DIY Weddings: A Handmade Brooklyn Affair
Full disclosure: This is a wedding I attended. And it was fun. And it was sincere. And I just couldn’t wait until the couple, Evan and Rachel, got their photos back so that I could share all their DIYs with you.
The two got married on a January night in a temple-turned-night club-turned-wedding venue in Brooklyn. Their personal touches, seen throughout the evening, made the event something that was exclusively Rachel + Evan. They did everything from designing and printing their programs, creating their own playlist (not as easy as it might sound) and embarking on not one, but two, massive wedding favor projects. But the real focus of their Big Day was joining people from different moments in their lives together and helping them get to know one another with one memorable night. All their efforts paid off at their hip and laid-back nighttime winter wedding.
Evan and Rachel met each other in a running club in Brooklyn. But before settling down in the borough, they’d both lived plenty of places — New Jersey, Michigan, California, Minnesota, New York and Maryland to name a few. So to join all the groups of people from different moments in their lives, they wanted to create an atmosphere that was fun, lighthearted and fuss-free. One way to achieve that? Drinks. And seeing as they were hosting a starry night in an old night club, you can rest assured that their was a lot of cocktail-ing to be done. The couple welcomed everyone to the event with a social hour, before getting serious with the ceremony.
The couple’s ceremony programs acted as a get-to-know-each-other bingo game. Even before the ceremony started, guests were trying to meet “the vegan in the room” and “the rescue dog owners” in the crowd. And yes. Everyone participated. Merging different groups of people from different streams of your life together can be tricky. But by making a game out of it, there was little pressure to make conversation. It happened naturally. We also need to note that it seems just oh-so appropriate to have an ice breaker during a winter wedding in Brooklyn, am I right?
For the ceremony decor, I pitched in. My husband and I created two pretty piñatas that were used as chandeliers on either side of the chuppah. We used Italian crepe paper for both, which is much thicker than the Cindus brand. For the Vine Piñata, we used a Silhouette Cameo to cut a vine design out of mylar. For the glitter globe piñata, I used Mod Podge to glitter the edges of the crepe paper, let it dry and then sealed it in with another layer of Mod Podge. We then applied it to the base to achieve an ombre look.
After the ceremony ended there was… you got it, another cocktail hour(!), where guests got their first party favor which doubled as their escort cards. Each coaster was branded with the couple’s initials, and Evan painstakingly burned custom images into the back of them. He did designs like maps (I got California), Banksy art, animals and more. The coasters were from Etsy, and Rachel gave Evan a Darby Smart wood-burning kit for Hanukkah, which includes the letter brands and tools to make the designs with. If you’re going to embark on this DIY, allocate a good chunk of time for it. Rachel told us that each coaster took about a half hour to make with burning, sanding and sealing.
After round two of drinks, guests went to their table and found their second favor. Since the wedding was in the dead of winter in Brrrrooklyn, it was cold. So, the second favor? Hot cocoa ingredients in a jar. Rachel told us, “The jars all came from The Jar Store, which has every kind of mason jar, jelly jar you can imagine, with options for lids. The cocoa was Ghirardelli off of Amazon, the marshmallows from the grocery store down the street and the ribbon was from Michaels. I used some Martha Stewart paper and snowflake punch to wrap them, and hot glue to put it all together.” Her top tip? “These have to be a last minute project, because after about two days the marshmallows start to dry out.” Noted.
If we haven’t instilled upon you the importance of community DIYing when it comes to your handmade wedding, let us lay it down for you again: When you have friends with massive talents, you’re going to want to put them to good use. The couple’s good friend, Glen Hyde, is a private chef. Rachel asked him to make their wedding cake from a photo she found online — chocolate raspberry with a white chocolate crust under the frosting, rosemary and raspberries on top — no small order. But Glen got to it and made the beautiful creation you see above. He was also kind enough to share the recipe with us, in case any of you want to embark on your own epic cake-making adventures:
“I spread seedless raspberry preserves (store bought) between the four cake layers. I melted bittersweet chocolate and covered the cake with it to seal in the crumbs. Then I chilled the cake to set the chocolate before frosting with the buttercream. I got long, skewer-like sprigs of rosemary to go around the edges from the farmers’ market. Since it was winter, I decided to use freeze dried raspberries on top. They had a very vibrant red color. Finally, I dusted the top with powdered sugar to give a wintery, snowy feel.”
– 4 cups sugar
– 3-1/2 cups all-purpose flour
– 1-1/2 cups 100% Cocoa powder
– 3 teaspoons baking powder
– 3 teaspoons baking soda
– 2 teaspoons salt
– 4 eggs
– 2 cups milk
– 1 cup vegetable oil
– 4 teaspoons vanilla extract
– 2 cups boiling water
1. Heat oven to 350 degrees F. Grease and flour four 8-inch round baking pans.
2. Stir together sugar, flour, cocoa, baking powder, baking soda and salt in large bowl. Add eggs, milk, oil and vanilla. Beat on medium speed for two minutes. Stir in boiling water (batter will be thin). Pour batter into prepared pans.
3. Bake 30-35 minutes or until wooden pick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool 10 minutes; remove from pans to wire racks. Cool completely.
Meringue Buttercream Frosting
– 3 cups granulated sugar
– 12 large egg whites
– 2 pounds (8 sticks) unsalted butter, softened and cut into tablespoon-size pieces
– 2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
1. Whisk sugar and egg whites in a large heatproof bowl set over a pan of simmering water until sugar is dissolved and mixture registers 140 degrees F on an instant read thermometer, 2 to 3 minutes.
2. Fit an electric mixer with the whisk attachment, and beat the egg white mixture on high speed until it holds stiff (but not dry) peaks and mixture is fluffy and cooled, about 10 minutes.
3. Reduce speed to medium-low, and add butter several tablespoons at a time, beating well after each addition (meringue will deflate slightly as butter is added). Add vanilla, beat until frosting comes together, 3 to 5 minutes. Beat on the lowest speed until air bubbles diminish, about 2 minutes. Stir with a rubber spatula until frosting is smooth.
And if you don’t believe us when we say that everyone was friends by the end of the night, we’ll leave you with the bride’s favorite moment of the night — getting down with her bad self and her guests in the basement of the venue.
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Artist Dev Heyrana On How Bravery, Resilience and Sunshine Influence Her Work
Ever meet someone who you feel immediate kinship with on a deep almost spiritual level? That is legit every person's experience upon meeting Dev Heyrana, the star of this edition of Creative Crushin'. A fine artist, hip hop dance teacher and constant collaborator, Dev's particular brand of creativity is one-of-a-kind. She manages to be warm, welcoming and woke, with a focus on inclusivity, social justice and motherhood that comes through in every piece of art she creates.
Anjelika Temple here, co-founder of Brit + Co and one of many humans who has benefitted from Dev's boundless generosity and kindness. We first connected at a launch event, then I asked her if she and her family would like to model for a B+C shoot (they did!), then months later, I asked the IG universe if anyone would be down to co-parent with me for a day so I could speak at a conference. Dev said yes! And for those that know her, none of these serendipitous moments are surprising.
Now it's time to delve more into Dev's story, her creative inspiration, her thoughtful approach to parenting and what makes her more passionate than ever about bringing her point of view and artistic voice into the universe.
Anjelika Temple: First, foundations. Where did you grow up? What is your heritage? What did you study in school? Where do you live now?
Dev Heyrana: Born in The Philippines and immigrated to the U.S. when I was 9 years old. Me and my family are from the island of Cebu and I'm a proud Cebuana. My childhood in the Philippines felt like freedom. I had my swimsuit in my backpack for whenever we decided to swim and I biked everywhere.
Immigrating here at 9 yrs old was a transition, to say the least. My parents had big dreams but the move was heavy on them. It wasn't easy. I had to grow up fast. I took care of my sisters while my parents worked night shifts. By the age of 12 I would cook dinner and get my sisters ready for bed. Something I didn't realize was that kids my age didn't do those things until I got older. We would play these make-believe games to make, in hindsight, our hard situation brighter.
I think this is really when art played a big role in my life. It was something I could escape in and always felt healing.
I witnessed racism towards my family and didn't know how to make sense of it. These events left a mark. I was a quiet kid and observed everything and everyone around me. I think about my grandparents, Lolo Jose and Lola Rita, a lot as I walk through life. When I make decisions. As hard as it feels, you have two choices, do you let it take you down or take it one step at a time forward. I kept going and it really shaped me as to why I am the way I am today.
I studied Fine Arts at The Corcoran in DC. I owe that decision to my art teacher, Mr Giles, in High School. He was retiring and wore a Hawaiian shirt every day during my senior year. He was a curmudgeon and I felt incredibly special since out of everyone in the school he really believed in me. As grumpy as he seemed to the class, he would tell me things like "Go into the other studio and break some glass, then put it on a canvas." He's the reason why my abstract pieces have elements like clay and sand in them.
I've had incredible mentors and all were teachers. Mr. Giles in High School and Christine George in College. Christine was the one who told me to go either to New York or San Francisco because "D.C. is no place for an artist like you." She told me to not listen to anyone, how I can still paint, be a graphic designer, and, if I choose to, have a family. I've never had anyone tell me anything like that before.
I took a chance because of her. Moved and went to Design School in 2006 and I've stayed in the Bay Area ever since, raising two girls with the love of my life.
Anj: You are one of those magical human beings that has figured out how to be a full-time artist. What was your career path like before you were able to dive fully into your creative passions?
Dev: The most radical thing I could have done in my family, I did, I went to college for Fine Arts. A mix of being so young and having to do it on my own, I went with the school that gave me more scholarships. Even then I worked three jobs to be able to get through it. Hard work is ingrained in me.
With my sculpture background, I fell in love with Print and Packaging and why I came out here to San Francisco. I appreciated the security of having a career in Graphic Design. I also learned how to work with clients and the business side of things. Even then, I never stopped painting.
A few years ago I went through a pretty hard time with my health. I dealt with six surgeries in one year and I still have to do some follow-up ones. That experience almost broke me and what got me through was my family and painting in bed while I recovered.
When I finally got back on my feet, my heart just wasn't in Graphic Design anymore. So I made a two year plan. With a toddler and a mortgage, I wanted to make sure my steps were thought out. I put myself out there as an Artist while I still worked in Design. After a year I worked part time as a Graphic Designer and stepped down from my Creative Director position. I loved it, to be creative as an Artist and as a Designer. I looked at 2018 as my year to make the jump. If my work as an Artist balances out with my salary then I would quit in the Summer of 2019. And so here we are. I also am sharing a studio with my good friend, Naomi PQ, and I feel like my creative drive is just beginning.
Anj: What do you love about painting? How do you feel when you're in a creative flow state?
Dev: Like every part of me is free. Free to express myself through the stroke of my hand. How all of it leads back to my heart. These elements I use to paint have a mind of their own and how I need to respect the process.
It centers me and reminds me that the process is just like the life we lead. I know I still have so much more to learn but while I'm painting no matter how it's going, I'll embrace this moment.
Anj: You reference your roots quite a bit in your work. Talk to me more about how your roots inspire your work.
Dev: One of my earliest memories is of my Lolo Jose teaching me how to water mango saplings. He converted to Buddhism when my mother was young, so he viewed the world with love and kindness. I didn't realize it then but watering those mango trees were life lessons. We need to take the time to nurture, practice patience, and respect all living things. I still imagine him walking beside me often, carrying his teachings as I find my way in this world.
Nature and the Sun drive my pieces. My abstract works are fragments of moments. Like the sunset I grew up with when I was seven years old in the Philippines, like how I saw the water in Cebu when I dove in as a young adult, and like when I saw the redwoods with my children for the first time.
I see earth in our skin and especially when I paint people. How our mango trees grew and blossomed because the dark earth was rich with nutrients. I imagine the Sun piercing through these women I depict. I paint their love and bravery because their resilience cannot be contained. I want to celebrate all of it.
This is the beauty of Art, I am able to paint exactly how I see it.
Anj: Motherhood and your daughters are also central themes in your work. How has motherhood changed your approach to creating artwork?
Dev: Everything. I was still deep in my Design Career and I would paint at home. One day Quinn, who was 3 years old at the time introduced me at the park to a mom. "This is my mom, she's an Artist." It struck me that my toddler knew who I was more than I knew myself. That's really when I really owned it. I am more fearless because of my girls.
I own my body, I thank people when they compliment me, and I am selective but fearless when I use my voice. I am more in tune how I speak about myself because of them. When I paint these women I want to celebrate them. I notice how I embrace myself is translated in my paintings.
Anj: What advice can you give to parents who are trying to tap into their kiddos' innate creativity?
Dev: I don't have a lot of guidelines set up. I'll say "Let's draw the biggest fish we can draw" or "how many silly lines can we make" and I let them lead me. They ask me questions, show me things, and I sit there with my coffee watching their eyes wide with excitement. Watching them in their creative process is pure joy for me. Those silly lines can turn into a dragon or waves and next thing we know, we're drawing a big beach scene. My advice would be that you can suggest something to start it off but be open to how they take it. It is such a beautiful window into their minds.
Anj: Shifting gears to HIP HOP DANCE! Talk to us about his component of your creative expression.
Dev: I loved the Hip Hop scene in DC and discovered how much fun the clubs were in college. My friends told me about this Hip Hop Crew I should try out for, I was so scared because I've never taken a dance class in my life. I got in and it was like having another family. We competed all over the East Coast, it was a blast!
I found hipline when I started my first Design Job and needed an outlet. It was exactly what I needed and one of the owners asked if I was interested to teach. I've been teaching there since 2009 and am still going strong. It's a wonderful community of women. Now we're virtual and reaching clients all over.
Anj: What does a typical [pandemic] day look like for you? How does it differ from your rhythm before COVID?
Dev: I've been practicing being kinder to myself lately. Both me and my husband work full time and so having the girls at home is a challenge. Some days we are amazed by how smooth it went and then there are others where if the girls are clean and bellies are full, it's a total win.
Now that we're on month 8 our rhythm before covid felt more chaotic to be honest. I felt like we were always rushing out the door while carrying so many bags. Now my husband and I try to have coffee together, if he has a break from his meeting, and we sit with Quinn before school to see what she has to do for the day. Rowan's preschool closed down but we were able to find a wonderful speech therapist for her and she has an Adventure Pod we go to two times a week.
The one thing we really try to do is go outside once a day. Have some magic in their childhood no matter how small. It could be just going up for a hike by our home and picking up leaves, riding our bikes, or watching the sunset from our window. Seeing how the girls' react to these adventures we have is pure magic.
Anj: When you get creatively blocked or burnt out, how do you reset? Do you have tips you can share?
Dev: I go outside. I go out for a hike or go to the beach. Even if it's 15 minutes, something about grounding yourself in Nature is really healing. I also do exercise where I doodle for two minutes because it feels doable. Judgment-free doodles, always opens the doorway to more.
Anj: I know firsthand that community-building is huge for you. Tell us more about what your support system and creative community looks like.
Dev: I feel a lot of love and strength when I think of my community. My relationship with my sister led the way what women supporting women looks like. It's listening, asking questions, remembering, cheering for all the wins, being there even if it's hard, and taking time to invest in them. The way me and my sister show up for each other is why I have these amazing women in my life. I can talk to them about my family, motherhood, and we're all trying to balance it all while sharing my most recent project. I feel really blessed especially looking back in my college years where I don't know where Art would take me.
Anj: When you need to give yourself a pep talk, what does it sound like?
Dev: I usually take a deep breath then say or think "One step forward". Most of the time, I'm scared (as shit) but the thought of not trying scares me more. That one step forward can be hard as hell and maybe even heartbreaking, but I have to try.