Decoding Dress Codes From Casual To Black Tie (Plus Where And What To Shop)

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Are you feeling confused by all the different dress codes out there? We've got you covered...literally. From casual to black tie, we've broken down the most common dress codes for women and what each one means and found options for you to shop. So, whether you're heading to a job interview or a fancy wedding, you'll know exactly what to wear.

What is casual dress code?

This is probably the easiest dress code to figure out. It's all about comfort, so you can wear jeans, t-shirts, and sneakers — just make sure your clothes are clean and presentable. For casual wear, you can find great options at stores like Madewell, J.Crew, and Anthropologie. These stores offer comfortable and stylish clothing options, such as soft t-shirts, cozy sweaters, and relaxed jeans.

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Anthropologie Pilcro Square-Neck Textured Babydoll Dress ($140)

Gingham goes with any casual summer soiree, and this dress is no exception. The tiered skirt and square neck add some visual interest without overpowering the pattern, and the overall flowiness to the dress will keep you cool all summer long.

Madewell Modular Sleeveless Romper in 100% Linen ($83, was $118)

This romper is casual, chic, and completely versatile. You can wear each piece together as a full, connected set, or you can separate them to get multiple mix-and-match outfits with the top and bottoms!

J.Crew Relaxed-fit short-sleeve Baird McNutt Irish linen shirtdress ($104, was $148)

A shirt dress is perfect for any backyard barbecue, lounging lake-side, or any other casual gathering. Plus, this comes is so many different colors, giving you a ready-made outfit that doesn't look like you're wearing the same thing over and over again.

Women's Short Sleeve Mini Skater Dress - Universal Thread ($25)

This may be a T-shirt dress, but that doesn't mean it has to be boring. With cheeky cutouts and a boxy neckline, this casual dress gives your look a lot for less (hello, under $30!).

What is smart casual dress code?

Women's attire for a smart casual dress code strikes the delicate balance between polished business wear and everyday, more relaxed casual clothes. Button-down shirts in neutral tones, smart midi skirts or tailored wide leg pants can all work great at this type of event. If your blouse features embellishment or patterns, pair it with more casual bottoms such as dark denim jeans or pleated midi skirts as these will avoid an overdressed appearance. Wide-legged culottes make a great choice as well! A well-tailored blazer can add instant sophistication and is the ideal piece for layering over dresses if your partner or friends wear something less formal. Block heels, flats or loafers tend to be appropriate shoes for this kind of event. Sneakers in classic colors such as black or white may also work. With party season in full swing, it's a good idea to keep some smart casual outfit ideas handy for unexpected invitations.

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J. Crew Stretch linen-blend midi pencil skirt ($90, was $138) + Perfect-fit shelf-bra tank top ($17, was $35)

This isn't the "gaudy orange" Sandra Bullock was so against in The Blind Side — it's totally trendier. Pair this structured skirt with this low key white tank, and you'll look casual, cool, and collected.

Petal and Pup Womens Eddie Jumpsuit ($69)

A jumpsuit is a great way to look like you put way more effort into your outfit, while remaining totally relaxed. The flared pants and cutouts are just lax enough to keep this outfit from being too buttoned up for a smart casual look.

Anthropologie Maeve Scalloped Buttondown Dress ($160)

The scalloped details sold us the moment we saw them with this Anthro option! The Maeve Scalloped Buttondown Dress is dolled up, but not too dressy — the perfect combo for smart casual.

Madewell Pleated Midi Dress in Stripe ($148)

Without the pleats, this dress from Madewell would likely be too downplayed. However, the extra structure adds just enough for this to feel fun and elegant.

What is business casual dress code?

This dress code is a little more formal than casual, but not as strict as business professional. Think dress pants or a skirt paired with a blouse or a sweater. You can still wear comfortable shoes, but make sure they look polished. Stores like Banana Republic, Ann Taylor, and Loft offer great options for workwear, such as blouses, skirts, and dress pants.

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Banana Republic Serenade Silk Shirtdress ($250)

A shirt dress can certainly be casual, but this Serenade Silk Shirtdress from Banana Republic takes the classic silhouette up a notch. This dress is great for hopping from the office to your Thursday happy hours!

Ann Taylor Scoop Neck Short Sleeve Sheath Dress ($149)

A sheath dress is a great style for offices in the summer — it has nice structure, but still has a room to breathe. You can easily dress up this versatile option with statement jewelry and some heels, or you can go for a more toned down look with a chunky flat sandal and a simple satchel.

Loft Floral Ruffle Wrap Skirt ($36, was $70) + Ribbed Twist Open Back Top ($40)

Loft is a longtime staple for women in the workplace. This combination of the dainty skirt and straightforward shirt is perfectly polished for your summer Fridays, allowing you to feel cute and comfortable.

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Everlane The Structured Cotton Jumpsuit ($178)

This laid back look is sophisticated, with all the vibes of slacks and a blouse and none of the hassle. And if you're not headed into the office? Toss some Birkenstocks on with this the next time you head to the farmer's market.

What is business professional dress code?

If you're going to a job interview or a business meeting, this is the dress code you'll likely encounter. You'll need to wear a tailored suit or dress, heels, and conservative accessories. The goal is to look polished and professional.

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Carolina Slim Cotton-Linen Blazer ($250) + Straight Cotton Linen Pant ($130)

Linen will be your BFF for your summer office style. This linen suit still gives off "business professional," but isn't suffocating given the lighter fabric. You can easily take this look from day to night by losing the jacket and putting on a bold lip color.

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Everlane The Linen Oversized Blazer ($178) + Way-High Drape Pant ($128)

Gone are the days of super cropped and trim cut blazers. This oversized blazer and drape pant look is the trendy answer to your office wear needs!

COS Asymmetric Gathered Midi Dress ($135)

If you don't wanna go the pants and jacket route, a solidly structured dress at an appropriate length will work just fine for business professional dress code! We'd pair this dress from COS with some pointy-toed heels and chunky gold jewelry.

Ann Taylor The Notched Collar Tie Waist Dress ($159)

This dress from Ann Taylor gives off all the suit vibes without any of the suit sweatiness. A nice pair of heels and an ascot-style scarf are a go-to for this lovely look!

What is cocktail attire dress code?

This dress code is often seen at weddings, parties, and other formal events. You'll need to wear a dress or a skirt with a dressy blouse, paired with heels and tasteful accessories. Think sophisticated and glamorous. When it comes to cocktail attire, you'll want to look for dresses or dressy separates that are appropriate for a night out. Check out stores like Nordstrom, Bloomingdale's, and Revolve for chic and stylish options.

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Lulu's Beyond Classy Satin Halter Cocktail Midi Dress ($72)

The hater neckline and midi length are an excellent pair for this Lulu's dress. The draping is elegant, but the slit and slightly shorter length add that level of cocktail playfulness.

Helsi Structured 3D Floral-Embellished Mini Dress ($535)

Floral embellishments are all over right now, from twisted rosettes to embroidered wildflowers like these. While we love all the colors in this Helsi option from Anthropologie, there's also a black and nude option.

Norma Kamali Diana Mini Dress ($195)

Much like the Lulu's dress, this one-shouldered mini dress from Revolve is simple and stunning. We'd add some statement earrings and a simple up-do to this dress.

Free People Remi Mini Dress ($329)

Want sleeves that are actually breathable? This Free People dress gives just that, plus some added Stevie Nicks vibes. Yes, please!

What is black tie dress code?

This is the most formal dress code, often seen at galas or fancy weddings. You'll need to wear a long floor-length gown, a dressy jumpsuit, or a formal cocktail dress, paired with dressy accessories such as fine jewelry and heels. Think red carpet glamour. You can find beautiful options at stores like BHLDN, Saks Fifth Avenue, and Neiman Marcus.

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Amanda Uprichard X REVOLVE Avani Gown ($260)

Anyone else getting Taylor Swift circa the 2016 Grammy Awards? We'd copy any look of hers, especially when it comes to formal events.

Mac Duggal Pleated Ruffle Cap Sleeve Chiffon Gown ($598)

Mac Duggal is a master at formalwear. This fluttery favorite from Nordstrom is on the more expensive side, but that's par for the course with most formal dresses.

Lulu's Amelia Plunge Neck Trumpet Gown ($55-$88, was $88)

Luckily, brands like Lulu's offer more affordable options you can don confidently at your next wedding or special occasion! The deep v-neckline on this takes this simple black dress and makes is more of a statement.

Mac Duggal Tiered Strapless Tulle A-Line High-Low Gown ($798)

Mac Duggal strikes again. We love how whimsical this dress is with all the ruffles, tiers, and pastel color.

What is beach formal dress code?

Beach formal attire should be comfortable and lightweight, yet still elegant. Look for flowy maxi dresses or linen separates at stores like Free People, Anthropologie, and H&M.

Shop Beach Formal Looks

Free People Santa Maria Maxi Dress ($128)

Currently manifesting a beach wedding invitation so we can have an excuse to wear this Free People dress! It's fun and flowy, without feeling like a bathing suit cover up.

By Anthropologie Square-Neck Floral Maxi Dress ($260)

There's something about a square neck that just screams summer, IMO! (And yes, maybe it has everything to do with Daisy Edgar-Jones' wardrobe in Normal People).

Anthropologie Maeve One-Shoulder Embroidered Maxi Dress ($148-$230)

I mean, this dress was literally photographed on a beach. 'Nuff said, right? Really though, the maxi length and asymmetrical neckline is gorgeous for a sunset beach wedding.

H&M Long Halterneck Dress ($40)

This pop of color is perfect for your next beachy event. The halter top is summer personified, and the flowy shape allows you to move through the sun and the sand with ease.

What is white tie dress code?

White tie events are the most formal dress code and typically call for full-length ball gowns. Check out stores like Moda Operandi, Bergdorf Goodman, and Net-a-Porter for stunning options.

Alfred Sung One-Shoulder A-Line Gown ($239)

The full skirt on this a-line Alfred Sung is a classic, formal look. It gives all the high style of a ballgown without the heft.

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Marchesa Ruffled Organza Ball Gown ($5,995)

Ruffles are really, really in if you haven't noticed. This gown from Marchesa may be almost $6k, but the draping of the delicate organza, the pinched rosettes on the gown, and the pastel periwinkle are a work of art in their own right.

MARKARIAN Magnolia Off-the-Shoulder Corset Gown ($2,457, was $4,095)

The corseted bodice is still very trendy right now, especially when paired with off-the-shoulder sleeves and delicate draping. This dress by MARKARIAN is what I imagine ancient Greek royalty would wear (if they had fuchsia dyes at their disposal).

Marchesa Notte Plunge Petal Appliqué Gown ($1,195)

Are you surprised to find more appliqué embellishments at the end of this guide? Didn't think so. This other Marchesa gown is formal, but edgy enough to bring your personality into the look.

Now that you know the most common dress codes for women, you can confidently dress for any occasion. Just remember to always consider the setting and dress appropriately. With these tips in mind, you'll be the best-dressed in the room!

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Dearest gentle reader, if it were up to Lady Whistledown, the finest trend of the season would absolutely be the return of the cottagecore aesthetic. Bring on the floral dresses, ruching, and tulle because thanks to Bridgerton, we're glady welcoming cottagecore back into our current style rotation (if it ever left). Cottagecore has come and gone with the likes of period drama movies and TV shows á la Pride and Prejudice, Downton Abbey, and so many more. So whether you're frolicking in the English countryside, attending balls with Kings and Queens, or just simply catching up on Bridgerton season 3 from the comfort of your couch, we've got all the best dresses for the occasion that will have you looking like THE diamond of the season.

What is cottagecore?

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Cottagecore is an aesthetic or style that is inspired by "cottage living" — imagine the English countryside in the early 1900's. The clothing style is very reminiscent of a Jane Austen-inspired era with lots of feminine and flowy silhouettes. You'll notice the styles having corsets, ruffles, florals, and bows, so just think very effortlessly girly!

What are the best brands to shop for cottagecore aesthetic?

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The brands that immediately come to mind and encapsulate the "frolicking-in-the-english-countryside-while-waiting-for-your-star-crossed-lover" vibe are brands like Love Shack Fancy, House of CB, and Doen. I've personally shopped all of these and can attest that they are idyllic, gorgeous, and will have you feeling like the lead of a Bridgerton season in no time.

What should I watch to get inspired by the cottagecore aesthetic?

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Period dramas are perfect to get into this vibe, and some shows and films that I love to watch are Little Women, Downton Abbey, Pride and Prejudice, Bridgerton(obvi), and anything from the Jane Austen-era! When you watch all of these shows, you'll get so much inspiration from the way they dress and styles they're wearing. I also love scrolling Pinterest to find inpso for what to wear in order to achieve this aesthetic!

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LoveShackFancy Floral Dress

LoveShackFancy is a brand that does cottage-core SO well! They completely nail the ruffles, florals, and femininity that we're looking for in order to achieve the cottage-core look. This mini is adorable with the ruffles and short silhouette!

Melloday Smock Dress

Anything smock will definititely help you achieve cottage-core style and this smocked dress is such a cute one! I love the length and material of this one, as well as the strings on the sleeves! Such a fun detail!

Reformation Tagliatelle Linen Dress

How could you think of cottage-core and have your mind not go immediately towards the cool-girl brand of Reformation. They are the brand to shop at for any linen pieces to achieve your cottage-core style. Plus, you can never go wrong with a simple white dress! It's definitely a staple in every wardrobe.

House of CB Rafaella Dress

This dress just screams femininity and grace; exactly what we need for this Bridgerton-inpsired aesthetic! To be honest, this dress looks like it was taken right from a diamond of the season's wardrobe! Adding this to cart now!

Free People Feeling Bonita Smock Dress

Free People is a brand that does cottage core so well but in a more understated and casual way. Like this dress above, it exudes the cottage lifestyle but more casual than you may see on shows like Bridgerton or Downton Abbey. You'll definitely get so much wear out of this staple dress!

House of CB Emmelina Poplin Dress

I have this dress after trying it on in store and falling in looove with it immediately! It's stunning quality and tulle skirt will have you feeling like a princess! Just a note-- it runs quite small so make sure to adjust your sizing to a size bigger than normal!

Abercrombie Emerson Mini

This pattern just screams English countryside to me with the beautiful vintage colors and silhouette. I would definitely pick up this one to achieve the cottage-core style on a budget!

Charles Henry Bustier Maxi

Another affordable option to achieve the same look as the House of CB dress! It checks all the right boxes: floral, bustier, maxi, and so cute! We love this one!

Reformation Cherise Linen Dress

This dress is quintessential cottage-core, Bridgerton vibes to me! It looks so dainty and regal with it being a maxi and having the most adorable puff-sleeves and bow detailing. I say add a pair of white mary-jane flats and big white bow in your hair to top off the whole look!

All In Favor Midi Dress

At only $64, you're going to want to sprint to checkout on this dress that looks like it was taken right from my Pinterest board! I love how simple it is and the blue color is perfectly on brand for our theme as well. Plus, I love a corset moment!

House of CB Petticoat Dress

Petticoat dress? Say no more, we have found the most perfect cottage-core dress ever, readers! This dress would have Lady Whistledown, herself, wanting to know where it's from!

Abercrombie Puff Sleeve Dress

Lastly, a puff sleeve dress from our favorite and affordable Abercrombie because you can truly never go wrong with anything linen or puff-sleeved. I love this one with mary-janes like above or even with a pair of white pumps to dress it up!

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I'll admit out of the many teen dramas I've consumed, Outer Banks is one of the most ridiculous. But the insanity surrounding the plot is half the reason it's enjoyable! John B. wrestling an alligator with his bare hands? Kiara getting kidnapped then making a daring escape in her PJ's? John B. and Sarah getting married (kind of) by the power of "the sky, the stars, and the sea" after escaping the SBI?

Considering my favorite fan theory for the future is that Madelyn Cline's Sarah and Rudy Pankow's JJ learn they're secret siblings, I know the crazy train isn't slowing down anytime soon. I took to Reddit to find the wildest Outer Bankshot takes and I was not disappointed. Keep reading to see if you agree with any!

JJ and Kiara Never Should Have Happened

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While JJ and Kiara is one of the most popular ships on the show, a lot of Outer Banks fans think the "no Pogue-on-Pogue macking" rule from the pilot should have stayed in effect. The individual romances between Kiara and JJ, John B., and Pope make the story really messy, and the fact the show writes Kiara to be with all three of them in the span of three years gives a lot of viewers the ick.

I'll be team #Jiara forever (and literally screamed when The Backseat Lovers' "Kilby Girl" started playing during the motorcycle ride in season 3), but I'll say it would incredibly compelling to see a friend group take care of each other as much as the Pogues do without ever crossing over into romantic territory. That's found family, after all!

Pope Should Have Ditched The Treasure Hunt

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One Reddit user is convinced that "Pope should’ve focused on his future in school instead of giving everything up to search for treasure." And TBH, I totally agree.

In season 1, Pope has a breakthrough about the hidden treasure in the middle of his scholarship interview. He ditches the scholarship committee to tell the rest of the Pogues, throwing away a crazy educational opportunity. Pope beats himself up for it, and his parents definitely aren't pleased, but at least it meant he got to stay in the show instead of leaving for college, which leads me to...

Outer Banks Should Have Started With The Pogues In Their 20s

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As one of the only people alive who loves the post-time jump One Tree Hill, I would have loved to see OBX start off with the characters in their 20s (although it looks like that's where Outer Banks season 4 will pick up!). This would eliminate SO MANY problems from the jump because the Pogues wouldn't have to worry about missing school, they'd be more self-sufficient, and instead of being the same old high school drama, it could have provided a commentary on figuring out life in your 20s the same way Friends did.

Rafe Shouldn't Have Any Kind Of Redemption Arc In Outer Banks Season 4

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Drew Starkey the man that you are. According to one Reddit user, "Rafe should not have a love interest or a redemption arc" like we see in season 3. We spent all of season 1 and season 2 establishing that Rafe (played by Drew) would do anything it took to get what he wanted (including one successful murder and two other attempts?!). He shows next to no remorse for his actions, and exploring his literal psychopathic tendencies would take the show to a whole new level.

Big John Should Never Have Returned

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John B.'s dad's disappearance is the catalyst for the Pogues' journey at the beginning of Outer Banks, and Big John's return means the story feels somewhat repetitive in the third season, and it undoes a lot of the growth we've seen from John B. Plus, Big John is just SO chaotic, selfish, and dramatic. If he had truly died in season 1, we could have seen John B. wrestle with that finality, and how to cope with loss in the face of finding the treasure and falling in love with Sarah.

And Finally, Outer Banks Should Have Ended After Season 1

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Outer Banks season 1 was exactly what we needed at the height of the pandemic. It was escapist — both in terms of the beach vacation vibes, but also because the '00s aesthetic took us right back to simpler times — and it had such a wonderfully resolved finale that some fans think nothing has matched it.

Do you agree with any of these Outer Banks opinions? I'm such a romance fan, I don't know what I'd do if the show didn't have JJ and Kiara get together! Check out all the best New TV Shows coming this year for more.

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We’re ever so thankful that things are warming up a bit, and with a new season comes a whole new round of trends. Talking about color specifically, the 2024 Pantone Fashion Color Trend Reportgives a good guide to all the hues we’ll be seeing this summer. We hand-picked our 4 favorite colors that are approachable for everyday wear – and just downright fun. Hop into something vibrant, and explore the coolest summer colors for 2024 below.

Kimchi Blue Shay Smocked Cropped Top

Butter Yellow

This serene shade of yellow is honestly the “It” color of the season. It’s literally smooth like butter, and is super adorable alongside a good pair of denim shorts or jeans. Butter yellow is light and breezy, just like the summer season.

Free-est Made Me Smile Mini

This adorable strapless dress would go great with a patio on a warm day.

Jeffrey Campbell Dancerina Mary Jane Ballet Flats

Knock out two trends at once with these simple butter yellow ballet flats that work wonderfully with skirts and jeans alike.

Adidas Samba OG Sneakers

Lilac

Since it was spotted on our fave gal, Taylor Swift, this purple-y hue isn't going anywhere. Lilac feels like an elegant graduation from lavender (ahem, someone play “Lavender Haze”), and we are totally here for it. It looks so dreamy on flowy skirt styles or more structured tops.

Maeve Boxy Tee

This casual tee is worthy of everyday wear. Its cotton construction makes it super breathable for the office or the gym.

Wild Fable Leisure Mini Skort

You'll wanna jet around in this easygoing mini skort for those wild summer adventures. It's fitted with attached shorts for extra coverage and is delightfully stretchy so you have freedom of movement.

Old Navy High-Waisted Crinkle Gauze Pull-On Ankle Pants

Red-Orange

Basic red was trending so hard last year, so it’s no surprise that its orange-y color cousin has entered the chat. Red-orange is just the shade you need for embracing summer, especially if where you live is heatin’ up. Make a statement with a red-orange dress, or even just add a simple pop of color with some earrings!

Free-est Oasis Midi Dress

This fiery, flirty dress is an easy one-and-done for summer date nights. The fluttery sleeves and tied neckline add to a very whimsical vibe.

Universal Thread Flat Sprayed Metal Hoops

Add a splash of color to a basic get-up with these colorful hoops! They're fairly large, so you can't miss 'em.

Everlane The TENCEL™ Boxy Shirt

Chambray Blue

Denim is undeniably having its moment right now (everyone say “thank you, Beyoncé”), but it’s not always practical for the hotter months. That’s why chambray is the perfect solution! Chambray is essentially woven cotton, so it makes for a lighter, more breathable wear. You can rock it alongside more denim pieces, or even white pants or skirts to pull it off easily.

Chinese Laundry Rozie Half d'Orsay Slingback Pumps

Step out in trendy style with these paneled slingbacks! The chunky square heel makes each and every step comfortable as ever.

J.Crew Astrid Pants

Stretchy pants FTW! These easy, breezy chambray bottoms have a flattering wide waistband and a singular back pocket for practicality.

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Mariska Hargitay is the woman of the hour anywhere she goes, with her iconic Law & Order: SVUrole as Olivia Benson under her belt for the last 25 years. The character is an absolute advocate to women — and assault victims of any gender — through her words, actions, and powerful convictions of each perpetrator on the show. She takes great care with her victims and pursues perpetrators with fervor, and slowly as you watch the show..the line blurs between Olivia and Mariska.

This isn't anything new — just recently Mariska literally stopped production on the show to help a child (who mistook her for an actual police officer) find her mom. It's just who Mariska is. She walks the walk and talks the talk — including during her speech at Variety's Power of Women's Power of Women event.

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As a Power of Women honoree, Mariska was recognized in regards to her work as an advocate for sexual assault survivors. She took the stage and used her platform to discuss rape and assault conviction reversals, shining a light on the recent overturned ruling in Harvey Weinstein's landmark NYC case. Here's what she said:

Today I want to talk about reversing convictions, and more specifically I want to talk to you about how impossible it is to reverse mine. It’s impossible to reverse my conviction that survivors matter. It is impossible to reverse my conviction that what happens to us matters, and that our society must respond to survivors with a more a compassionate, holistically, deeper, and more nuanced understanding of what healing means.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that after a trauma, survivors can reclaim lives of hope, of possibility, of audacious risk, beautiful intimacy, and glorious, glorious abundant joy. And I stand before you as evidence of that statement.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that we must listen to survivors as experts on what justice means. It is extraordinary how little their voices are consulted, let alone incorporated, in the process of deciding how to repair harm. Justice is not a one-size-fits-all journey.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that patriarchal impunity has to end. Patriarchal impunity is when a male-dominated system exempts perpetrators from punishment. Studies show that only 20% of all rape cases in the U.S. are reported to the police, and that between 5 and 0% of all rapes result in a guilty plea or a conviction. So why do 80% of victims not report? Because they're met with a system that grants impunity to perpetrators; a system that blames victims; a system that accepts only those victims who are experienced as "real" rape; a system that completely misunderstands the neurobiology of trauma, which causes behavior in women that doesn't fit the picture of how a "real victim" would act.

Is that change needed that victims should just pull themselves together? Just buck up and report anyway? No. No, it's the system that receives them that needs to change

It is impossible to reverse my conviction — and the conviction of my extraordinary team, The Joyful Heart — that the backlog of untested rape kits can be brought to zero; that the testing of all new kits must be mandated; that we need a statewide kit tracking system; and that survivors have the right to access the status of their kits.

It is impossible to reverse my conviction that grammar — yes, grammar — that we use when we speak about rape must change. In the sentence, "A woman is raped," there's a crime and there's a victim, but there's no perpetrator. Where's the perpetrator? Where is he? Statistically, as we know, most likely he's walking free. He's so free that he doesn't even appear in the language about the crime that he committed. Is that not extraordinary? It's extraordinary that in the very grammar, the perpetrator goes free. Reintroducing perpetrators in the language of rape will make some very unwieldy grammar, but that's the nature of change. It's unwieldy, it's messy, it's uncomfortable, but it's necessary.

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Hargitay continued on in her prolific speech to describe that rape shouldn't be considered a "crime of passion" because it's "not simply the next step in the trajectory of his passion" when a man takes a consensual hookup too far and assaults a woman against her will. She stated that it's "an exercise of power," doubling down that the language we use is important.

The speech went on to address that rape is both about power and control, as a "construct" that was "built, and assembled, and reinforced over time." She noted that there are people with these positions of power — and she specifically called out those in the entertainment industry — that could make a difference and aligned themselves to victims and survivors.

After this and some other remarks, Hargitay specifically called out the Weinstein conviction reversal. She said:

I do want to say something about the Harvey Weinstein conviction, specifically about the reason that it was overturned: too many women's voices. Too many women's voices were allowed to speak. Hallelujah! Amen! I can't imagine anything more beautiful than that. The Daily podcast episode talked about how it was so risky for the prosecution to have that many women testify. Risky to let women speak? You're damn right it is!

Too many women speaking brings change. Too many women speaking shakes the establishment. Too many women means we get listened to more, and people might actually hear what we have to say. Look what happened when women started saying just two words, right? Me too — just as an example — a tidal wave of change. Me too.

And then of course, there was the response: the Me Too Movement. The backlash. The examination of whether the changes that have come are lasting, or are even positive. Of course there's a backlash! What did they expect? For women to speak repeatedly, loudly, together, with a purpose — for there to be no backlash? The backlash is evidence of how powerful those voices were, how powerful those voices ARE.

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After Emily in Paris season 3 dropped on Netflix in December of 2022, we were hoping to get the fourth installment of the hit show in 2023. But production halted when the WGA writers' strike, then the SAG-AFTRA actors' strike went to affect, and our beloved cast and crew campaigned for better wages and industry protection. But with the end of the writers' strike, and new SAG negotiations, Emily in Paris season 4 finally began production in February 2024 — and I can already tell you there's sure to be plenty of drama and French fashion this time around.

Not only will we see Emily in Paris (see what I did there?!) but she's also pulling an Audrey Hepburn and taking a little Roman Holiday. That's right — our favorite Parisians are heading to Italy! If that doesn't sound like a dreamy comfort show then I don't know what does. Here's everything we know about the upcoming season of your favorite TV brain candy!!

Is Emily in Paris season 4 coming soon?

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Via Variety, Emily in Paris season 4 began production in Paris the week of January 15! "Did someone say Saison Quatre?!" Lily Collins says in her Instagram post announcing production. "Finally reunited with my @emilyinparis fam back in Paris and it feels so good. Although, I may need to brush up on my selfie skills for Emily’s sake…"

Now the wait is over! According to the official announcementfor Emily in Paris, we know part one drops on Netflix August 15, followed by part 2 on September 12. I've been impatiently waiting for this considering we didn't know how filming would be impacted by things like the WGA writers strike!

Is Emily in Paris filmed in Paris?

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Yes, Emily in Paris is filmed on location in Paris! We got our first look at Emily in Paris season 4 when Lily Collins and Ashley Park were seen filming in the City of Love (via Daily Mail). The costumes for the series are still as bold and bright as ever, with Ashley's Mindy wearing cobalt and metallic boots, and Lily's Emily dressed head-to-toe in lemon yellow. I can't wait to see what these best friends get up to this season! Check out our Paris travel recommendations to live out your own Emily in Paris dreams ;).

On April 27, Lily Collins confirmed Emily in Paris season 4 had wrapped its France shoot and that the cast & crew have swapped the City of Love for the Eternal City! "When you’re the first ones on the dance floor at the Paris wrap party. Next stop: Rome!" she says on Instagram. Late spring is literally the perfect time to film in Italy and I just know this season is going to give me more wanderlust than ever before. I need gelato!

What's Emily In Paris season 4 about?

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Season 3 left us with a huge cliffhanger: Alfie breaks up with Emily, Camille learns she's pregnant with Gabriel's baby, Benoit's "Mon Soleil" has been chosen for the Eurovision Song Contest, and Emily and Gabriel realize they've been in love with each other the whole time. Whew.

Emily in Paris season 4 will have a ton of cliffhangers to bring full circle, and a bunch of damage that all the characters need to heal. We know from the Netflix TUDUM fan event that we might also see Emily have to deal with an ultimatum head-on, as well as an unexpected twist. Plus, it looks like she's heading on a "Roman holiday," according to lead actress Lily Collins. We'll take any nod to an Audrey Hepburn movie, please and thank you!

Is Alfie coming back in season 4 of Emily in Paris?

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We don't have OFFICIAL word on whether Alfie (played by Lucien Laviscount) will return for Emily in Paris season 4, but we're hoping for his sake that he gets some closure. Lucien wants to come back as well! "[The dream is] to keep this gravy train going and just to kind of really live in this world a little bit longer," he says in an interview with Elle. " The writers on the show and the creators behind it and everyone that comes into contact with it is so amazing and fantastic. Their minds [have] way, way, way, way surpassed mine. So, yeah. I’ll let them do their thing.”

Who else is in the Emily in Paris season 4 cast?

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We can expect the rest of the cast — Lily Collins as Emily, Lucas Bravo as Gabriel, Ashley Park as Mindy, Camille Razat as Camille, Philippine Leroy-Beaulieu as Sylvie, Samuel Arnold as Julian, and Bruno Gouery as Luc — to return.

Will there be a season 5 of Emily in Paris?

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It looks like Emily in Paris season 4 will not be the final season, according to creator Darren Star. “There’s a lot more story to tell here and we’re not wrapping things up anytime soon,” Star tells Elle. “And also hopefully season four isn’t the end either. I feel like we’re all creatively feeling like we’re in the middle of something not heading towards the end.”

Darren also told Deadline season 4 is "not necessarily conceived as a final chapter. I think like every other show, it’s a rich ensemble. There’s no end in sight until everybody feels like it’s time to end. And I don’t think this show is limited by a number of seasons, I think it’s limited by everybody’s enthusiasm and excitement about doing it and telling stories about these characters."

We'll take as many seasons of Emily in Paris as they'll give us!!

What has the cast said about Emily in Paris season 4?

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Lucas Bravo told People he's excited for a coming-of-age for Gabriel. "When you start a character, then there's a year where you experience the world and you mature, you become another person and you come back and it's exactly the day you left off," he says. "I'm happy that in season four I'll be able to bring more of what I became and what I've experienced in the past four years."

Even though Lily Collins is now an executive producer, she doesn't want to know TOO much about the future of the show. “Darren and I speak, on occasion, about where he’s thinking of going, but he also doesn’t wanna spoil too much for me because there is a fine line,” she tells Collider. “I don’t wanna know everything because I want to be led with the writing, but I am also curious because, as a producer wanting to celebrate the other characters, I’m very curious to see what their trajectories are."

What happened at the end of Emily in Paris season 3?

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To be fully prepared for Emily in Paris season 4, it's important to remember just what happened during season 3! The junior season was a bumpy ride for Emily, and it ends with the craziest finale yet. After Camille and Gabriel decide to get married, Camille stops the wedding, saying she knows Gabriel is in love with Emily instead of her. This declaration leads Alfie to break up with our leading lady because he refuses to be her second choice (and honestly, I respect it). That's not the only shocker because Camille also reveals that she's pregnant with Gabriel's child, which comes as a surprise to everyone. Meanwhile, Mindy learns Benoit has submitted a song (specifically "Mon Soleil") to the Eurovision Song Contest and Laurent has his heart set on opening a club in Paris.

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