3 New Books About Rebellious Women You *Need* to Read RN

In the wake of Monday’s debate, it seems more a reality than ever that well-behaved women — those who sit back, take what they’re given and never try — seldom make history. On the other hand, women who go against the grain, women who rebel and women who speak out on behalf of their strong beliefs often find their way into the history books. This week’s book club features the stories of an author, a First Lady and a group of essayists who aimed to go against the grain, finding success in being unconventional and outspoken.

1. Shirley Jackson: A Rather Haunted Life by Ruth Franklin ($26): Shirley Jackson was a writer who not only defied mid-20th-century expectations for women, but also resisted any sort of categorization in her work. Jackson is perhaps most famous for her short story “The Lottery,” a chilling tale of a town’s deadly ritual that resulted in hundreds of angry letters upon its publication in the New Yorker, was banned in at least one country and sparked literary echoes as far-flung as The Hunger Games. However, her influence stretches further, through several memorable novels and an indelible personality.

Jackson’s Gothic novels, such as We Have Always Lived in the Castle and The Haunting of Hill House, were haunting and creepy, perhaps especially in the occasional flash of comedy overhanging their bleak subject matter. They featured protagonists in a desperate battle against a restrictive society, along with their own personal demons. Jackson’s life presented ample fodder for these works, as she grew up seemingly unable to fit into a world that placed intense strictures on the women who dared to live in it. Her mother never accepted the way young Shirley looked or behaved, and later, her husband, famous critic Stanley Edgar Hyman, made no secret to her of his constant affairs and betrayals.

Jackson could have retreated into the world of the housewife, but refused to be cowed by these influences, writing, drinking and smoking her way through a vibrant but too-short life. She even claimed to be “a practicing amateur witch” who had broken a publisher’s leg by magical means! Ruth Franklin’s biography, composed in part from new interviews and recently discovered correspondence, presents a woman in conflict with her time, along with a strong argument as to why Jackson should be included in the male-heavy literary canon for her pioneering work in domestic horror that was more than just “The Lottery.” Fans of Jackson’s work will feel like they’ve won a lottery of a different kind; newbies to her oeuvre may discover a rebellious woman worth waiting for.

2. Eleanor and Hick: The Love Affair That Shaped a First Lady by Susan Quinn ($18): Eleanor Roosevelt’s accomplishments were legendary. More than “just another First Lady,” she has become almost as famous as her husband, taking an active role in the creation of the New Deal programs, along with her work for the UN’s post-Second World War Human Rights Commission. It wasn’t necessarily a role that came naturally to Roosevelt. Just like Shirley Jackson, she grew up shy, ungainly and unhappy. When Lorena Hickok, or “Hick,” came into her life, she was an outspoken political journalist working for the Associated Press, a rarity in the 1930s. The two women seemed like very different people (“it would be hard to imagine a less likely pair than Eleanor and Hick,” writes biographer Quinn), but formed a fast friendship and long-standing relationship that would end their shared loneliness and shape both of their lives. Eleanor and Hick serves as a biography of them both, and the importance of their intertwined stories.

Eleanor had made a name for herself before entering 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue during the Great Depression, and was afraid that the strictures of her new job would erase the strides she had made as a political activist and teacher. Her disappointment in her marriage and her unease at her role in the spotlight were ameliorated by Hick’s presence and guidance; she used Hick’s reports on the poorest areas of the country to recommend concrete and detailed political aid, and their correspondence eventually formed the basis for her nationally-syndicated column, “My Day.” For her part, Hick’s abusive, poverty-stricken childhood had an end in her own room at the White House, next door to Eleanor’s, for the Roosevelts’ entire tenure in the building.

Quinn sorts through the over three thousand letters the two sent to each other — honest, passionate and principled correspondence — to create a fascinating picture of the power and joy of the women’s “subversive act” and its beneficial impact on the country at large. Franklin Roosevelt’s political strategist Louis Howe once put forward the idea that Eleanor “should run for president herself” — a timely notion, as we might just be about to see another former First Lady make some history.

3. The Bitch Is Back: Older, Wiser, and (Getting) Happier edited by Cathi Hanauer ($22): If there’s one thing any rebellious woman knows, it’s that sometimes you have to embrace your inner bitch to get things done. Sequel to 2003’s acclaimed and searing The Bitch in the House, an all-female essay collection that explored the paradoxes of womanhood at the start of the new millennium, The Bitch Is Back brings back nine of the original essayists and sixteen new voices to discuss what has changed, and what has (regrettably) remained this same, in the intervening decade. The bitches are older, but they’re still here.

Many of them are happier too, having become more confident and taken control of their own destinies, as many of the contributors have gone from their thirties to solidly “midlife” (with or without the crisis). The “original bitches,” or OBS, give us updates on their lives, showing there’s still plenty of rage and agitating to go around, though, as work, love, independence and gender roles remain fodder for injustice and disappointment. The new contributors bring a fresh look to the collection, many just beginning their bitching careers.

Contributors such as Kate Christensen, Hope Edelman and Hanauer herself give us the lowdown on the tribulations of being a sole breadwinner, leaving an unhappy marriage or staying in an unconventional but happy one, among other lifestyle decisions and lessons. Essays detail these new types of arrangements and family units in “a period of arguably the greatest sexual, gender, marriage, and relationship transition in history.” You don’t have to have read the original collection to enjoy this one, but we wouldn’t blame you if the new book has you seeking out the old. After all, today’s rebellious women are all standing on the shoulders of those who have rebelled before.

Which of these rebellious-lady books are you planning to read? Tweet us @BritandCo.

Sexis often considered taboo...even though it's a natural human need and desire. But — thanks in part to the entertainment industry — it's slowly becoming normalized in the many different shapes and sizes it comes. From quickies in random places to passionate lovemaking, the actors in shows like Bridgerton and Sex and the City show us the sides of sex we're remiss to talk about. And while Phoebe Dynevor is no stranger to a sex scene (literally HOW did she get through filming with Regé Jean?!), she took this "taboo" subject matter to another level in the opening scenes for her new movie Fair Play.

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Emily (Phoebe Dynevor) is seen getting busy with her fiancé Luke (Alden Ehrenreich) at a wedding. While that's not necessarily gag-worthy, there's one determining factor that could be — she's on her period. Not only that, but there's oral sex involved that Luke happily engages in. It's a highly erotic and graphic scene that has the potential to leave viewers reeling, but Emily and Luke aren't grossed out by what they're doing. They're too caught up in bliss to think there's something wrong about being pleasured during one's period.

I'll be honest — younger me would have immediately ran for the heels at this description because...ew. I'm not personally comfortable with the oral aspect of the scene, but I'm familiar with putting down a towel during period sex. It's all about preference, and no matter where you stand on the period sex issue, it's nice to have a partner that doesn't treat you like a walking science experiment during your period.

What did Phoebe Dynevor say about filming the sex scene in "Fair Play"?

She's actually happy the scene was filmed, and thinks director Chloe Domont did an excellent job showing that sex doesn't have to be skipped the week of someone's period. She told Ellethat male directors would've questioned the necessity of it. "We as women know these things happen all the time, but why are we not seeing it on our screens," she asked.

When does the period sex scene appear in "Fair Play"?

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Trigger warning — this sex scene appears at the very beginning of Fair Play. Talk about starting off with a bang!

What is the plot of "Fair Play?"

Fair Play centers around the work culture of a hedge fund company that begins to take a toll on a couple. In a deeper plot analysis, Ellereports that Dynevor's character Emily has a secret engagement to her coworker, but "she gets a surprise promotion, which causes issues in their relationship outside of work." It takes a deep dive into the gender norms that can begin to stifle a relationship if both people have different views of how things are supposed to fall in place in and outside of the home.

What else has Dynevor said about "Fair Play"?

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She pointed out that it's an excellent marker for how far society has to go in terms of respecting women. She also told Elle, "We have this idea that world is so progressive...but there's still so much progress to be made and so many things that haven't been done or still taboo." To drive this point further home, Dynevor said, "The thing that was really interesting to me is how modern feminism is clashing with traditional masculinity...Emily is really trying to make herself small to make him [Luke] feel masculine."

This is true because we're seeing the effects of attacks on reproductive and maternal health. Not only that, but there's still an expectation for how women are supposed to carry themselves whether they're mothers or not. As far as we've come, the work to fully recognize that women aren't monolithic and deserve to have our voices, time, and efforts respected is ongoing. That we shouldn't have to shrink so that men don't feel threatened or emasculated. That us asking to be appreciated and respected has nothing to do with attacking men's self esteem.

Until we get to that point, films like Fair Play will continue to exist to push the conversation forward.

When can you watch "Fair Play"?

Fair Play will premiere in theaters September 29, 2023 and will be available to stream on Netflix beginning October 13, 2023.

Watch The Trailer For "Fair Play"

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Warmer weather calls for lighter, shorter, and comfier outfits. It's a feat to find a dress that hits all three of these marks, especially if you're attending a spring or summer wedding ceremony. As the temperatures rise, make sure you're well-prepared with an appropriate wedding guest dress style! We've got you covered with the short wedding guest dresses below, which go above and beyond to make you feel both comfortable and confident!

Free People Perfect Day Printed Dress

This short wedding guest dress leans casual with effortless puff sleeves and a swingy skirt, but it meets elegance worthy of wearing to a wedding ceremony from the open back detail. The bodice of this v-neck silhouette is thoughtfully ruched for a change in texture. All things considered, this is a super comfy style!

This $128 dress is top-rated Free People and comes in 4 other floral colorways including blue, cream, black, and multicolor. This brown + pink number is currently shoppable in sizes XS-XL.

City Chic Blakely Tie Neck Long Sleeve Minidress

The flounce-y, fluttery trim on this mini is sooo adorable, and perfect for a springtime wedding! The long sleeves are wispy and breathable, while the rest of the dress is lightly lined for added coverage. The elastic waistband is snug but not uncomfortable, plus this little number ties neatly up top with a chic neck tie that you can style a number of different ways.

This $99 plus-sized pick is available in this stunning blue-purple shade and sizes 14-24.

The A&F Giselle Pleated Mini Dress

This pleated number from Abercrombie & Fitch's brand-new wedding collection is serving a main character moment. The green color makes it one of the freshest short wedding guest dresses for springtime. The v-neck sihlouette is super flattering, yet secure for all of the day's moments.

You can also snag this dress in a cool blue hue and standard, petite, and tall sizes XXS-XL for $77 (on sale, was $110).

Farm Rio Black Colored Stripes Short Sleeve Mini Dress

Black wedding guest dresses are everything to us, TBH. This 100% linen one gets a colorful treatment around the trim lining the hem, the sleeves, and neckline to make your look stand out – it'll also photograph beautifully! This versatile piece will serve you past those spring ceremonies, too. The piece secures in the back with a discreet, durable zipper.

This $250 dress from Farm Rio is sustainably crafted, made with 50% of recycled materials. It's currently available in sizes XXS-L.

Zesica Satin Halter Neck Tie Waist Mini Dress

The elegant wrapped neckline on this satin dress not only provides you with some coverage up top, but it makes a style statement worth documenting. The wrap skirt is extra classy, boasting a bow tie that secures in front. This dress zips up and buttons in the back.

This $50 Amazon dress comes in 15 other colors, so you can shop for the shade that matches your next occasion the most. The fabric is 95% polyester and 5% spandex.

Old Navy Waist-Defined Shine Mini Dress

Pretty as a flower! This long-sleeved mini dress from Old Navy features some beautiful blooms that'll surely feel celebratory of the spring and summer seasons. It's a step-in fit, with elastic banding spanning across the waist and arm cuffs for more comfort. The body and skirt of this short wedding guest dress is lined well, and the outer layer has some shiny seams woven in for eye-catching factor!

Shop this dress on sale for just $16! This colorway is available in regular sizes XS-XXL and 4X, tall sizes XS and L, and petite sizes XS, S, XL, and XXL.

Saylor Joelene Dress

For a more fitted look, this ruched dress from Saylor is super flattering! The puffed sleeves and flutter detail on the bottom of the skirt will transform your shape and look undoubtedly elegant for attending a wedding. The colorful floral pattern that covers the entire piece is springtime's perfect pairing, so you can really wear it all season long.

This pick is made from 100% cotton and doesn't have any stretch to it. You can snag it for $264 in sizes XS-L now!

Abercrombie & Fitch Organza Tiered Strapless Mini Dress

Floral prints are sooo darling for spring and summer ceremonies, and this strapless frock keeps things flowy, no matter the season. The three-tiered design is lined underneath for added coverage.

You can shop this $90 dress in solid white, hot pink, or a light pink floral pattern in sizes XXS-XXL now.

BHLDN Leila Stretch Satin Deep-V Mini Dress

This simple mini exhibits a stunning plunging v-neck that points down to a beautifully ruched bustier, flattering the upper half of your bod easily. The bodice is fitted with a small elastic band that moves with you! If this hot pink color breaks the dress code, you can buy it in black or dark green.

This semi-stretchy number is $168 at Anthropologie and is sold in sizes XS-XL.

Free People For The Moment Mini

Everything about this low-key dress is wonderful for a wedding – the abundant (but still chic) coverage, the whimsical a-line skirt, and stylish puff sleeves. All of the details are made from 100% cotton, too, so you won't overheat in the spring + summer heat. The neckline follows a v-shape that'll match well with any hairstyle you go with, up or down.

This breezy $88 number also comes in 8 other colors to suit your next spring/summer wedding. This deep yellow hue is now available in sizes XS-L.

Maeve The Brynne 3-D Spaghetti-Strap Dress

She's an icon. She's a legend. And she is the moment! This short wedding guest dress makes a statement with bold floral graphics that wrap around the front and back. The embroidered sequins that make up the "petals" provide added texture and color that's easy to pull together with a pair of heels or cardigan. This sky blue-lavender dress secures in the back with a sizable zipper.

This $230 dress is perfect for wearing to weddings, spring parties, and picnics. Grab it in sizes 0-16 now!

All in Favor Square Neck Long Sleeve Textured Satin Minidress

This romantic mini dress has tiered elastic bands that accentuate your upper half beautifully. The stretchy sleeves can sit atop your shoulders, or hang down for a cold shoulder look! The stylish square neckline comes complete with an adorable tie in the front.

Available in this peachy champagne color, you'll fall in love with this number for every spring and summer happening. It's currently 40% off, costing just $35 instead of $59. It's sold in sizes S, M, and L.

Zesica Backless Tie Waist Silky Mini Dress

This easy-fitting mini dress is one of our fave short wedding guest dresses because it's comfy and totally cool girl-approved. The smooth, silky fabric (that claims is "not easy to wrinkle") makes every wear zero-fuss and the tie-back detail is undeniably on-trend. More than anything, this flirty frock is versatile, easily dressing up with heels and a sweater or flaunting a more casual look with sneakers and a denim jacket. It's up to you!

This $48 Amazon dress comes in 10 other colors so customizing your 'fit is fairly straightforward. It comes in sizes S-XL.

The A&F Giselle Pleated Mini Dress

This might just be one of the most perfect short wedding guest dresses we've even laid eyes on. Those pleats though! The upper is more form-fitting, flattering your figure with ease. The v-neck feels sultry, but it isn't overly revealing. This dress' straps are adjustable, and the piece zips up in the lower back for security. This lined mini is made from a 100% polyester blend that feels silky to the touch.

You can also get this $77 dress (was $110) in a gorgeous green color. It's sold in sizes XXS-XL and lengths varying from petite to tall now!

Gap Linen-Cotton Puff Sleeve Mini Shirtdress

This short wedding guest dress is classy AF! We adore the longline puff sleeves and button-up design. The tie-around waist definitely gives your figure some definition, too! The skirt hits just above the knee if you're shopping for something more modest. The linen-cotton material ensures easy, breezy comfort in each wear. This dress is unlined, so you might need a slip to wear underneath.

This peachy pick sells for $70 with Gap and also comes in 5 other colors! This springy color is now available in regular sizes XXS-XXL, tall sizes S-XXL, and petite sizes XS-L.

Ann Taylor Polka Dot Flounce Shift Dress

The robin's egg blue color of this polka-dotted shift dress was ​made​ for spring! The crew neck is perfectly appropriate for family-filled occasions (like weddings), plus the skirt falls above the knee for more coverage. The body of this number is lined, whereas the sleeves aren't – this difference really adds to the playful look! The sleeves fall to a wide, retro-inspired fit, and the midsection is fitted with a skinny, stylish tie belt. 

​This Ann Taylor dress is on sale right now for $104 (was $149) and is available in regular sizes 00-18 and petite sizes 00-16.

Free People Marina Mini

This dress is a great fit for any sort of event, but it'll be super cute for spring + summer weddings! This mini is business in the front and a total party in the back – the back half features a unique strappy back that ties into a bow! And though pleated, this look feels as effortless and breezy as can be.

The Marina Mini from Free People also comes in 15 other colorways to suit your personal style. It sells for $88 in sizes XS-XL1

Old Navy Fit & Flare Linen-Blend Mini Dress

Balanced between a snug fit and a flowy flare, this short wedding guest dress from Old Navy prioritizes comfort over anything. The scooped neckline is fairly basic, so it'll suit any body type. The straps adjust to the length of your liking without being too intrusive. Easily pair this pick with heels and a light cardigan, and you're good to go!

On sale for $20 (was $35), this piece is a must-have for seasonal weddings and beyond. Its size range is impeccable, available in sizes XS-4X.

Maeve The Cecily Fit & Flare Sweetheart Mini Dress

This mint green mini lives rent-free in our heads. The sweetheart neckline is definitely more sophisticated for fancier weddings, and the cap sleeves are wonderfully femme in lieu of springtime. Additionally, this linen-cotton blend piece flaunts thoughtfully details from the front buttons to the vertical seam work!

This $158 mini from Maeve is shoppable in sizes XXS-XL now.

Madewell Square Neck Linen Minidress

For going somewhere more casual, this Madewell mini dress fits like your fave t-shirt. With a stretchy elastic band that secures the bust, you'll feel super comfy. Plus, the square neckline provides some delightful coverage if you're looking for it! The softness of the linen is truly unmatched and the light blue hue is great for warmer weather.

This $110 dress will last you year after year for any occasion since it's easy to style formally or casually. It's shoppable in sizes 14-24!

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I think we can all agree that the Netflix sensation To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before has firmly cemented itself as a classic teen movie (and one of the best rom-coms) that will continue to get better the more we watch it. Needless to say, Peter Kavinsky (Noah Centineo) captured our hearts with his swagger, his symphony of “whoa”s, and that back pocket spin. But truth be told, 16-year-old Lara Jean (Lana Condor) and the Covey sisters became our #WCWs with their solidarity, healthy family dynamic, and emphases on self-love and self-confidence. That goes hand-in-hand with how proud they are about their Korean heritage and how it’s become such an integral part of their identities. That sense of confidence and deep pride emanates from their characters throughout the film and is manifested in everything they do.

Despite their high school and middle school settings and accompanying cliques, rumors, and Instagram posts, the Covey sisters are lacking in teenage angst or sisterly rivalry, quite comfortable in driving each other to school and spending the night watching reruns of The Golden Girls without lamenting about their — er, Lara Jean’s — lack of a social life.



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(L-R) Janel Parrish as Margot and Anna Cathcart as Kitty in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

“I love The Golden Girls and I love hanging out with you,” Lara Jean tells 11-year-old Kitty, who canceled her own plans so her sister wouldn’t be alone. But boyfriend or not, these sisters put themselves and each other first. They are more content with loving each other and themselves than finding love — or at least needing it for validation.

Before oldest sister Margot leaves for college in Scotland, she [SPOILER ALERT!] breaks up with her longtime boyfriend Josh. She doesn't want to be tied down to a relationship and she's unwavering in her decision. This decision goes some way in dismantling the pattern that we’ve seen so many times in pop culture where the girl often gets left in the dust for greener pastures. Don’t get me wrong: Every time I watch To All The Boys I've Loved Before, my heart still hurts for Josh and I want the boy next door to have his own happy ending. But Margot’s decision to be selfish about her college experience is not cold or harsh; it’s a power move, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

And while Margot jets off for a new adventure, Kitty deliberately sends out the love letters Lara Jean wrote to all her former crushes, including Josh. She gives Lara Jean the push she needs to get out of her shell and act on her feelings, thereby jumpstarting the premise of the movie. Not only does Lara Jean start a fake relationship with Peter to throw off Josh so Margot doesn’t get upset, but she unequivocally shuts down all conversations with him. She refuses to give even the tiniest thought to any lingering feelings she may have. It’s less of an adherence to an arbitrary girl code and more of a natural decision that her love for Margot trumps any adolescent feelings she’s had for Josh.

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(L-R) Anna Cathcart as Kitty, Janel Parrish as Margot, and Lana Condor as Lara Jean in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

What the movie so powerfully captures here is Covey girls’ sense of camaraderie — the proverbial “sisters before misters”— that invites viewers to understand that this story, at its core, is a celebration of sisterhood. It’s a rom-com of sisterly love (and the extents the Coveys will go for one another) more than it is of romantic love with cute teen boys.

To All The Boys I've Loved Before doesn’t use gimmicky storylines of sibling rivalry or slut-shaming (Peter is quick to shut that down) to turn this into a caricature version of high school, nor does it perpetuate Lara Jean’s seemingly invisible persona to maintain the shy vs. popular girl dichotomy. In fact, she’s stronger and bolder than Genevieve and Peter — two of the most popular people in school — combined. Lara Jean might not be very experienced, but from the beginning, she’s sure of herself, comfortable in her own skin, and does not ever feel the need to conform to a high school status quo to make a place for herself. When Genevieve makes a snarky remark about her platform boots, Lara Jean is quick to remind her they're vintage. As Peter says, she doesn’t let Gen steamroll over her.

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(L-R) Lana Condor as Lara Jean, Anna Cathcart as Kitty, and Noah Centineo as Peter in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

Lara Jean is scared of getting hurt, but she makes Peter work for her trust because she knows her worth. She’s insecure about his feelings for her, but not about whether or not she’s good enough for him. As far as she’s concerned, they’re on equal footing; she makes that quite clear when she suggests that if he’s only dated one girl, he’s not quite the expert he thinks he is. Though the fake romance is his idea, the ball has been in her court since the beginning. She’s delineated her boundaries and decided when to give him a chance and express her true feelings to him. Both scenes of her strutting through the lacrosse field to talk to Peter — when she’s good and ready, mind you, with her back ramrod straight and her head held high — are proof of how self-assured and in control she chooses to be; her popularity or lack thereof has no bearing on that.

Lara Jean’s character may have moments of peak embarrassment in this movie, but she carries herself with confidence and owns her actions, unapologetic about who she is. Much to our chagrin, this movie is fictional, but Lara Jean’s confidence is contagious and all-too-real. While there aren’t enough Peter Kavinskys in the world for all of us, To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before sets a wonderful standard of self-love and confidence that are not bound by social hierarchy. As much as we love falling in love, our love stories start with ourselves.

What's your favorite part of To All The Boys I've Loved Before? Let us know in the comments!

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There are some celebrity couples that feel like a match made in Heaven. Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds, and more recently, Shaun White and Nina Dobrev. Not only are they both gorgeous, talented, and incredibly driven people, but they're also one of the funniest celeb couples to follow along with on social media.

Here's everything you need to know about their relationship!


A Timeline Of Nina Dobrev And Shaun White's Relationship

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End Of 2019 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Are Introduced

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White officially met when they both spoke at a Tony Robbins workshop in Florida. Even though Shaun didn't know about anything about Nina at the time, he told People he realized she was a big deal when a bunch of people asked for pictures with her!

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February 2020 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Spend Time In South Africa

In 2020, when Nina Dobrev was filming Redeeming Love, fans started noticing that her Instagram photos and Shaun White's were taken in the same locations, even though they were making separate posts. Turns out, Nina had gotten Shaun to come visit her!

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April 18, 2020 — Nina Dobrev And Shaun White Make Their Relationship Instagram Official

In true 21st century dating fashion, Nina Dobrev and Shaun White took their relationship to the next level when they made it Instagram official. It's a pretty big step for any couple, but especially celebrities. If it's nerve-wracking telling your friends and acquaintances, imagine telling millions of fans! Instead of a regular photo, Nina posted a video that features a glimpse of Shaun's tattoo.

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May 29, 2020 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Quarantine Together

Like so many of us, Nina Dobrev and Shaun White had to take haircuts into their own hands during quarantine. "Adding to resume: hairdresser ✂️," Nina captioned an Instagram post of her giving Shaun an at-home haircut.

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September 3, 2020 — Shaun White Turns 34

To celebrate Shaun White's 34th birthday, Nina Dobrev made a hilarious Instagram tribute to honor the snowboarder. "To the most untalented, humorless, least athletic, least coordinated, least gifted and my least favorite person.... happy birthday @shaunwhite," she says in the caption. "Hang in there. one day you will accomplish something. #dontgiveup"

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White's age difference is two years — Shaun was born in 1986 and Nina was born in 1989!

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Late 2020 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Celebrate The Holidays For The First Time As A Couple

The holidays looked different for Nina Dobrev and Shaun White at the end of 2020, but they didn't let that stop them from celebrating. "I’m so thankful to be surrounded by so much love!!" Shaun says in his Thanksgiving Instagram post. "Getting older and watching my family continue to grow has been incredible. Hope everyone out there had an amazing thanksgiving!" The couple also celebrated Christmas together, with plenty of Santa hats and gifts to go around!

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January 9, 2021 — Nina Dobrev Turns 32

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White chose wacky '80s getup to celebrate the actress' 32nd birthday. "Too bad we never have any fun together," Shaun says in his birthday Instagram post. "Happy birthday baby!"

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February 8, 2021 — Nina Dobrev And Shaun White Hang Out With Her Vampire Diaries Costar

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White took to the slopes alongside Paul Wesley (who starred opposite Nina in The Vampire Diaries) and his wife Ines de Ramon. "Sometimes you gotta double up to double down," Nina captioned her post of the quartet at Wyoming's Jackson Hole Mountain Resort.

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February 14, 2021 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Share Their First Valentine's Day

Both Nina Dobrev and Shaun White made tributes to each other on the 'gram in honor of their first V-Day as a couple. "My favorite snow cone flavor is White," Nina says in her Instagram post. "Happy we got “stuck together” last year and stuck it out ;) happy valentine’s day to my quarantini in crime..."

"Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️," Shaun says in his caption. "I never knew I was so lickable till we met 😂... Thank you for keeping a smile on my face and being the beautiful person you are!"

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October 31, 2021 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Wear An Iconic Couple's Halloween Costume

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White knocked Halloween out of the park with a hilarious, gender-swapped couple's costume inspired by The Queen's Gambit. Nina dressed as Thomas Brodie Sangster's Benny and Shaun went with Anya Taylor Joy's Beth. "Your move @anyataylorjoy ♟👑," Shaun says on Instagram.

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February 2022 — Shaun White Competes In The Bejing Winter Olympics

In October of 2021, ahead of his involvement in the Beijing Olympics, Shaun White told People just how supportive Nina Dobrev had been for him. "Nina's incredible," he says in the interview. "What an influence on my life. Not only does she run her own show, her own world, companies she's involved in, things she's producing, all this stuff going on. She holds me to this same high standard which is so wonderful to have in a partner."

“We’ll be anxiously watching [Shaun compete] from home and cheering him on,” Nina Dobrev tells Us Weekly in early 2022. “I’m very, very excited for him. I can’t wait.”

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March 5, 2022 — Nina Dobrev Throws Shaun White An On-Brand Retirement Party

Shaun White might have cut off his iconic red hair, but that didn't stop Nina Dobrev from using it as inspo for his retirement party! The get together was complete with red wigs, family reunions, and lots of selfies. "Celebrating the 🐐 and bringing back the 👩🦰 one last time…#RetirementPartyAt35," Nina captioned her Instagram post. Then they followed the party up with a tropical getaway!

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May 19, 2022 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Make Their Red Carpet Debut

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White attended the London premiere of Top Gun: Maverick in the summer of 2022. It marked their first red carpet appearance since becoming a couple *and* gave them the chance to support their friend Miles Teller!

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June 2022 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Take A Vacation

Nina and Shaun went on another vacation in the summer of 2022, complete with lots of beach time and plenty of beverages. Some of Nina's Instagram captions include "When it’s so blue outside it’s impossible to feel blue on the inside" and "Coconut or cocktail? There are two types of people in the world" and the photos are so cute I could cry.

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October 1, 2022 — Shaun White Makes An SNL Appearance

During Miles Teller's run as SNL host, Shaun White joined his friend onstage. "Live from New York it’s Saturday Night!
Congrats to my buddy #MilesTeller on hosting @nbcsnl," Shaun wrote on Instagram. "Not surprised that you killed it. But I was very surprised when I arrived to support you…and they pulled me on stage to be part of a sketch 😂 Stoked to be a part of your big moment!!

"I loved being an emotional support animal 🐆 @nbcsnl," Nina captioned her post.

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October 31, 2022 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Dress Up As Stranger Things 4 Characters For Halloween

In another iconic Halloween couple's costume, Nina and Shaun dressed up as Max and Vecna from the acclaimed fourth episode of Stranger Things 4 — with Nina as Vecna and Shaun as Max, of course. "Stranger things have happened," Nina said in her post, while Shaun admitted in his post, "not gonna lie I’ve miss the long hair."

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January 9, 2020 — Nina Dobrev Turns 34

"What planet are you from and will you take me with you?!" Shaun asks in his birthday photo featuring Nina Dobrev in a pink wig. "Thanks for making life incredible! Happy birthday my love."

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June 26, 2023 — Shaun White Joins Nina Dobrev At The Out-Laws Premiere

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White stunned on the red carpet for Nina's movie The Out-Laws.

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December 31, 2023 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Spend New Year's Eve In St. Barth's

If you ask me, Nina Dobrev and Shaun White have one of the most iconic friend groups ever. Miles and Keleigh Teller, as well as Chace Crawford, joined the couple in St. Barth's for New Year's. Can I come next time?!

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January 9, 2024 — Shaun White Surprises Nina Dobrev With A Trip To Disneyland

I love a good surprise, especially when the surprise goes off without a hitch. For Nina's 35th birthday, Shaun (as well as a bunch of their friends like Julianne Hough) surprised Nina with a Disney trip and judging by Nina's reaction, it was just about the best present she could have asked for. The day consisted of a custom Mickey jacket, taking a party bus, roller coasters, and more!

"Happiest surprise on the happiest day at the happiest place on earth," Nina says in her Instagram post. "I have to say I am HARD to SURPRISE. I always know what’s up. But they got me good. I’m still in shock to be honest. Feeling incredibly lucky, celebrated, loved, grateful and appreciative of all the wonderful souls I am fortunate to surround myself with."

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February 1, 2024 — Shaun White Calls Nina Dobrev His "Perfect Score"

At the beginning of February, Shaun White posted a TikTok of him and Nina Dobrev snowboarding together. Rather than snowboarding side by side, they're almost on top of one another as Shaun literally lifts Nina off the ground to spin them around. It's literally the cutest moment, and it makes *me* want to go snowboarding — if I have someone to snowboard with ;).

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February 11, 2024 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Attend The Super Bowl

Shaun and Nina shared a few flicks from their adventures before, during, and after Super Bowl LVIII on Instagram. The couple watched the game, flew over Las Vegas, together, and even sipped some Don Julio tequila to celebrate after the fact.

My favorite moments that the duo documented on social were definitely Nina chowing down on a hot dog in the stands (that's so me), Shaun dancing along to Usher's halftime show, and them sharing a kiss after the big Chiefs win!

The two just look *so* happy together, and that makes me happy.

"Can you propose to this women yet? Beautiful couple!!!😍🔥," one commenter wrote on Instagram... and I'm wondering the exact same thing!

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March 10, 2024 — Shaun White And Nina Dobrev Do Date Night At Oscars Afterparty

The stars always show out for the Vanity Fair Oscars afterparty, and Shaun and Nina were no exception to that rule! Our fave fiery couple looked amazing on the red carpet, but their best look? These two were smitten and all smiles on Nina's Instagram! Major heart eyes moment to say the least!

Check back here for the latest update on Shaun White and Nina Dobrev!

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We've all been there – you can't decide between cake and cookies, and instead, you can't resist piling 'em all together because they just look so good! Well, resist no longer. These 36 genius sweet treat mashups are super fundesserts to make, *and* they'll take care of every single craving you have in just one bite. Sweet tooth, this one goes out to you.

Red Velvet Brookies

Brookies (brownies + cookies) are already an epic dessert mashup, but get even more so when you combine 'em with classic red velvet cake. These layered sweets make a great Valentine's Day dessert, but taste ahh-mazing for any occasion. (via Brit + Co)

Nutella + Banana Pizookie

Though an actual pizza wouldn't necessarily work mashed up with sweet cookies, making a big, pizza-sized cookie in a skillet yields the all-glorious pizookie! This one gets a crazy Nutella + banana treatment for even more chocolatey goodness. (via Brit + Co)

Key Lime Pie Bars

Not only is this dessert a mix between dessert bars and key lime pie, but it also features a sexy brown sugar crust, creamy key lime pie filling, and a sweet vanilla whipped cream. Yummm. (via Brit + Co)

Vanilla Tiramisu Cake

Tiramisu is traditionally a dessert that features coffee-soaked ladyfingers, and this cake recipe adds the coffee flavor by soaking chocolate chunks in sweet coffee syrup and topping with coffee-soaked vanilla cake crumbs. Yes, please. (via Brit + Co)

Oreo Chip Cookies

Two of our fave cookies just became one. Don’t forget a tall glass of milk to go with these savory goodies! (via Brit + Co)

Red Velvet Cheesecake

Cheesecakes are such fun desserts to make, so this one that takes inspo from red velvet cake takes, well, the cake when it comes to dessert mashups! Top this bad boy with Oreos for a nice edible garnish. (via Brit + Co)

Peeps S'mores

We love s'mores, and we love Peeps. Say no more! These colorful bites might just be one of the most fun desserts to make with kiddos or your S/O. Dip your graham crackers in melted chocolate for an extra sweet addition to the usual recipe. (via Brit + Co)

Apple Pie Tacos

Apple pie is yummy in all forms, but especially this apple pie taco... cinnamon-y apple bits get stuffed into homemade sweet shells for a fun dessert mashup. Finish these bites with whipped cream for added fun! (via Brit + Co)

Cinnamon Roll Palmiers

Palmiers are a classic French pastry that have a flaky effect to them. With this creative dessert, you'll give 'em the cinnamon bun treatment with tons of warm spices and gooey icing, of course! (via Brit + Co)

Vegan Marshmallow Fluffernutter

This dessert-y sandwich is a great treat to make when you don't really feel like baking. Vegan or not, all you have to do is layer on the peanut butter and marshmallow fluff in between two slices of bread and toast it. (via Brit + Co)

Lemon Lavender Champagne Cake

This lemon-lavender cake has so many tasty things in one delicious package that we just can't say no to a slice. The color makes this dessert mashup perfect for springtime or even an Easter celebration! (via Brit + Co)

Berry Pavlova

This delicious meringue and berry combo is going to be the star of the show at all your summer cookouts. Toss the berries in a little bit of lemon juice and sugar for good measure. (via Brit + Co)

Pecan Pie Bars

These pecan pie bars eliminate the need for a pie pan, instead compiling everything in a shallow dish. Each bite is chewy and sweet – the way creative desserts should be! (via Brit + Co)

DIY Halloween Dessert Shots

Despite the fact that these dessert shots have "Halloween" in the name, it doesn't have to be October for you to enjoy them. They're a mix of vegan chocolate pudding and tons of candy, which means they're bound to be a crowd fave. Just switch up the theme based on the season! (via Brit + Co)

Churro Chips

We're suckers for churros. Turn the crunchy, sugary treat into portable chips with a creamy icing dip for one of the coolest unique desserts out there. (via Brit + Co)

Conversation Heart Sugar Cookie Bars Recipe

These sugar cookie bars are topped with a super-sweet (with just the right amount of salted butter) icing. And you can't forget the conversation hearts. So... will U B mine? (via Brit + Co)

Snickers Ice Cream Brownie Bites

One bite of this delicious dessert mashup satisfies not one, but three cravings at once. We didn't know one dessert could be this amazing but we are never going back to regular Snickers. (via Brit + Co)

Caramel Kisses Brownies

Tell your loved ones you really love them with this Hershey’s Caramel Kiss hybrid dessert. Add some sea salt flakes on top for a whole new layer of flavor. (via Roxana’s Home Baking)

Chocolate Caramel Apples

An apple a day keeps the doctor away. And if you end up counting this gooey, chocolatey caramel dessert as your “apple a day,” we promise we won’t tell. (via She Wears Many Hats)

Homemade Twix Fudge

Twix candy may be a childhood favorite, but that doesn’t mean it can’t make its way into your favorite adult desserts, like this tasty homemade fudge! Whether you want to use the Left Twix or the Right Twix is totally up to you. (via Cleverly Simple)

Peanut Butter Snickers Cheesecake Brownies

Not for the faint of heart (literally), this treat combines possibly every classic dessert out there. And then tops it with candy! Let's hear it for sweets. (via Tidy Mom)

Gooey Marshmallow Funfetti Cookies

These thick, funfetti cake-like cookies taste like birthday fun with a side of glamping (hence the marshmallows). This is a great alternative to birthday cake for any gal who would rather eat cookies! (via Chelsea’s Messy Apron)

Twix Cheesecake Bars

Take cheesecake and candy on the go with these bars! Compared to how complicated they look, they're actually a quick fix, and a great option for anyone who doesn't have a ton of time to whip up dessert. (via Domestic Superhero)

Cinnamon Roll Meltaways

These simple meltaways take breakfast pastries to a whole new level with a marshmallow glaze. We'll be snacking on these all summer long! (via Oh Bite It!)

Sugar Cookie Layer Cake

This sweet cake is categorized more in the cookie realm with two huge stacks of dense sugar cookie layers. You'll pipe some vanilla frosting in between the layers and outside of the cake, making for a tasty birthday treat (or whenever you feel like making it, TBH)! (via Completely Delicious)

Oreo-Stuffed Cinnamon Rolls

This dessert mashup would also work wonderfully for a fun brunch set-up! In between the cinnamon rolls are Oreo bits that add some chocolatey flavor and crunchy texture. The icing layer will melt down into gooey goodness once you bake this creative batch! (via Earthly Provisions)

S’more Krispy Treats

Chocolate and Golden Graham cereal pieces merge together for a simple snack that tastes like an after-hours dessert. This creative dessert is almost like puppy chow or Rice Krispie treats, but way more chocolatey. (via Chef in Training)

Oreo Peanut Butter Brownie Cakes

This dense treat is perfect for those who prefer their Oreo and peanut butter desserts encrusted in a chocolate brownie. It's one of the coolest fun desserts to make, plus it's super easy since you're using already-made Oreo cookies. (via Picky Palate)

Cake Batter Ice Cream Cupcakes

This creative dessert recipe is everything we love about birthdays — ice cream, yellow cake, cake batter, and whipped cream — all rolled into one little cupcake! Let's celebrate! (via Bubbly Nature Creations)

Piñata Cake

Forgo the cardboard donkey and baseball bat in favor of this sweet, sweet surprise. We love the color on this pick! (via A Subtle Revelry)

Strawberry Shortcake Donuts

A DIY fruity fresh take on the gourmet donut trend! These donuts are a great choice for dessert and breakfast alike. (via A Beautiful Mess)

Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Ice Cream Sandwiches

Even though you always promised mom you wouldn’t eat cookie dough from the bowl, you're totally allowed to break that promise with these ice cream sandwiches. But she can rest easy because this cookie dough is eggless. (via Mel’s Kitchen Cafe)

Cookie Dough Bark

Of course, if you’re a total cookie dough freak, these little bark pieces might be the perfect bite-sized solution to your craving. They're great as a post-dinner treat and a movie night snack. (via Simple Joy)

Monster Cookie Bars

Peanut butter bars and cookies joined forces to bring you this colorful, chocolatey piece of heaven. Make it now, and thank us later. Peanut butter and chocolate is one of the tastiest dessert combinations around! (via Oh Sweet Basil)

Peanut Butter Cup Cheesecake Bars

If you’re craving a slightly over-the-top peanut butter and cheesecake combo, look no further than these cheesecake bars. Our mouths are watering at the sight of this creative dessert. (via Bakerella)

Ice Cream Sandwich Cake

It's impossible to disappoint with this ice cream cake made from layers of ice cream bars, sandwiched between whipped cream and topped with fudge drizzle. OMG. (via The Girl Who Ate Everything)

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This article has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.