in fact had a wicked sense of humor.

The tiny, stubborn, four-foot-eleven dynamo became queen at 18 (her first royal decree was to have an hour to herself!). She then used her queenly privilege to propose to her husband Prince Albert, survived six assassination attempts and generally ruled, bringing popularity back to the monarchy. She became England鈥檚 longest-reigning monarch until Queen Liz surpassed her last year. Daisy Goodwin鈥檚 Victoria presents a headstrong teenage queen eager to make the best use of her power, disappointing those who would have pulled her strings behind the scenes: 鈥渨hen the time came, thought Victoria, she would never allow herself to be trapped.鈥

鈥淰ictoria did not have a clear idea of what being Queen would mean,鈥 Goodwin writes of her teenage heroine. 鈥淣o one could tell her what a queen actually did all day.鈥 Goodwin simultaneously wrote Victoria鈥檚 story as both a novel and a screenplay, the latter hitting PBS next January. In this unique coming-of-age story, one taking place on the world鈥檚 largest stage, Victoria must deal with her teenage crush on the Prime Minister, her tempestuous relationship with her mother and the 鈥減rig鈥 Albert who鈥檚 shown up at her door from Germany. It鈥檚 an origin myth, but it鈥檚 also romantic, passionate and royal fun.

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2. Moonglow by Michael Chabon ($17): Michael Chabon has given us plenty of history-writing, mythologizing, world-building treasures, from The Adventures of Kavalier and Clay to Telegraph Avenue to the alternate universe of The Yiddish Policeman鈥檚 Union. Here, he gets personal, spinning a tale about his grandfather in the style of a faux memoir, and adopting a persona, a fictionalized version of himself, as narrator. Chabon鈥檚 grandparents were the family mystery to him in his youth; his grandfather having spent time both in the army (as an officer in World War II) and in prison, and his grandmother unwilling to talk about her survival of the Holocaust.

Inspired by a trip home in 1989, in which his terminally ill grandfather suddenly opened up his locked box of memory under the influence of painkillers, Chabon details the myths and stories he does know, trying to flesh them out with speculation on why his grandfather did these things, and what effect it all had on his grandmother, a horror movie show host whose experiences during the war left her with irreparable mental scarring. Thematically, the work is structured around the stories we tell ourselves and others to get through life, and the book is full of them, from Chabon鈥檚 grandfather鈥檚 attempt to strangle a business partner with a telephone cord, to his life as a Nazi hunter, to a bizarre prank involving explosives and a Washington DC bridge.

鈥淚n preparing this memoir, I have stuck to facts except when facts refused to conform with memory, narrative purpose, or the truth as I prefer to understand it,鈥 Chabon writes. 鈥淲henever liberties have been taken鈥 the reader is assured that they have been taken with due abandon.鈥 A.O. Scott calls Moonglow a 鈥渂eautiful鈥 book; Keats may have said 鈥渂eauty is truth, truth beauty,鈥 but in this case, it鈥檚 carefully massaged and arranged truth that carries the glow, more a student of Oscar Wilde鈥檚 theory that 鈥淭he truth is rarely pure and never simple.鈥

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3. Bone and Bread by Saleema Nawaz ($12): 鈥淕hosts ought to have been my specialty. There were enough dearly departed in my family to haunt a dozen Gothic novels, and if I never stopped to listen for a telling knock or squinted through the darkness for a hazy outline, it was only because doubt flowed through my veins more palpably than the blood of any continent.鈥 Mythology thrives on national and cultural identity, but when you鈥檙e caught between more than one world, you鈥檝e got to write your own tale. Beena and Sadhana Singh, sisters born to an Irish-American mother and a Punjabi-Sikh father, live in Montreal above their family鈥檚 business, (for extra multiculturalism, it鈥檚 a bagel shop).

In this debut full-length novel from Canadian author Saleema Nawaz, a selection of the Canada Reads program, the girls face many obstacles coming to terms with each other and their own issues, as they deal with racism, mental illness and loss. In relatively quick succession, their father dies, arson threatens their home and their mother succumbs to a family meal gone wrong, leaving them alone at 16 and 14 to be raised by their less-than-stable uncle. Previously 鈥済reedy鈥 for the unconventional love story of their parents, the sisters now have to create their own stories and strictures to have any hope of surviving.

The narration, full of soul-searching, shows us Beena鈥檚 struggle with an unexpected pregnancy and Sadhana鈥檚 with anorexia in flashback, beginning eighteen years later after another tragedy spurs reflection. 鈥淚n the past six months we鈥檝e been like bad reproductions of ourselves, our conversations only shadow plays of the dialogues we used to have,鈥 Beena says. The loss of story is the loss of self; in empathizing with the stories of others, we can find our own.

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