Even Your In-Laws Will Be Impressed By These Target Thanksgiving Decor Pieces

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When it comes to Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving, half of the fun (other than the food, of course) is setting the table. A Thanksgiving tablescape is truly incomplete without an array of seasonal decor, from plates to platters. It’s just plain entertaining to entertain!

With that in mind, we’re overjoyed to witness the greatness of this year's Target Thanksgiving decor. Their current offerings are joined by a new collection made in collaboration with John Derian. The designer has brought forth a sense of timelessness through each of the Target Thanksgiving decor pieces, so these picks are sure to become heirloom-worthy. (And impress everyone at the table!)

Oval Stoneware Platter Fall Turkey with Floral Border

This decorative serving platter is a must-have for hosting the Thanksgiving turkey you worked so hard to prepare.

3 Tier Fall Turkey Serving Tray

Whether this tiered tray is serviced for pre-dinner snacks or dessert, the traditional design will leave a lasting impression.

Fall Glass Fruit Pillar Candle Holder

Craft the *perfect* Thanksgiving centerpiece with the help of this fall-forward candle holder.

Printed Tablecloth Fall Flowers

A solid tablecloth is an absolute need to set your gorgeous Thanksgiving appetizers, side dishes, and sweet treats up for success (AKA all the aesthetic Instagram pics you'll snap).

Fall Unscented Gold Single Taper Candelabra

Candelabras are the ultimate fall home accessory. This gold one approaches the November holiday with elegance.

2-Piece Fall Vegetable Figural Serving Spoon & Fork Set

Pay homage to the delicious ingredients that go into your best dishes with this serving set that's great for salads or veggies.

Stoneware Serving Platter Fall Cabbage

This Target Thanksgiving decor pick recalls vintage dishware designs that are often scalped from thrift stores. If you've been on the hunt for a lettuce dish, now's your chance.

Tossed Fruit Melamine Cake Stand

So you've copped this adorable vegetable-spotted cake stand – now it's time to plan some recipes! Perhaps a sweet carrot cake is on the docket?

4-Piece Assorted Fall Turkey Cocktail Glasses

Thanksgiving cocktails or mocktails will find such a cozy home in these turkey glasses that make us want to gobble!

10" Fall Stoneware Apples Pie Dish

There's no perfect dessert for this gorgeous dish other than apple pie, of course!

14"x90" Table Runner Fall Pumpkin Ribbon

Keep things at the table visually interesting with this easy-to-spot table runner. It's adorned with pumpkin and bow illustrations for added cuteness.

Fall Turkey Shaped Pillow

This tufted turkey will be the best couch companion once you've hit the food coma part of your Thanksgiving feast.

Fall Fruit & Gourds Metal 11" Pie Transporter

Not hosting at your place this year? This pie tin keeps your treats intact if you've got a long car ride to make before dinner.

Fall Assorted Mushrooms Octagonal Serving Tray

Cottagecore is still having its moment! Embrace the trend with this fun fungi tray!

Fall Canvas Wine Tote Bag

If you're toting bevs around from Friendsgiving gatherings to fall dinner parties this season, you'll get some really good use out of this bag.

4-Piece Assorted Fall Mushroom Appetizer Plates

Serve all your appetizers on these marvelously mushy plates. The geometric form of each one makes for a nice touch, too!

Stoneware Fall Pumpkin Tureen

ICYMI, it's officially soup season, so grab this perfectly seasonal vessel for serving your best recipes.

18" Square Pillow Fall Pumpkin

Stay cozy even past Thanksgiving with this pumpkin-y pillow.

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Make sure you've got your wallet on-hand and your laptop charged, because the Target Memorial Day Sale (online and in-store) is coming in hot! While you can get great deals on a lot during this three-day event, there are some major big ticket items (hello, Dyson?!) we've go our eye on. And with some items up to 60% off, this is definitely a deals event you don't wanna miss! From vacuums to velvet home decor, we've got you covered with our fave finds!

When is Target's Memorial Day sale in 2024?

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Target's yearly in-store and online Memorial Day Sale starts Friday May 24 and runs through Monday May 27.

What deals does Target's Memorial Day sale have?

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This three day weekend sale will have discounted anything and everything from home decor items, to furniture, to even hair and beauty items. They also happen to discount quite a lot of buzzy tech, so this is a great time to score a deal on some investment purchases like bluetooth headphones or an Apple Watch.

If you catch the deals early enough, you'll be able to find items up to 60% off of their normal prices! That's more than half off! We are so excited to shop this sale, and know you will be too!

Shop these great pre-Memorial Day Target deals below!

Home Deals

Vizio 1080p Smart TV

If you're in the market for a new TV then I would highly recommend buying one during this sale so you can save a couple bucks! I have a Vizio Smart TV, and I seriously love it! It was one of the best investments in my house I could've made, and what's better than finding one on sale?! Run to add this to your cart!

Dyson V8 Cordless Vacuum

As a massive fan of Dyson, I use so many of their products from home to hair care! This trusty vacuum will be a staple in your household, especially since it's cordless! If you grab it during this sale, then you're able to get it for over $130 off! A steal if you ask me!

Keurig K-Mini Coffee Maker

Everyone needs a good coffee maker for your morning brew, and this one is a great choice! You can find it for 50% off at Target, which is SO crazy!! Going to check out with this now...

Outdoor Patio Loveseat

Furniture is one of my favorite things to buy during major sales, because it's always SO heavily discounted. Like this loveseat, for example, is $120 off right now! That's an amazing price, and this set is so cute!

Velvet Accent Chair

I'm currently look for an office space upgrade, hoping to add some new furniture pieces and maybe a new rug. This chair is perfect for my home office, and it's listed at an incredible deal right now, so run to grab it! The scallop detailing is so cute, and if you get it now you'll be saving over $200 at 60% off the original price!

Tech Deals

JBL Bluetooth Headphone

I use these headphones daily! They are so easy to use, and have definitely become my trusty everyday item that I keep in my purse at all times! You can get them for 30% off right now.

Beats Studio Pro Headphones

More of a Beats girl? That's cool, too! These are on sale right now for almost 50% off — which doesn't happen often in the world of Apple products! If you're thinking of getting a pair any time soon, now's your chance!

Google Nest

If you've been wanting to upgrade your home to some smarter features, then grab this Google Nest while it's discounted, because you won't regret it! It adds a little fun and a lot of ease to your home when you can control everything right there on the screen and through your voice!

Apple AirTag Pack of 4

Any travel plans coming up? I put one AirTag in each of my bags, because they've been such a lifesaver to me! When an airline lost my luggage and said that they didn't have it, I followed the AirTag right to where they kept my bags —they seriously saved the day! I'd grab this 4 pack for traveling, so you don't have to stress!

Beauty + Personal Care Deals

Phillips Sonicare Toothbrush

Need any hygiene or health-related upgrades? Grab anything you need now while things are on sale! I'll, personally, be stocking up on my normal skincare and upgrading to this cute electric toothbrush! Love this!

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There are plenty of celebrity couples that are able to balance cool yet relatable, and the coolest of all might just be Justin and Hailey Bieber. The couple is everywhere right now, thanks to Hailey Bieber's Rhode skincare and Justin Bieber's stint as an honorary celebrity co-captain at the 2024 NHL all-star game. Amid reports that the couple has had some serious issues this year, a People source promises "they are very, very happy.” Whew! Here's a full look back on their relationship.

How long have Justin and Hailey Bieber been married?

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Justin and Hailey Bieber have been married for almost six years! They tied the knot in 2018 after they were seen walking into a courthouse, but the larger ceremony that had was filled with their closest loved ones.

They looked so stunning that I'm sure Hailey Bieber's look made it to our list of celebrity wedding dresses we can't get enough of.

How far along is Hailey Bieber?

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Ever since the couple shared their sweet baby announcement yesterday, fans have been wondering how far along Hailey Beiber is. People confirmed that she's six months and even shared some cryptic clues about her pregnancy despite not fully being ready to share the happy news with the public.

Justin And Hailey Bieber's Full Relationship Timeline

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November 2009 — Justin Bieber And Hailey Bieber Meet At The Today Show

Justin and Hailey Bieber first met in 2009, when he was 15 and she was 12, when he performed "Baby" at the Today show. According to People, the friendship between Hailey's dad Stephen Baldwin and Justin's mom Pattie Mallette led to the introduction.

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February 2, 2011 — Hailey Bieber Attends The Premiere Of Justin Bieber: Never Say Never

Justin Bieber's Never Say Never documentary thrilled Justin Bieber fans (called Beliebers) — but even though Hailey was excited to be at the NYC premiere, she told Vogue in 2019 she didn't consider herself a superfan.

"It was never that crazed, screaming thing," she says. "I didn't think about it in any kind of way except for the fact that he was cute. Everybody had a crush on him. But for the first few years we had a weird age gap."

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November 10, 2014 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Reconnect

In late 2014, Justin and Hailey Bieber were joined by Kendall Jenner at a Hillsong New York service. "One day Justin walked into Hillsong and was like, 'Hey, you got older,'" Hailey tells Vogue. "Over time he became my best guy friend. I was running around with him as his homie, but we weren't hanging out [romantically].""

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February 11, 2016 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Are Officially An Item...Kind Of

After sharing a passionate New Year's Eve kiss, Justin Bieber seemingly confirmed his relationship with Hailey right before Valentine's Day. "[She's] someone I really love. We spend a lot of time together," he tells GQ. However, he doesn't call her his girlfriend.

"I don’t want to put anyone in a position where they feel like I’m only theirs, only to be hurt in the end," he continues. "In the past I’ve hurt people and said things that I didn’t mean to make them happy in the moment. So now I’m just more so looking at the future, making sure I’m not damaging them. What if Hailey ends up being the girl I’m gonna marry, right?...I just don’t want to hurt her."Hailey went on to tell E! News that same day they were "not an exclusive couple."

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Spring 2016 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Break Up

After the February 2016 GQ story went live, Justing and Hailey Bieber split. But, according to Hailey, it felt much more intense than that. "'Fizzled' would not be the right word — it was more like a very dramatic excommunication," she tells Vogue. "There was a period where if I walked into a room, he would walk out."

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July 7, 2018 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Get Engaged

Justin and Hailey Bieber reconnected at a Miami conference from pastor Rich Wilkerson Jr., and by then, Hailey says, they were past the drama. Things fell into place quickly, and TMZ announced the couple's engagement in July.

"He was the first person I ever had real feelings for," Hailey later says in an episode of Justin Bieber: Seasons. "When things kind of went south for a little bit and we went our separate ways, I just knew that no matter what the outcome was going to be, he was going to be somebody that I loved for the rest of my life."

"Hailey I am soooo in love with everything about you!" Justin says in his official Instagram announcement. "So committed to spending my life getting to know every single part of you loving you patiently and kindLY. I promise to lead our family with honor and integrity letting Jesus through his Holy Spirit guide us in everything we do and every decision we make. My heart is COMPLETELY and FULLY YOURS and I will ALWAYS put you first! You are the love of my life Hailey Baldwin and I wouldn’t want to spend it with anybody else."

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September 2018 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Get Married

After moving in together, the couple was seen walking into a courthouse in the fall (via TMZ)! Since slipping wedding bands on each other's fingers, both Justin and Hailey Bieber have admitted their relationship has taken a ton of work.

"I remember when I first got married, I hit a little bit of an emotional breakdown because I thought marriage was going to fix all my problems and it didn't," Justin says in an interview with Apple Music 1's Ebro Darden (via Billboard). "You want your wife to do something that you're not doing and it's like, it's hard sometimes to look in the mirror and really have to realize, man, maybe you're not the person that you necessarily thought that you were."

"There's a reason they say 'for better or for worse.' Like, that's for real!" Hailey tells Harper's Bazaar. "I might fly somewhere and go do a job, but I can't wait to come back and hang out. And I feel like that's because of the effort that's been put in on both sides. At the end of the day, like, he's my best friend, but it still does take a lot of work to make it work."

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February 7, 2019 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Have Their First Photoshoot Together

For Vogue's February 2019 issue, Justin and Hailey Bieber go deep into their relationship (the photos for the issue are beautiful, with the couple in shades of cream and white, with bejeweled details).
“I just feel like I care so much and I want things to be so good and I want people to like me," Justin says. "Hailey’s very logical and structured, which I need. I’ve always wanted security...with the lifestyle I live, everything is so uncertain. I need one thing that’s certain."
"I’m fighting to do this the right way, to build a healthy relationship,” Hailey says. “I’m not going to sit here and lie and say it’s all a magical fantasy. It’s always going to be hard. It’s a choice. You don’t feel it every single day...But there’s something beautiful about it anyway — about wanting to fight for something, commit to building with someone."
"We’re committed to growing together and supporting each other in those changes," she continues. "That’s how I look at it. At the end of the day, too, he’s my best friend. I never get sick of him.”

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January 27, 2020 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Attend The Premiere Of Justin Bieber: Seasons

For a date night at the beginning of 2020, Justin and Hailey Bieber attended the LA premiere of his YouTube Original Justin Bieber: Seasons. Ahead of the screening at the Regency Bruin Theatre, the couple hit the red carpet. Justin wore pink pants and a white sweater, while Hailey looked chic in a sequined black dress.

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September 13, 2021 — Justin Bieber And Hailey Bieber Attend The 2021 Met Gala

To celebrate the Met's America: A Lexicon Of Fashion exhibit at the end of 2021, Justin and Hailey Bieber went old school glam for the Met Gala red carpet, with chic outfits and statement jewelry. Unfortunately, their appearance went viral for a different reason when fans of Justin's ex-girlfriend Selena Gomez started changing *her* name during Hailey's time on the carpet.

“It was disrespectful," Hailey says during an episode of Alex Cooper's Call Her Daddy podcast. "To me, to my relationship. It just was. Period. The end.”

While some fans think a feud has existed between Selena Gomez and Hailey Bieber for years, Hailey says "there's no drama, personally."

"I can say, period, point blank, I was never with him when he was in a relationship with anybody — that's the end of it," she adds.

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March 10, 2022 — Hailey Bieber Suffers A Mini Stroke

During the spring of 2022, Justin and Hailey Bieber were eating breakfast together when the model "started having stroke-like symptoms and was taken to the hospital," she wrote in an Instagram story (via ABC News). In a YouTube video sharing her story, Hailey explains that she was diagnosed with a patent foramen ovale (or PFO), which is a hole between your heart's left and right upper chambers.

On March 16, during Justin Bieber's concert in Denver, the singer confirmed Hailey had been doing better. "She's okay, she's good. It's been scary, you know, it's been really scary but I know for a fact that God has her in the palm of his hands."

The couple later walked the Grammys red carpet in Las Vegas on April 3.

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September 13, 2022 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Celebrate Their Four Year Anniversary

Both Justin and Hailey Bieber posted about their fourth wedding anniversary in honor of the special day! "Happy anniversary to my best friend and wifey," Justin posted. "thank u for making me better in every way."

"4 years married to you," Hailey says on Instagram. "the most beautiful human I’ve ever known... love of my life. Thank God for you."

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November 21, 2022 — Justin Bieber Celebrates Hailey Bieber's Birthday

Hailey Bieber turned 26 while the couple was on a trip to Japan, which meant Justin's Instagram post was 14 hours earlier for all their friends and family in North America!

"HAPPY BIRFDAY TO MY FAVORITE HUMAN BEING, XOXO," Justin says in the post. "YOU MAKE LIFE MAGIC 😭 OBSESSED WITH EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. LOVE YOU BUM BUM."

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May 14, 2023 — Hailey Bieber Is Ready For Kids

"I want kids so bad but I get scared," Hailey Bieber tells The Sunday Times. "It's enough that people say things about my husband or my friends. I can't imagine having to confront people saying things about a child."

And in an interview with GQ Hype later that year, Hailey says that while she looks forward to motherhood, she won't be in a rush to tell the world when she does get pregnant: "When there comes a day that that is true, you, you as in the internet, will be the last to know."

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March 1, 2024 — Hailey Bieber Celebrates Justin Bieber's 30th

Justin Bieber finally joined the thirty, flirty, and thriving club in 2024 and Hailey was over the moon. "30!!!!!!!????!!????!!!!" she says on Instagram. "that was fast. words could never truly describe the beauty of who you are. Happy Birthday to you… love of my life, for life."

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April 3, 2024 — Justin And Hailey Bieber Are "Very, Very Happy"

After rumors began circulating that Justin and Hailey Bieber were having some serious issues, a source tells People the couple is “doing really well."

“There’s no divorce and no truth to that whatsoever,” the source says. “They are very, very happy.”

Hailey Bieber herself weighed in on the rumors in March, when she posted the above message on her Instagram story. "Just FYI the stories and constant ‘blind items’ I see on TikTok are 100% of the time wrong. Made out of thin air," she says. “So I know it may be fun feeding into these stories but just know they’re always false xx sorry to spoil it."

April 15, 2024 — Justin Bieber Celebrates His "Soulmate"

Following the first weekend of Coachella, Justin Bieber shared a video (originally posted to a fan account) that shows him standing with Hailey during a show. The fan account captioned the video, "JUSTIN AND HAILEY ARE SOULMATES IDC WHAT ANYONE SAYS," and TBH I totally agree. The video shows Justin and Hailey Bieber swaying to a song, and Justin kissing her on the forehead.

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May 2024 — Justin and Hailey Announce They're Expecting Their First Baby

After mentioning she was ready for kids a year ago, Hailey Bieber's pregnant! So far, Hailey Bieber's pregnancy announcement carousel on Instagram has almost 10 million likes and tons of praise! Revolve even left this sweet comment: "couldn’t be happier for you guys🥹🤍."

But, the best praise came from Justin and Hailey Bieber's families. Justin's mom, Patti Mallette, took to Instagram to share her thoughts in a reel on Instagram that captured her excitement about becoming a grandma. She squealed, "Oh my gosh, I'm gonna be a grandmom! Oh my goodness!"

She also left a happy message on Stephen Baldwin's Instagramthat made some fans question if she was revealing if Justin and Hailey Bieber are having twins. She initially wrote, "Congratulations Grandpa! WE ARE GONNA HAVE THE CUTEST GRAND-BABIES EVER!" but circled back to let people know, "No not twins lol I wish. I just mean in general. Hopefully they will have more than one eventually. They will make beautiful babies whenever they have them. One is enough for now 😂"

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The photographer Slim Aarons spent his career shooting celebrities and socialites lounging poolside with mid-century homes as the backdrop. His photographs were a peek inside the the lives of the rich and famous, and inspiration for design enthusiasts looking for sleek exteriors. As we head into summer and the great outdoors, how our open spaces look and feel becomes a design priority, creating a space to chill, grill, and entertain our favorite people.

Inspired by its mid-century roots, designer Meredith Kleinman reimagined the Los Angeles home for Nick O'Malley, bassist for the band Arctic Monkeys, and his family, preserving a lot of the mid-century details while adding in modern amenities. Here's a peek inside, along with mid-century pool decor to refresh your outdoor space.

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O'Malley's home has incredible views and captures amazing Californian light throughout the day. To highlight the views, Meredith kept the interior design clean and simple.

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She added vintage furnishings, classic light fixtures, and custom walnut built-ins to honor the original quality of the home.

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The bedrooms all have great views perched above the pool inside the three-story home.

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The owners wanted the home to be easy to take care of, fun, comfortable and low maintenance while still looking great and being as eco-friendly as possible.

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Meredith preserved the retro kidney-shaped pool and resurfaced the surrounding area while planting around to keep it clean and modern.

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A sunroom opens out to the pool area, a comfy place to lounge, read, and host guests.

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The central seating area is sleek and cozy with retro pendants to complete the look.

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A combo of wood, concrete and stone keep the area eco-friendly with drought-tolerant plants.

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The bathroom echoes the poolside inspiration with a retro vibe.

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Here's the view at night. Simple, clean, and perfect for gathering.

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West Elm Build Your Own Sectional

This sectional exudes easy and breezy. The cool, California vibe gives off the perfect place to lounge and enjoy your outdoor space.

Mischa Indoor/Outdoor Pillow

These colorful pillows add some character to the chill mid-century vibes — helping you avoid the "sad beige aesthetic" handily.

Leo Hanging Globe Pendant

A pendant is perfect for any mid-century room, adding an easy elegance while it lights up the space.

The Club Umbrella

This playful umbrella is giving Palm Royale in all the best ways — exactly what you want for your poolside decor.

Tosswear Reserve Outdoor Tumblers

Having cute glassware is essential for good mid-century modern vibes, but glassware and pool decks don't always mesh well. These colorful outdoor tumblers are the perfect solution!

Sensu Indoor/Outdoor Lounge Chair

Not your typical poolside seating, these lounge chairs are so effortlessly cool.

Tahiti Outdoor Resin Chaise Lounge Set

For lounge chairs, I love this pop of yellow! It's bright and summery and so what your backyard needs right now.

Poolside Backgammon by Slim Aarons Vintage Print

I can't talk about Slim's eye for mid-century poolsides without including a print in my decor roundup! Just look how good this is!

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Picture it: you're waking up tired because of your partner's snoring so you're thinking about getting a "sleep divorce." You may have tried the Scandinavian Sleep Method or wearing earplugs to help you get cozier, but it's possible they didn't really help. Plus, if you've never slept separately from them, it can feel daunting to broach the topic let alone talk about the benefits of it. Take it from me, a conversation is necessary if you're dealing with sleep deprivation and find yourself being resentful towards your S.O.

There was a time I used to believe that it was cute to fall asleep holding my partner, but now I'm well aware that uninterrupted rest at night can lead to irritation that's not fair to anyone. Because there's several reasons why a "sleep divorce" may be necessary, I spoke with licensed clinical sleep psychologist Dr. Shelby Harris, the Director of Sleep Health at Sleepopolis, to explain what it is, why it's so popular, and how it may benefit couples long-term.

What is a sleep divorce and why do you feel it's gained traction recently?

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If you're wondering if a "sleep divorce" means you went to bed, woke up, and decided to get divorced, I'm here to let you know it's not as drastic. Dr. Harris says, "A sleep divorce is when couples decide to sleep in separate beds or rooms because of sleep disturbances from differing sleep schedules or comfort preferences." So if you're not a fan of your partner's snoring and you're been losing sleep over it, this could lead to a "sleep divorce."

According to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, one-third of people report sleeping somewhere differently than their partner. This is "...fueled by a growing awareness of how important getting good sleep is for health and relationships, changing attitudes toward relationships that prioritize autonomy, and advancements in sleep technology that make separate sleeping arrangements possible and more comfortable," continues Dr. Harris.

What are some signs that a couple should consider getting a sleep divorce?

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No matter who you and your S.O. are, it's likely you have differing needs. I'm not telling you to prioritize your autonomy over your partner's, but it does help to have a conversation about losing sleep if that poses an issue. And as it turns out, you're not the only person who may be experiencing sleep issues.

Experts at eachnight discovered the top three states where couples have sleep struggles are New York, Massachusetts, and Maryland. They also discovered that 'insomnia' and 'sleep apnea' are the top two highest searched queries on Google.

Dr. Harris says, "If you're constantly waking up because of your partner's snoring or tossing and turning, feeling frustrated or exhausted from lack of sleep, or if you both have different sleep preferences, like mattress firmness or room temperature, it might be worth considering separate sleeping arrangements. It could help ease tensions and improve both of your sleep quality, benefiting your relationship in the long run."

How can couples benefit from a sleep divorce if they choose to pursue it?

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Admittedly, this is a question I've had for a while. Though I've made the decision to sleep in a separate room than my S.O., some people may feel uneasy taking that route. The good news is that Dr. Harris lists reasons why this can be beneficial for couples in the long run.

"A sleep divorce can benefit couples by giving each partner better sleep without disruptions, reducing any resentment that might arise from sleep issues, and improving intimacy since both partners are more rested and happier overall," she says. I know I wasn't a fan of how cranky I was in the morning so I personally swear by getting a "sleep divorce." It's been nice to actually get 8 hours of sleep without feeling sluggish by a certain time.

In Dr. Harris' opinion, "It's like hitting the reset button on sleep and relationships, helping them to understand and respect each other's needs while getting the best rest possible."

Do you believe couples are starting to find nontraditional avenues for successful relationships?

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Seeing how popular getting a "sleep divorce" has become, I wondered if couples sought creative solutions more today than they have previously.

Dr. Harris says, "Couples are discovering new ways to make their relationships work, even if they don't follow the traditional scripts we've seen in media and society. Whether it's through sleep divorces, open relationships, or challenging gender roles, people are realizing that what matters most is their own happiness and fulfillment."

Do you think a "sleep divorce" is right for your relationship? Share your thoughts on Facebook!

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July 1 — the officially mid-year point for 2024 — is fast-approaching, and it's a good checkpoint for how you’re doing when it comes to reaching your 2024 goals. Most of us rolled into the new year feeling hopeful that we could meet a list of resolutions by years-end. How are those going? If you’re not where you’d like to be by now, here’s a little help to get you back on track.

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I recently spent a weekend at the Dream Inn in Santa Cruz, CA with meditation master Sarah Vie, author of I Wish I'd Known, and about 35 other women to uncover emotions that might be holding us back. A beachside hotel called the Dream Inn couldn’t have been a more perfect location to ponder life’s biggest questions – without kids, dogs, partners, work, and a house to pull us out of our “me” zone.

I started the weekend off a little bit of a mess: stressed from traffic, organizing a dog sitter, and making sure I could log off from work for the weekend. Any talk of meditation and manifesting my dreams was not on my radar when there was a house to clean! Bills to pay! Kid to care for! I realize now how close I was to burnout.

My weekend with Sarah manifesting my dreams at the Dream Inn pulled me back, set me straight, and transformed my mood and energy in ways I never expected.

Here’s what I learned about manifesting your dreams right now.

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1.Write down your dreams: And don’t just write them down – be specific about what they look like and how they feel when you’ve finally reached them. Close your eyes and imagine yourself in that moment. Where are you? What does it feel, smell, sound like? What are you doing when you reach them? Use visualization tools like a vision board placed front and center; start a daily meditation routine that keeps you focused on your purpose; and try saying your goals aloud to yourself (if that’s not too weird). These practices can help keep you driven and focused.

2. Write down the “show-me’s”: According to Sarah, this is the how. Write down the small steps for achieving bigger goals. Be consistent. It’s a lot easier to give up on your dreams, when the steps for getting there are not already part of your routine. “We can't just do something one time and expect to change a habit,” said Sarah. Reframe how you think about reaching your goals – a mindset of will do vs. maybe will – and create a routine around the steps. 

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3. Practice gratitude. Practice gratitude for what you already have – this has a lot to do with shifting your energy and what you attract because what we feel inside attracts the same energy outside. Start a gratitude journal or try these gratitude prompts.

4. Set a daily intention. Sarah suggests using LSD: listen to yourself, stop negative thinking, and declare your goals. Every morning find a quiet space to listen to yourself and your needs – this may be actual meditation, or sitting with a cup of tea, or taking a walk or hike. Set an intention for the day that will help you reach your goals.

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5. Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. We talked a lot about energies and magnets – what we put out there, we attract so if you're feeling stressed and chaotic guess what's coming right back at you? Underneath that stress though is usually fear – fear of not seeming perfect or saying no or not doing what your true inner self wants to do. Replace those negative beliefs with positive ones; treat yourself with kindness and understanding; and allow yourself to heal slowly to reach a healthier way of living. "Replace those old stories you tell yourself and redefine them into something positive, so your conscious mind starts to believe you can," says Sarah.

6. Focus on what brings you joy. Spend more time doing the things that bring you joy and your energy will shift to a more positive mindset. A positive mindset is key to achieving your goals, attracting positive experiences, and living the life that you want.

7. Stay accountable. Whether it's a friend or partner or a journal that you check in with on a daily or weekly basis, find ways to hold yourself accountable for your goals and check off those small steps you decide are the best way to get there. You got this!

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