Creative Crushin': This Artist Is Hell-Bent on Bringing down the Patriarchy, One Illustration at a Time


This Artist Is Hell-Bent on Bringing down the Patriarchy, One Illustration at a Time

Foreshadowing is real, and completely anecdotal studies show that our kid selves might actually know a lot more about who we’re going to be than we realize. In this case, artist Ashley Lukashevksy’s 5th grade self knew what was up. Back then, she was Photoshopping anti-Bush stickers and covering notebooks with her designs. Now, she’s illustrating pieces that shed light on issues around immigration, race, and the patriarchy and posting them on Instagram. And while the output has become quite a bit more elegant, the rawness and simplicity of the message remains. Make art. Take action. Be the CHANGE.

When I first saw Lukashevsky’s work, I instantly connected with her unique juxtaposition of soft, hand-drawn lines, and strong, political messaging. The humanity of her work, the urgency of it — it was immediately clear to me that the artist behind the marker/pen/stylus is passionate about every single illustration she creates, and has an active community who shares her point of view. So I did what any art creeper would do — I regrammed the illustration below, then DM’ed her on Instagram and, voila, a Q&A was born ;)

Anjelika Temple here, Founding Partner and Chief Creative Officer of Brit + Co. For today’s edition of Creative Crushin’, I’m honored to share this artist Ashley Lukashevsky’s story so far — it’s pretty dang clear that this prolific creator is just getting started.

Brit + Co: First off, tell us a little more about your background.

Ashley Lukashevsky: I was born and raised in Honolulu, Hawaii. I left Hawaii in 2011 to pursue a degree in International Relations at USC, and when I graduated from college, I decided to stay in LA. I’m currently based in Echo Park and hope to stay here for a while.

B+C: Did you always know that you wanted to be a professional artist and activist?

AL: No, definitely not! When I was younger, I was always creating things and playing around with artistic mediums — but I had no idea that there were actual career opportunities in visual arts. I had no exposure to what an artistic career looked like and didn’t see any artists around me, so I didn’t even know that people could create art for their careers. I’ve always been pretty politically active — starting from the 5th grade, I was Photoshopping my own anti-Bush stickers, but I certainly didn’t foresee how I would merge two of my passions.

B+C: Why do you love to make things? What’s your north star?

AL: Creating things gives me a rush. It is both meditative and stimulating to put pen to paper and create something out of nothing. Nowadays, I create often out of necessity — whether for my mental health or to speak out about an issue that I feel the need to express my opinion on. My north star is justice — it guides my work and is the intention behind everything that I create.

B+C: I am personally such a huge fan of your work, both the subject matter and aesthetic. How did you hone in on your particular style?

AL: Thank you so much! I’ve been drawing for a long time, but only in these past couple of years have I found a style that I think resonates with what I want to express. It’s also still totally evolving. So much of the style I think comes from the linework, and I started to move away from micron, typical felt tip pens and toward brush style pens. I was in Seoul, staying in the Hongdae area and exploring all of the art shops around there when I came across Kuretake clean color pens. I love how dynamic the lines come out when using brush-like pens. I’m always experimenting though, and am sure that my style will change as I learn more about new mediums.

B+C: What artists and designers do you turn to most often for inspiration?

AL: Wow, there are so so many. I look to my fellow illustrators on Instagram for a lot of inspiration, as well as the incredible political artists whose passion inspires me to do better. I love that I can follow my favorite artists and see work as they create it. Some of my favorite illustrators are Lisa Congdon, Subin Yang, Bijou Karman, Kristen Liu Wong, Kati Szilagyi, Sophia Zarders, Celia Jacobs, Loveis Wise. There are too many to name! In terms of fine art/political work, I love Nina Chanel Abney, Kehinde Wiley, Favianna Rodriguez, Monica Kim Garza, and Toyin Ojih Odutola, to name a few.

B+C: When you get creatively blocked or burnt out, how do you reset? Do you have tips you can share?

AL: I love to visit art museums, or scroll through Pinterest when I’m feeling blocked. Seeing what other people are creating/have created is always such a good way to get your wheels turning. When I’m feeling burnt out, I need to go to yoga and then have a solid night in with some tea + candles + music. And spend some time with the people who help to ground me. Getting my endorphins flowing and having some time to recuperate typically does the trick.

B+C: People need people, especially those of us in the creative field. It can be easy to hole up in the work. Tell us more about what your support system and creative community looks like.

AL: This is so real. I used to really struggle with working alone, and it definitely took time to adjust to a freelance lifestyle. Now I know that there is only so long that I can spend in my home working; I’ll leave to work at a cafe mid-way through the day to make sure that I’m getting outside.

A good number of my friends are also freelancers, so we’ll arrange to have co-work dates and share some AC and coffee. I’m also really lucky to live close to a lot of my non-nine-to-five friends — today while painting, two of my friends stopped by to chat for a little — it’s always nice to take a break. I’ve also been putting forth an effort to grow the community of creative women I know who I can bounce ideas, pricing, client woes, and experiences off of. It’s beautiful to have people who can relate to your experience and who you can lean on and support when needed.

B+C: Favorite quote?

AL: “Unwise selfish people think only of themselves, the result is confusion and pain. Wise selfish people know that the best thing they can do for themselves is to be there for others. As a result, they experience joy.” - Pema Chodron

Trivia About You: I don’t know how to drive. I don’t even have a license!


Go-To Karaoke Song: “Moneymaker” by Ludacris


Favorite Art Tool: Kuretake Clean Color Pen


Late Night Snack: Raspberry Dark Chocolate Bar


Currently Reading: If They Come for Us by Fatimah Asghar

B+C: Do you have a day job? Or are you a full-time artist?

AL: I do not! For the past year and a half, illustration has been my full-time job. Whenever I get overwhelmed or stressed with my project at hand, I call myself back to gratitude to remind myself of how lucky I am to get paid to do what I love.

B+C: What types of day jobs did you have before you were able to focus fully on art? Tell us about your career path.

AL: After college graduation, I decided that I wanted to pursue something more creative — but at the time, this looked like graphic design. I spent the summer job searching, couch surfing, and creating a portfolio on my own. I worked as a graphic designer for about two years before feeling comfortable with switching to illustration. During the beginning of my freelance career, I was still taking on a lot of assorted design work to support myself.

B+C: What was the turning point like when you realized you could dedicate your time wholly to your artwork? Was it scary taking that chance on yourself?

AL: While I was at my full-time graphic design jobs, I had begun to take on editorial illustration gigs, and those projects excited me so much. The rush that I got with every new client made me realize how much more I loved illustration than graphic design. At this point, I was so tired of a strict schedule and nine-to-five that I planned to save up to go backpacking around East/ Southeast Asia and figure out what I wanted to change about my career, because I was unsatisfied with what I was doing. It was definitely a risk with a small margin for error, but I took it anyway because I wanted a change and was determined to experience solo-traveling. I believed in my ability to make things work.

B+C: What is your workspace like?

AL: I work out of my home but work out of coffee shops at least half of the time! Usually, when I am just starting the creative process of a project, I like to sketch in my room in private. There is just so much more space and less pressure there. When I need to be productive and get that project done, I like to pump myself full of iced coffee at a local cafe with my headphones in. I like the buzz of coffee shops, and I have my favorite spots in Echo Park.

B+C: What are some of your favorite recent projects/clients you’ve worked on? What made them special?

AL: I’m actually just wrapping up a project with Girls Who Code to illustrate the experiences of young women in coding — and it's been inspiring to give life to their stories. One of my favorite projects in the past was “Letter to Myself” where I worked with Red Bull Music to illustrate advice that some of my favorite female musical artists wish they had told their younger selves. I got to draw some of my favorite artists like Ibeyi, Ravyn Lenae, and Jorja Smith. Another was for Resource Generation, which organizes its members to redistribute their wealth to grassroots POC-led racial justice organizations. I got to create images about wealth distribution and equity, which is honestly what I’d do in my free time! The work that feels like something I would create on my own is my favorite.

B+C: What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

AL: I’m not sure if this is advice as much as an observation that stuck. There is more to life than avoiding pain. My favorite college professor, Abby, said this to me once. We put so much effort into avoiding negative emotions — but the human experience is full of curves and highs and lows. To embrace all of our experience is to really live.

B+C: If you could give yourself a piece of advice, what would it be?

AL: I would tell her to trust in herself. I would tell her to stop trying to fit the mold of what she thinks she needs to be, but to embrace the creative energy and passion flowing inside of her. I’d tell her to stop the negative self-talk and the insecurity — and to fully realize how unique she is.

B+C: In five years, where do you see yourself? What should we be on the lookout for?

AL: Oof, I’m always bad with this question. I live so much in the present and the day-to-day that I don’t think about it much! Since my career path has been so non-linear, it’s hard for me to see pre-meditated next steps. I do know that I want to create more work by hand (non-digital), especially in public spaces. I want to be at a point where I feel like my work has made a difference in changing perceptions for the better around issues of immigration, race, and the patriarchy.

I don’t know about you, but woke artists like this make me certain that the future is bright. Check out more of Lukashevsky’s work at @ashlukadraws on Instagram, and buy some of her prints and cards to send to enlightened people you love ;)

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Author: Anjelika Temple (Photography + Illustrations Courtesy of Ashley Lukashevsky)

We love an inspirational quote. The right set of words can guide us through a case of the Mondays (and any day, for that matter). A expertly expressed feeling reminds us that we're all more connected than we think. And who doesn't love reading something that makes you laugh and cry at the same time?

As part of International Women's Day (which we celebrate year-round), we've gathered some of our favorite quotes by a bunch of our favorite women. Scroll through, pin 'em to your motivational boards, and share favorites with any woman in your life who could use a digital pep talk.

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There's something appealing about an anthology show. You know, the ones where we get a new cast every season but the location or the themes remain the same (hello White Lotus and American Horror Story!). Your next TV show obsession is right around the corner because Hulu just announced the full lead cast for Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 and it's literally almost too good to be true. Keep reading for everything you need to know!

When does Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 come out?

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We don't have an official release date for Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 yet, so feel free to rewatch season 1 as many times as you want ;). Production *did* begin in January of 2024, and considering there was a year between the filming of season 1 and its release, it's safe to assume we'll see Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 at the end of 2024 or the beginning of 2025.

Who's in the Nine Perfect Strangers cast?

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Hulu just announced that Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 will star Murray Bartlett from The White Lotus and The Last of Us, Annie Murphy from Schitt's Creek, and Christine Baranski from Mamma Mia. We'll also see Dolly De Leon, Aras Aydin, Maisie Richardson-Sellers, musician King Princess, and Lucas Englander. The latest additions to the cast include our AMC queen Nicole Kidman and A Simple Favor's Henry Golding, as well as Mark Strong and Lena Olin.

What is Nine Perfect Strangers about?

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Nine Perfect Strangers season 1, which is based on the book by Big Little Lies author Liane Moriarty and stars Nicole Kidman, Melissa McCarthy, Regina Hall, and Samara Weaving, follows nine strangers who meet at a health and wellness resort to unwind from the stress of city life. However, their 10-day retreat quickly spirals into something completely different — and a little more sinister — than they expected.

Will there be a season 2 for Nine Perfect Strangers?

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Yes, we're getting a Nine Perfect Strangers season 2! Even though the show was supposed to be a limited series, it was so popular Hulu decided to announce the renewal in June 2023. Thank goodness.

How is Nine Perfect Strangers different from the book?

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There are some pretty big difference between Nine Perfect Strangers and its novel. It seems like they just wanted to up the ante for television viewers because the main differences are in the intensity of scenes or character traits, like Carmel being much more expressive than she is in the book, and the series cutting out a five-day silence. It's super cool to see how Hulu adapted this series — and since it's based on a single book, Nine Perfect Strangers season 2 will feature a whole new plot!

What does the ending of Nine Perfect Strangers mean?

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Throughout the series, there are lots of themes of trust and whether or not we're actually able to find happiness as humans. The Nine Perfect Strangers ending during season 1 wraps it up perfectly by leaving happiness as a more open-ended concept full of hope — one that shows it's never outside the realm of possibility, even if it's not a definite guarantee.

Keep checking back here for the latest news on Nine Perfect Strangers season 2, and check out our TikTok for more pop culture news!

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Mom entrepreneur Diane Le designed a blanket/backpack combo with her family hikes and picnics in mind, but after testing the concept, she found it had broader appeal. Not sure where to start the manufacturing process, she asked for help. Thanks to our partnership with Office Depot OfficeMax, we are sharing Diane's founder story and how she learned through Selfmade that networking gets you everywhere.


B + C: What motivated you to start MiniAlps? What problem are you trying to solve for your customers?

DL: For me, it was a product I really wanted for my own personal use and it just didn't exist. I love spending time outdoors with my family but outdoor blankets are so bulky to carry. I remember going on a day hike with my husband and daughter and I had to carry a backpack on my back with our water, food, diapers, sunscreen and supplies and then I had to carry our picnic blanket on the front and hold my dog's leash all while hiking. It was just too much.

I thought "Why can't an outdoor blanket actually be a carrying bag and it can do double duty by carrying my things as well?" That's when MiniAlps was born.

B + C: How has the company evolved since your initial "aha" moment?

DL: Originally, we were only focusing on moms who really liked multitasking products but after testing the concept, we actually found out that late teens and 20-somethings really loved the idea of a stylish blanket/backpack duo. It was perfect for picnic outdoors, wineries, music festivals or just being on the go.


B + C: What startup challenges have you faced along the way?

DL: We've had two really big challenges. First, neither Sharlene Bisram (my co-founder) nor I had ever launched an apparel or outdoor product, so there was a really big learning curve for us in terms of fabrics and performance. We bought so many fabric samples just to make sure we had the right materials. The second was manufacturing. Manufacturing during COVID times has been tricky. We aren't able to travel to meet manufacturers in person, production times are much longer than normal, and shipping times are very delayed.

B + C: What strategies helped you overcome them?

DL: Networking and asking for help has been the best strategy for us. Whenever we run into a challenge, we've reached out to our networks to just ask "Does anyone know someone who knows XYZ?" and we've met many amazing people that way. I think there was a session in Selfmade that talked about that exactly - that being able to network effectively was one of the best ways to grow a business. I'm a big proponent in paying it forward as well. If there's some help someone is looking for, I'm happy to share any information or potential leads with them.

B + C: What would you say are your top successes so far?

DL: Designing a product I'm really happy with is probably my favorite success so far. We've gone through seven different iterations before landing where we are and I'm pretty proud of what we've created. Our bag is everything we wanted it to be: stylish, minimalist, modern, and incredibly practical.

B + C: How have you approached marketing your brand and raising awareness?

DL: We're a startup so we have very limited marketing funds. It's been a fun challenge to figure out how to build our brand on almost no budget. We use Canva for a lot of our branding materials. For awareness, we are active with promoting to our local community and utilizing social media and social ads to drive traffic to our target market.

B + C: What was your most valuable takeaway from Selfmade?

DL: It really does start with mindset. When we had the first course about mindset, I was really confused on why we weren't focusing on more "business" type things first. But as I started building my business, I realized how important it is to be in a positive, winning frame of mind before anything else. It helps you weather all of the ups and downs of startup life.

B + C: Who and what inspires you?

DL: I have so many people in my life that I admire, it's hard to narrow it down! My daughter Camille was born with a rare disease and disability and she inspires me to beat the odds everyday. I also have to shout out to my mentor Sarah Grover, who is just a brilliant marketing and branding guru and Nurit Raich, who has been my incredible coach through a lot of life's challenges. It truly takes a village.

B + C: What's one piece of advice you would give to female entrepreneurs on the brink of starting?

DL: Just get started! Don't let the fear of failure stop you before you even get started.

B + C: What's next for MiniAlps?

DL: We're opening up for pre-orders on our first production run very shortly! Sign up for more information at minialps.com.

B + C: What has receiving the Office Depot OfficeMax scholarship to Selfmade done to help you grow your business?

DL: It has been so helpful to have the support of Office Depot OfficeMax scholarship! It was only through the scholarship I was able to access all of Selfmade's amazing resources, from the networking to the coaches to the sessions, it's been a combination of motivating, inspiring, and supportive. I couldn't imagine launching MiniAlps without Selfmade.

B + C: How have Office Depot OfficeMax services/products helped you accomplish more in your business?

DL: It's honestly not possible to start a business without the right tools and Office Depot OfficeMax has been my go-to source. Their printing services in particular are fantastic; it's high quality, affordable, and a quick turnaround.

Thank you Diane for sharing your story! You can follow MiniAlps at minialps.com and on Facebook.

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Before they were publicly seen together, we were dying to know if singer Sabrina Carpenter was actually dating actor Barry Keoghan. Rumors about their relationship cropped up in late 2023, and they're definitely not rumors anymore!

The pair made their *official* debut at the 2024 Met Gala, and they looked so cute together. Barry also enthusiastically supported Sabrina's Coachella performance last month, and we've been obsessed ever since. Since the two have been romantically linked for a while now, we’re taking a deeper look at their history and their chemistry.

Here’s everything you need to know about Sabrina Carpenter and her boyfriend, Barry Keoghan!

Who is Sabrina Carpenter?

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Sabrina Carpenter is a 24-year-old actress and singer. Her most popular acting roles began on Disney Channel from 2014 to 2017 with Girl Meets World and 2016’s Adventures in Babysitting.

Sabrina has been releasing original music since 2014, and her 2022 album titled Emails I Can’t Send landed her her first-ever top-40 chart entry. Her songs “Nonsense” and “Feather” are two of her top-listened tracks on Spotify.

Sabrina also opened for Taylor Swift at the Eras Tour in 2023.

Additionally, she's worked as a brand ambassador for Converse, Aeropostale, and Samsung, and launched a fragrance line in collaboration with Scent Beauty.

Sabrina was suspected to be dating singer Shawn Mendes last year, but he dispelled rumors about it very publicly in March 2023.

Who is Barry Keoghan?

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Barry Keoghan is an award-winning 31-year-old Irish actor. He’s well-known for his roles in Dunkirk, The Killing of a Sacred Deer, Eternals, and Saltburn. He has also been in several TV series, from HBO’s Chernobyl to Apple TV+’s Masters of the Air.

Barry was previously dating girlfriend Alyson Kieran since September 2021, but the pairbroke up in July 2023 after Barry started seeing success for his performance in the film The Banshees of Inisherin. An inside source close to the couple said “they’ve grown apart over recent months and things have finally come to a head. As far as [Alyson is] concerned, it’s over.”

Barry and Alyson still share a young son named Brando, born in August 2022.

Is Barry Keoghan Sabrina Carpenter's Boyfriend? A Relationship Timeline

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September 2023

In late September 2023, Sabrina attended an NYC advanced screening of Saltburn, a dark comedy film in which Barry stars. The pair was not seen together, but they were definitely in the same place at the same time.

The pair reportedly met for the first time during Paris Fashion Week at the Givenchy spring/summer 2024 show, just a week after the advanced screening.

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December 2023

Sabrina and Barry were spotted on a casual dinner date in Los Angeles in December 2023. They weren’t quite visibly affectionate or close together in photos, but shared the same car.

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January 2024

Sabrina and Barry were suspected to attend the 2024 Golden Globes together to debut their relationship, but the pair ended up attending separately.

The two were later spotted out and about at LA’s Luna Luna interactive art installation later in January.Eyewitness accounts said "it definitely seemed like a date.” 👀

February 2024

In early February 2024, the duo was seen gettin’ cozy with each other at a Grammys after party. Someone had snapped a pic of them sitting next to each other, but it appeared they were pretty shy about showing their whole faces. Cute!

The couple confirmed their romance just around Valentine's Day with a fun-filled weekend in Los Angeles (with plenty of PDA, of course). They started out with dinner at Nobu before checking into Hotel Bel-Air. They next day, they spent time together at Sabrina's house in Hollywood and then went out on the town in style!

As much as we can tell, Sabrina and Barry are just having fun with it!

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March 2024

The 2024 Oscars marked Sabrina and Barry's first red carpet appearance as a couple! The pair pulled up in semi-coordinating outfits – her wearing a black sequined Tory Burch gown, him wearing a sleek black suit by Amiri.

Barry also accessorized his Oscars look with a beaded friendship bracelet (a la Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce) that spelled out Sabrina's name!

Photographed side-by-side several times, the couple also took the chance to reference their silly Grammys photo by hiding their faces for the camera. Love!

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April 2024

On April 1, Barry left a fiery comment on Sabrina's Instagram. She posted a carousel promoting the new spring 2024 intimates collection from Skims, packed with steamy pics of her wearing pieces from the drop.

Barry's comment was "🔥🥵 barbie emoji," which is just too cute. Since Sabrina is known over social media as a Bratz doll, we love to see this brand new Barbie side!

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April 2024

Barry – being the supportive boyfriend he is – was spotted in the crowd at Sabrina's Coachella weekend 1 set, and the couple shared a few cute moments even when they were apart!

Barry was seen happily snapping pictures on his phone like a proud parent during the high-energy performance. Sabrina also cutely waved to Barry from the stage, and he was definitely fangirling over it! We would be fangirling too, TBH! 🔥

After Sabrina's set, the pair was spotted together in the crowd at Ice Spice's performance alongside friends Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. The four appeared to just be hanging out and chatting among themselves in between songs!

May 2024

The couple stepped out together to attend the 2024 Met Gala. Sabrina sported a gorgeous black gown with blooming blue details while Barry's look channeled a 19th century Englishman. They posed together with their signature 'hands over the face' pose, with Barry using his hat as a shield. We are enamored by these two!

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After The Gray Man and a year full of Barbie and Ken, The Fall Guy (plus the upcoming Ocean's 11 prequelwith Margot Robbie) continues to prove Ryan Gosling is THE definition of a star. And between his friendship with Emma Stone and his relationship with Eva Mendes,Ryan seems like the kind of guy we'd all want to be best friends with — and not just because of his endless #Kenergy.

Not only is Ryan the sweetest partner, he's also the ultimate girl dad to daughters Esmeralda and Amada. Their "interest in Barbie and disinterest in Ken," as Ryan tells People, get him to Barbieland in the first place, but he also just revealed they "asked specifically" he avoid one The Fall Guy stunt. “My kids didn't want me to be set on fire,” he says. “Even though I said, ‘Well, it's actually, technically the safer thing to do because there's a lot of protective stuff involved, [they] were like, ‘No. No fire.’ So I didn't do it.”

It's clear that Ryan Gosling's children are spitfires and I love to see it! Here's everything you need to know about Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling's kids — and every single time Ryan Gosling was the ultimate girl dad.

How many children do Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes have?

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Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes have two children, Esmerelda Amada and Amada Lee. Amada was named after Eva's grandmother — both my sister and I have family names and I love seeing the way different families carry on that tradition!

How old are Ryan Gosling's kids?

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Esmerelda was born in September 2014, meaning she'll turn 10 this fall. Amada just turned 8 at the end of April!

How does Ryan Gosling prioritize his kids?

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In his recent profile with WSJ, Ryan Gosling revealed he only picks roles that will benefit his whole family. "I don't really take roles that are going to put me in some kind of dark place," Ryan says. "The decisions I make, I make them with Eva and we make them with our family in mind first."

"I think La La Landwas the first," he continues. "It was sort of like, 'Oh this will be fun for them too, because even though they're not coming to set, we're practicing piano every day or we're dancing or we're singing.'"

Every couple needs to figure out what prioritizing their kids looks like for them, and considering how much I love all Ryan's recent roles, I'd say this is a shift that benefits everyone ;).

When did Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes have their daughters?

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Eva Mendes gave birth to Esmerelda on September 12, 2014 and later had Amada on April 29, 2016.

Are Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes still together?

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Yes, Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are still going strong, and thank goodness. Eva just revealed that Ryan provides a ton of support for her. "When I was 40, it was a big deal for people when I was pregnant, and it wasn't for me," she tells People. "And then I was 42 and I was pregnant with my second one and people were like, 'Oh my God, you're going to be so tired. That's why people have kids in their 20s.' I was like, that's the most sorry, asinine thing I've ever heard."

"[Ryan supports me] in all the ways I need to be supported," she continues. "He's got me in all the ways."

How has fatherhood affected Ryan Gosling?

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Considering Ryan Gosling's daughters are such a huge part of his life now, it's hard to believe that earlier in life, he wasn't sure he wanted kids. "After I met Eva, I realized that I just didn’t want to have kids without her," he tells GQ. "And there were moments on The Place Beyond the Pines where we were pretending to be a family, and I didn’t really want it to be pretend anymore." Now, I'm going to need you to pause and reread that quote because I can't believe that's a real sentence. I'm obsessed!

A source also told People in 2023 that "Ryan is such a fun dad. He is goofy and his girls love it."

Via WSJ, we also know that since Ryan Gosling's kids have started learning Spanish, they now call him Papi. "It kills me every time," he says. "There's just nothing, nothing better than that."

What has Eva Mendes said about their daughters?

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Eva Mendes is just as obsessed with her and Ryan Gosling's children as he is, and she's talked about how they make life so much better. "Oh April…I have such a complicated relationship with you," she says on Instagram. "[April 2] would have been my brother’s birthday…..in a couple of weeks from now is the day we lost him…but then, the end of April we got the biggest blessing of all, my little girl was born 8 years ago. I hate you April. But I love you more."

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