I Revealed I Have Bipolar Disorder To My Colleagues. Here's What Happened.

Sophie Meharenna
Feb 04, 2022
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Ding.

The familiar sound of Slack signaled I had a notification from one of my colleagues. I took a break from making my lunch to eyeball the incoming message.

It read: “Don’t ask why, but what’s your favorite mantra?”

My curiosity was of course piqued (whose wouldn’t be?!). And though I didn’t want to, I obliged without any probing questions and shared my response before diving back into my eats and to-do list. Very quickly, the seemingly random request was pushed to the back of my mind.

A week later, an unexpected package showed up on my doorstep. I love me some snail mail, especially when it comes from out of nowhere. Little did I know that unwrapping the box would be accompanied by an outpouring of tears.

Inside I found a personalized journal. The words “You Have Permission To Be Human” were embossed on the cover: my mantra, in all caps for emphasis. Cue the waterworks.


I was so moved by the gravity of this gesture. For context, this gift came on the backend of some of the hardest (and also most freeing!) conversations I’ve had in the workplace regarding mental health.

My Road To Diagnosis

For too many of us, there is a stigma attached to admitting when our headspace is compromised. So often, we hide behind veneers of positivity. It's one of the many side effects of social media: the highlight-driven nature of how we share our lives skews our perception of how things should be. We tend to showcase only the good parts.

Are you guilty of that? Spoiler alert: I am. And I'm guessing I'm preaching to the choir here.

Our default programming is to experience shame about feeling bad or struggling through difficult times. And while that can be harmful in its own right, it can also come with increased pressure to be perfect: to never lose your cool, to always be the best version of yourself, and to show no sign of weakness because it could diminish your reputation.

However, there is so much beauty in leaning into the power of vulnerability. Yes, yes, y'all. I'm about to channel my innerBrené Brown on you. I mean, sharing is caring, right?

Candidly, even before the pandemic, I experienced the brunt of mental health issues — the aftermath of losing my mom to triple-negative breast cancer culminated in a seemingly relentless series of emotional rollercoasters. For many years, I attempted to rush the grieving process in pursuit of a happily ever after. I tried to fast-forward my healing.

Keyword: tried.

Let's just say that in trying to rush things, the only thing I sped up was my undoing.

So much pain, love, and redemption were wrapped up in the process. And as my journey dealing with my mom's illness and ultimate passing progressed, my coping (or lack thereof) brought to light an unexpected diagnosis of my own: Bipolar Disorder.

Navigating my new normal hasn't always been easy. My initial symptoms went hand-in-hand with a longitudinal identity crisis tied to the label. I'm not here to sugarcoat it: It was, and sometimes still is, hard as hell.

Where I've found strength and freedom, however, is in owning that narrative and being transparent about it.

Opening Up At Work

When I joined the team here at Brit + Co, my instinct was to wear a metaphorical suit of armor. But as COVID-19 disrupted our lives in unimaginable ways and dialogue around mental illness and mental wellness skyrocketed, I felt that much more compelled to share my reality with my colleagues. The surprising result? Even more connection, closeness, and empathy than I could have hoped for.

But the crippling fear I had before having those conversations? Whew, chile. The agony! I mean, so many questions flooded my mind. Specifically:

  • Will I be judged?
  • Will I be let go?
  • Will everything I do moving forward be looked at through the lens of my diagnosis?

And that's just the very shortlist. My thoughts spiraled like you wouldn't believe.

But instead of being looked at differently, I was seen more deeply than I ever have been in a professional setting.

It can feel terrifying to be open about mental health challenges, but by breaking our silence, we enable others to break theirs too. Here's the play-by-play of what happened when I broke mine:

Setting The Stage Via Email

One of the hardest things about Bipolar Disorder is staying in tune with your mind and body. Things started to feel out of sorts for me very early on in my tenure here, and I listened to the signals and shared concerns with my core team members via email. I edited it more times than I count, carefully trying to strike a balance between sharing too much and sharing too little:

This is incredibly hard to write. But, I deeply care about all of you AND Brit + Co and Selfmade. So, in the spirit of transparency and noticing my health patterns, I feel it's important to flag this now vs. going too far down the path of working together.

I am diagnosed with Bipolar, and while I'm undergoing ongoing treatment, there are aspects of this disease that can be hard to track and/or contain. Certain experiences can trigger episodes that make it extremely difficult to cope meaningfully.

The timing of my onboarding coincided with some very stressful situations in my personal life. I believe these situations, combined with the unpredictability of the disorder, and the newness of coming on to work with you all, have created a bit of a perfect storm and are contributing to the flare-up of difficult to manage cognitive symptoms.

I don't know how familiar you all are with the diagnosis, but things can spiral quickly. This evening, the signs of my symptoms became increasingly more evident, and I feel it is important that I take a step back to make health interventions.

Sharing this isn't easy, nor is making this decision, but I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I didn't quickly and candidly share my situation so that you have the opportunity to find the support you need.

As you all know, mental illness is tricky to navigate, even when you take all the precautions. I think the world of all of you, and I'm hoping you don't see this decision as a reflection of my character.

Discussing My Condition Out Loud

The morning after sending this note, I didn't know what to expect. I woke up feeling a bit of an emotional hangover after my initial phase of disclosing my truth. How would they receive this information? How would they receive me?

I found out very quickly that it would be with grace and compassion:

First off, thank you for your honesty. That's so incredibly rare. I know a ton about Bipolar and can share more about it when we chat. Do you still have the time/energy to hop on a call this morning? If too tough, we can also regroup another time.

This message from Brit, our CEO and founder, immediately made me feel more at ease. Very quickly, she created a safe space for me to chat with her 1:1 about what I was experiencing. We traded stories and cried it out together. I so appreciated her openness and willingness to hear me out, validate me, and for sharing her insights. At the end of our discussion, I made the decision to step away from my role to recalibrate. Brit left the door open for me to return if/when I wanted to.

One week later, I received a sweet note and plants for my garden from the Brit + Co team. And yes, there were tears when I received that package, too.

Taking Time For Me

I took a month off to reevaluate what was impacting my mental state and to work towards pushing through it. Throughout the process, I took to heart a statement that one of my best friends had shared with me when I was initially navigating the newness of my diagnosis: "You need to treat your mental health like it's your only job!"


As such, I worked closely with my health practitioners to examine the root of what was disrupting my routines and rhythms, and together we mapped out the best path forward. This included:

  • Examining my prescription medication and making the necessary adjustments
  • Doubling down on DBT therapy
  • Incorporating healthier nutrition and fitness habits
When I started to feel like myself again, I reconnected with Brit about returning. She had stayed in touch with me throughout the process and made it clear that she wanted to empower me in coming back (and to allow me to do so on my terms). Throughout our conversations, she emphasized the mental health policies we have here, and encouraged me to share any future ebbs and flows I might experience so that they could accommodate them.

Coming Back To The Workplace

In coming back to Brit + Co, I set up conversations with colleagues I work closely with in order to provide coloring and texture to inform them about my condition and how it plays out for me. After all, everyone is different! Every single person I talked to had their own personal mental health story to share: some that looked and felt like mine, and others that showcased their capacity to empathize and relate.

As a result, the emotional intimacy and camaraderie we share are unparalleled, particularly for a remote setting.

We have all the words, memes, emojis, and gifs on deck to share out how we're feeling freely with each other. We prioritize our mental health and work at a company where people say, “Oh, I have therapy and can’t make that meeting." We do breathwork together.

Through this increased transparency, we're able to show up for each other, pitch in when things come up, and simply see each other for who we are: human.

My Advice For Opening Up About Mental Health

If you're living with a diagnosis that you want to talk about in a work setting, here are a few considerations to keep in mind:

  • Do Your Research: Whether you're sharing your story for the first time or refreshing everyone on what you've already shared, it's essential to do your research. First, consider who you're talking with and how much they know about mental health. Expect that colleagues who are unfamiliar with mental illness will have many questions.
  • Be Prepared: You never know what the response will be, so it's always best to have a plan ready. If you're not sure how to share your story, think about how you want to frame it. You can find resources on social media and first-person accounts written by those living with mental illness. Talking points are always helpful!
  • Enlist A Friend: We all have our moments, and you'll likely need some support along the way. If it makes you feel more comfortable or you want to be held accountable for your well-being, rehearse your conversations with a friend for moral support.
  • Stay Consistent: If you've been struggling with mental illness and have already been open about it at work, stay consistent in your communication. Letting people into that part of your life is an important form of connection. So don't stop sharing just because things seem to mellow out or quiet down after the initial dialogue happened. If anything, now might be the time to focus on openness as we continue heading towards a more normalized culture around sharing our vulnerabilities.
  • Give Yourself Grace: Finally, remember that disclosing your struggles isn't about being defined by them. Being open doesn't mean an instant break from stigma or a cure for your clinical diagnosis. And even though you're trying to be transparent, know there's always space for self-care and boundaries.

Want more mental health stories? Subscribe to Permission To Be Human for my reflections on big moods, feelings, and humanity. And if you have a personal mental health experience you'd like to share, DM me or email me at sophie@brit.co.

Your May Horoscope Is Here–See What's In Store For Your Sign

In May 2024, a unique opportunity for personal growth and transformation awaits. As the communication Mercury regains momentum after last month’s retrograde and we emerge from the eclipse season, a new chapter is about to begin. This is your chance to gather the scattered pieces and rebuild a stronger, more enlightened version of yourself. Taurus season continues beckoning us to review our comforts, values, love stories, and finances. Although we live in uncertain times, note that no external source can dim your light as long as you remain heart-centered and in flow with your happiness.

Key Astrological Dates Of Taurus Season In May 2024

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  • 5/1 Venus square Pluto
  • 5/7 Sun sextile Saturn
  • 5/8 New Moon in Taurus
  • 5/13 Sun conjunct Uranus
  • 5/15 Mercury enters Taurus
  • 5/17 Mercury square Pluto
  • 5/18 Venus conjunct Uranus, Sun conjunct Jupiter
  • 5/20 Gemini Season Begins
  • 5/23 Full Moon in Sagittarius, Venus enters Gemini
  • 5/26 Jupiter enters Gemini

What To Expect In Your May Horoscope For 2024

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We enter this month with an intense exchange between Venus and Pluto. As they form a square on the 1st, it can manifest as power and control issues between love and values. This is the moment to embrace change involving your desires. The split between wanting stability with Venus in Taurus and the radical energy of Pluto in Aquarius can lead to a powerful transformation in your love story while opening the path to realizing your worth. There is a part of you or the relationship itself that needs to evolve to attract a healthier outcome. Hold still, and don’t react. Just observe your environment. Take this as a sign to reevaluate your priorities in your relationship and everything else that can deflect you from living authentically. On the 7th, things will lighten up as the Sun is in a supportive position with Saturn, the planet of structure and stability. Clarity will set as the Sun lets you see your life direction while Saturn supports your future ventures. This will all unfold in time for the new moon in Taurus to happen on the 8th. Finally, we are officially out of the eclipse mist and equipped to potentially set a different course to invoke success. The best part is that this new moon energy will be grounding and quiet, giving you the space to set clear intentions to support your needs instead of what you want. Remember that your “wants” will only take you so far, while honoring your needs will attract a better flow.

On the 13th, a day filled with potential breakthroughs awaits. The Sun will merge with Uranus, the rebel planet, invoking themes of innovation and freedom from the old constraints. This can manifest in your desire to change or break from the usual routine. Transparency and honest discussions will open that door for you. This day can be filled with serendipitous events as you trust in yourself and try something new. It's an amazing opportunity to begin brainstorming ideas or troubleshooting what is holding you back from living the life you want.

Our thinking process will slow down when Mercury, the communication planet, enters Taurus on the 15th. Our conversations will be more down-to-earth and intentional. The way to master this planetary transit these next few weeks is to become simpler and more organized. Focusing on one thing at a time will grant you the desired results.

Focusing initially on this recent Mercury shift will be tricky as it squares off to Pluto on the 17th, staging a distress signal involving the FOMO. Pluto in Aquarius adds traction in the desire to evolve and look ahead to what’s next. At the same time, Mercury in Taurus promotes grounding and the desire to build solidity with our ideas. This planetary square can be gritty, leading to communication blunders or an inner mental conflict leading to a self-limiting belief. Let go and know that masterpieces of any kind were not created overnight. You are on the right path, and as long as you have self-acceptance, everything will fall into place as it should.

Your Astrological Forecast Continued For May 2024 Horoscopes

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Expect an overflow of changes and certainty on the 18th with the celestial bodies of the Sun, Venus, Jupiter, and Uranus in the sign of Taurus. Taurus is the sign that desires stability, finances, love, and sensuality. This day will highlight all these themes, pulling you into making the necessary decisions involving love and self-security. Your love story from earlier this month will continue today as Venus joins Uranus, igniting a new flow in your relationships and shifting your narrative. What part of your love life needs reinvention? This is the day you will get answers about its direction and what you can do to attract the changes you want. The Sun merging with Jupiter will ignite an unfamiliar wave of optimism and the desire to take a leap professionally or romantically. This is also a great day to begin a new project or relationship or renew your vows.

Now expect the fun to start as Gemini season begins on the 20th! Your hard work this month will pay off, and there will be a new wave of confidence or inspiration to expand your outlets involving your ideas. Remember that curiosity is vital to fully embracing this air season. Be like Alice in Wonderland and jump into the rabbit hole of possibility.

What’s more, this upcoming Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd will ignite fuel to your fire involving what needs to be done for you to break free from the mundane. It is time to reflect on your past perspective and old beliefs and release them once and for all. This May 2024 full moon will be ceremonial as you will feel a surge of optimism and feel comfortable with letting go. The best part of this day is that Venus will also enter Gemini, infusing the collective with a central focus on the betterment of humanity. While also learning the importance of embracing a love of all shades and shapes. This will be a positive phase in your life experience, and celebrating this milestone in your personal development with those who share your values will grant you that dash of magic you need.

We conclude this month with a momentous event. Jupiter, the planet of expansion and optimism, enters the sign of Gemini on the 26th and will remain in this sign for the following year. Moving forward, we are not being led by blind faith. We will embrace ideas and conventional thinking. Listening carefully and being open-minded to others' insights will ignite even more inspiration than you ever thought possible. Setting aside the conforms and old doctrines of what worked before will push you ahead of the curve.

Read Your Sun, Moon, & Rising Signs For Your May Horoscope For 2024

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Aries

Get ready to claim your power and momentum. After last month's solar eclipse, you are more than equipped to take charge of a matter on the back burner. On the 1st, Venus crossing paths with Pluto intensely can throw a curveball involving plans that involve networks or friendships. Remember to hold steady and not stress the results. Everything falls into place when you remain centered and calm. A second wind approaches when the New Moon in Taurus happens on the 8th extending you an opportunity to revamp your finances while powering up your self-esteem. Begin an abundance practice or begin a new mood board to help you get started while enabling you to hold onto your long-term vision. When Gemini Season begins on the 20th, this is your opportunity to share your ideas and strengthen your connections in your immediate environment. It is more lighthearted and joyful. These next three weeks will be creative and fertile–take advantage, and you might make a masterpiece. Witness a spiritual breakthrough and celebrate your past lessons involving your life experiences as the Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd prompts you to reflect on your future direction. Practically, this is the moment to finish that book, launch your podcast, or make an aspiration of yours finite and see through to its completion.

Taurus

Happy birthday, Taurus! As your season unfolds, you'll feel confident and truly in your element. The New Moon in your sign on May 8th extends a fresh start in how you present yourself to the world, signaling a moment of self-renewal and how you will share your radiance with the world by sharing your gifts. A pivotal moment arrives on the 13th when the Sun aligns with Uranus in your sign, marking a bold move aligned with your passions. However, be mindful of impulsivity during this exciting time. On the 18th, when Venus joins Uranus in your identity and self-expression sector, your love life receives an unexpected boost of support. This contagious energy invites you to leap and confidently achieve your wants. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on May 23rd illuminates your 8th, urging you to release past fears and confront them head-on. This period offers opportunities to settle debts and receive unexpected financial blessings. It's also a time to deepen the intimacy with a partner or yourself.

Gemini

Prepare for a journey of growth and transformation. As the month begins with Venus square Pluto on the 1st, you'll feel pressured to confront your limiting beliefs head-on. This intense transit catalyzes the importance of staying true to yourself, empowering you to embrace your rebellious spirit and make your mark on the world. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th plants a seed of innovation deep within your subconscious, allowing you to realign with new dreams and aspirations that resonate deeply with your soul. As Gemini season begins on the 20th, you'll feel renewed energy and perspective, infusing you with a fresh outlook on life and how you wish to share your ideas to the world. Despite Mercury, your ruling planet, being in Taurus, this grounding influence provides you with the stability you need to make tangible progress toward your goals. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd will illuminate your love life and partnerships, urging you to take your connections to the next level. Reflect on what needs to evolve within yourself to create space for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. Embrace this opportunity for growth and transformation as you navigate the workings of love and self-discovery.

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Cancer

Your focus turns towards your networks and friendships. The Sun sextile Saturn on the 7th presents an opportunity to ground your ideas and turn them into reality with the support of your current connections. With confidence and determination, you can contextualize and bring your passions to life, making it an ideal time to pitch ideas or seek career opportunities. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th, highlighting the sector of friendships and networks, energizes you with motivation and grit to renew your aspirations and long-term dreams. This lunar event empowers you to set new goals and strengthen your bonds with like-minded individuals who share your vision for the future. However, beware of potential miscommunications and blunders on the 17th, as Mercury squares Pluto. Emotions may run high, particularly in professional networks or friendships, leading to unforeseen arguments if not handled carefully. Stay mindful of your feelings and strive for open, honest communication to gracefully navigate this transit. As the Full Moon illuminates your health and daily life sector on the 23rd, it invokes the need to prioritize your physical well-being and letting go of old habits. Take this opportunity to care for your body and release any burdens weighing you down daily. Revive your mind-body-spirit connection through release work, allowing yourself to let go of what no longer serves you in your immediate surroundings.

Leo

All eyes are on you and your next move in the career and public life. The month kicks off with Venus square Pluto on the 1st, increasing pressure in your romantic or professional partnerships. This clash of beliefs regarding structure and risk may challenge you, but trust your inner voice to navigate any decisions. Impulsive actions should take a back seat during this intense period. The New Moon on the 8th allows you to plant a new seed regarding your career vision. Whether you're ready to go public with an idea or strive for tangible results, this is the moment to elevate your manifestation game and set your intentions for success. The 18th initiates a significant moment for you as Venus conjuncts Uranus. This could potentially bring a career advancement or a shift in status, such as marriage or its dissolution. As long as you grow, your love can strengthen. Embrace the unexpected as you navigate this transformative period in your life. As the Full Moon on the 23rd illuminates your romantic life, children, and creative pursuits, something within you is ready to be birthed into existence. Whether it's a boost in self-esteem, the completion of a project, or even news of pregnancy, receive the potential for new beginnings. If family planning is on your mind, this lunar phase offers favorable energy to start your journey.

Virgo

Your focus shifts toward spirituality, dreams, and belief systems as you contemplate and reflect. With Venus square Pluto on the 1st, you may experience a shakeup in your process of the mind-body connection, prompting you to confront mental conflicts and past fears head-on. Mastering this ability to combat inner turmoil will pave the way for growth and expansion as you understand how your thoughts shape your reality. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th brings fresh air, allowing you to make heartfelt wishes and set intentions aligned with your true desires. Whether launching a passion project or setting a new course for your dreams, this lunar event empowers you to manifest your aspirations confidently. There's also a boost of support in manifesting future love or renewing present partnerships. On the 18th, as Venus conjuncts Uranus, expect unexpected changes in your life situation, whether it's a new romantic relationship blossoming or your dream project taking shape. It's a period of excitement as you witness your paradigm shift unexpectedly. As the Full Moon in Sagittarius illuminates your home and family sector, it's time to reevaluate your emotional needs and address unresolved issues with loved ones. Whether you decide to move, renovate, or let go of the past, this lunar event will allow you to express your vulnerability and create a sense of emotional clarity. Embrace this clearance as you witness your dreams come alive in your inner and outer worlds.

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Libra

The focus turns inward as you invest time in inner work, seeking to align with your true path and live authentically. It begins with Venus square Pluto on the 1st, a pressure-filled transit that urges you to prioritize your happiness over others' expectations. While this may feel uncomfortable, especially in your partnerships, it's essential to clear out any lingering resentment and nurture the unseen aspects of life, including fears, intimacy, finances, and resources. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th provides a fresh start, allowing you to set intentions for how you want to show up in your intimate connections and be more intentional in your life. As Gemini Season begins, you'll feel light and optimism in your love life. Clarity and inspiration guide you towards passion-filled pursuits, encouraging you to align more closely with your heart and take chances in dating or exploring new depths in partnerships. However, the Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd may bring challenges in communication and mental overwhelm. It's important to prioritize tasks and avoid diving headfirst into new endeavors. Take the time to reflect on what truly aligns with your heart and reach resolutions where miscommunications occurred. This busy period calls for careful consideration of your priorities, ensuring that you conclude rather than start anew for now.

Scorpio

This month shines on your romantic and business partnerships as you navigate moments of renewal and growth. Whether finally calling someone bae or healing from a recent breakup, this period prompts a deep reflection on your beliefs surrounding connections and staying true to your vision. The month begins with Venus square Pluto on the 1st, adding intensity as you confront unresolved issues rooted in your family dynamics that influence your approach to relationships. This is a time for conscious awareness and understanding, recognizing that the past does not define who you are or what you deserve in love. On the 8th, the New Moon in Taurus marks a new phase in your love story, offering opportunities to create a fresh path in existing or new partnerships. Manifest your desires on this day, but take the time to reflect on what you truly want and need in relationships. As Venus conjuncts Uranus on the 18th, expect a twist of fate or serendipitous encounter that guides you toward the right partner or life path. Trust the Universe and allow your energy to align with your desired reality. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd provides a chance to tie up loose ends regarding finances and develop a healthier relationship with money. Take this opportunity to understand the root causes of any financial patterns, whether excessive spending or frugality and create space for abundance and stability in your life. Assess what is missing in your life to make meaningful connections and cultivate lasting prosperity.

Sagittarius

The focus turns to your health and well-being, prompting you to engage in release work and eliminate toxic surroundings or situations from your life. Whether it's a change in the workplace or establishing boundaries, now is the time to energetically and physically pinpoint your needs. When Venus squares Pluto on the 1st this will be a pivotal moment for you to realize the root cause of your mental conflict while also developing better skills involving your long term aspirations. Starting over or learning something new will place you ahead of the curve and ensure success. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th will help you revive your body by establishing a new exercise routine or wellness practice. With Taurus' stability, consistency is key to attracting the desired outcome. Redecorating your surroundings or clearing your work desk can bring abundance and clarity to your core needs. As Gemini season begins, it's a chance to revitalize your relationships and discuss their direction. This period is favorable for romantic pursuits or forming new business connections. On the 23rd, the Full Moon in your sign puts you in the spotlight, urging you to embrace your true self and share your story with those who resonate with your values. It's a time of evolution and growth as you step into a more authentic life path and make peace with what you need to let go involving your old self.

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Capricorn

As someone driven by ambition, this is a period for you to reflect on what truly fulfills you and embrace the idea of having fun. The Venus square Pluto on the 1st prompts you to examine your self-esteem as you navigate this new course in life. It's essential to shift your focus from the need for status to the joy in relationships and heartfelt connections. By aligning with the heart, you deepen your bonds with others and ignite inspiration for creative pursuits. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th offers an opportunity to plant a new seed in your love life or creative endeavors. This is a favorable time to set intentions and perform manifestation work, whether attracting a future love partner or beginning a new creative venture. Embrace this energy to ignite a new phase filled with love, joy, and creativity. As Gemini Season begins, the focus shifts to the organization and daily rituals, prompting discussions about what truly brings you joy rather than simply what makes sense. Consider starting a somatic healing or meditation practice to help navigate these changes with ease. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd invites you to look inward and declutter your subconscious realms. While your dream life may be vivid and stimulating...journaling, meditating, and relaxation techniques can help you identify and release any emotional baggage or limiting beliefs. Embrace this opportunity to clear the path for personal growth and transformation.

Aquarius

The focus will be on your family and home life, prompting you to reflect on your emotional security and find comfort in slowing down. With Venus square Pluto on the 1st, pressure arises regarding your place within the home and defining your sense of security. This transit encourages you to let go of outdated outlooks and make room for deeper emotional connections with family. The New Moon in Taurus on the 8th offers a fresh start in your home dynamics. It allows you to renew your perception of family values and perhaps even consider a move or set new roots for generational healing. This is an ideal time to turn over a new leaf and embrace positive changes in your home life. When Gemini Season begins, expect to dive deeper into your true passion pursuits. While the new moon in Taurus may prompt a need to slow down and reflect, Gemini Season brings a new vision and energy to your creative process. Embracing a lighthearted approach, like a child, can lead to breakthroughs and fresh insights. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd encourages you to tie up loose ends in your friendships as you explore new ideas and possibilities. This lunar event extends a chance to reconnect with old friends, seek resolution, or pick up where you left off. Through this healing process and understanding, you'll gain clarity on your aspirations and begin to see the bigger picture of your place in the world.

Pisces

This month, your mind is buzzing with ideas and while igniting endless discussions with those in your immediate surroundings. It's a stimulating period that can enforce the need to learn a new skill or share your ideas with others to witness your dream come alive. The new moon in Taurus on the 8th opens up endless possibilities for sharing your vision and setting intentions related to your passions. By immersing yourself in your local community and remaining receptive to information from all sides, you'll find yourself increasingly inspired in the long run. On the 18th, Venus conjuncts Uranus, bringing unexpected brilliance and otherworldly ideas your way. While this transit may feel overwhelming, jotting down your stream of consciousness can help you make sense of it later. Be open to initiating outings, as they may lead to romantic connections, but be mindful of potential situationships. Trust your intuition to navigate any curveballs Uranus may throw your way. This period will be essential for you to learn the importance of asserting boundaries and holding true to your beliefs. The Full Moon in Sagittarius on the 23rd closes a chapter in your career. This lunar event may bring a promotion or signal the need to move on to something that brings you fulfillment. Take stock of where you are in your career path and assess opportunities for progression to help you maintain confidence and clarity moving forward.

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Nicole Kidman And Keith Urban Are The Cutest Red Carpet Couple

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s relationship has stood the test of time. They married just a year after meeting for the first time, and their story has bloomed ever since. They’re one of our favoritecelebrity couples, and we simply love to see them happy. Read on for their full relationship timeline!

How long have Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban been together?

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Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban have been together 19 years. They started dating in 2005 and got married in 2006.

Were Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise together?

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Yes, Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise were married for 11 years before divorcing in 2001.

Why did Nicole and Tom split?

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Neither Nicole nor Tom have explicitly confirmed why they divorced. Nicole explained in a 2013 Vanity Fair interview that she and Tom were “so young” when they got married, and that could be why they didn’t work out. Other news outlets have claimed that Tom’s involvement with the Church of Scientology may have led to the split.

Nicole Kidman + Keith Urban's Relationship Timeline

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January 2005: First meeting

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban first met at the G'Day USA gala in Los Angeles. They exchanged phone numbers at the event, though Nicolerevealed Keith didn’t reach out until several months after their initial meeting.

“I had such a crush on him and he wasn’t interested in me. It’s true!” the actress told Ellen DeGeneres on air. “He didn’t call me for four months.”

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June 2005: Sparks fly

The couple had been living in New York City when Nicole realized Keith was the one for her. He had sweetly brought flowers right to her apartment for her 38th birthday, and that’s when she really knew.

"That is when I went, 'This is the man I hope I get to marry,'" she toldPeople in 2019. "I believed by that point he was the love of my life."

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May 2006: Nicole and Keith get engaged

The actress and the musician got engaged on May 15, 2006. Nicole ended up announcing the news at the 30th Anniversary gala for the United Nations Development Fund for Women.

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June 2006: Nicole and Keith get married

Nicole and Keith celebrated their wedding in Sydney, Australia on June 25, 2006. Nicole’s kids – Isabella Jane and Connor Antony (whom she shares with her ex, Tom Cruise) – both played a part in the big day.

The couple later jetted off to French Polynesia for their honeymoon.

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October 2006: Keith checks into rehab

Later that year, Nicole had staged an intervention for Keith, who struggled with alcohol abuse. He was released the following January, and Nicole was there to support him after the fact.

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November 2007: The pair moves to Nashville

As a country singer, Keith had always loved Nashville, Tennessee. He and Nicole purchased a farm on the outskirts of the city to call home when they weren't working or traveling.

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July 2008: Nicole and Keith welcome their first child

Nicole gave birth to a daughter, named Sunday Rose, on July 7, 2008 in Nashville.

Keith shared the news on his website, saying: "We want to thank everybody that has kept us in their thoughts and prayers. We feel very blessed and grateful that we can share this joy with all of you today."

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December 2010: Nicole and Keith welcome their second child

The couple’s second baby, Faith Margaret, was born via surrogate on December 28, 2010. Nicole and Keith had kept this second pregnancy considerably private.

"Our family is truly blessed, and just so thankful, to have been given the gift of baby Faith Margaret," the pair said in a statement. "No words can adequately convey the incredible gratitude that we feel for everyone who was so supportive throughout this process, in particular our gestational carrier."

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July 2017: Nicole says Keith supported her after filming intense Big Little Lies scenes

Nicole starred in HBO’s Big Little Lies as Celeste, a character who dealt with domestic violence. Though she won an Emmy for her work in the series, she admitted it was emotionally draining. Luckily, Keith was there to support her throughout the filming process when times got tough.

"Luckily I have a partner who is artistic, so he understands what it takes to support that," she toldEntertainment Tonight in 2017. "I came home to loving arms, someone that would hold me, and I was really upset at times. Really damaged, really upset, and physically and emotionally drained and in pain."

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February 2021: Nicole and Keith’s daughters appear at the Golden Globes

Nicole and Keith’s two daughters, Sunday and Faith, were spotted alongside their parents on a live video broadcast during the 2021 Golden Globes, where Nicole was nominated for her role in The Undoing.

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March 2022: The couple steps out at the Academy Awards

Keith supported Nicole at the 94th Academy Awards in 2022, where she was nominated for Best Actress for her role in Being the Ricardos.

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March 2023: Nicole and Keith turn heads at the Oscars

The couple pulled up to the 2023 Oscars in some super sleek, matching all-black outfits. Nicole and Keith didn’t shy away from any PDA on the red carpet as they had their picture taken.

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June 2023: Keith honors Nicole’s birthday

Keith made a very sweetInstagram postfor Nicole’s 56th birthday – a photo of her in nature, with the caption reading:

"To my gorgeous, sexy, adventurous, curious, nature loving, owl spotting, artist, wife: happy birthday baby !!!!!! xxxxxx.”

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April 2024: Nicole and Keith’s daughters hit the red carpet

Their family attended the 49th AFI Life Achievement Award Gala to honor Nicole’s Life Achievement Award. The pair’s daughters, Sunday (15) and Faith (13) stunned in red dresses, as Nicole wore a glowing gold gown.

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Your April Horoscope Is Here — See What's In Store For Your Sign

As we enter April, the Universe is guiding us in a new chapter with the arrival of Aries Season. This time enables us to be bold, take initiative, and embrace the thrill of starting new journeys. We are in for a ride this month as Aries Season pulsates with fiery and assertive energy, igniting a sense of urgency and a hunger for action. However, as fate would have it this year, there's an unexpected twist: Mercury, the cosmic messenger governing communication and intellect, decides to take a detour into retrograde motion as it remains stagnant in the sign of Aries. We are reminded to review plans and approaches, ensuring they're aligned with a deeper, more introspective understanding. So, as we navigate through the spirited terrain of Aries Season and its heaping number of planetary shifts, embrace reflective contemplation and understand that it's just as vital as the drive for progress.

Key Dates Of Aries Season in April 2024

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  • 4/1 Mercury Retrograde begins
  • 4/5 Venus enters Aries
  • 4/8 Solar Eclipse in Aries
  • 4/10 Mars conjunct Saturn
  • 4/15 Mercury conjunct Chiron
  • 4/17 Venus conjunct North Node
  • 4/21 Venus conjunct Chiron
  • 4/23 Full Moon in Scorpio
  • 4/25 Mercury Direct
  • 4/29 Mars conjunct Neptune, Venus enters Taurus

What To Expect In Your April Horoscope For 2024

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As the month begins with Mercury retrograde, it's a period for introspection and deliberate decision-making, prompting us to slow down and reassess our strategies. Love ignites with Venus entering Aries on April 5th, encouraging bold moves while reminding us to review potential blunders amidst the need for introspection.

A significant celestial event, a total solar eclipse in Aries on April 8th, marks an awakening, setting the stage for personal healing and growth over the next six months. This alignment and Chiron, the wounded healer, invite us to confront old wounds and find renewed purpose and passion.

The alignment of Mars and Saturn in Pisces on April 10th offers a unique synthesis, blending Mars' drive with Saturn's discipline. This encourages us to manifest aspirations with creativity, belief, and a sense of purpose, navigating the currents of the Universe with clarity and integrity.

On April 15th, Mercury's journey through assertive Aries alongside Chiron nudges us towards deep mental healing and personal growth. This cosmic duo encourages us to confront inner conflicts, leading to newfound strength and resilience in our thoughts and actions.

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Venus meeting the North Node in Aries on April 17th signals a time to release past love burdens and embrace empowerment. With Taurus season soon approaching, it will emphasize the need to review your values and self-worth. Jupiter and Uranus in Taurus encourage transformative change, urging us to break free from routines and welcome growth.

It will feel like you are living in a paradox between love and pride on April 21st when Venus and Chiron join together in Aries—highlighting the delicate balance between assertiveness and vulnerability, prompting us to confront old wounds while seeking strength.

The Full Moon in Scorpio on April 23rd invites us to dive into our deepest desires and fears. Factoring in self-care and nurturing will ensure you feel revitalized and ready to release the outmoded in your journey. Remember that releasing what is weighing you during the Full Moon is crucial to promote healing and future success.

It is time to celebrate as our ideas will take root when Mercury Direct happens on April 25th, infusing our communication with clarity and momentum, marking a fresh start post-retrograde and eclipse season. Your ideas will take flight as Mars aligning with Neptune in Pisces sparks spirituality and creativity, urging us to pursue our dreams with inspiration and purpose on April 29th. As Venus enters Taurus, love takes on a grounded and practical tone rooted in trust and authenticity. Concluding this month, Mars shifts into Aries, fueling us with courage and determination, encouraging bold action and a readiness to tackle challenges head-on.

As we navigate the celestial energies of the month, we're encouraged to honor our boundaries, nurture ourselves, and embrace the journey toward self-discovery and empowerment. With each cosmic shift, we find strength, resilience, and clarity, guiding us toward a brighter and more fulfilling future.

Read Your Sun, Moon, & Rising Signs For Your April Horoscope For 2024

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Aries

As Aries season continues to spotlight your identity and self-expression sector, you may be inspired to go public or show yourself–unfiltered. Although your birthday season is quickly advancing, April allows you to power up your confidence, but this has to be done by reflective listening, as Mercury in your sign is retrograde for most of this month. You are magnetic just by being you when Venus enters Aries on the 5th, promoting beauty and radiance. Make the most of this cosmic event by indulging in self-care. When the solar eclipse occurs on the 8th in your sign, consider this to be the start of a new chapter involving your identity and purpose. These next several months will ignite changes in your life, and you will be received by stepping into your power with truth and integrity.

Meanwhile, expect a shift in your income or the opportunity to level up your finances when Jupiter and Uranus activate your financial sector on the 21st. Build a compelling pitch to attract success. By the end of this month, Mars will enter your sign along with Mercury, directly igniting unwavering confidence. You are unstoppable and readily equipped to go after what you want – don't forget to measure twice and cut once.

Taurus

Expect things to slow down for you this month as Mercury continues to reside in the zone of retreat and subconscious realms. To best navigate this month's Mercury retrograde, your mind requires rest and reflection. The solar eclipse on the 8th propels you to listen inwardly and put more thought into how you are extending your energy these next six months. Later this month, your birthday season begins on the 19th, extending a second wind for you to take charge with your assertiveness. Get ready to experience an epiphany regarding your worth when Jupiter and Uranus align in your identity sector on the 20th. This planetary fusion will enable you to experience momentum and a desire to be recognized for your hard work. Innovation and boldness are crucial to mastering this transition. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 23rd takes place in your partnership sector, enabling you to see the truth regarding your connections and decide whether you wish to evolve your status or part ways. You are equipped with inner reflection, hold space, and patience. A new chapter begins for you when Venus enters Taurus on the 29th, infusing you with the power and confidence to turn over a new leaf, take a chance on love, and attract better opportunities.

Gemini

Your social calendar is on fire this month with Mercury retrograde phasing in your networks and friendships sector. This will encourage you to filter your connections. It will be overly stimulating, as though you are a candle burning from both ends. Preserve your energy and be around people who make you feel good. The solar eclipse on the 8th will open a new chapter involving your aspirations and long-term goals. These next six months will allow you to gain traction with your ambitions, grow your online presence, and expand your networks. When Venus and Mercury merge in your networks sector on the 17th, prepare to go public or at least be inspired to present an idea to society. Being part of a community or a cause will ignite a new approach to your plans and social connections. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 23rd closes a chapter involving the unresolved issues of intimacy and resentment. Removing unwanted thoughts and possessions or giving back will enable you to find a peaceful resolution. Get ready to experience the silver lining in your journey when Mercury goes direct along with Mars in Aries. Happening on the 30this the starting point of your dreams taking root.

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Cancer

Prepare to reflect on your next steps involving your career direction. With Mercury back spinning in your public life and career zone these next few weeks, it would be beneficial for you to reflect on the root of your motivation. The solar eclipse on the 8th will ignite a new phase for you to gauge your passions and finally witness your dreams taking flight these next six months. Either a promotion is on the horizon, or a shift in your standing with the public, such as a shift in your identity, is in the works. When Mars and Saturn join forces on the 10th, you will be inspired to step out of your comfort zone and set a new course that aligns completely with your beliefs. Become open-minded by changing your perspective to help you get started – book a trip, go back to school, or write your bestseller. This time, it will stick. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 23rd will ignite changes in your love story or passion projects – leading you to face reality. Fulfillment starts from within, not externally. When Mercury goes direct along with Mars, entering Aries on the 30th, your confidence is on fire, and you cannot stop from claiming ownership. You are ready to shift your life to how you see fit.

Leo

Are you ready to look closer at the life you have been building, Leo? Your hopes, dreams, and beliefs will undergo review as Mercury slows down, enabling you to pay attention to what is holding you back from achieving your goals. Review your thought patterns and learn new methods. The solar eclipse on the 8th will plant a new seed of you, inviting a new belief as you divert from the status quo. You may become more adventurous and push the limits of your mind. Explore and don't settle. On the 19th, Mercury and Venus align, and it can manifest a different approach to building upon your dreams. It can lead to incredible connections romantically or professionally. Remember not to lock down any promises or contracts; this month is only a period to gather inspiration and experiences. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 23rd will close the chapter involving your emotional security and improving your quality of life at home. It can manifest in reflecting on unresolved issues with family or past grievances. This is your opportunity to bury the hatchet by making peace with the past to restore harmony in your life.

Virgo

This month, you will be entering a chrysalis stage. Remember that it is crucial to undergo these periods of rest and review. With Mercury entering the shadowy realms of your secret self these next several weeks, you are in for a significant soul makeover. This is your moment to face your fears and seek out the root cause of your emotional backup. The only way out is to go through. The solar eclipse on the 8th will help you see what needs to transform in yourself or your life circumstances. It's a great time to pay off debt or receive money owed to you. Over the next several months, you will feel profound and begin the necessary steps to help you evolve into a better version of yourself. When Jupiter and Uranus align on the 20th, it will power up your beliefs or motivate you to adjust your outlook. Expect a stroke of luck involving your endeavors, as it begins with you reaching out to your past connections – street team or benefactors- and your dream is about to take off. A conclusion will manifest on the 23rd when the Full Moon in Scorpio pushes you to pinpoint your priorities – it could be dealings with a sibling, a community project, or anything that involves communication. This is your opportunity to clear the air.

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Libra

Love and partnerships will be going through massive shifts for you this month. With the messenger planet Mercury taking place in this sector these next several weeks, it's time to receive clarity regarding your love life and what needs to be improved. Be sure to listen intently before jumping to conclusions – patience is key. The solar eclipse is phasing in your relationships sector on the 8th, so get ready to step into a new paradigm with your dealings. Agreed growth and expansion will nurture your connections while establishing autonomy. Be comfortable with the idea of being assertive. That's not all for your love, Venus and North Node align on the 17th, expect a breakthrough involving your connections and life direction. It can lead you to your destiny regarding your future or in your partnerships. As you take a chance and trust the Universe, you will find yourself in the right place and time with opportunities or romantic links. The Full Moon in Scorpio on the 23rd will assist you in paying off debts or shifting your earnings. Be mindful of your spending as this lunation can manifest in needing retail therapy. Learn how to self-soothe your emotions and power up your self-worth.

Scorpio

This month takes on a deeply personal and transformative hue. As Mercury retrograde resides in your work and health sector, this is your invitation to look inward and reassess your routines with a keen eye for what truly nurtures your mind, body and spirit. Clearing out outmoded situations at work or home and establishing boundaries will help you find clarity. On the 8th, the solar eclipse in Aries urges you to embrace changes in your daily environment, release old habitual patterns that no longer serve you, and begin a new health regimen that serves your highest good. Meanwhile, the alignment of Mars and Saturn on the 10th stirs a sense of determination and inspires you to solidify your beliefs by carving out a path that aligns with your passion. And then, as the Full Moon graces your sign on the 23rd, it lays out the path to self-discovery and authenticity. This is your moment to shed the layers of who you think you should be and embrace the truth of who you are. Trust in the guidance of the cosmos, dear Scorpio, for it leads you towards a life that resonates with the essence of your being. Embrace the journey with open arms, and you will come alive through this transformation process.

Sagittarius

Prepare for a month of profound self-discovery and relationship empowerment. Mercury retrograde in your passion sector requires a reassessment of your creative passions and communication style, particularly in romantic endeavors or interactions with your children. Take this opportunity to reflect on your desires and express yourself more authentically. On the 6th, Venus in sextile with Pluto ignites a potent spark in your relationships. This alignment empowers you to initiate discussions about the direction of your romantic life with confidence and assertiveness. Your presence in your local environment commands respect as you navigate your confidence with humility and determination. The solar eclipse on the 8th manifests joy and fulfillment in your life. Engage in more fun experiences in your love life, creative endeavors, or with your children. Embrace the excitement and spontaneity this eclipse brings, allowing yourself to immerse yourself in the pleasures of life. As the Full Moon illuminates your subconscious realms on the 23rd, it invites you to invest time in your energetic hygiene. This lunar event prompts a clearing of old patterns and a renewal of your mental well-being. Take this time to reflect on past experiences, release what no longer serves you, and embrace the present moment with mindfulness and self-awareness. Nurture in your mental health and inner growth, Sagittarius, as you pave the way for a brighter, more fulfilling future.

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Capricorn

This month, profound shifts will be in your domestic life and creative pursuits. Mercury retrograde in your family sector will help you review your priorities at home and your emotional dealings with your family. Take this opportunity to reflect on how you can create a more harmonious and balanced living environment. The solar eclipse on the 8th presents a chance to embrace a new approach to your family dynamics. Whether deciding to move, renovate your home, or renew relationships with family members, this event encourages you to become more emotionally connected rather than feeling duty-bound. Embrace this opportunity to develop deeper connections and create a nurturing home environment.

Meanwhile, on the 20th, Jupiter conjunct Uranus brings an exciting opportunity for you to take a fresh approach to your creative ventures. This alignment invites you to attract more joy-filled experiences by embracing a playful attitude and letting go of seriousness. Embrace your inner child and allow yourself to explore new possibilities with freedom and spontaneity. As the Full Moon on the 23rd illuminates your friendships and networks zone, it signals the closure of a chapter involving your past aspirations or the need to review your friendships and connections. Take this time to reflect on the role of your social circle in your life and make any necessary adjustments to align with your future goals and endeavors.

Aquarius

Communication and career opportunities take center stage for you this month. Mercury retrograde in your mental zone requires reviewing your communication style and technology systems, with typical retrograde issues amplified. Practice reflective listening to navigate misunderstandings and feelings of scatteredness. The solar eclipse on the 8th instills powerful confidence in articulating your passions and endeavors these next several months. You can use organization to structure your motivations effectively. Venus joining the North Node enhances your presence within localized groups, drawing others to your vision. Use this attraction to connect with like-minded individuals and share your ideas confidently. As the Full Moon in Scorpio illuminates your career sector on the 23rd, prepare for recognition and potential status changes. Beware of unexpected confidence verging on rebelliousness against superiors. Maintain mindfulness and reflective communication to navigate heightened visibility with professionalism.

Pisces

Your self-worth and financial matters will undergo a significant makeover this month as Mercury retrograde will highlight unexpected expenses and challenges in budgeting. Grounding yourself will be crucial to navigating this period of financial instability, and avoiding major purchases is advised. However, the solar eclipse on the 8th promises your future financial situation. Taking place in your financial sector, this eclipse marks the beginning of a productive six months where you can streamline your income and gain better control over your resources. This period also boosts your confidence and self-worth, empowering you to develop a better relationship with money. On the 10th, Mars joining Saturn in Pisces ignites movement and traction in your life, particularly regarding your authority and decision-making. You'll feel more in control of your actions and more mindful of your choices, leading to greater stability and progress. As the Full Moon in Scorpio graces your spirituality zone on the 23rd, it inspires you to connect with your energy and explore new horizons. Consider engaging with your higher mind through travel, education, or adventure. This lunar event encourages expansion and growth, urging you to embrace the unknown with courage and curiosity.

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WTF Does The "Challengers" Ending Mean?

Challengers is honestly just one giant tennis match. While we watch Zendaya's Tashi, Mike Faist's Art, and Josh O'Connor's Patrick play the game in a literal sense, we also see their personal relationship spiral, ricocheting back and forth as each character plays a different role every couple of years. And the crazy Challengers ending is a culmination of this intense emotional journey because it solidifies Patrick, Tashi, and Art's relationship — both to one another, but also to tennis itself.

What did the ending of The Challengers mean?

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There is a lot of tension between Tashi, Art, and Patrick throughout the movie, and it all builds to the titular Challenger match. It's Art vs. Patrick, and they're playing for way more than just the title and the money (though of course, they're definitely playing for the title and the money) — this is one final chance to prove themselves to Tashi, who's sitting court-side looking very unimpressed.

Both men lose their cool during different sets, but it's in the third and final set that everything comes to a head. At the end of the match, Patrick confesses to sleeping with Tashi using a tennis ball and racket signal only Art recognizes. For a split second Art is is complete shock, and I expected him to completely lose it. And, technically, he does, but in a totally unexpected way. Rather than jump the net and punch Patrick in the face, Art channels his emotions into his tennis, and the fury he feels actually allows him break through whatever slump he's been stuck in.

Unable to have a conversation about Patrick's secret, Art and Patrick talk with their serves and returns. And because Tashi doesn't catch the signal, for the first time in the whole movie, she's cut out of the conversation.

Did Tashi love Art and Patrick?

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Tashi's been pulling the strings ever since she met Art and Patrick, and she's never not been in control. After Patrick sends the signal, she knows something is going on between them, she just doesn't know what — and it unnerves her. Thanks to Zendaya's expert subtlety, the twitch of her eyebrow or the particularly anxious way she grips her hands are the only things that give her away. But her confusion, and the men's anger, quickly turn to pure joy in the final moments of the movie.

Patrick and Art end up playing so intensely that they meet at the net and embrace, prompting Tashi's iconic tennis yell before she gives one of her first genuine laughs of the film and the screen cuts to black. The first time I saw the movie, I thought "What?!" but the more I think about it, the clearer the Challengers ending is.

Patrick and Art (whose relationship begins six or seven years before the movie opens) haven't spoken since the big fight surrounding Tashi's injury, and their hug proves they're just happy to be playing together again. It's what they've always loved, and their fight over Tashi almost ended it forever. Tashi's pure elation shows she's happy to watch some good tennis, especially after she failed to help Art break out of his rut.

We've only seen Tashi scream like that once before, when she admits to a perfect tennis match. While Tashi does care for Patrick and Art, the end of Challengers proves the characters' true love was never really each other — it was always the game.

What did you think of the Challengers ending? After you rewatch the movie (and then rewatch it again), check out the other Most-Anticipated Spring Movies For 2024.

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7 Devastating TV Breakups That Almost Broke Us

While it's always nice to see something realistic represented in our favorite TV shows, there are few things more painful than watching a TV breakup. Even when we don't actually know fictional characters IRL, it's absolutely devastating to see them break each other's hearts. (Although, it's equally as bad as never seeing your favorite prospective couple get together — I will never forgive The 100 for what they did to Clarke and Bellamy!!).

Keep reading to see some of our most heartbreaking splits — and then check outWhat Being Team Conrad Or Jeremiah Says About Your Dream TV Boyfriendto put a smile back on your face.

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Ross and Rachel from Friends

Friends is one of the most iconic sitcoms of all times, and Ross and Rachel is definitely one of the most devastating TV breakups. In season 3, this iconic couple decides to take a break in and in "The One with the Morning After," Ross wakes up with another woman named Chloe at the exact moment Rachel shows up at his door. Rachel finds out about the affair, and after a fight in Monica's living room, the couple calls it quits.

Regardless of how you feel about Ross claiming they "were on a break" when he slept with Chloe, seeing Rachel's reaction (and knowing the trust between them was broken) is one of the worst moments in the whole show. Just thinking about it makes my stomach bottom out!

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Rory and Jess from Gilmore Girls

This is one of my personal most-devastating TV breakups because it seems like, out of all of Rory's boyfriends, Rory and Jess are just perfect for each other when they start dating. Not only does their love of books bring them closer together, but their personalities are so compatible. But when Jess leaves for California at the end of season 3 — without saying anything to Rory, I might add — is unacceptable! It breaks my heart, and based on the final look he gives Rory during A Year in the Life, he also regrets it BIG TIME.

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Damon and Elena from The Vampire Diaries

This Vampire Diaries couple was truly endgame, and the will-they-won't-they of it all was one of my favorite things about the show. So when they broke up (to my horror), I was devastated.

Damon and Elena admit they're bad for each other in the season 5 episode "While You Were Sleeping" (then Damon tells her he doesn't even want to be friends. Ouch!!), but it's the season finale, "Home," that makes me extra emotional. When Damon gets stuck with Bonnie on the Other Side, he says goodbye to Elena, who's begging him not to leave but can neither see nor hear him. Say it with me: gut! wrenching!

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Conrad and Belly from The Summer I Turned Pretty

The Summer I Turned Pretty fans are PASSIONATE about whether they're team Conrad or team Jeremiah (trick question, my OTP is Taylor and Stephen), and even the most dedicated Conrad stan hates the prom scene. You know, when he breaks up with Belly at her prom, in the rain. I know he just thinks Belly deserves better, but it's still very painful to watch.

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Schmidt and Cece from New Girl

When I hear "devastating TV breakup" I IMMEDIATELY think of Schmidt and Cece from New Girl. Schmidt gets away with a lot of ridiculous things throughout this show, but dating two girls at one time is not one of them. After Nick has a hard time keeping Schmidt's love life a secret, Schmidt finally comes clean to Cece in "Double Date," leaving both her and me in tears. No matter how many times you rewatch the show, it truly feels like their relationship (and maybe even the friend group) will never recover.

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Fleabag and The Priest on Fleabag

In the history of TV, I don't think I've ever heard anything as heartbreaking as "I love you," "It'll pass." Like, who approved that line?! The viral moment comes at the end of the Fleabag series finale, when Fleabag is sitting with The Priest at the bus stop. Over the course of the series, we not only see how much these two care about each other, but how well they know each other (like how The Priest recognizes when Fleabag zones out). To be loved is to be known, and that's what makes this devastating TV breakup even more devastating.

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Carrie and Aidan on Sex and the City

After so much back and forth, it's hard to accept Carrie and Aidan's final breakup on SATC. But in season 4's "Change of a Dress," Carrie realizes she's not ready for marriage and Aidan realizes he doesn't trust her after her affair with Big. The combo of broken trust and being at two different life stages makes this extra painful to watch, and I don't think any amount of rewatches (or And Just Like That binges) is going to change that.

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