20 Solo Founders On The Benefits And Pitfalls Of Going It Alone

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There's certainly an allure to navigating the rocky waters of business entrepreneurship as a solo founder. There is undeniable freedom, an opportunity to quickly implement ideas, and perhaps even a particular recognition that comes with being the only founder at your company. Yet for every potential benefit of steering a company without co-founders, there are also unavoidable pitfalls.

To get a look behind the curtain of what it's truly like to be a solo founder, we tapped into the experiences of 20 women from the Dreamers & Doers collective who run their companies without fellow co-founders at the helm. Their reflections on the benefits and pitfalls they've experienced reinforce that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to entrepreneurship, including whether or not a co-founder is part of the fiber of your company.

As you'll see in this piece, being a solo founder is not easy, but it's certainly not without reward. If you've been thinking about going at it alone, perhaps this is your sign to take the leap. If you've been going it alone for a while, this may be what you needed to read to continue full steam ahead on your journey.

Find Joy In The Journey

Nics Asawasudsakorn, Founder of LOVANIE

My experience as a solo founder: Being a solo founder in a creative industry such as fashion has the main benefit of you being able to own the full vision and aesthetics of what you want the brand to represent. You can also take actions faster and make decisions faster, rather than being stuck in trying to find a consensus with your co-founder. That said, you wear all the hats of running the business, including some aspects that you may not like as much or be less skilled at.

My advice: Continue carving out time for the aspects of the business that you truly enjoy. For me, that's designing and developing new clothing pieces. I outsource other areas of business such as social media


- Nics Asawasudsakorn, Founder of LOVANIE, a sustainable fashion brand for petite women 5'4" and under.

Aura Telman, Founder and CEO of 13thrive

My experience as a solo founder: A surprising benefit of being a solo founder is the empowerment that comes from bringing your own ideas and vision to life. You're the visionary, the decision maker, and the person who gets to sit back and say, "Wow, I did this on my own." It gives you the type of empowerment and confidence that no one could ever take away from you.

My advice: Solo entrepreneurship is like taking a hike up to a mountain top for the first time. There will be rocky terrain, muddy paths, and a sense that you don't know if you'll ever make it. But there will also be beauty, calm, a sense of accomplishment, and a pure feeling of joy when you get to the top and look at all you've accomplished.

- Aura Telman, Founder and CEO of 13thrive, a mindfulness rooted leadership and human resources consulting firm.

Teresa Bigelow, Founder of Spiral5

My experience as a solo founder: One really cool benefit I've experienced as a solo founder is an opportunity to connect more securely with my intuition and instincts. When I'm making key decisions, I have a clean slate from which to ideate and execute based on what I feel is the best approach. And that's how true innovation happens! This can also be a challenge, of course, because I don't always trust my intuition. It's a work in progress.

My advice: I'd say the solo founder path is especially valuable for anyone who has a lot of conviction for their ideas—even and especially when they're unique and quirky. If you enjoy independence, freedom, and prefer to stay nimble, it's definitely worth trying out the solopreneur path. You can always bring on co-founders later on!

- Teresa Bigelow, Founder of Spiral5, a company that facilitates community, mentorship, and income opportunities for women looking to grow PR careers.

Dina Kaplan, Founder and CEO of The Path

My experience as a solo founder: As a solo founder, I love that I can take action on new products and don't have to win approval from anyone else to greenlight new offerings. In this way, I can let the market decide what works and is helpful for users.

My advice: I think it's important to know that, at the beginning especially, you will have a lot on your plate—marketing, product development, selling, and all of the administrative aspects of running a startup.


- Dina Kaplan, Founder and CEO of The Path, a community dedicated to bringing meditation into the mainstream.

Find Support

Ada Chen, Founder and CEO of Chuan Skincare

My experience as a solo founder: A surprising benefit of being a solo founder is that I've been able to cultivate my own network of experts and advisers. These experts share their thoughts and experience on various topics and have helped me learn and grow. Having this network has helped me gain the knowledge and skills I need to continue to elevate my business.

My advice: Know your strengths and weaknesses, and know when to ask for help. It's OK to not do it all yourself. Recognizing when you need assistance will make you a more effective solo founder.

- Ada Chen, Founder and CEO of Chuan Skincare, an affordable, handcrafted natural skincare line.

Danielle Letayf, CEO and Founder of Badassery

My experience as a solo founder: I've learned to be really decisive. Being indecisive was one of my weaknesses before I became a founder. When running an entire company on my own, my indecisiveness had to change to move my business forward quickly. I learned to fully trust myself and forgive myself for the less-than-ideal decisions I've made.

My advice: Remember: solo doesn't mean alone. Make sure you have an official or unofficial crew supporting you every step of the way.


- Danielle Letayf, CEO and Founder of Badassery, a platform for event organizers to find their perfect public speaker.

Alison Gilbert, Founder of The Big Whisper

My experience as a solo founder: A benefit of being a solo founder is that I'm able to set the pace of how my business evolves and allow my ideas the space and time they need to ripen organically. And the surprising benefit of waiting for ideas to ripen is that it also creates space for me to grow and evolve personally. I find that waiting for ideas to be ready grows my capacity for patience and trust—in myself, the process, and the unknown.

My advice: While there can be benefits of being a solo founder, we can go farther together. Be intentional about nurturing a "co-building" team who will hold space for you to talk things out, provide resources and guidance, and be a source of inspiration and motivation.


- Alison Gilbert, Founder of The Big Whisper, a platform dedicated to helping women build healthy businesses.

Get Involved In A Community

Lauren Foundos, CEO of FORTË

My experience as a solo founder: A huge benefit to being a solo founder is that it's easy to make hard decisions because you are the sole decider of the company's fate. A major pitfall to this benefit is that founding a company is a marathon and not a sprint—meaning you have to navigate a very long journey on your own, which at times is difficult and can be lonely.

My advice: Surround yourself with support ranging from family and friends to mentors, and other founders who can relate to you. Until you have a great team to work with, you should have a strong support network while you embark on the journey of a lifetime.

- Lauren Foundos, CEO of FORTË, an end-to-end live and on-demand streaming solution for gyms and fitness studios.

Lis Best, Founder and CEO of Lis Best Coaching for Impact

My experience as a solo founder: It can be challenging to remember to celebrate all the wins and milestones that are happening in my business when I don't have people to share them with. Entrepreneurship can be a bumpy ride, and sometimes you can only truly see your success when you zoom out and look at where you were last month or last year.

My advice: Find ways to create community and accountability. Entrepreneurship can be lonely, and it can be so helpful to have standing commitments to connect with other people. I've joined masterminds, standing group calls, and even a coven to give myself some structure and expand my extended team.

- Lis Best, Founder and CEO of Lis Best Coaching for Impact, executive coaching for women

Take Risks

Yewande Faloyin, Founder and CEO of OTITỌ Leadership Coaching & Consulting

My experience as a solo founder: The most surprising benefit of being a solo founder is being able to create what I want, how I want it—not just in my business but in my life.

My advice: Throw out the rule book. As with everything in life, there will be moments of triumph and moments of difficulty. But ultimately, it's all in your hands.

- Yewande Faloyin, Founder and CEO of OTITỌ Leadership Coaching & Consulting, an organization that coaches high-achievers and ambitious entrepreneurial leaders.

Kristine Locker, Founder of LOCKER

My experience as a solo founder: I started LOCKER with the intention and hopefulness of finding that person who would be a perfect fit as my co-founder. As I began to build LOCKER, I realized not having a co-founder allowed me the flexibility to create the exact product I envisioned and pivot quickly.

My advice: Going at it alone is better than not going at it at all. It's also better than going at it with a bad co-founder, so don't be afraid of starting your dream company solo.

- Kristine Locker, Founder of LOCKER, a Chrome extension and social shopping platform.

Get Feedback

Rachel Berkey, Founder and CEO of Thimble Collection

My experience as a solo founder: It can be really difficult to not have a built-in sounding board as you think through decisions and challenges, particularly if you're someone who likes to talk things out. You have to go out of your way to create a community of trusted advisors who you can turn to, both for the big and small things.

My advice: Get as much feedback as possible from those who know what your blind spots and weaknesses are, so you can work around them through hiring and outsourcing.

- Rachel Berkey, Founder and CEO of Thimble Collection, a children's clothing company.

Sydney Petite, Chief Strategy Officer at Royal Street Agency

My experience as a solo founder: The solo route guarantees that your vision will be executed with you in the driver's seat. Of course, that comes with isolation at times, and it can be lonely. There is also an energy that comes with collaboration that extroverted solo founders will need to seek elsewhere.

My advice: Be very conscious about who you share your ideas with in the beginning. Make sure they are mentors or professionals who can offer constructive advice to help you navigate those early stages and flush out your ideas.


- Sydney Petite, Chief Strategy Officer at Royal Street Agency, a diverse team of professionals focused on elevating brands.

Trust Yourself

Kimone Napier, Founder of Kimone Napier Consulting

My experience as a solo founder: As a solo founder, you have total control over your business, which means you don't have to run your decisions by anyone. There is a beauty in truly being answerable only to yourself.

My advice: Get immediately clear on your company mission and purpose. It can be easy to second guess all your ideas and thoughts. Making sure they relate back to your purpose will help you avoid a lot of pitfalls.

- Kimone Napier, Founder of Kimone Napier Consulting, an organization that helps business owners hire their dream team.

Ashli Weiss, Attorney at Weiss Law LLP,

My experience as a solo founder: A surprising benefit of being a solo founder is having the ability to create a workplace culture. The emotions and behaviors I portray shape the cultural characteristics of my practice. With client service permeating everything I do, I am able to bolster client happiness, productivity, and retention rate.

My advice: You are your company's leader. Emotions are contagious. This is especially true when the culture is coming from leadership.

- Ashli Weiss, Attorney at Weiss Law LLP, a law firm helping companies propel their businesses.

Chithra Durgam, Founder of Blue Check Skill

My experience as a solo founder: When I initiated my business as a solo founder, trying to manage being a mother with my responsibilities at work was a huge challenge. There were times I brought my children to work and felt extremely guilty. I realized over time that being a mother allowed me to better manage my time and provide empathy to my patients when they were facing hardship.

My advice: Remember your work purpose. Stay focused and don't be afraid to ask for help. The greatest rewards from work come from staying focused on work-life harmony, not work-life balance.

- Chithra Durgam, Founder of Blue Check Skill, a company that works with celebrities and large brands to monetize their owned content through Amazon Alexa voice skills.

Katherine Sprung, Host of Sprung On Food

My experience as a solo founder: A benefit to being a solo founder is that you're in charge of getting to make the decisions. A pitfall is that you're in charge of getting to make the decisions. It can be challenging not having a business partner to consult with and to be the one responsible for all the high-level decisions in your business. But you'll also never have an argument or disagreement when it comes to the decision-making.

My advice: Being a solo founder requires an elevated level of independence and self-motivation. You need to be able to hold yourself accountable and work well independently.


- Katherine Sprung, Host of Sprung On Food, a web series highlighting food and beverage businesses.

Morgaine Trine, Owner of Honestly Bookkeeping

My experience as a solo founder: The surprising benefit of being a solo founder is that my confidence has grown exponentially. When you don't have anyone else making the important decisions, all the success is because of you. It's incredibly gratifying to know your decisions were the right move.

My advice: Trust your gut. You know more than you think you do.


- Morgaine Trine, Owner of Honestly Bookkeeping, allowing owners to make informed decisions about their business and build security.

Katharine McKee, Founder and CEO of Morphology Consulting

My experience as a solo founder: There is something freeing about having all of the bucks stop with you. Any decision, good or bad, falls to you. That is, of course, a double-edged sword. If you have no one to double-check with, you may be sprinting in the wrong direction.

My advice: Confidence is key here. You need to be deep in the details of your idea to be able to make good decisions quickly without subject matter experts around you. Get very close to your data. Then take several steps back and get familiar with the broad landscape. Most of us are naturally better at one way of thinking, but you need both to get your idea off the ground.


- Katharine McKee, Founder and CEO of Morphology Consulting, a digital commerce consultancy.

Lauren Richardson, Founder and CEO of Radiance & Romance

My experience as a solo founder: A surprising benefit of being a solo founder is that I've learned to take better care of myself. Going at it alone is overwhelming, to say the least. There's no one to ask for advice and any failure feels personal. Being a perfectionist and my harshest critic means nothing is ever good enough. But with this attitude, I could always feel myself burning out to the point of not being able to function. I've had to learn to make smaller, more realistic goals and prioritize not just the most important tasks for growth, but also my own mental health.

My advice: You have to shift your mindset from feeling like you have to do it all to determining the most important areas to focus on. Finding the balance between what you and your business needs will allow you to find success as a solo founder.

- Lauren Richardson, Founder and CEO of Radiance & Romance, a line of custom art jewelry.

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I'll admit out of the many teen dramas I've consumed, Outer Banks is one of the most ridiculous. But the insanity surrounding the plot is half the reason it's enjoyable! John B. wrestling an alligator with his bare hands? Kiara getting kidnapped then making a daring escape in her PJ's? John B. and Sarah getting married (kind of) by the power of "the sky, the stars, and the sea" after escaping the SBI?

Considering my favorite fan theory for the future is that Madelyn Cline's Sarah and Rudy Pankow's JJ learn they're secret siblings, I know the crazy train isn't slowing down anytime soon. I took to Reddit to find the wildest Outer Bankshot takes and I was not disappointed. Keep reading to see if you agree with any!

JJ and Kiara Never Should Have Happened

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While JJ and Kiara is one of the most popular ships on the show, a lot of Outer Banks fans think the "no Pogue-on-Pogue macking" rule from the pilot should have stayed in effect. The individual romances between Kiara and JJ, John B., and Pope make the story really messy, and the fact the show writes Kiara to be with all three of them in the span of three years gives a lot of viewers the ick.

I'll be team #Jiara forever (and literally screamed when The Backseat Lovers' "Kilby Girl" started playing during the motorcycle ride in season 3), but I'll say it would incredibly compelling to see a friend group take care of each other as much as the Pogues do without ever crossing over into romantic territory. That's found family, after all!

Pope Should Have Ditched The Treasure Hunt

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One Reddit user is convinced that "Pope should’ve focused on his future in school instead of giving everything up to search for treasure." And TBH, I totally agree.

In season 1, Pope has a breakthrough about the hidden treasure in the middle of his scholarship interview. He ditches the scholarship committee to tell the rest of the Pogues, throwing away a crazy educational opportunity. Pope beats himself up for it, and his parents definitely aren't pleased, but at least it meant he got to stay in the show instead of leaving for college, which leads me to...

Outer Banks Should Have Started With The Pogues In Their 20s

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As one of the only people alive who loves the post-time jump One Tree Hill, I would have loved to see OBX start off with the characters in their 20s (although it looks like that's where Outer Banks season 4 will pick up!). This would eliminate SO MANY problems from the jump because the Pogues wouldn't have to worry about missing school, they'd be more self-sufficient, and instead of being the same old high school drama, it could have provided a commentary on figuring out life in your 20s the same way Friends did.

Rafe Shouldn't Have Any Kind Of Redemption Arc In Outer Banks Season 4

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Drew Starkey the man that you are. According to one Reddit user, "Rafe should not have a love interest or a redemption arc" like we see in season 3. We spent all of season 1 and season 2 establishing that Rafe (played by Drew) would do anything it took to get what he wanted (including one successful murder and two other attempts?!). He shows next to no remorse for his actions, and exploring his literal psychopathic tendencies would take the show to a whole new level.

Big John Should Never Have Returned

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John B.'s dad's disappearance is the catalyst for the Pogues' journey at the beginning of Outer Banks, and Big John's return means the story feels somewhat repetitive in the third season, and it undoes a lot of the growth we've seen from John B. Plus, Big John is just SO chaotic, selfish, and dramatic. If he had truly died in season 1, we could have seen John B. wrestle with that finality, and how to cope with loss in the face of finding the treasure and falling in love with Sarah.

And Finally, Outer Banks Should Have Ended After Season 1

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Outer Banks season 1 was exactly what we needed at the height of the pandemic. It was escapist — both in terms of the beach vacation vibes, but also because the '00s aesthetic took us right back to simpler times — and it had such a wonderfully resolved finale that some fans think nothing has matched it.

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It's no secret that groceries feel more expensive than ever right now, and compounded by the fact the average American home throws away 322 cups of food a year, I'm determined to use up every bit of the food, sauces, and other cooking basics I buy. That's how I found Carleigh Bodrug. Her PlantYou page, and her Scrappy Cooking series (plus her new cookbook!), makes creating delicious recipes easier, and more fun, than ever.

What is scrappy cooking?

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"Scrappy Cooking is the concept of transforming the world’s most commonly wasted foods into delicious recipes — and starting is as easy as chopping up a broccoli stem into a stir-fry," she tells me over email. "Seriously, it doesn’t have to be complicated. Look at the plants you have that you bring into your home every week, and see if there are ways to repurpose them."

With the help of Carleigh's Instagram page, I turned some broccoli stems into French fries and used up the last of my peanut butter for a noodle salad sauce. If you want to turn your groceries into a one-of-a-kind meal but aren't sure where to start, Carleigh recommends looking at every single aspect of the plant.

"Whenever I bring a plant into my home, I think about what part of the plant is discarded, and then I research whether or not it’s safe to consume (this part is important)!" she says. "Once I identify it’s edible, that’s where the fun begins. A great example of this is something like celery, which I buy often. I was discarding the celery leaves for years, only to find out they taste almost exactly like parsley and make a great base for a tabouleh style salad."

Is PlantYou vegan?

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Yes, a lot of PlantYou's recipes are vegan, and they're all plant-based! Some of Carleigh's favorite recipes include mocha chocolate granola with spent coffee grounds, "chips" made out of beet greens, and pickle juice as a marinade (which is something I learned Chick-Fil-A does!). These recipes might sound intimidating or time-consuming, but that's exactly why Carleigh's PlantYou social media exists.

I can speak from experience that the videos are easy to both understand and put into practice. (Plus, the recipes are super versatile, because "when you’re cooking with just plants, if you screw something up, you can almost always fix it!"). But there are a few steps that always make these scrappy processes easier.

"The low hanging fruit to reducing food waste in your kitchen actually starts before you grocery shop," Carleigh says. "I always recommend people sit down for an hour one day a week, and make a really basic meal plan, outlining what they plan to eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Then, before they head to the store, shop their fridge and pantry to avoid duplicate buying. Now it’s time to compile a shopping list, and only buy what you have a plan for! Done right, this will take care of 80 percent of your food waste."

What can I buy to save money on food?

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In addition to meal prepping (check out our favorite apps to reduce food waste, too!), the PlantYou chef + author recommends having a few recipes that use up a bunch of ingredients in one go. "It’s really important to lean on staple recipes that allow you to 'clean out the fridge,' which is really what my new Scrappy cookbook is about," Carleigh Bodrug says. "I wanted to arm people with great base recipes (like stews, curries and stir fries), where they can interchange the vegetables and produce items they have on hand every week to reduce waste and save money."

"By using up leftovers, repurposing ingredients, and being more mindful about the food you’re bringing into your home, you'll notice a decrease in your grocery bill," she continues. "The average American family of four wastes over $1700 worth of groceries per year — which is like a phone bill every month! Not only does being Scrappy benefit your wallet, but it also feels great knowing you're making healthier choices and contributing to a more sustainable planet."

Okay, so you know what you want to eat, and you've budgeted for groceries, what now? "I look for ingredients that are versatile and can be used in multiple recipes to minimize waste," Carleigh says. "Quality, longevity, and sustainability are key factors in my purchasing decisions."

What is the proper way to store food?

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After you've whipped up recipes like the Fiesta Fries below, it's important to store them properly to ensure they're fresh for as long as possible. "Use quality food storage and meal prep containers, and keep fruits and vegetables separate to prevent them from spoiling," Carleigh tells me. "Different types of food will require different conditions for optimum long-term storage. This applies to fresh produce, as well as dry and canned foods."

We all have days we don't want to cook (PlantYou's Carleigh Bodrug included), which is the perfect opportunity to support a local business. "On days when I don't feel like cooking, I usually rely on quick and easy options like smoothie bombs from my freezer, which are in my new cookbook," she says. "I also often have homemade soup ready to go that I’ve made in advance or have frozen in the freezer. Sometimes, my husband and I opt for ordering in from local restaurants in our small town in Ontario, especially on Friday nights after a long work week. It's a convenient way to support our favorite vegan small businesses while enjoying a hassle-free meal."

PlantYou's Fiesta Fries — Delicious Loaded Fries You Can Make Today!

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Ingredients:

  • 6 medium-size Yukon Gold potatoes, sliced to desired size, around 1/2 to 3/4 inch recommended
  • 1 tablespoon garlic powder
  • 1 tablespoon salt
  • 2 cups Vegan Ground Beef or your favorite vegan ground beef substitute
  • 1 (15-ounce) can black beans, pinto beans, or red kidney beans, drained and rinsed
  • 1 yellow or red onion, diced
  • 1 red bell pepper, seeded and diced 2 garlic cloves, minced
  • 1 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1 tablespoon chili powder
  • 1 to 2 tablespoons water or extra-virgin olive oil

Suggested Toppings:

  • 1 tomato, diced
  • 1 jalapeño pepper, seeded and diced Handful of fresh cilantro (optional)
  • Juice of 1 lime
  • 1/2 cup Sunflower Cream Sauce

Instructions:

  1. Preheat the oven to 375°F, and line a baking sheet with a reusable baking mat or parchment paper.
  2. In a bowl, combine the sliced potatoes with the garlic powder and salt and toss until coated.
  3. Transfer to the prepared baking sheet and roast for 35 minutes, or until crispy, flipping halfway through.
  4. Meanwhile, in a large skillet, combine the ground “beef” with the black beans, onion, red bell pepper, garlic, cumin, chili powder, and the water. Sauté over medium heat for 5 minutes, or until the onion starts to turn translucent.
  5. Assemble on a serving platter with the fries on the bottom, topped with the ground beef mixture and your desired toppings.

Excerpted from PlantYou: Scrappy Cooking: 140+ Plant-Based Zero-Waste Recipes That Are Good for You, Your Wallet, and the Planet by Carleigh Bodrug. Copyright © 2024. Available from Hachette Go, an imprint of Hachette Book Group, Inc.

Carleigh Bodrug is the CEO and Founder of PlantYou, a New York Times Bestselling cookbook author and self-taught plant-based chef, famous for her simple take on low-waste and vegan recipes. Boasting over ten million followers between her social channels, Carleigh has gripped social media with her simple and delicious low-waste recipes that make plants the star of the show.

Her latest book, PlantYou: Scrappy Cooking: 140+ Plant-Based Zero-Waste Recipes That Are Good for You, Your Wallet, and the Planet, is out NOW!

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Mariska Hargitay is the woman of the hour anywhere she goes, with her iconic Law & Order: SVUrole as Olivia Benson under her belt for the last 25 years. The character is an absolute advocate to women — and assault victims of any gender — through her words, actions, and powerful convictions of each perpetrator on the show. She takes great care with her victims and pursues perpetrators with fervor, and slowly as you watch the show..the line blurs between Olivia and Mariska.

This isn't anything new — just recently Mariska literally stopped production on the show to help a child (who mistook her for an actual police officer) find her mom. It's just who Mariska is. She walks the walk and talks the talk — including during her speech at Variety's Power of Women's Power of Women event.

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As a Power of Women honoree, Mariska was recognized in regards to her work as an advocate for sexual assault survivors. She took the stage and used her platform to discuss rape and assault conviction reversals, shining a light on the recent overturned ruling in Harvey Weinstein's landmark NYC case. Here's what she said:

Today I want to talk about reversing convictions, and more specifically I want to talk to you about how impossible it is to reverse mine. It’s impossible to reverse my conviction that survivors matter. It is impossible to reverse my conviction that what happens to us matters, and that our society must respond to survivors with a more a compassionate, holistically, deeper, and more nuanced understanding of what healing means.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that after a trauma, survivors can reclaim lives of hope, of possibility, of audacious risk, beautiful intimacy, and glorious, glorious abundant joy. And I stand before you as evidence of that statement.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that we must listen to survivors as experts on what justice means. It is extraordinary how little their voices are consulted, let alone incorporated, in the process of deciding how to repair harm. Justice is not a one-size-fits-all journey.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that patriarchal impunity has to end. Patriarchal impunity is when a male-dominated system exempts perpetrators from punishment. Studies show that only 20% of all rape cases in the U.S. are reported to the police, and that between 5 and 0% of all rapes result in a guilty plea or a conviction. So why do 80% of victims not report? Because they're met with a system that grants impunity to perpetrators; a system that blames victims; a system that accepts only those victims who are experienced as "real" rape; a system that completely misunderstands the neurobiology of trauma, which causes behavior in women that doesn't fit the picture of how a "real victim" would act.

Is that change needed that victims should just pull themselves together? Just buck up and report anyway? No. No, it's the system that receives them that needs to change

It is impossible to reverse my conviction — and the conviction of my extraordinary team, The Joyful Heart — that the backlog of untested rape kits can be brought to zero; that the testing of all new kits must be mandated; that we need a statewide kit tracking system; and that survivors have the right to access the status of their kits.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that grammar — yes, grammar — that we use when we speak about rape must change. In the sentence, "A woman is raped," there's a crime and there's a victim, but there's no perpetrator. Where's the perpetrator? Where is he? Statistically, as we know, most likely he's walking free. He's so free that he doesn't even appear in the language about the crime that he committed. Is that not extraordinary? It's extraordinary that in the very grammar, the perpetrator goes free. Reintroducing perpetrators in the language of rape will make some very unwieldy grammar, but that's the nature of change. It's unwieldy, it's messy, it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary.

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Hargitay continued on in her prolific speech to describe that rape shouldn't be considered a "crime of passion" because it's "not simply the next step in the trajectory of his passion" when a man takes a consensual hookup too far and assaults a woman against her will. She stated that it's "an exercise of power," doubling down that the language we use is important.

The speech went on to address that rape is both about power and control, as a "construct" that was "built, and assembled, and reinforced over time." She noted that there are people with these positions of power — and she specifically called out those in the entertainment industry — that could make a difference and aligned themselves to victims and survivors.

After this and some other remarks, Hargitay specifically called out the Weinstein conviction reversal. She said:

I do want to say something about the Harvey Weinstein conviction, specifically about the reason that it was overturned: too many women's voices. Too many women's voices were allowed to speak. Hallelujah! Amen! I can't imagine anything more beautiful than that. The Daily podcast episode talked about how it was so risky for the prosecution to have that many women testify. Risky to let women speak? You're damn right it is!

Too many women speaking brings change. Too many women speaking shakes the establishment. Too many women means we get listened to more, and people might actually hear what we have to say. Look what happened when women started saying just two words, right? Me too — just as an example — a tidal wave of change. Me too.

And then of course, there was the response: the Me Too Movement. The backlash. The examination of whether the changes that have come are lasting, or are even positive. Of course there's a backlash! What did they expect? For women to speak repeatedly, loudly, together, with a purpose — for there to be no backlash? The backlash is evidence of how powerful those voices were, how powerful those voices ARE.

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After Emily in Paris season 3 dropped on Netflix in December of 2022, we were hoping to get the fourth installment of the hit show in 2023. But production halted when the WGA writers' strike, then the SAG-AFTRA actors' strike went to affect, and our beloved cast and crew campaigned for better wages and industry protection. But with the end of the writers' strike, and new SAG negotiations, Emily in Paris season 4 finally began production in February 2024 — and I can already tell you there's sure to be plenty of drama and French fashion this time around.

Not only will we see Emily in Paris (see what I did there?!) but she's also pulling an Audrey Hepburn and taking a little Roman Holiday. That's right — our favorite Parisians are heading to Italy! If that doesn't sound like a dreamy comfort show then I don't know what does. Here's everything we know about the upcoming season of your favorite TV brain candy!!

Is Emily in Paris season 4 coming soon?

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Via Variety, Emily in Paris season 4 began production in Paris the week of January 15! "Did someone say Saison Quatre?!" Lily Collins says in her Instagram post announcing production. "Finally reunited with my @emilyinparis fam back in Paris and it feels so good. Although, I may need to brush up on my selfie skills for Emily’s sake…"

Now the wait is over! According to the official announcementfor Emily in Paris, we know part one drops on Netflix August 15, followed by part 2 on September 12. I've been impatiently waiting for this considering we didn't know how filming would be impacted by things like the WGA writers strike!

Is Emily in Paris filmed in Paris?

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Yes, Emily in Paris is filmed on location in Paris! We got our first look at Emily in Paris season 4 when Lily Collins and Ashley Park were seen filming in the City of Love (via Daily Mail). The costumes for the series are still as bold and bright as ever, with Ashley's Mindy wearing cobalt and metallic boots, and Lily's Emily dressed head-to-toe in lemon yellow. I can't wait to see what these best friends get up to this season! Check out our Paris travel recommendations to live out your own Emily in Paris dreams ;).

On April 27, Lily Collins confirmed Emily in Paris season 4 had wrapped its France shoot and that the cast & crew have swapped the City of Love for the Eternal City! "When you’re the first ones on the dance floor at the Paris wrap party. Next stop: Rome!" she says on Instagram. Late spring is literally the perfect time to film in Italy and I just know this season is going to give me more wanderlust than ever before. I need gelato!

What's Emily In Paris season 4 about?

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Season 3 left us with a huge cliffhanger: Alfie breaks up with Emily, Camille learns she's pregnant with Gabriel's baby, Benoit's "Mon Soleil" has been chosen for the Eurovision Song Contest, and Emily and Gabriel realize they've been in love with each other the whole time. Whew.

Emily in Paris season 4 will have a ton of cliffhangers to bring full circle, and a bunch of damage that all the characters need to heal. We know from the Netflix TUDUM fan event that we might also see Emily have to deal with an ultimatum head-on, as well as an unexpected twist. Plus, it looks like she's heading on a "Roman holiday," according to lead actress Lily Collins. We'll take any nod to an Audrey Hepburn movie, please and thank you!

Is Alfie coming back in season 4 of Emily in Paris?

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We don't have OFFICIAL word on whether Alfie (played by Lucien Laviscount) will return for Emily in Paris season 4, but we're hoping for his sake that he gets some closure. Lucien wants to come back as well! "[The dream is] to keep this gravy train going and just to kind of really live in this world a little bit longer," he says in an interview with Elle. " The writers on the show and the creators behind it and everyone that comes into contact with it is so amazing and fantastic. Their minds [have] way, way, way, way surpassed mine. So, yeah. I’ll let them do their thing.”

Who else is in the Emily in Paris season 4 cast?

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We can expect the rest of the cast — Lily Collins as Emily, Lucas Bravo as Gabriel, Ashley Park as Mindy, Camille Razat as Camille, Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu as Sylvie, Samuel Arnold as Julian, and Bruno Gouery as Luc — to return.

Will there be a season 5 of Emily in Paris?

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It looks like Emily in Paris season 4 will not be the final season, according to creator Darren Star. “There’s a lot more story to tell here and we’re not wrapping things up anytime soon,” Star tells Elle. “And also hopefully season four isn’t the end either. I feel like we’re all creatively feeling like we’re in the middle of something not heading towards the end.”

Darren also told Deadline season 4 is "not necessarily conceived as a final chapter. I think like every other show, it’s a rich ensemble. There’s no end in sight until everybody feels like it’s time to end. And I don’t think this show is limited by a number of seasons, I think it’s limited by everybody’s enthusiasm and excitement about doing it and telling stories about these characters."

We'll take as many seasons of Emily in Paris as they'll give us!!

What has the cast said about Emily in Paris season 4?

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Lucas Bravo told People he's excited for a coming-of-age for Gabriel. "When you start a character, then there's a year where you experience the world and you mature, you become another person and you come back and it's exactly the day you left off," he says. "I'm happy that in season four I'll be able to bring more of what I became and what I've experienced in the past four years."

Even though Lily Collins is now an executive producer, she doesn't want to know TOO much about the future of the show. “Darren and I speak, on occasion, about where he’s thinking of going, but he also doesn’t wanna spoil too much for me because there is a fine line,” she tells Collider. “I don’t wanna know everything because I want to be led with the writing, but I am also curious because, as a producer wanting to celebrate the other characters, I’m very curious to see what their trajectories are."

What happened at the end of Emily in Paris season 3?

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To be fully prepared for Emily in Paris season 4, it's important to remember just what happened during season 3! The junior season was a bumpy ride for Emily, and it ends with the craziest finale yet. After Camille and Gabriel decide to get married, Camille stops the wedding, saying she knows Gabriel is in love with Emily instead of her. This declaration leads Alfie to break up with our leading lady because he refuses to be her second choice (and honestly, I respect it). That's not the only shocker because Camille also reveals that she's pregnant with Gabriel's child, which comes as a surprise to everyone. Meanwhile, Mindy learns Benoit has submitted a song (specifically "Mon Soleil") to the Eurovision Song Contest and Laurent has his heart set on opening a club in Paris.

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