When you’re doing your annual birthday dance for your bae, do you think to yourself, “We’re just like Jack and Rebecca”? You’re not alone — all of us see a little of ourselves in the couples in This Is Us. When we’re not crying, we’re sizing up the dynamics in the relationships between the characters and seeing which one looks like us.

If you’re coupled up — or just looking for romance — take this quiz to find out which of the This Is Us pairings suit you. It’s just for fun, so if you come out with Kevin and Sloane when you swore you were Kate and Toby, don’t worry — the show’s already been renewed for a third season, so you have plenty of time to work on your #relationshipgoals.

Which result did you get? Tell us @BritandCo!

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