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These Countries Are Including Gender-Neutral Language in Their Vocabulary

In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month (September 15-October 15), we’re spotlighting stories about Latinx culture, community, and identity in the diaspora and beyond.

Last month, the Merriam-Webster dictionary incorporated more than 840 words into its official English lexicon. Some of those words included marg (short for margarita), fav, bougie (a disparaging substitute for bourgeois), adorbs,rando, and guac. One of the most interesting terms they added is Latinx, which is a gender-neutral alternative to Latina and Latino. The popularity of Latinx has increased in the past couple of years, which goes to show that people care about and understand inclusivity. Because more US teens are identifying as transgender, it’s crucial to get the wording right.

That got us thinking about other gender-neutral words that have become part of our vocabulary, not just in the US but throughout the world. To help us navigate through this progression of gender-neutral terms, we interviewed Elin Asklöv and Sam Dowd. two didactics experts from the language-learning app Babbel. They were clear to point out that gender-neutral terms have always been a part of our vocabulary.

“Gender-neutral language has actually been around for centuries in the English-speaking world,” said Asklöv. “The pronoun ‘they’ as a non-specific singular pronoun has been widely used since the 14th century, along with its derivatives. You’ll find ‘they,’ ‘them,’ ‘their,’ ‘theirs,’ and ‘themselves’ liberally littered throughout the works of great authors including Geoffrey Chaucer, Jane Austen, and Lord Byron.”

According to Asklöv and Dowd, English-speaking countries such as the UK, US, Canada, and Australia have made a concerted effort to use gender-neutral words instead of gender-specific terms. Examples of that include terms such as: Members of Congress instead of congressmen; Salesperson or sales representative instead of salesman/saleswoman; Server instead of waiter/waitress; Actor, poet, sculptor instead of actress, poetess, sculptress (etc.); Usher instead of usherette (same goes for all titles ending in “ette”); Humankind instead of mankind; Human beings or people instead of man/men; Flight attendant instead of steward/stewardess; and Bartender instead of barmaid/barman. Furthermore, they say that in Britain, people use Mx as a gender-neutral honorific rather than Mr. or Ms. In 2015, Sweden also introduced the gender neutral personal pronoun Hen as an alternative to having to use “he” or “she.”

“The pronoun was ‘created’ in Swedish as an alternative to ‘han’ (he), and ‘hon’ (she),” said Asklöv. “The need for such a word was first recognized in the ’60s, when a Swedish linguist discussed the need for a new pronoun in a local newspaper, having been inspired by the Finnish pronoun ‘hän’, which translates as both he and she. ‘Hen’ was then dormant for a long time, but in the 2000s, the word started to be used in LGBTQA communities and within the gender studies academia, as a pronoun for non-binary people and as an alternative to he/she.”

When we asked them which countries were making the most progress in incorporating gender-neutral terms (and which were making the least progress) they said that whatever progression is being made, the point is that they are getting there slowly but surely.

“No matter how much time it takes, all progress is vital, and everyone should be commended in their efforts,” Dowd said. “Linguistic and cultural restrictions mean that the ease with which these changes can come into play differ greatly; but it is vital to note that globally, there is a concerted effort to drive change forward. With rare exception, these changes tend to evolve from common usage, not from government mandate. Change occurs less at a country level and more at the level of language, thus spanning borders.”

They pointed out that languages such as Chinese, Finnish, and Turkish have no grammatical gender, so they are already gender inclusive. Other languages, like Russian, are so highly gendered that speakers have to constantly refer to themselves and others by a specific gender.

The interesting thing to remember is that language can evolve and become even more inclusive, but it all depends on us. As speakers, we are the ones that have to adjust our habits and the way we were taught to say things if we truly want to include everyone.

(Illustration by Sarah Tate/Brit + Co)

Ahhh, fall. There are so many things to love about this time of year (give us ALL the sweaters and pumpkin-flavored eats). But, high on the list comes autumn decor candles, throws, textiles — you name it. Of course, buying items and actually adding them to your room are two different things. So we're turning to Instagram for the best styling advice and inspo for the season. Scroll on to see everything you need to get those wheels turning!

@sbkliving: Sometimes, it only takes a chic doormat to transition your front steps for the season. Hello, fall!

@rachelpuccetti: Excuse us while we spend an entire lazy Sunday relaxing in this fall-infused space.

@farmhousetofrills: A monochrome mantel never looked so chic. (That fireplace pumpkin setup is seriously *genius*.)

@faith_hope_home: Greet guests with a fall-themed entrance to set the tone for a day of pumpkin carving or scary movie marathoning.

@simplysoutherncottage: Don't forget about those nooks and crannies! This entryway/mudroom situation is capturing our little harvest-loving hearts.

@6thirtydecor: Speaking of pumpkins, pick up a few extra gourds to pave the way into your cozy autumn abode.

@farmsteadonfirst: That guest bedroom you weren't sure what to do with it? Transform it into a rustic retreat with some fall signage and mustard-yellow and green accents.

@fiddleleafinteriors: We're going to take a second to *swoon* over this adorable kitchen setup. Those farmhouse accents and simple centerpiece setup? We're in love.

@ohmydearblog: Contrary to what you think, florals *aren't* just for spring. Bring them into your abode by selecting buds in moody tones to pay homage to the season.

@simply.mrs.z: Drawn to modern style? Play up the Halloween vibes by picking black, orange and brass accents to rock on places like your bookshelf. (Bonus points for carrying the theme over to your textiles.)

@drivewaytodreams_crystal: We're going to go ahead and give two thumbs up to all of these orange-hued accents. Backdropped with a neutral furnishings and they truly *pop*!

@cripcollectiveig: For those who don't want to go overboard with the "fall stuff" this one will speak to you. Compile a couple of cute throws and a minimalist pumpkin print on your mantle and you're set

@cavcottage: Who said fun pillows were limited to furnishings only? We're ALL about this entry display.

@houseon77th: This daybed setup is a *dream*. But actually, this would be the perfect space to doze off in come the colder days.

@kristenforgione: For a more festive Halloween look, overhaul your living space with a spooky handmade addition like this one. *Googles paper bat DIYs.*