23 Obama-Inspired Gifts You Need to Say Farewell to POTUS and FLOTUS

Saying goodbye is never easy, especially when it’s everyone’s *favorite* First Family. But the one thing that might soften the blow is stocking up on ALL of the Obama-inspired swag. Whether you want to remember Barack’s hilarious puns, his amazing bromance with Biden, Michelle’s effortless style or the girl bosses that are Malia and Sasha, the quirky and adorable gifts below will commemorate every heartwarming, hilarious and powerful moment from the Obama era. From pins, patches, hats and totes, you’ll be rockin’ that nostalgic Obama vibe for the next four years, at least.

She's been by your side since the beginning — or at least since whoever is younger was born. You've cried over boybands, marveled at movies, surprised your mom with matching tattoosand even moved one another into your first home away from home. Whether she's older, your birthday twin or a decade younger, your sister has always been there for you. She's your person. Sometimes figuring out exactly what to get your nearest and dearest is hard. You know them so well, yet never enough to conjure up the *perfect* birthday gift.

Fear not, because we've put together a list of 56 birthday gift ideas for sisters that are sure please, whether your sis is training to be a future almond-mom or she prefers a good bed-rotting sesh.

minted Vibrance No. 1 ($132)

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Add a pop of color to your sister's walls with this gorgeous print.

minted Creative Block ($37)

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If your sister loves stunning artwork but not the crazy price tag, a high-quality print is perfect. She gets a gorgeous new piece of art and saves a pretty penny. We're calling this a win-win.

Rococo Floral Co. Rococo Preserved Bud Vase ($40)

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Gift your sis a mix of everlasting, dried florals arranged in petite bud vase to match. Not only will this bouquet stay gorgeous forever, but it's the perfect accent in any room.

LUXIE Complete Face Brush Set - Rose Gold ($80)

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No one ever buys themselves new makeup brushes. It's just a fact of girlhood. While your sister may not be dolling herself up 24/7, make sure she feels beautiful with these luxe, practical brushes.

We The Free Camden Sweatshirt ($78)

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The definition of an effortless essential, this cool and classic pullover is featured in an oversized, slouchy fit with raw, exposed seaming throughout for a true lived-in look.

UGG Women's Classic Mini II Winter Boot ($160)

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As far as we're concerned, UGGs can be worn year round. Especially as we head into cooler months, make sure your sister is as comfortable as possible with the perfect pair of sherpa-lined booties.

Canopy Humidifier ($150)

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Support the health of your sister's skin with this completely reimagined humidifier that also alleviates symptoms of cold and flu.

Solid & Striped The Oxford Tunic ($198)

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We can picture ourselves lounging under a cabana right now with this tunic on. Add some color to your sister's wardrobe with this funky take on a classic silhouette.

Saltyface Essential Tanning Set ($119)

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So your sister refuses to be pale. Ever. Up her tanning game with this high-quality, skin-safe tanning bundle from Saltyface.

YDL Cork Yoga Mat ($89)

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"Ommmmmmmm..." That's how relaxed your sis will be with this new yoga mat in her life. Oh, and it comes in a variety of thicknesses, which is amazing for yogis at any stage.

Free People Luna Classic Aviator Sunglasses ($25)

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Made for sunny days, these effortlessly cool sunglasses are featured in a classic square-shaped frame and aviator-inspired style with a delicate brow bar, eye-catching tinted lenses and adjustable nose pads.

Free People Everyday Hoodie ($168)

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Add effortless edge to any style with this relaxed hoodie featured in a slouchy. Whether your sister is heading to pilates or the grocery store, she'll be dressed for (relaxed) success with this sweatshirt on.

Bel Rebel Eau De Parfum ($210)

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We love a unique fragrance, and these ones from Bel Rebel truly take our breath away.

Free People Tempo Long-Sleeve Tee ($50)

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The perfect layer for all your sster's workouts, this long-sleeve tee features a flowy, A-line silhouette with raw seam details and thumbholes at the sleeves.

sugardoh Sugaring Starter Kit ($95)

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Whether you're sister is a sugaring pro or shaving loyalist, gift her any of sugardoh's products for hair-free skin in no time. *Practically* garunteed.

Fresh Sends "The Send" Bouquet ($69)

Everyone loves flowers! And everyone deserves flowers! Treat your sis with a gorgeous, fresh bouquet, delivered straight to her door.

Free People HOKA Rincon 3 Sneaker ($125)

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Painful shoes are the absolute worst. Save your sis from uncomfortable sneakers with a pair of Hokas that are just as practical as they are cute.

BYCHARI Coco Shoulder Duster Earrings ($125)

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If your sister loves jewelry, up her earring stack with these stunning duster earrings. She'll be scoring compliments in no time.

Teressa Foglia Mitch Hat ($600)

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Truth be told, we love Teressa Foglia's hats. They're expensive, yes, but they're also such incredible quality. If your sis is a hat girl, surprise her with a handmade hat that's (literally) designed to fit her head. Talk about a showstopper.

Jeffrey Campbell Arabella Heels ($168)

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So sleek for a sophisticated touch, these pointed toe mules from Jeffrey Campbell are featured in a soft suede with bow and grommet details and a skinny stiletto heel.

de la heart Body Renewal Detox Kit ($97)

We are active practitioners of the Holy Bible of Lymphatic Drainage, and with a little research (ahem — TikTok) we're sure your sis will be hooked.

Canopy Filtered Showerhead ($125)

An easy-to-install filtered shower head that reduces dissolved minerals, added chlorine and other contaminants in your sister's household water, providing clean water that supports healthy skin and hair. Just what the doctor ordered.

Free People Get Your Flirt On Shorts ($40)

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So flirty and fun shorts to spice up your workout attire, featured in a flowy style with a high-rise, smocked waistband and side pockets.

slip Top Knot Duo Skinny Scrunchies ($16)

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We swear by silk hair ties. Prevent additional breakage and damage with these skinny, buttery-soft scrunchies from slip.

W&P Porter Ceramic Bowl ($40)

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Make leftovers as easy as 1-2-3 with a Porter Bowl. This premium ceramic bowl features a protective silicone wrap, rigid plastic lid and snap-tight silicone strap and can be used in the microwave, dishwasher and it's BPA free.

VERSED Look Alive Hydrating Plumping Mask ($10)

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For those days when your sister's skin is extra thirsty, this mask will hydrate, plump and diminish the look of wrinkles, while cooling and soothing the skin.

LUV AJ Monaco Huggies ($45)

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Every girl needs a basic pair of hoops. As long as she's a gold jewelry gal, then these will be her new go-to earrings.

Bird + Belle Ivory "SURF" Pennant Style Flag ($99)

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Bring some design and texture into your sis's home with this vintage-inspired surf pennant.

Aerin Bra Top ($148)

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You can't deny how adorable this top is. It's impossible.

VERSED Mini The Shortcut Overnight Facial Peel ($10)

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In one step, this mini face peel works while your sis is sleep to resurface and renew her complexion. A blend of Lactic and Glycolic Acids works to break down dead skin cells, anti-aging Vitamin A exfoliates, brightens, and hydrates, and skin-conditioning Allantoin, Rosehip, and Vitamin E keep skin calm. It's pH-balanced, non-drying, and non-irritating, so it won't leave her red or flaky — just bright and refreshed. It's even gentle enough to use on back-to-back nights.

Miranda Frye x REVOLVE Adriana Necklace ($112)

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If your sister is in the market for a chunky, albeit simple gold chain, then this one is sure to fulfill her wish.

Saxon Kent Art Prints (Price varies)

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We're suckers for photography prints. If your sis is too, then check out Australian-based photographer Saxon Kent's collection of prints for incredible landscapes and jaw-dropping colors.

Dew of the Gods Claydate Healing Face Mask ($42)

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This mineral-rich, creamy mud of the gods is infused with rosehip oil, aloe, coconut oil, and hyaluronic acid, working to purify, heal, tone and remineralize the skin.

NARS Afterglow Blush ($32)

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Purple blush is all the rage, and this lightweight, skincare-infused liquid blush delivers a buildable rush of color with eight-hour hydration. Perfect for skincare specialists and makeup mavens alike.

Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez Perfect Strokes Universal Volumizing Mascara ($20)

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This universal mascara has a unique eye-hugging brush to lift, lengthen, curl and volumize every lash type, delivering a lush look to even the sparsest of eyelashes.

e.l.f. cosmetics Halo Glow Powder Puff ($4)

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Achieve that flawless glow with this velour powder puff. This tiny tool will help your sis set her base for an airbrushed look with expertly smooth application, and better yet it’s both reusable and machine washable!

Little Korboose Hanging Planter ($110)

Even if your sister doesn’t have a green thumb, this fun ceramic pot will make it seem like she does. For some extra pizazz, pick up some succulents from your local nursery for an even cuter presentation.

Our Place Large Always Pan® ($180)

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Everyone needs a great quality cooking pan, and this one from Our Place is perfect for making all of her favorites.

"Cravings: All Together: Recipes to Love" by Chrissy Teigen ($30)

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Filled to the brim with warm, comforting recipes to enjoy with family and loved ones, this cookbook gives classic dishes the Chrissy Teigen treatment — and are downright delicious.

Leena Joshi "Love Note No.21" Art Print ($25)

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We can't help ourselves with all of the art recommendations! Pick up one of Leena Joshi's original paintings or prints for the perfect accent to any space.

Russell + Hazel Acrylic Cord Manager ($10)

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With space to hold three cords in place, this acrylic cord manager makes it easy to keep cables in control and your sister's desk neat and tidy.

Pura 4 ($50)

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This gadget keeps on giving with its innovative smart features. Your sis can control up to two scents at a time to give her home the most modern, customized and high-end scenting experience possible.

Cloud RO Under Sink Reverse Osmosis System ($750)

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If you're looking for a gift that's a bit on the pricier side, look no further. Tell your sister to say "so long" to her college Brita filter with this reverse osmosis water filtration system. Better yet, it will fit right underneath her sink for clean, purified water 24/7.

Big Naturals NATURAL Picpoul Wine ($60)

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You can't go wrong with Big Naturals, at least in our experience. This picpoul white wine has refreshing notes of "green apple, melon, Sourpatch Kids, and bright minerality," perfect for summer sessions.

Tahlia Stanton Fine Art Prints (Price varies)

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If you love mixed media art, then you'll definitely love Tahlia Stanton. This Australian-based artist creates the most incredible pieces, so order an original or print for a little infusion of color in your sister's art collection.

Cravings by Chrissy Teigen Chop-Everything Wooden Cutting Board ($32)

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Big enough to hold piles of sliced and diced veggies while your sis preps, beautiful enough to take straight to the table stacked with cheese and charcuterie. Oh, and it can hold her phone too.

Lola Massage Gun ($103)

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Relax, unwind and improve your sister's wellbeing with this interchangeable massage gun.

quip Rechargeable Cordless Water Flosser ($60)

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Water flossers are game changers, and you'd never know until your try them yourself.

keeko Everyday Essentials Bundle ($40.50)

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Now that we're on the teeth train, give your sis a healthier smile with this essential bundle from keeko.

Bed Babe Beauty Sleep Powder Drink Mix Sticks 10-Pack ($40)

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Meet your sister's new nighttime ritual for glowing skin! Bed Babe has made beauty sleep a reality and packed skin-loving ingredients into a tasty drink mix to help your sis sleep soundly while improving skin hydration, texture and elasticity.

bala The Power Ring ($89)

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The kettlebell and the dumbbell had a baby — and it turns out she’s prettycute. Press, hold, swing and squat to increase strength, agility, endurance and balance.

Ora Organic The Modern Multi Multivitamin ($40)

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This clean, plant-based multivitamin has 20 essential nutrients in their most bioavailable forms to support a healthy immune system, cognitive function and support vision health by protecting the eyes against blue light exposure from digital devices.

Kif Kefir Water 3 Flavor Sampler Pack ($72)

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No, it's not kombucha. Give this kombucha-adjacent beverage a try for all the probiotics and all the best flavors.

Organic Olivia Gift Card (Price varies)

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If your sis is a holistic health and wellness fanatic, give her the gift of health with an Organic Olivia gift card. She'll LOVE it, trust us.

Cora The Free-To-Flow Period Underwear ($30)

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Soft, reusable period underwear that hold up to 3 regular tampons worth of liquid – cycle after cycle. It may not be the sexiest gift, but it sure is practical.

"Girls Just Wanna Have Funds: A Feminist's Guide to Investing" by Camilla Falkenberg, Emma Due Bitz and Anna-Sophie Hartvigsen ($20)

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If your goal is to become a stay at home sister, get your sis started on the right track with this uplifting money manifesto set to shift the tides of financial power head on.

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Challengers is honestly just one giant tennis match. While we watch Zendaya's Tashi, Mike Faist's Art, and Josh O'Connor's Patrick play the game in a literal sense, we also see their personal relationship spiral, ricocheting back and forth as each character plays a different role every couple of years. And the crazy Challengers ending is a culmination of this intense emotional journey because it solidifies Patrick, Tashi, and Art's relationship — both to one another, but also to tennis itself.

What did the ending of The Challengers mean?

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There is a lot of tension between Tashi, Art, and Patrick throughout the movie, and it all builds to the titular Challenger match. It's Art vs. Patrick, and they're playing for way more than just the title and the money (though of course, they're definitely playing for the title and the money) — this is one final chance to prove themselves to Tashi, who's sitting court-side looking very unimpressed.

Both men lose their cool during different sets, but it's in the third and final set that everything comes to a head. At the end of the match, Patrick confesses to sleeping with Tashi using a tennis ball and racket signal only Art recognizes. For a split second Art is is complete shock, and I expected him to completely lose it. And, technically, he does, but in a totally unexpected way. Rather than jump the net and punch Patrick in the face, Art channels his emotions into his tennis, and the fury he feels actually allows him break through whatever slump he's been stuck in.

Unable to have a conversation about Patrick's secret, Art and Patrick talk with their serves and returns. And because Tashi doesn't catch the signal, for the first time in the whole movie, she's cut out of the conversation.

Did Tashi love Art and Patrick?

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Tashi's been pulling the strings ever since she met Art and Patrick, and she's never not been in control. After Patrick sends the signal, she knows something is going on between them, she just doesn't know what — and it unnerves her. Thanks to Zendaya's expert subtlety, the twitch of her eyebrow or the particularly anxious way she grips her hands are the only things that give her away. But her confusion, and the men's anger, quickly turn to pure joy in the final moments of the movie.

Patrick and Art end up playing so intensely that they meet at the net and embrace, prompting Tashi's iconic tennis yell before she gives one of her first genuine laughs of the film and the screen cuts to black. The first time I saw the movie, I thought "What?!" but the more I think about it, the clearer the Challengers ending is.

Patrick and Art (whose relationship begins six or seven years before the movie opens) haven't spoken since the big fight surrounding Tashi's injury, and their hug proves they're just happy to be playing together again. It's what they've always loved, and their fight over Tashi almost ended it forever. Tashi's pure elation shows she's happy to watch some good tennis, especially after she failed to help Art break out of his rut.

We've only seen Tashi scream like that once before, when she admits to a perfect tennis match. While Tashi does care for Patrick and Art, the end of Challengers proves the characters' true love was never really each other — it was always the game.

What did you think of the Challengers ending? After you rewatch the movie (and then rewatch it again), check out the other Most-Anticipated Spring Movies For 2024.

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Brit + Co never plays around when it comes to holiday parties (or any parties for that matter). But around these parts, ain't no party like a white elephant or Secret Santa party because it's prime time for ridiculous gifts. From LED holiday flair to pocket manfriends (we'll explain), we've rounded up the ultimate buys for gift-swap domination. That's right — we're your one-stop shop for the absurd, the unusual, and the totally delightful.

Read on and prepare for a serious celebration of the random. Now, let's get this white elephant gift party started.

Oaxacan Floral Taper Candle

Take taper candles to a whole new delicate level with these hand-shaped candles.

5-Minute Daily Meditations

Gift this calendar featuring 5-minute meditations to help your pal get centered and focused for the new year.

Mixtape Cassette Sponges Set

Everyone can use a sponge and how fun are these?

Glitter Christmas Light Up Flashing LED Sunglasses

What lights up and will instantly turn you into the opposite of the Grinch?

Yoda Buddha

The best white elephant gift, you will have.

Gastro Obscura 

From the team that brings you all the bizarre travel stops in Atlas Obscura comes this guide to what to eat around the world filled with food adventures and edible wonders.

Ticker Sock - Retro Floral

The perfect gift for the sock-lover in your life.

Popsicle Puzzle

Flashback to summer in puzzle form!

Cat Stretch Ceramic Cup

There’s bound to be a cat lady who will make efforts to steal this precious mug.

Mini Cinema Light Box

Never stop dreaming of the perfect gift...

Craftsman Beer Soap Sampler

For the beer lovers on your list, give ’em a brand new way to get their hopped up fix.

Sloth Face Tote Bag

What’s cuter than a sloth face on a tote bag?

Slip Silk Eyemask

The gift of a good night's sleep is priceless.

Horse Head Squirrel Feeder

If you haven't seen this ridiculous thing going viral, it's time to get in the know. It's a squirrel feeder shaped like a horse head, so it looks like the squirrel is a mini-horse when he's snacking. Amazing.

Pears, Apples, and Cheese Gift

Fall fruit with a cheesy mix is a white elephant gift we would happily accept.

Dog Butt Magnets

Magnets, in dog butt form. Why not?

Air Sofa

Love HANGING OUT everywhere you go? Have lungs, will travel.

Campfire Cologne

You know how your clothes smell after a weekend of camping? Now you can smell like that ALL the time.

Custom Shaped Pet Pillow

Is your pup or cat so narcissistic it only wants to snuggle with itself? There's a custom pet pillow for that.

Kitty Butt Coasters

MEW-ve over, forgettable gifts! This gift is so specific, it will never be forgotten.

The Mountain Fanny Pack Kittens T-Shirt

Kitties AND a fanny pack. All in one shirt!

Fried Egg Rug

When it comes to egg love, we don’t yolk around. P.S. Your dad called, he wants his pun back ;)

Moulin Roty Circus Shadow Puppets

For the impromptu puppet show you’ve always dreamed of.

Tipsy Elves Get Lit Light Up Ugly Christmas Sweater

Shine bright this holiday season with this battery-powered Christmas sweater that will help you literally get lit.

Happy Feet Shark Slippers

Duunnn dunnn… duuuunnnn duun… duuunnnnnnnn dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dunnnnnnnnnnn dunnnn.

Pocket Manfriend

Have a friend in need of a bearded companion? Get her/him a manfriend in pocket size - you can take him anywhere! Choose from 17 personalized guys.

Star Wars Millennium Falcon Bottle Opener & Keychain

What better way to end a long day than with a tasty bottle of brewski opened with a bottle opener from a galaxy far, far away.

Cereal Marshmallows

Sprinkle them on whatever you like!

Tattly Frida Kahlo Tattoo Set

For when you're not ready to commit to a real tattoo, try these fun faux tattoos.

Mariah Carey Merry Christmas Vinyl

Throw this classic holiday record on before your white elephant party ends!

Pin Up Pickles Cool Dilly Beans

Just imagine being able to say, “Cool beans!” when it’s unwrapped.

Bow & Drape Just in Queso Striped T-Shirt

Remember the #cheesepocalypse? One year, Velveeta was flying off the racks and causing the first ever Velveeta shortage! Luckily, we’ve always got a backup supply so we can make queso all the live long day.

RaveLife Light Up Bow Tie

The perfect thing to pair your light up jacket with? A light-activated bow tie, duhhh.

Mood Cat Poster

We're digging this mood.

SheaMoisture Maracuja & Shea Oils Beard Conditioning Oil

Decorative beards and mustaches are definitely here to stay, so give that guy in your life the products he needs to keep things tidy.

Transparent Kitchen Safe

Protect your cookies from… people who apparently steal your cookies so often that you need a safe?

PE Generic Portable Pizza Pouch

You never know when you’ll need to carry a slice to-go.

Homesick Candle

Give the gift of the outdoors with this soy-based candle.

Bananagrams

A fun game really is the gift that keeps on giving.

Groot Chia Pet 

It's a Chia! It's a pet! It's a Chia Pet!

Piece Pie Puzzle

This gift might make the recipient hungry and take days to complete, but it'll make for a good time.

Sassy Animals Coloring Book 

Coloring + sassy animals = a win in my book!

Coffee Mug Warmer

Anything to do with coffee is sure to be a heart-warming gift.

Cartoon Cow Slippers 

These keep your feet warm and are super adorable.

Shrek Mini Waffle Maker 

This waffle maker delivers fresh and funny waffles every morning.

Wonderful Winers Playing Cards

You can never go wrong with a silly deck of cards.

Dinosaur Adult Onesie 

A comfy and funny gift everyone will enjoy! 

Tortilla Blanket

Turn your friends into giant human burritos!

Funny Sloth Coffee Mug

A mug that accurately depicts us all before our coffee.

Pickle Flavored Cotton Candy

Pickle lovers won't be able to get over this one.

Frankie the Dancing Hot Dog 

This dancing hot dog adds some fun to your desk.

Wine Glasses Set Of 4

These wine glasses are fun and functional!

Banana Duck Plush Toy

A banana and a duck? How cute!

This Book is Literally Just Pictures of Animals Silently

The best coffee table on the market, hands down.

What white elephant gifts are you gifting this year? Share with us @BritandCo!

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While it's always nice to see something realistic represented in our favorite TV shows, there are few things more painful than watching a TV breakup. Even when we don't actually know fictional characters IRL, it's absolutely devastating to see them break each other's hearts. (Although, it's equally as bad as never seeing your favorite prospective couple get together — I will never forgive The 100 for what they did to Clarke and Bellamy!!).

Keep reading to see some of our most heartbreaking splits — and then check outWhat Being Team Conrad Or Jeremiah Says About Your Dream TV Boyfriendto put a smile back on your face.

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Ross and Rachel from Friends

Friends is one of the most iconic sitcoms of all times, and Ross and Rachel is definitely one of the most devastating TV breakups. In season 3, this iconic couple decides to take a break in and in "The One with the Morning After," Ross wakes up with another woman named Chloe at the exact moment Rachel shows up at his door. Rachel finds out about the affair, and after a fight in Monica's living room, the couple calls it quits.

Regardless of how you feel about Ross claiming they "were on a break" when he slept with Chloe, seeing Rachel's reaction (and knowing the trust between them was broken) is one of the worst moments in the whole show. Just thinking about it makes my stomach bottom out!

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Rory and Jess from Gilmore Girls

This is one of my personal most-devastating TV breakups because it seems like, out of all of Rory's boyfriends, Rory and Jess are just perfect for each other when they start dating. Not only does their love of books bring them closer together, but their personalities are so compatible. But when Jess leaves for California at the end of season 3 — without saying anything to Rory, I might add — is unacceptable! It breaks my heart, and based on the final look he gives Rory during A Year in the Life, he also regrets it BIG TIME.

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Damon and Elena from The Vampire Diaries

This Vampire Diaries couple was truly endgame, and the will-they-won't-they of it all was one of my favorite things about the show. So when they broke up (to my horror), I was devastated.

Damon and Elena admit they're bad for each other in the season 5 episode "While You Were Sleeping" (then Damon tells her he doesn't even want to be friends. Ouch!!), but it's the season finale, "Home," that makes me extra emotional. When Damon gets stuck with Bonnie on the Other Side, he says goodbye to Elena, who's begging him not to leave but can neither see nor hear him. Say it with me: gut! wrenching!

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Conrad and Belly from The Summer I Turned Pretty

The Summer I Turned Pretty fans are PASSIONATE about whether they're team Conrad or team Jeremiah (trick question, my OTP is Taylor and Stephen), and even the most dedicated Conrad stan hates the prom scene. You know, when he breaks up with Belly at her prom, in the rain. I know he just thinks Belly deserves better, but it's still very painful to watch.

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Schmidt and Cece from New Girl

When I hear "devastating TV breakup" I IMMEDIATELY think of Schmidt and Cece from New Girl. Schmidt gets away with a lot of ridiculous things throughout this show, but dating two girls at one time is not one of them. After Nick has a hard time keeping Schmidt's love life a secret, Schmidt finally comes clean to Cece in "Double Date," leaving both her and me in tears. No matter how many times you rewatch the show, it truly feels like their relationship (and maybe even the friend group) will never recover.

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Fleabag and The Priest on Fleabag

In the history of TV, I don't think I've ever heard anything as heartbreaking as "I love you," "It'll pass." Like, who approved that line?! The viral moment comes at the end of the Fleabag series finale, when Fleabag is sitting with The Priest at the bus stop. Over the course of the series, we not only see how much these two care about each other, but how well they know each other (like how The Priest recognizes when Fleabag zones out). To be loved is to be known, and that's what makes this devastating TV breakup even more devastating.

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Carrie and Aidan on Sex and the City

After so much back and forth, it's hard to accept Carrie and Aidan's final breakup on SATC. But in season 4's "Change of a Dress," Carrie realizes she's not ready for marriage and Aidan realizes he doesn't trust her after her affair with Big. The combo of broken trust and being at two different life stages makes this extra painful to watch, and I don't think any amount of rewatches (or And Just Like That binges) is going to change that.

What's YOUR most devastating TV breakup? Let us know on Facebook!

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Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris caused quite a stir at Elton John's Oscars afterparty, but for good reason! After dodging dating rumors for quite awhile, they dressed to impress and made their first public debut as a couple! Sophia even wore her best accessory — a mega-watt smile — that further confirms this blissful pair.

While some people love to know whencelebrity couples fell in love, the details about Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris' relationship have people wondering when this couple actually got together. Well, our wait is over because Sophia decided to open about what led to her romance with Ashlyn Harris and why certain rumors hold no merit!

Since we're clearly tuned in to this love story, here's everything you need to know about Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris's relationship!

Who is Sophia Bush?

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Sophia Bush has had a lengthy career as an actress, and she's most recognized for her portrayal of Brooke Davis in the hit TV series One Tree Hill. She's also appeared in Nip/Tuck, Chicago Fire, Incredibles 2, and John Tucker Must Die. When she's not showing off her acting chops, she hosts the Drama Queens podcast alongside former One Tree Hill castmates Hilarie Burton and Bethany Joy Lenz!

Who is Ashlyn Harris?

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Ashlyn Harris is a former U.S. soccer player who had a successful run — no pun intended — as a goalkeeper during the career. She also won the 2015 FIFA Women's World Cup in Canada and continued making an impressionable mark. However, she announced her retirementin 2022 and — per her Instagrampage — has gone on to become the Global Creative Advisor for Gotham FC and Adidas Football.

When did the dating rumors about Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris start?

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June 2023

Rumors about a possible connection between Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris swirled last summer when Cosmopolitanreported they were on a panel at Cannes Lion International Festival of Creativity. Sophia shared a pic of the two at the festival on Instagramand wrote, "Love you @ashlynharris24 and @sophieannkelly" towards the end of her caption.

A source told Page Six, "It’s very new...They are definitely a couple.” But, Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris didn't confirm or deny anything at that time.

When did Sophia Bush file for divorce from Grant Hughes?

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August 2023

A couple of months after Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris were seen getting cozy together, Sophia filed for divorce from her former husband Grant Hughes. Peopleshared that they were only married for a little over a year — 13 months — but didn't end on a bad terms. A source then told Entertainment Tonight, "Grant and Sophia are better off as friends and they weren’t getting enough time with each other before their breakup."

When did Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger file for divorce?

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October 2023

While things seemed to quiet down, Ashlyn Harris soon filed for divorce from Ali Krieger after getting married towards the end of 2019. What's interesting is that a source told Peoplethis decision wasn't surprising. "Although it’s new information to the public, Ashlyn and Ali’s divorce began months ago and they have been living apart since the summer,” the source said.

This is also around the time it was speculated Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris had their first official date. A rep told People, "Grant will always want the best for Sophia, and is supportive of all that makes her happy and fulfilled." We guess it helps he and Sophia had a solid friendship before getting married!

As for Ali Krieger, she basically let the world know things were business as usual with an Instagrampost. She captioned a pic of her playing soccer with, "Preparing for playoffs while in my Beyoncé lemonade era." A comment from user @lgbtlfg said, "the fact that a lot of players in these comment’s usually mind their business and stay out of drama but are supporting ali should tell everyone all they need to know."

The only thing Ashlyn said about it on Instagramis that she never intended for her and Ali's divorce to be made a public matter. A portion of her note says, "This process is never easy, but we were making our way through."

Have Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris publicly talked about their relationship?

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March 2024

Besides showing up to Elton John's Oscars afterparty together, Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris were previously tight-lipped about their relationship. The only hint Sophia offered was much more of a reflective post about 2023 on Instagramat the beginning of January. She said, "This year taught me to listen to myself and no one else. To let go of expectation that wounds and grasp possibility that frees. To not care about optics and instead invest in honesty."

But, she's since chosen to own where she is in life.

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Sophia Bush on the cover of Glamour Magazine

April 2024

Sophia Bush has now reached a point where she's publicly ready to stand in her truth regarding her life and her relationship status so much that she penned her own cover story for Glamour. The first thing she did was open up about how she really felt about her marriage and fertility struggles.

She wrote, "But after the wedding I found myself in the depths and heartbreak of the fertility process, which was the most clarifying experience of my life. It feels like society is finally making space for brutally honest conversations about how hard and painful any fertility journey is, but I kept mine private. I was trying to get through months of endless ultrasounds, hormone shots, so many blood draws that I have scar tissue in my veins, and retrieval after retrieval, while simultaneously realizing the person I had chosen to be my partner didn’t necessarily speak the same emotional language I did.”

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As far as her relationship with Ashlyn Harris is concerned, the star is enjoying the love that exists between them. Contrary to alleged rumors, their initial relationship was a platonic one that stemmed from a place of understanding and support.

She told Glamour,I didn’t expect to find love in this support system. I don’t know how else to say it other than: I didn’t see it until I saw it. And I think it’s very easy not to see something that’s been in front of your face for a long time when you’d never looked at it as an option and you had never been looked at as an option. What I saw was a friend with her big, happy life. And now I know she thought the same thing about me.”

She also added, "A lot of effort was made to be graceful with other people’s processing, their time and obligations, and their feelings. What felt like seconds after I started to see what was in front of me, the online rumor mill began to spit in the ugliest ways. There were blatant lies. Violent threats. There were the accusations of being a home-wrecker. The ones who said I’d left my ex because I suddenly realized I wanted to be with women—my partners have known what I’m into for as long as I have (so that’s not it, y’all, sorry!).”

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It's safe to say that Sophia Bush is thoroughly comfortable with her love life and identity as a queer woman. She said, "I’ve experienced so much safety, respect, and love in the queer community, as an ally all of my life, that, as I came into myself, I already felt it was my home. I think I’ve always known that my sexuality exists on a spectrum. Right now I think the word that best defines it is queer. I can’t say it without smiling, actually. And that feels pretty great.”

And this is what it looks like to reclaim your narrative when so many people are looking at a brief glimpse of the lives of celebrities. We love that Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris are loving each other on their terms without feeling pressured to share anything before they were ready to. Our hope is that their love story continues to unfold beautifully.

Be sure to watch Sophia Bush's interview with Glamour's Editor-in-Chief Samantha Barry here!

Full Credits From Glamour Magazine:

Writer: Sophia Bush

Photographer: Lauren Dukoff

Stylist: Deborah Afshani

Hair: Matthew Collins

Makeup: Afton Williams

Manicure: Brittney Boyce

Have Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris made their official red carpet debut?

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April 27, 2024

Per Glamour, Sophia Bush and Ashlyn made their official red carpet debut as a couple on Friday. They attended the White House Correspondent's dinner where they were dressed to impress in complementing black ensembles.

It's easy to see the glowing couple couldn't stop laughing and smiling as they posed for pictures that seemed to capture every good angle of their faces and style.

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After the dinner, Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris posed for more pictures on the red carpet leading to the Correspondent's after-party. Now that we're able to see their full faces, we have to talk about how well their hair and makeup complements their outfits. It's clear that Ashlyn's contour and bronzer were expertly applied to her face while Sophia's blush gave her a natural flush.

*Sigh* Their smiles are the only confirmation we need that they're enjoying the bliss of being a couple.

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