Work BFFs make the office a聽happier place. They send you funny cat videos, are your number-one midday coffee date, and know when you鈥檝e had a bad day and need some cheering up over happy hour. They also provide support, loyalty, and motivation for you to become the #girlboss you鈥檙e destined to be. If you鈥檙e lucky enough to have a work wife or hubby, though, there are some bad habits that can turn your friendship into a career fail.

You might think your twosome is wholesome and inclusive, but keep in mind that your friendship聽can easily be perceived as a clique. Being too reliant on your work wife and missing out on building relationships with other people at the company can stall your progress. Remember when you鈥檙e reading these six tips that the way to find upward mobility is through relationships 鈥 plural.

1. Keep it offline.聽You might be tempted to use your professional work email address聽to share personal details or plan a happy hour 鈥 especially when you and your work BFF are already emailing about a project. Protect yourself by keeping them separate. You don鈥檛 know who has access to your emails, so even if it seems silly emailing the same person about a work question or your crazy Friday night on different email accounts, it ensures no one else is reading about your embarrassing moments or criticisms of the boss.聽And yes, companies access employees鈥 emails聽more than you think.

2. Only聽bring up聽your work聽peeves and opinions far away from the office.聽A little gossip can鈥檛 hurt anyone, right? Wrong. Gossip can kill careers. If you need to vent about work, do it offline (avoid those personal emails too) and far away from the office or聽any popular company hangouts, including the go-to coffee place down the block. Gossiping is a bad habit to get into with a work BFF, so try to聽talk about any of your聽concerns or annoyances聽with a friend that doesn鈥檛 double as a coworker.

3. Don鈥檛 overdo聽your nine-to-five friendship during work hours.聽Work besties聽are awesome, but they鈥檙e also very distracting. If you chat via Slack, Gchat, and iMessage all day long, it鈥檚 going to be a problem 鈥 even if some of it鈥檚 about work. Think people don鈥檛 notice that you two are texting one another during a meeting or creating Instagram Stories at the office? Think again. When聽you鈥檙e at the office, work聽always needs to be priority number one, as well as appear that way to your boss. Heavily cut back your personal convos during the day, both online and off.

4. Expand your inner circle.聽You need to have more than one confidant or ally聽at work, so make a conscious effort to build relationships with other people at the office. Get a latte with your new manager or ask the girl in marketing who just got promoted to grab lunch with you. The more people you鈥檙e close with, the more opportunities you鈥檒l uncover.

5. Put in the effort to maintain your friendship through the competition.聽Your work wife can also be聽your competition. You might be vying for the same projects or promotions, which would create tension in any happy relationship. Don鈥檛 let your friendship suffer if one person scores the promotion/raise/presentation and the other doesn鈥檛. If you know you won鈥檛 be able to help it or think the opposite is true, then let that be some valuable insight into how much dirt you should trust your work wife with.

6. Anticipate and squash separation anxiety.聽The day will come when one of you says, 鈥淚鈥檓 out,鈥 leaving the remaining friend聽alone, nervous, and sad. Be prepared by not depending on only one person as your source of support and entertainment.

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